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My approach is certainly not a cookie-cutter template, I very much tailor it to the situation. In this particular instance I felt like I wasn’t necessarily untrue, her poor responses and general inability to hold a conversation was a turn off. In this particular situation my response could easily be passed off as a reassurance to her as to not feel bad or be sorry, rather than to invoke a response. Generally speaking when you’re trying to come across as passive, you want to be able to have somet…
/r/seduction26/08/20 03:59 AM
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As a lot of people are saying, those “ask out x Number of women“ posts are more aimed at getting men over their anxieties and fear of rejection. Most men who are even moderately successful with women don’t go home with someone new every night, but they also don’t let that tear them up. One of the biggest obstacles for many guys is the inability to “get back up“ after being shot down.
/r/seduction30/07/20 06:40 PM
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Sometimes timing, particularly what is and isn’t good timing, is just as important as committing to the act. Tonight was a good example for me, I bumped into a waitress on my way to the restroom at this restaurant, over time I’ve developed a kind of “non creepy” catch that I use often when a woman bumps into me in a crowded place, it’s a firm but not grabby guiding hand to direct them away from slamming into me, almost like a dance move that’s difficult to describe. I apologized and asked her if…
/r/seduction26/07/20 08:14 AM
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Is there a joke here? I’m just genuinely confused.
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:03 PM
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This is probably dating/seduction 101, but it’s always worth recapping. I should add though, always use your common sense, and that goes for both ways, if a girl is clearly interested, put her on lock, and be fucking loyal. That’s the mistake I made. My last two girlfriends both came at a time of particular “luck“ in my seduction/dating adventure. You can imagine what happened after that. I’m still dealing with that right now, it can be really difficult after a break up because often you will la…
/r/seduction16/06/20 12:47 AM
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I’ve always said that the concept that there is “the one“ out there for you is flawed. everyone has multiple people across the world who are compatible, some maybe more than others, but it’s really hard when you meet someone who is seemingly perfect in every way, and then they leave. Your judgment and logic is clouded to the point where you cannot think straight. If you are the one who caused the break up, whether it be by your behavior, or other factors, assess yourself, and make sure you don’t…
/r/seduction16/05/20 04:23 PM
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I mean there are some of the “OG” dating websites, like eHarmony, or match.com, I turn 25 in July, and I’ve determined if I haven’t either gotten back with my ex by then, or meet somebody new, I will bite the bullet and make a profile. But I’ve always told myself that online dating will NEVER a substitute for real life interaction.
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:07 PM
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This. Finding someone who is a quality sexual partner, whether they are a significant other or just a friend with benefits, takes time. If you’re the type of person who can bag a new body every week, congrats, really, but I can’t even imagine having that much time or persistence. The reality is that for most people, the right person will kind of just fall into place. That’s not to suggest no effort is needed, but I can’t count how many times I’ve approached people and been shot down, only to hav…
/r/seduction13/05/20 07:05 AM
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My most recent girlfriend was like this, she just kept curving and curving, but you really have to play with your gut, some girls it’s pretty obvious she’s just playing games, but with her, it was clear that she was just fresh out of a relationship, and scared of men, essentially. If a girl seems interested when you text her, but then leaves you on read after a while, understand that it’s either this, or in all likelihood, you aren’t the only guy she is talking to. (Shocker, I know.) I don’t typ…
/r/seduction12/05/20 03:38 PM
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The situation is a bit more complex that I’m really willing to explain right now, but both men and women have said it’s a good “last gesture” considering the circumstances of our breakup.
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:40 AM
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That’s a good point, something I definitely struggle with, especially right now being freshly single and unsure how that is going to resolve itself.
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:38 AM
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Care to elaborate? Lol
/r/seduction02/05/20 10:45 PM
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I think you didn’t read my paragraph underneath the title, because I clearly said that big dick energy doesn’t necessarily correlate to actual dick size.
/r/seduction02/05/20 10:45 PM
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I got really good at this before my last relationship, but crazy enough, the only girl that I actually had anything serious with was the one that I did chase, albeit not consistently.
/r/seduction02/05/20 10:43 PM
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I don’t disagree, I intend to send her a well-meaning birthday present, and after that, it’s all on her.
