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whisperHailHydra/r/ExRedPill08/07/14 04:04 AM
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whisperHailHydra/r/ExRedPill21/06/14 10:51 PM
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There’s quite a few, but off the top of my head it’s because his ideas on women, sex and relationships can be summed up as TRP-lite, or some other form of sexist characterization of women. Besides, have you seen the state of his personal life? Not sure I’d want to follow the more “neutral” aspects of his ideas either.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 08:44 PM
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For a lot of people that’s Codependency, and probably means someone significant in your formative years may have matched that description. (I’ve long theorized that people who buy into TRP/MGTOW had mentally or emotionally unstable Moms, and that imprinted their ideas on women as adults). You need therapy, counseling or at least reading books like “Codependent No More” to deal with it. Certainly not TRP.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/20 03:19 PM
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I’m sorry, BPD is exhausting and even traumatic for all involved, and especially frustrating for loved ones in their life. It’s hard having to be close to someone who can’t take responsibility for their own lives. Be sure to talk to someone yourself if you haven’t, like a counselor or therapist who specializes in those issues. There’s often a lot to unpack. Also, if you haven’t already, read Stop Caretaking the Borderline/Narcissist, and Codependent No More. All women aren’t like this thankfully…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 09:20 PM
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I’ve long hypothesized that many of the guys who get caught up in this come from homes that were emotionally neglectful or mentally unstable especially from the mother. From my own experience, I was primed to believe women are inherently flaky or hyper-emotionally driven, from the unstable household I grew up in, with a lot of it coming from incidents with my mom, and luckily fell out of those ideas as I actually met women and became friends. Recently I learned my mom probably has untreated Bord…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 05:15 PM
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I grew up in a Christian environment, and been a baptized Christian for about ten years now. I was in the red pill stuff because that wasn’t quite a thing at the time, but I believed a lot of garbage PUA-style pop-psychology combined with some ideas on “manhood” that weren’t great. The closer I got to God the further away I got from those ideas. How anyone could actually have a grasp of how Jesus defines love and believe what TRP/MGTOW believes about women and relationships (among other things) …
/r/ExRedPill10/04/20 08:36 PM
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That’s the problem with a lot of edgy humor, for everyone who sees something for how ridiculous something is, there’s someone who takes it 100% seriously or serious enough to begin the slide into a bad place mentally. It’s why I’m not too fond of “ironic” memes and anonymously joking about horrific things; because eventually the irony fades to sincerity (T_D actually started as ironic and satire, same with /r/MURICA though they’re still half satire, half serious). Irony is also plausible deniabi…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/20 03:53 PM
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I will do my best not to judge you for your political views, but to be clear I do not like communism. I believe it’s an authoritarian and oppressive ideology an Social Democracy is a better system. That said... Have you considered the possibility that going RP and your current beliefs are both part of a same or similar vein of looking for the deep-seeded mechanics of society? This is not a judgement on communism, but rather an observation that both attempt to display “what’s really going on” wit…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/19 12:48 AM
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I doubt this is a woman. Having known people who did cheat on their spouses from both sexes, the underlying issues were mostly with deeper problems in their mental health, sense of self, or character to begin with. Never was it a “who they married” issue or their spouse’s fault. It was completely the cheater’s fault. The only time it wasn’t was when the spouse who was cheated on turned out to be abusive. That has its own completely messed up dynamic that I’m not willing to condemn the cheater fo…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/19 02:20 PM
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Wait, a gag chart from a decent sitcom is being taken seriously by people?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/19 06:41 PM
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Well that explains Joseph Joestar and Josuke.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 03:20 AM
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As someone who’s had trust issues with parents, leading to trust issues with women I’ve thankfully gotten over, please talk to a counselor, and/or minister if you’re religious. Do any of the items under “symptoms” resonate with you? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency If so, I’ll even recommend two books which might apply to you that helped me with my trust issues-Codependent No More, and The New Codependency, both by the same writer. Trust issues that can be linked to people in our liv…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/18 12:09 AM
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Has anyone given you a reason not to trust them? Honestly, if you can't seem to trust any woman simply from the fact that they're a woman, you probably need to talk to a counselor.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/18 11:26 PM
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Honestly, I’m never bored with lifting. Maybe the people you’ve talked to mostly do it for the girls, but find amateur and pro bodybuilders, CrossFitters and strength athletes, and you’ll find people who do it because they love it. I’d find a powerlifting or strongman gym, or a barbell club if you want to find people not in it for vanity. Even serious bodybuilders will you they do it for the pump (Arnold even went as far as saying it was the only other thing he did that was on the same level as …
/r/ExRedPill25/08/18 08:44 PM
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Are you receiving counseling for your anxiety?
