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Trust me, you really don't want that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 05:53 AM
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It sounds like the woman really wanted to take a guy home that night, which was probably the reason she was just standing around outside alone. Not that unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 06:04 AM
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Height and ethnicity aren't big inhibitors to attracting women. I've seen ethnic guys with hot white girlfriends. I imagine it would be even easier for them to attract women of their own race. And no, those guys weren't rich. If they only got women because they were rich I would consider them outliers and wouldn't mention them. And short guys, yeah I see short guys with girlfriends all the time. I literally did not know short guys were supposed to have dating difficulties before I visited this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 02:02 PM
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handsome semi-famous musician Eh I play the guitar at home, does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 05:41 PM
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am i the exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 05:16 PM
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Well your views seem to have progressed at least. Not too long ago you would have said the short guy should be culled for the heinous crime of daring to not date within his league. I consider this an improvement :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 05:12 PM
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Well you did say that, but let's pretend you didn't. Then you wouldn't consider it a violation of natural selection if the partner he attracts is fit and attractive, and maybe taller than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 05:53 AM
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Would you fuck a short guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:19 PM
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I'm sure you don't believe it for the same reason you don't believe short guys should be allowed to breed, lol. You're an extremist who is unable to see nuance. Besides, you're a woman. You get approached by a guy who isn't himself and see a guy who's just a loser. This is especially true if you only ever met him that one time. Aren't you always talking about how women are and should be picky over the smallest things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 05:38 AM
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The market determines SMV, not objective physical appearance. Men fucking women 1-2 "looks" points behind them is the natural order of things Sure, sure. What about men who can get 9's, but get rejected by 6's when he's having a bad day and is off his game? Is that the natural order as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 08:19 PM
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Lol, are you saying even guys who are atheists should pretend to be christian and go to church just to meet women? I mean as a religious person I'm not opposed to the idea, It's how I dated some knockout women I wouldn't have met otherwise. But I personally am very chill about religion and wouldn't care about people pretending just so they can get laid. But I'm surprised you would advocate this. I imagine most people would find men doing this offensive, like they're making a mockery of your reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 07:40 AM
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She's more of a cat (kitten?) person. Didn't you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:52 PM
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I saw you mention him before and it just sounded like you've been together for longer. I think it's better this way though, it shows that you keep one eye open for a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:46 PM
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How long have you been with your current boyfriend then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 04:32 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:20 PM
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Of course somebody touching themselves on the bus or taking pictures of people without their permission should be told off. I don't think I've heard anyone say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 04:46 AM
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Maybe, but it just shows that creepiness is a matter of perception and very few times is a guy objectively creepy. Guys are better off not caring about being creepy when they're trying to meet women. I don't know why so many guys do care. I always assumed fear of coming off as creepy was mostly the domain of women and that guys were more practical and result-orientated. Just do what you have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 06:04 AM
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or that he lacks the basic social awareness to know his place. Well in that case, his "place" is one that he picked out for himself, not society. The reason average guys usually don't hit on hot girls is because they think they're not good enough, or think the girl is taken, etc. So it's basically due to insecurities, not "staying within the hierarchy". Did you forget this? If anything, a guy hitting on a girl way out his league demonstrates a better sense of social awareness than guys who don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 05:59 AM
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In your opinion, to which MV do things like wit, fun personality and interesting lifestyle go into?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 12:54 PM
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Being loyal, supportive and considerate doesn't keep someone interested. You still need to have some SMV things to be considered high RMV. People have to have fun being around you. A lot of hot women do seem to have a tendency to be crazy, yes, but that's not something they have control over. They can't just turn off they craziness when they want to come off as a better long-term option for guys they date. Is it just because hot women have so many men after them from a young age it messes them u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:04 AM
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The problem is...this is only the case for woman who have never dated someone they were attracted to. The longer you go in that state of never having experienced physical attraction to a romantic or sexual partner, the more men's looks will be the deciding factor for you to the point of "His looks determine whether his behavior is creepy or not".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 09:10 PM
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That was definitely the result of, in my view, overly feminist education I've heard this a few times before. Can you elaborate on it? What kind of things were you taught in school or wherever it was, that was overly feminist? Or at least feminist-leaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 07:53 AM
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You know I see some of the posters in this sub and feel bad for them for being so out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 09:06 PM
