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I will add my own thoughts when I'm not replying on my phone, but right now I have to say I absolutely LOVE the thoughtful, civil discussion here. You ladies are amazing!
/r/RedPillWives01/08/17 04:33 PM
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I wrote our ceremony, and we each wrote our own vows. Mine: "I love your adventurous spirit, and I promise to be open minded when you want to try new things. I will laugh with you always, but sometimes, I will cry on your shoulder. I will respect your independence, and be understanding when you need chill time. You have loved me when I didn't love myself, and I can't imagine spending my life with anyone else." Oh Dear! Thank you for this reminder Iris. I needed to remember. We keep them in a jar…
/r/RedPillWives14/06/17 02:18 PM
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It's not that I do not want to spend time with him, quite the opposite, actually! I'm wasting time doing things while waiting on him to initiate time together so that I can immediately start when he is ready. More than anything I dislike rejection. I don't like trying to spend time with him and being told no. I am working on not taking this so personally, but it is a work in progress. Lately, I've been up front about this tactic. I'll suggest an activity, and let him know I'm waiting on him. I'l…
/r/RedPillWives16/05/17 03:30 PM
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hides the matches when I'm trying to set myself on fire to keep someone else warm. This is adorable!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 09:11 PM
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Most of what I see indicates we are a good match. Most of the time;)
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 09:10 PM
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First, THANK YOU! This is a very neat system, and I am hoping to start working on a new wardrobe soon, so it is timely as well. This is an amazingly informative post! Second, I don't fit! Can you help me? My results: DCCCDDDDDCDDCCDD I am currently between D/E in a couple of categories, but read to adjust for extra weight so I would be D in these. Maybe I typed my face wrong? I've always had a hard time with face shape advice.
/r/RedPillWives29/04/17 08:43 PM
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I was in a similar boat (5'1" 160 lbs.) I was very discouraged because I only lost 4 lbs in about 3 months! I was eating mainly primal, but I wasn't tracking anything. I started tracking, and restricting my carb intake to 100g carbs or less per day. Which gives me plenty of room for good veggies and maybe some fruit. The weight has started moving at a much better pace the past couple of weeks (6 lbs in about three weeks!)
/r/RedPillWives29/04/17 07:17 PM
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May I pick your brain? My Man is the same way, but he always seems to want attention as soon as I get involved in something else. I'm pretty sure he doesn't even consciously know this is a thing. I very seldom tell him no to any invitation for 1:1 time, but often find myself wasting time doing things I know I'm not really invested in, just in case he decides he wants to do something with me. Do you have any advice on finding balance and communicating with him about it in a respectful way?
/r/RedPillWives29/04/17 07:03 PM
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I'm ENFP, The Man is INTJ. Interestingly we both straddle the P/J lines though. It works really well that ENFP values introversion on occasion and he enjoys parties and groups of friends. He is logical and cool (until he's not!) and I am an emotional, contradictory mess sometimes! We balance each other nicely and can have really awesome intellectual or silly conversations. He does find my tendency to be completely immersed in something for about a week, before moving on to the new hobby slightly…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 09:55 PM
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