white033 Archive

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1	How long after divorce you felt like you are yourself again? My ex was exactly as you described..."a bitter, ungrateful, menopausal and resentful person"....21 years for me and she just moved out 3 weeks ago. Feb until then was pure hell! Cohabitation with a STBX sucks ass!!! Can't wait until I get to where you're at. We just had to put our dog down a couple weeks before she left. Am getting a puppy in a few weeks and cannot wait for the distraction and focus that I will have raising her...looking for that absolute unconditional love that I thought I once…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 08:00 PM
9	The importance of this community For certain...helped so much especially in those early days.....f*ck I was a mess!!!! Still on the roller coaster of emotions but only 2 months out from final decree so have a ways to go but the advice of keeping busy, exercise were helpful. I have been self medicating with beer but am working on that as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/26 03:15 AM
2	No kids? What do you do to keep busy? Just completed a divorce after a 21 year marriage and it sucks. The first thing I did when she told me she wanted/needed a divorce was to go online and found a divorce care support group. Was the best thing I could have done and highly recommend. Absolutely some of the best people I have met in years and we all have this bull shit divorce thing in common. They went out for happy hour after group and they asked me to join their What'sApp group(s). Now I am going for hikes, breakfast, accsional ha…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/26 07:48 PM
1	She got her final load of stuff Sorry bud, I am likely a few weeks away myself and will likely feel the same as my divorce was not my idea. Both of my kids will also leave for new adventures so will be a completely empty house. I do have a great divorce care support group that has been very supportive and getting me out to do stuff to keep me busy. I hope you have options like this.. I will be getting a puppy the middle of August so am thinking that will help as well!!! Keep your chin up, we're routing for you!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/26 03:09 AM
1	How do you guys dissociate? Gym and lay in bed praying for my mental health and to have an even better future. She's still in the house and will likely have many more trips to the gym and praying!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/26 12:00 AM
1	The reality of her being gone for good has finally set in. 21 years June 4th....3 months in and it sucks....still living in the same house. Can't wait until she's gone so I can start the healing process. Amazing how someone that you cared for for 26 years can just go poof! Not looking forward to the empty house but believe that all will go on and I will push forward with much support and love from those that haven't stopped loving me....We have your back OP, it will get better.....even 3 months in, I am worlds from where I was 2 months ago....3 months a…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/26 10:55 PM
1	How to be alone Join a divorce support group. It has helped me immensely 7 weeks in after a 20 year marriage. Just helps to be around others in the same pain. Very supportive group of people. May even help your lack of being social? I think I made it through the survival stage as I am now eating a bit more and sleeping a bit more. Keep your chin up, it does get better with time. Many gym suggestions, I second as well. Exercise has helped me mentally and physically. I plan on getting a puppy once the dust settle…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 05:17 PM
2	Them leaving is the best thing to ever happen to you 🙌 Same exact thing for me brother. Emotionally checked out for 4 years or so. Dropped the bomb about 6 weeks ago. Was a rough first few and then thought I was doing okay but yesterday had a fucking meltdown went from uncontrollable crying to absolute anger. I'm still living with her until we can settle the house and stuff which blows big time. Looking forward to having many more weeks/months behind me....should be a pill for divorcing people to go into a time warp! Best of luck!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/26 11:47 PM