/r/seduction02/05/20 10:42 PM
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I feel that, I guess that’s why I feel like I’m spinning my tires right now, I’m recently out of a relationship. Honestly just having some casual sex with somebody would be nice, but I don’t feel like fully committing to the seduction/dating game just yet considering that there’s a chance her and I might end up back together.
/r/seduction02/05/20 09:44 PM
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False hate crime accusations hurt everyone. Black people and white people agree. The reality is that typically, but not always, hate crimes are perpetrated by a small group or an individual, not a whole bus load of people.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/20 03:01 PM
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Your friend sounds like a candidate for r/ihavesex
/r/PussyPassDenied29/03/20 08:36 PM
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Another example this page is being invaded by incels, adding the “wild bitch” at the end. If you want to combat toxic feminism you don’t do it by name calling.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/20 11:13 PM
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Once again evidence this is becoming a women hating subreddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/20 12:32 PM
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This is beginning to turn into “Meninist” and I’m not digging it.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/20 12:07 PM
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Further confirmation that this page is turning into a women hating page.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/20 04:46 PM
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Meanwhile everyone is clustered together on a balcony, who’s really doing more harm here? The woman swimming in a chlorinated pool or the small party on the balcony?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/20 01:29 AM
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The original intent of the sub was to highlight women who are like actually hitting men and they get hit back, or women expecting free dinner and getting denied, or just all around being entitled or rude and then being surprised when people, particularly men are rude back. The posts on this subreddit have started to cross over the thin line of legitimately highlighting, for example, a video of a woman getting punched after she punches a man, to posts about guys literally fantasizing about the op…
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/20 04:41 PM
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This thread is being invaded by women haters. I enjoy the content when it comes to women being overtly entitled, such as expecting free dinner, sugar daddies, etc. There’s no context here, and how is catching fire considered having your “pussy pass” denied? Are pussies supposed to be fireproof.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/20 07:09 PM
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This is the type of post that makes me second guess being on this subreddit, I enjoy seeing women who are trying to use the fact they’re a woman getting a dose of reality, but if you’re thinking slapping a woman, justified or not, is what makes you a “non-simp” then you’re right, you’re an incel.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/20 05:29 AM
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What kind of abusive asshole is she dating? Like I’m sensitive to trauma, being cheated on can really fuck you up, but if your man is going to freak out about business or school communications, he needs some therapy.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/19 07:19 AM
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I'm REALLY glad I'm not the only one who thinks this is creepy as hell. Like WHY would you record it? She's hot, don't get me wrong, but you wanting to brag is gonna ruin your chance. This girl could get anyone, she's not gonna pick Mr. "hey dude record this for internet points"
/r/seduction18/12/19 12:02 AM
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I love meeting people in person, what kills me though is that the girl I'm talking to currently I met online, and while I know I shouldn't feel this way, I somewhat feel like she's "less" impressive, or our story is "less" cute because it happened that way. Not to mention I've gotten SOOO much better at picking up women in the past year or so that I almost feel like my effort to gain that confidence has been wasted.
/r/seduction16/12/19 04:25 AM
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Not a bonus, it is a part of their salary. Right or wrong, that is a fact and you cannot dispute it. The job is marketed, at least for my company, as "make $10-15 an hour, cash daily!"