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I think women can tell when you see them as a consolation prize. After my first relationship ended and I was back on the dating market, as a conventionally unattractive guy I didn't think I could realistically get the girls all the guys went crazy over, so I'd go for women who were slightly above my own league. Like maybe they were fat but were kind of cute in their own way. But nope, it wasn't happening. I only got a lot of girls once I stopped caring about leagues and went after the girls I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:49 PM
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I also wish everybody could be happy, but I remember that at the end of the day, we're just animals in ruthless competition for the highest-value mates. Whenever one man experiences success in the DMP, that means somebody else, somewhere is losing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:04 AM
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How is this a matter of evolution? Sounds like social conditioning taking place over the course of a few generations, but evolution? What am I missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:45 PM
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While I can't speak for society, the people who are saying that, me for example, have found it to be generally true that looks don't matter that much to women...despite, like you point out, seeing good-looking male characters in movies, and being told by girls from a young age that they care abut looks as much as guys do. I believe Red Pillers think they've been lied because of how many women are telling guys "just be nice, just be yourself. Be ambitious". Basically telling guys to work on quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:57 PM
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Lolol so was I. Are you a dog or cat person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 09:13 PM
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Lolol this is so funny!! Its like the nerdiest thing I ever read!! I take it those "which Sex and the City character are you?" type quizzes are more your speed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 09:04 PM
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I think the main contributor to inceldom in men is very poor social skills, not bad looks. And that in turn is caused by mental or social afflictions such as autism, rather than them being "fucking weird". An ugly guy who is social is still gonna get a fair amount of sexual opportunities. You'd be surprised at how thirsty women, yes, even hot girls, can be lol. It's these same social skills that will allow you to capitalize on these sexual opportunities and not "fuck up".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:01 PM
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1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style? About a 3 (short, goofy-looking face). Don't know how I would go about finding guys who look like me. 2) Are you overweight? Nope, skinny but with some muscle tone. 3) How many casual sex partners have you had? 2 4) How many romantic relationships have you had? About 7, most of them lasted about 3 or 4 months. 5) What social ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:55 PM
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ive been reading about HBD for 17 yrs approximately, Ah, no wonder. Cause I'm having some optional paralysis here. Is it a hobby of yours or did you do it for work or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 04:05 PM
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That first link indexes entire books. Do you actually read them? Do you buy them or ebooks? I guess I'll start with the genetics and intelligence video? And thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 03:38 PM
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Hey, can you tell me where the hell I start with this? http://www.humanbiologicaldiversity.com/ any recommendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 03:30 PM
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Okay, so that addresses the casual sex part. What about knowing women are childlike and catty? Do you believe Blue Pill guys don't notice this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 06:31 AM
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If you consider that a problem, then it's men who are the problem, not Red Pill guys in particular. I think most guys who are around women a lot know on a subconscious level that women are childlike and catty, but don't care enough to voice that because "omg womenz are sooo cute!!!" I'm like the one Red Pill guy who doesn't like casual sex (damn religious upbringing) but I still don't see it as immoral if the woman chooses to do it, even if she doesn't know it's casual from the man's side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 06:25 AM
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No because women want sex as well. If not with you, then they're gonna have it with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 06:09 AM
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Well okay. Would you prefer Red Pillers to just not have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 05:58 AM
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women naturally have hypoagency and are intellectually inferior child-like creatures I'm Red Pill, but not misogynistic. With that in mind, I don't see how anyone who's been around women a lot and knows them well can deny the above quote. Except the inferior part, of course. I wouldn't consider women inferior in the sense of being lower than men, but the rest is true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 05:53 AM
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I got the same, which I guess is lower than the average. It was really hard reading their eyes alone when you couldn't see their mouth. At the end they say you shouldn't be worried if you got a low score, because your mood, fatigue, computer lighting and some other stuff could have affected your answer. Does that mean if your answer was 100% unaffected, you should be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:32 AM
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So what I'm saying is that there will always be incels (if society doesn't help them) because there will always be fucked up parents who negatively socialize their kids. This doesn't sound so bad, but it's kind of like learning pretty much any skill where learning bad technique for years and then unlearning all the bad habits is far harder than starting from scratch. Unless you mean that if incels pass on their genes it will result in more people with asperger's/autism/depression in the future? …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:00 AM
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"Helping" incels in the short term would cause more harm in the long term How's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 09:38 PM
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And you're okay with that? There's nothing wrong with sexless incel guys being unhappy because you arbitrarily care more about the future population than people who are alive right now? Why is having some empathy such an inconvenience for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:54 PM
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my perfect little nose Are you exercising your nose now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 03:07 PM
