whoaitsmarsh Archive

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6	I kind of hate when women tell men how they should process emotions Oof, Candace Owens is not the person anyone should be looking to.. for anything. I wholeheartedly disagree with her on most things, but especially on this. She does not represent all of us, and most of us don't like her because she's simply an asshole. I'm guilty of telling a few of the men in my life to try something different - because it worked for me. I'm not saying it was right, or helpful for all of them. The only advice I can give is from what I've experienced and how I dealt with it. It …	/r/MensRights	05/07/26 06:17 PM
2	Do other men feel dismissed by healthcare providers? I wouldn't be either. Being dismissed when you don't feel well sucks, and no one should be ignored.	/r/MensRights	03/07/26 02:33 PM
0	Do other men feel dismissed by healthcare providers? Nope. Just offering some life experience. I think a lot of people in general, regardless of gender have a hard time communicating - especially when something is uncomfortable. Maybe if his wife can help, which is what it looks like she's trying to do here, he would have a better experience and get the care he deserves.	/r/MensRights	03/07/26 02:20 PM
1	Do other men feel dismissed by healthcare providers? I did wonder for a while about my stepdad experiencing this. It seemed like everytime he came back from an appointment, he was mad and said "They just don't listen". I told him to go in there again and ask if he could record the visit because he has trouble remembering everything. He did. My mom amd I listened to the recording with him, and it turns out, he wasn't actually telling the doctor anything about the type of pain, the severity, or even mentioning other issues. He was dismissive of his …	/r/MensRights	03/07/26 12:27 PM
2	How do periods factor into the “which gender has harder lives” debate Ooh, I really enjoy sushi. Fantastic idea!	/r/MensRights	27/05/26 07:21 PM
0	How do periods factor into the “which gender has harder lives” debate It wasn't my intention to be aggressive, only factual and having the open minded discussion you asked for. You did say you dismissed it. And you dismissed it because it wasn't perceptible to you - the only conclusion there is that you dismissed it because its not how you would react while in that kind of pain. But with one single sentence - you've dismissed me and millions of other women again. "Also, women experiencing pain on par with heart attacks are not being told that they just being drama…	/r/MensRights	27/05/26 07:17 PM
-4	How do periods factor into the “which gender has harder lives” debate "I don't understand how symptoms as painful as mild heart attacks could be happening on a monthly basis to 20% of women but I've just never noticed." It sounds like you did notice, you just dismissed it(your words, not mine). You have very likely heard women complain for most of your life how much period pain genuinely hurts. But, it took a study done by a man to get you to consider that women weren't exaggerating. There are tons of women's reproductive issues that can cause amplified pain, I cu…	/r/MensRights	27/05/26 04:45 PM
-8	The modern market is weird No, not at all. HR was my career path for more than a decade. Using "directly involved" isn't entirely true, in my experience. We would weigh the risk of potential hires and fires and report that risk to management. Ultimately, the decision falls on the C-Suite executives if department managers can't get their thumbs out of their asses. What I'm saying, is just like there's no universal HR department - there's also no universal HR conspiracy. Every company I've worked for has been a bit female h…	/r/MensRights	08/05/26 03:37 AM
-9	The modern market is weird Heck yeah, let's be rude for no reason. I love this! As much as HR can't choose who to hire, they also can't choose who to fire. Those decisions come from higher up. HR is just there to follow policies and be the messenger. I have worked in many office roles, HR being one of them. I'm not blindly spewing information - most people have no idea what HR actually does.	/r/MensRights	08/05/26 02:23 AM
-7	The modern market is weird HR doesn't choose who gets hired. In fact, they don't even look for candidates anymore, they use recruiters. Making shit up, getting mad about it, and posting it is going to make people less willing to listen. If you want to be mad about your rights, be mad - but be mad about real things.	/r/MensRights	08/05/26 12:54 AM
-6	Am I the only one who thinks the modern dating market is too demanding on men? Oh, I don't care - they can downvote me straight to hell. What I said isn't offensive or incorrect and they hate that. I don't think all patriarchal practices are wrong or harmful. I think its important to find a partner who is open to discussing your roles inside and outside the home. There are some women, myself excluded, that want someone to worship at their feet, be 6'+ tall, earn all of the money, etc. But please know, despite what is talked about here often, that not all women are like tha…	/r/MensRights	14/04/26 11:08 PM
-23	Am I the only one who thinks the modern dating market is too demanding on men? Just to clarify, you're saying that asking men to help emotionally maintain a relationship is too demanding? I'm not trying to be rude here, but that is basic healthy relationship 101. Not even just romantic relationships.	/r/MensRights	14/04/26 08:59 PM
-10	Data on False Accusations in India Oh, thank the heavens, someone who can read. From the bottom of my heart, from a woman who was locked in a very small store and cornered by two Indian men - thank you.	/r/MensRights	07/04/26 05:29 PM
