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My advice is stay calm and confident about it. I was engaged at 24, my fiancé was 27 and even we got negative reactions. His friends were like “why?” or “don’t you know how much it costs?” Funny enough, some of the same people that gave us flack are now engaged, and they seem happier than ever. Oh yeah, and they had a total blast at our wedding and thanked us for inviting them to “such a magical day.” So basically, just brush off those comments. They are probably coming from a place of worry or …
/r/RedPillWives02/09/21 07:26 PM
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I recently read Culture of Narcissism and my mind was blown. Somehow it applies even more to society now than when it was written (1979).
/r/RedPillWives08/07/21 11:56 PM
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I feel like this is covertly addressed well in Fascinating Womanhood. As a women you definitely want to have confidence, sauciness, and the will to wait until the guy has proven himself enough before you “jump in.” This is the other side to a fascinating woman (the other being the submissive house wife side). I don’t think it’s the same as playing hard to get per se, but I believe men do love to chase which is why you have to develops that side to your femininity. Sorry if that’s a bad explanati…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 12:01 AM
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I was told once by a guy “you’re cute but you’ll never be hot.” That same guy chased me forever and tried to make me his girlfriend after he dumped his last one (who was, supposedly, hot) from not wanting to commit. My fiancé thinks I’m both but I think a lot of sex appeal comes from the way you carry yourself, hold eye contact, and your confidence. So you can practice being sexy when the situation calls for it. Otherwise being cute is nice too, my fiancé cuddles me and sorta baby-talks me (whic…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/20 03:43 AM
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Thank you for saying this! That post about the collarbones seemed so out of place in this sub. More about looksmaxing than redpilledwomen.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 04:10 PM
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100% agree, thank you for stepping in
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 11:58 PM
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Ah I love this subreddit. So many smart and thoughtful ladies on here
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 07:20 PM
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Welcome 😊 yea veggies just make me bloated lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 07:41 PM
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We love meatloaf and whole chicken or roast in the slow cooker. I make mash potatoes and gravy as a side. We usually eat the leftovers for lunch and we keep bread and eggs to fry for breakfast. Fruit for snacks. Edit: saw your comment. We eat a pretty classic American diet and do not prioritize veggies (too much gives me a stomachache). For us, eating high meat gives us energy and keeps us lean, and these dinners are really cheap and easy to make.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 07:02 PM
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Focus on yourself
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 02:14 AM
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No, you would want to be feminine if you’re single so that you can attract a good man. If you were asexual, I would say you don’t have to be feminine if you don’t want to be. It’s called Red Pill Women because it’s about the true dynamics between the two sexes
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 10:13 PM
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Yes STFU is a good tool to have in general. But being feminine works for what? I mean, it’s good to be feminine if you enjoy it, but i thought the point was to help your man feel more masculine? If OP had said she prefers butch lesbians I think that would work but she doesn’t.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/20 09:50 PM
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From what I understand, RPW is mainly a sexual strategy for women interested in long term, committed relationships with a man. So, I think it could help you if you chose to seriously date or marry a man. Otherwise, keep being yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 07:09 PM
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I deleted social media in my early 20s and then made a new Instagram later on. Like the poster above, I don’t post much beyond nature pics and my profile is private. However, I can confidently say that social media didn’t make me any new friends or keep any friendships going really. In fact, deleting it taught me how to actually make new friends, and those friends text and call me most of the time. By the way, I had to put in effort to make friends. The post about joining a group or following yo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 09:48 PM
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Absolutely. I hate grey now but I own so much grey clothing from shopping on trend and not paying any attention to how it looks on me. I’m pretty sure “groutfit” (gray outfit) is a thing
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/20 07:35 PM
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