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Women don't know what they want though. That's where the disconnect occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:29 AM
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Take ducks for example, almost all of their reproduction is done through rape, so female ducks evolved "maze-like" vaginas with dead ends that they can control. Then male ducks adapted and evolved cork-screw penises with which to navigate the maze. It's basically a sexual arms race in that particular species of bird. Where did you learn this? Legit asking, I don't know many people who's knowledge of duck runs that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 05:29 PM
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I'm the one who deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 03:50 AM
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I mean...duh, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 01:51 AM
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Well then you would probably be one of the people who tell me I'm Bluepilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 01:09 AM
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I wish I could be myself and still date the women I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:15 PM
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The only thing that sparks raw attraction in women other than physical looks are things that make you fun to be around. Wit is one of those things that make you fun to be around, intelligence alone is not. You have to use your intelligence the right way. But yes, wit has the same effect on women that long legs have on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:00 PM
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Yeah, whenever I tell people how I don't believe women care about looks, I immediately start hearing about how Bluepilled I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 08:24 AM
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this is very important, they need to have at least passable social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:37 PM
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Reading these other comments I think I took this question too seriously lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:51 PM
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I disagree that "it's the only way they can become attractive." I think the majority of guys, even these incels can become attractive to a significantly larger portion of women by working on their looks, but they don't. Do you really think it's just ugliness that's keeping them from getting women? It's a combination of things, but mostly very poor social skills. And then, in a lot of cases this is due to them having asperger's or some other mental condition. Even ugly guys can get girls if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:46 PM
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Men's shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:36 PM
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Yeah a lot of guys complain about that but they would usually pay for these outings so it's not like they expected me to fund their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:20 PM
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I have a few muslim friends who say that they wouldn't date a girl who's had with other guys before sex. Sex before marriage isn't allowed in their own religion, so fair enough. Thing is, these same guys are always trying to get with hot christian girls, and they can't put two and two together and realize that since these girls don't have the same religious ideals as them, there's a good chance that they would have had sex before. It's funny really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:17 PM
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Where/how are you meeting these women? Who said you can only date women who are average? Why are you not being selective yourself, especially considering it's men's job to do the approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:38 AM
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He does have a point, but I don't like this whole idea of "men are not allowed to have weaknesses/insecurities, if they do then it's their own fault if they get cheated on." Maybe it would be that way in a perfect world, but not the world we live in. People are not perfect, a lot of people have some kind of issue that holds them back. I'm not saying don't improve yourself, at the same time we should be allowed to be human. Edit: Man I'm illiterate today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:28 AM
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Women reduce the population of miserable depressed socially miscalibrated losers by refusing to reproduce with them. Oh boy, wolf souls is gonna have a field day with this one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:19 AM
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It's almost like men and women might be different in some ways, being different sexes and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:07 AM
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If her personality is messed up, then she's not a full package.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:45 AM
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"Sane" isn't as low a bar as you think. A lot of girls are good at hiding their craziness for the first few meetings and then let that side of themselves out once they think they've "got you". If I've been talking to a girl long to know she's not crazy, I consider that a positive. A lot of girls do have interesting hobbies. Sometimes I wished the girls I dated in the past were down to just chilling at home more, but they always wanted to go do something. I also don't think travelling is a vapid …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:43 AM
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I'm pretty sure I always list ambition/motivation on "5 traits I'd need in a guy". But I'd also need someone who is attractive to me. It isn't one or the other. In other words, it's something you want in a guy you're already attracted to, not an aphrodisiac. An aphrodisiac is like a pheromone, it's something that stimulates people sexually. Guys get told that focusing on your career/academics is how you get girls swooning over you. There is no one trait that will make you automatically successfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:14 PM
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Man I don't know those books, but what you said at the end, hahaha hahahaha, thanks for that laugh. I must be spending too much time on this sub to get that reference. Do your boss eat the pot brownies at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:10 PM
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"Like" as in it acts as an aphrodisiac to women. Not "like" as in "it would be nice if I was already attracted to him".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:04 PM
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Have you read any good books lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:32 PM
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I have never seen guys in real life wearing that. Why is it such a thing on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:31 AM
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Oh ok, it just seemed random so I thought you were joking. Can you trace the reason the guy "must have nice hands" back to something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:40 AM