/r/ExRedPill18/08/18 09:13 PM
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I don’t know if you’ve heard of ContraPoints on YouTube, but she recently came out with a video about incels, where she also touches on RP stuff since that’s where it comes from. It’s a good watch but if you’re not interested she talks about getting away from those groups to avoid negative self talk and catastrophic thinking, and her past experience in a similar community. Point is, if anxiety is an issue for you, reading RP stuff is a pretty bad disservice for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/18 09:10 PM
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1) it’s not a good idea to generalize women or men 2)It’s all down to the individual woman. I’ve seen good looking women go for some schlubby guys and vice versa. Some people prioritize looks and some like to not be so shallow. Men and women are individuals with various backgrounds and histories that effect who they’re attracted to and their available dating pools.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/18 09:04 PM
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Casual sex is not a way to cover heartbreak. It is a way to mask it in similar vein to alcohol or drug use, but it’s avoidance and not actually dealing with it. I have yet to meet anyone who’s successfully used casual sex to actually deal with issues. If you dig deep enough, you’ll find that those problems are still an open wound.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/18 12:37 PM
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Working out never hurts, and yeah, don’t put women on a pedestal. But not because they’re awful like the RP claims, but because they’re human just like you. Think of any character flaws or traits a man has, a woman has too. They’re individuals and some are good, bad and everything in between. Think about it, there’s a girl version of you somewhere (and if that makes you uncomfortable you should consider why). You should never accept cheating, neither should you do it. Your ex cheated because of …
/r/ExRedPill16/08/18 12:20 PM
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Do they wear capes?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/14 07:13 AM
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We're a pretty new sub, we need more time.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/14 03:14 AM
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On masculinity: While it is true that Hollywood is doing a shameful job at portraying masculine, romantic Asian heroes, that shouldn't influence how a guy feels about his own sense of manhood. Those issues run much deeper to things like upbringing, family environment and parental expectations. As for why Asian men would be absurdly drawn to TRP despite the racism against them? The same cognitive dissonance that's talked about in /r/TheBluePill. Excluding that, the same reasons why a guy of any o…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/14 09:20 PM
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I'm partially East-Asian. I grew up in an area with no real Asian community though.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/14 01:43 PM
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To address the blaming of Asian Women for Asian men not finding dates: I still think its stupid. People are ultimately the masters of their own lives and no one else. Unfortunately, if an Asian guy is upset that he can't find an Asian woman to date I don't know what to tell him other than to examine himself to make sure he's dateable. A guy can't make a woman like him; that's her decision to make. Also, I'd suggest probably not worrying so much about race. I never grew up around a large Asian co…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/14 01:43 PM
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You're right, those discussions really go to some bad places sometimes though.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/14 01:31 PM
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And I hope things are going great with you as well. Honestly my knee-jerk reaction is to say the entire discussion is completely stupid and ignorant and that they have no right to say those things until they've at least been in an interracial relationship. They might as well be an old White Southern man seeing a Black man dating a White woman. Its the same ignorant attitude and arguments. I really wish there was a way to let someone know how absurdly racist they sound over the internet. Oh man t…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/14 06:21 AM
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Of course there are also men like that. TRP helps them be like that.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/14 05:03 PM
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The big one is just the generalization of women (and men, for that matter). It completely ignores the fact that women and men aren't exactly that different, and that men and women might gasp have individual personalities, likes, dislikes, etc. that cannot be generalized or quantified.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/14 05:10 AM
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