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 08:13 PM
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Not my job chief, former job, now I work in corporate. I've long been an advocate of paying a living wage so our drivers do not depend on tips, but as it is right now, on December 13th, 2019, if a driver went his entire shift with no tips, they would be broke, plain and simple. Yes, you are not obligated to tip, but you are a piece of shit if you don't.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 07:36 PM
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I'm not going to argue with people who clearly don't understand how tipping wage works. TIPS ARE NOT A BONUS. It sucks, but in the US for at least serves and delivery personnel, tips are a PART of their wage, not icing on the cake.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 07:32 PM
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I almost forgot what subreddit I was on, and I guess it makes sense a bunch of incels would also hate someone who's trying to make an honest living.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 07:22 PM
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Because delivery drivers usually make less than 5 bucks on the road, rightly or wrongly, tips are what they depend on. That’s a fact that can’t be disputed.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 07:05 PM
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I was at one point a delivery driver, and tips are a big part of they pay, yes. Right or wrongly is debatable, but the reality is not.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 07:04 PM
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Well then you should just go pick it up. Just as with a server at a restaurant, pizza delivery drivers get paid less when on the road and depend on tips to make a living. We can argue all day long whether that is right or wrong, but that’s the reality of it.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 07:03 PM
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Not sure where you live, but in the US, he probably got stiffed. So yes, it is a douche move to order delivery to someone you know is expecting you to pay for it but didn't. More than likely her entitled ass either didn't pay for it at all, or only paid exactly what was owed.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 06:47 PM
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What pisses me off about this is that the pizza guy probably got stiffed. Don't involve service employees in your petty drama.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/19 06:36 PM
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God, I hate the “alpha, beta” bs. It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. If you stutter or sound nervous when asking/suggesting then you’re gonna sound insecure, but if you can manage a soothing, chill, sexy, confident tone, asking vs telling isn’t gonna make a huge difference.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:34 PM
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Personally, I NEVER expect sex, simple, and don’t act like a prick if you don’t get it, but don’t overlook obvious signs either. If you’re in the living room, kiss a bit, then ask “can we move this to my room?” If you’re in your room, you’re already past that step, if she says “next time” or “I should be going” brush it off. Say “that’s fine, may I drive you home?” Or “may I walk you to your car?”, or “may I call you an Uber?” Even in a city with good transit this is a nice gesture. If she’s int…
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:30 AM
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I’m asking this in a respectful way, but how do you consider yourself to be knowledgeable on this? Luck? Are you a woman? Research?
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:24 AM
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Something I’ve been working hard on. I’ve gotten better for sure, but occasionally a woman will come along where it’s hard to do so. You can’t see red flags through rose colored glasses.
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:22 AM
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I think men are much more discretionary early on, IE, not even talking to women they’re not attracted to in the first place, making it much harder to friendzone someone. I know women care about looks, but it’s not as high on their list, hence why you’ll often see an average dude with an absolute dime, but rarely the other way around.
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:13 AM
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There’s a difference between “talking“ and talking. I think what they are saying is that if you’re a generally open person, to men and women, it will make it much easier for you to find somebody who’s a willing partner, whether it be sexually or romantically.
/r/seduction23/11/19 05:41 PM
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Sounds like your situations a little different from mine, really I’m just trying to hook up with this girl again. In your situation, I think just playing the long game would be the better idea. I’ve been there done that, unfortunately I haven’t been successful, but I can tell you that trying to hard is not going to end the way you want. Just be prepared to be patient.
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:04 AM
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I go through cycles of that, where I might go a week or two with a ton of potentials, but instead of playing it cool, I try too hard, and over exert myself trying to please all of them and keep them interested. I can't believe it took me so long to realize that I was having the opposite effect. I think what it was is recently I was talking to a girl and it fell through, I hit up another that I hadn't spoken to in a week and she jumped on it at the drop of a hat.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:11 PM
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That's a great point. If I had to number my weaknesses, my biggest is that I take things, particularly rejection, personally. To a girl who's trying to fuck with me, that's gold, to a girl who doesn't care, or is oblivious, is that worth the effort? Answer is no.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:08 PM
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If you haven’t done it already, ask your friend to give you some advice. The most mature, and frankly confident thing that anyone can do is open themselves up to somebody for critique and guidance. I imagine that your friend is attractive, I don’t know what you look like, but let’s be honest here, we have all been out in public and seen a couple where we wonder “how did he end up with her?” Women are much more willing to date a guy who doesn’t look like a supermodel than a guy especially a “hot …
/r/seduction29/10/19 05:06 AM
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This is something I've struggled with for a LONG time. In terms of looks I'd say I'm about average, and while I can be a little awkward I've always tried to feign the "go getter" attitude that I felt like was necessary to get and keep the attention of women. However, more recently, while I might still strike up a conversation with a woman from time to time, not putting any effort in at all is certainly not the preferred route, I do notice when I don't try as hard, or seem fairly focused on mysel…
/r/seduction21/10/19 05:54 AM
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