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What's with the nice hands? Is that a meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 09:30 AM
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I don't think it's that. It seems more like OP was taught, like a lot of guys are, that women like ambitious men and that guys who achieve financial stability win the SMP in the end. Which is all bullshit of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 07:41 AM
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If she is attracted to you, you can get away with pretty much anything. Not really. I've had numerous women who were attracted to me at first, and then lost interest because I became too attached. It's something that I haven't fully fixed about myself yet, but I would hardly call that "being able to get away with anything". I'm not "attractive", but those women were attracted to me. If they could lose interest in me, then they can lose interest in guys objectively more attractive than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 07:28 AM
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Nineteen. Any younger and I'd just end up seeing her as a child. The legal age here is 16, but the thought of dating/fucking a 16 year old is gross to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 07:20 PM
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Nah, I was more interested in hearing if Bluepillers believe women care about looks at all, because whenever I tell people I don't believe women care about looks, they tell me I'm too Bluepilled. How much it factors? You're welcome to ask your own question about that if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 03:36 AM
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I don't see anyone talking about UFO's in this thread. Are you speaking metaphorically? Because if you are, you kind of make that pointless by then saying exactly what you mean in your edit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:47 AM
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The biological desire to mate, to pass on our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 12:58 AM
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How does loving your male friends and family prove that you don't hate men? Even mysoginistic guys love their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:20 AM
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I respect the opinions of people here but I don't expect to have my views changed about something major. Women say that because they are bad at thinking about men in a hypothetical sense. That's the same reason they give out advice such as "be nice, be yourself". On paper, they think it works. But it's different in real life. I wouldn't listening to women on the internet about how these things work, if it didn't differ so much from what I've experienced with real, live women. That said, the Halo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 11:52 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 11:18 PM
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What I was trying to tell her is that often times the girl doesn't know she's attracted until she gets to know him a little. Guys just have to not be dumb about approaching. Sure you might be successful, but do you really want to risk getting into trouble with your boss, when there are so many girls you can approach when you're not on the job? You're free to do what you want Do you enjoy stating the obvious like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 11:02 PM
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Looks don't matter all that much when it comes to picking up women, at least in my experience. So the way these guys look alone wouldn't make much difference. I take their personality into account because that directly defines how they would act in a social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 10:56 AM
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Maybe the woman hasn't noticed you, and therefore can't give an invitation to approach. Or maybe she has but doesn't find you attractive based on first look alone. In those cases not approaching because she hasn't shown interest isn't really feasible. Better to approach anyway and actually find out. That's how I met some of my past girlfriends, including the hottest girl I ever dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:36 AM
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Just something to note, guys usually also don't know how to give advice that other guys can actually use. I've tried telling other guys how I pick up girls before, but they can only make use of that advice if their personality and lifestyle is similar to mine. Otherwise, what worked for me probably won't work for them, or they might not be able to do it properly, etc. You need to tailor your advice to the person you're giving it to, and that's something I myself wouldn't know how to do because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:32 AM
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That particular guy should have had his wits about him. I agree with what catless said that one should focus on results, not being considered as a creep. But you shouldn't approach if you have something tangible to lose. I'm sure that guy had heard stories before about guys losing their jobs over this very thing, and yet he did the same thing they did anyway. I don't wanna say it's his fault he got fired, but in a way it is. Poor risk management.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:28 AM
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Yeah I agree. I've tried telling this to another user here before, but she insists that guys should be told to be nice and caring to find a relationship. Everyone should be nice to others, but it doesn't have a place in dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:40 AM
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Your answer has similar logic to our friend shoup88's, just with different wording. Having eyes does not mean people should automatically draw conclusions from that that you believe women are visually stimulated. You use eyes to see, not to form theories about female (or male) attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:36 AM
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Would you say having this opinion means one isn't Red Pill or only part RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:25 AM
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Now that I think of it, I can't even recall if it was all or mostly Red Pill guys who I've heard say it was Blue Pill ideology, but I suppose it must have been. It certainly couldn't have been Blue Pill people who say that, for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:41 PM
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Eh it's not about whether I doubt it. I'm just wondering if it really is a Bluepilled belief, because a lot of people act like it's the "main" Blue Pill belief and all the other Blue Pill opinions stem from that one. But again, I don't see many actually Blue Pill people who believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:24 PM
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I don't see how it is though. All of those questions very clearly have obvious answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:17 PM