57	People immediately assumed that, 1. OP is a man and 2. That they said they were going to fix it days ago Mmmm, it kind of looks like how I clean my faucets. Vinegar and water, let it soak. Without reading anything, I would assume someone was cleaning 🤷‍♀️	/r/MensRights	28/03/26 10:48 PM
1	How would one find in person groups of like minded men? I'm here because I care about men's issues. I said nothing about men's lives being simple. I said its a good idea to put yourself out there and make attempts to have meaningful male friendships outside of an echo chamber. I assumed nothing, I gave a suggestion that seemed to be received well by OP. If you find all advice from women to be useless, you're free to ignore it. The rude stereotype is not a good look, especially coming from someone who expects the same thing not to be done to them. But…	/r/MensRights	15/03/26 05:25 AM
2	How would one find in person groups of like minded men? I apologize if I came off as implying you were looking for an echo chamber, it was not my intent. I know I've looked for something similar and ended up in a miserable situation I couldn't wait to get out of. My partner has similar struggles finding male friends who are willing to actually open up about nearly anything - which I've learned is fairly common, unfortunately.	/r/MensRights	15/03/26 03:51 AM
4	How would one find in person groups of like minded men? I would always encourage you to find a group of people you like to be around, however, I would be careful of diving into a place where only one sort of opinion or feeling is welcomed. Surrounding yourself with only men (or women 👋) who think the same way you do can end up just being an echo chamber. We've seen it politically, we've seen it in both men's and women's groups in this very app - and it never really ends well. Everyone ends up angry, bitter, and hating everyone on the "other side". He…	/r/MensRights	15/03/26 02:57 AM
2	Are there any unconditional benefits of being a man Same concept applies. If thats something happening to your body involuntarily, its not something you can help. And its not an excuse for either gender.	/r/MensRights	21/02/26 03:06 AM
0	Are there any unconditional benefits of being a man Oh good, come on over. Let me just jab you with a shit ton of estrogen and progesterone and see how you feel in the morning. Same concept as a mood disorder. Its not something we can stop, not something we can prevent, and most of the time - we don't even see it coming. Are we adults? Absolutely, but being an adult doesn't stop sudden mood swings.	/r/MensRights	20/02/26 09:35 PM
-24	Let's Share Women's Mental Load - Thoughts? Apparently women just work so much harder This is.... mostly right. I think for most reasonable women, we're not talking about household tasks when we talk about mental load. The holidays are a really good example - the majority of my female friends have already planned the entirety of the next 3 weeks for themselves and significant others with minimal effort or input from their partners. They plan dinners, dates, birthdays, handle the shopping, and knowing Thursday is the day the trash needs to go out, and that they have to be home by …	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 04:09 AM
-1	Why are pastors shaming single men? I'm not saying being at home and having kids is a terrible thing. I'm saying its pushed on us as if it's the only thing that makes us useful and we're failures if we don't, or can't. If we don't have husbands we're ostracized and criticized for how we can change or do better. Sound familiar? It's the same bullshit in a different pile. I'm not spouting a rhetoric. The whole point was agreement. Ffs.	/r/MensRights	29/10/25 03:51 PM
-2	Why are pastors shaming single men? You're going to have to be more specific if you want an actual answer. What am I saying as if its an insult? And feminist propaganda? This is my lived experience as a living breathing human being. Absolutely nothing to do with feminism. I'm agreeing with the sentiment that religion is detrimental to men and to society as a whole. Take the women hating glasses off and read it again - maybe pretending I'm not female would help.	/r/MensRights	29/10/25 03:09 PM
0	Why are pastors shaming single men? As a woman, I don't disagree. But its not necessarily a "women are the best" situation. They want to keep us quiet, in the house, and pregnant. They don't actually like women or value them, they want us to think we're special so we keep getting pregnant and providing them with children to indoctrinate. They hold the expectation that men should be leaders in all things, contributing to stress, loneliness, and depression (among other things). There is no winning. They shame men for the various rea…	/r/MensRights	29/10/25 02:37 PM
4	Even as a victim, it is his fault. Nah, she's an asshole. I've seen this story on multiple social media platforms and they are overwhelmingly ripping her to shreds. Some of us are nuts, there's certainly no argument there - but we are people and not all of us agree on everything. She's in the wrong and should be charged. As a side note, I did doordash for several years for extra income, and the amount of people (men and women equally) that purpously answer the door naked is... wild. But this? This is something I would giggle abou…	/r/MensRights	22/10/25 12:11 PM
13	How is it fair that a working wife doesn't want to contribute financially? Woman here. Its not fair or reasonable. My partner makes almost double what I do (we both make very good money) and we pay half of expenses. Sometimes he pays more for things, sometimes I do. We decided what was fair for us. For example - he wants me to pay less for expenses because I make less; I said no because I can afford it. Its not any more than I would be paying living on my own, in fact, its still less. I know a lot of women are entitled and ask for wild things. I'm sorry you keep findin…	/r/MensRights	30/09/25 04:51 PM
-5	Women should only be allowed to vote if they.. I gave no criticism, I asked why. Equality is great, I have no arguments there. And no, I did not sign up for the military. I have no interest in slaughtering other humans for any reason, and certainly not because I should blindly follow orders. I do have several female army veterans in my friend group, though. So it's not like they don't exist. The draft rules were made by men, and further upheld by men - all the way to the Supreme Court. We weren't allowed to serve in combat roles (aside from …	/r/MensRights	29/08/25 01:33 PM
13	Women should only be allowed to vote if they.. So, what you're saying is - single women outside of very specific professions are not... people? Don't deserve the liberties everyone else is afforded? For what possible reason?	/r/MensRights	29/08/25 12:48 PM
2	The false narrative around the so-called male loneliness epidemic Mental health stats favoring women being more lonely makes sense if you read the comments here. Men are far less likely to seek help with mental illness or even just see a therapist. So those results will be skewed. This sort of thing isn't going to be completely measurable- you'll have to take their word for the frequency and reasoning behind it.	/r/MensRights	21/08/25 07:31 PM
0	2 dates $200 and 1 kiss Strawman fallacy? Hard disagree. He spent his money, he wants what's owed! He said it out loud. Having that discussion isn't awkward, I've had many - it's not hard to just say what you're looking for and find like-minded people. Tinder, specifically, is based on the idea of hooking up. Cheap dates are fine, splitting the bill is fine. It's just shit behavior to expect sex out of a date - you're not owed anything. If you want to hookup, great. Just make sure both people are in agreement.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 04:44 PM
1	2 dates $200 and 1 kiss So, prostitution being illegal makes it okay to pretend to want to date so you can fuck people? It's gross behavior no matter who is doing it. Unless it's discussed that we're going to have dinner and then sex afterward, it's deception and lying. For the record, I have no issues with prostitution or those who willingly participate.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 04:29 PM
15	2 dates $200 and 1 kiss 100% this. OP is spending money under the guise of being interested in dating and relationships but only expecting sex in return for his money spent. And it's exactly the reason 2X is full of ferals. I genuinely came here to learn and see how I can improve myself - but I've learned that a lot of the men here don't have the self awareness to look at their own behavior and see how shitty it is - and they're just as bad as the women they hate. I'm disappointed in society.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 11:01 AM
0	Helpful hint for young men currently dating and looking for a relationship. Exactly this. Myself, and nearly all of my female friends vote blue and have no interest in the 4B movement, some didn't even know what it was and the others just laughed at it. This might be a big thing on Reddit, but isn't representative of the entirety of the outside world. We voted for our own interests, as did most men.	/r/MensRights	11/11/24 01:30 PM
2	Explain like I'm 5 Woman here, joined to learn and help where I can, and I have a genuine question. Is there anyone in this group that organizes protests? Are you organizing and making a plan to bring your issues (suicide rates, circumcision, rape, etc) to your local and state officials? Are you meeting up with each other to discuss solutions or actionable things? It seems like (a lot but not all) women have a sense of responsibility to one another, we feel a sense of community and support one another. I don't rea…	/r/MensRights	07/11/24 03:46 PM
0	'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't? I can try to provide some insight here, if I may. The term female isn't inherently offensive, I am biologically female, born and raised. That being said, context is important. To say "there are males and females in this room" is biologically accurate, and no issue. The word female is often used as a derogatory term when describing women in music, specifically. Also, in places where men are referred to as men, women are often referred to as females rather than women. Socially, it seems to be akin…	/r/MensRights	17/10/24 02:04 PM
-1	My girlfriend keeps making comments about mansplaining and men's humour... Etc There's a massive difference between feminists and radical feminists. Equality between sexes isn't radical.	/r/MensRights	12/10/24 05:22 PM
7	My girlfriend keeps making comments about mansplaining and men's humour... Etc Fully prepared to get ripped apart here, but I'll take the chance. I'm female. I'm a normal feminist. I don't hate men. I love equality, but we, collectively, have work to do. I have a male partner that I absolutely adore and I would be lost without him. All that being said, this girl is entitled. The only thing I agree with is splitting rent based on income, and that goes both ways. My partner makes more than I do, but we split it evenly at my request, because I can afford it. But if he couldn'…	/r/MensRights	12/10/24 04:23 PM