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Lol I don't understand all these people saying "of course" they do like "pffft, easy question". Just because it's the majority opinion that people have doesn't mean everyone should agree with it by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:43 PM
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I'm disappointed in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:46 PM
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Most of my own beliefs are in line with Red Pill's. My only "Blue pilled" opinion is that women don't really care about looks, and there are even many Bluepillers who would disagree this. The only common ground I see between the two is the self-improvement stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:07 PM
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Harry Potter is only really popular because a whole generation grew up on it, and it's really cool when you're a kid, so it has the whole nostalgia angle. You shouldn't talk that way about books you haven't read. If you haven't read them then of course you won't know why people like them and you'll think it's because of some lame reason like nostalgia, rather than them actually being good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:04 PM
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Do you really think this, u/Atlas_B_Shruggin :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:00 PM
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That goes way beyond LMR, bordering on rape. It probably would have turned into actual rape if she had tried to fight him...at least it sounds that way to me but why would she even go to a guy's house that she met online on their first meeting if she didn't want to get laid? Women put their personal safety above everything else, and she agrees to go to this guy's house right off the bat, and it's not even for sex? I don't understand what she was trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 10:03 PM
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He doesn't have true power though, the kind that is an aphrodisiac to women. His power comes from his money. True power comes from social dominance/popularity/charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 08:58 PM
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I think he is, yes...certainly not because of his looks, but because of his power. That and his "don't give a fuck" attitude. Not saying I agree with this but it's what Red Pill believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 08:56 PM
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A lot of people are like children and throw the word "rapey" or "creepy" around just because a guy does something they don't like or agree with. For example, if you're chatting up a woman and her friends don't approve for whatever reason, they might call you a creep just because they don't like you. I would liken this example to girls on the playground saying a boy has cooties, because I can't tale this kind of "creep" accusation seriously. Don't be concerned about what other people say. You wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:04 PM
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This kind of thing isn't too uncommon. You'll find people talking about how "it was better back then" a lot in the world, in many distinct areas of life. Some examples - people saying we had used to have higher standards for what it takes to be president of the US, people who play x sport were more talented back in the day, they don't make video games like they used to, etc. Whether it's real or perceived, this whole idea that "things have gone downhill" is pretty much everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 08:58 PM
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You go talk to your friends, talk to my friends, talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:06 PM
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So are you talking about attraction or love? I would still love my girlfriend if she got fat, but I wouldn't be attracted to her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 06:02 AM
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Red Pill and PUA teaches guys to emulate the behavior of naturally high-quality guys. And by natural I mean they've been that way all their lives, as opposed to learning these behaviors later on. You might say it's unreasonable to expect them to permanently change their personality, but that is the goal. Guys owe it to themselves to be interesting, have abundance mentality, put themselves first etc, whether they want to have alot of sex or not. But with a lot of guys, the way their parents raise…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 06:00 AM
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This is informative. What you're saying is terrible though, I agree. Why did the people ruling the court just accept the wife's word as truth that her husband used to abuse her? I have heard other guys saying that the woman tends to be favored in divorce and child custody courts. Is this a general thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:49 AM
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Not 50% of the time, 50% of guys. It's easy to get laid when you go to a bar and you're willing to approach a few times. Alot of the women there are looking to get laid as well. I know this because as an non attractive guy, it was easy for me to pick up girls back in the day, although I would do it at malls mostly, not at bars. I've also seen women hit on pretty much all of my guy friends, who are of varying levels of attractiveness. It just happens when you go out enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:10 PM
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so as to avoid alimony and/or child support payments Wow. Is providing for your kids really such a horrible fate? I thought MGTOW was about rebelling against women, not your own children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:33 PM
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It's not most men, it's the average man, meaning about 50%. Alot of guys can get sex regularly, but there are also alot of guys who struggle, because there are far more people held back by mental and social afflictions than you might realize. Then there's also success rate to take into account. If I recall correctly, the consensus in that thread was that two new girls a month was alot. If you go to a bar twice a month, it's actually not too hard to get sex this way, provided you can take rejecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:22 PM
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he means the girl's friends, not his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:27 PM
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No, it doesn't make me paranoid. If she wanted those other guys more, she would be with them, not me. How is this so different from attractive girls who have guys lining up for them? Guys should have backups too by the way. It's just part of abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:23 PM
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Of course he was the hottest guy there if you're now dating him. This backwards rationalization is very common with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 06:22 AM
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They usually are, judging by the couples like this that I know. What I don't understand is HOW they're able to date each other. Even if I was a 2, I would never want to date other 2's. I wouldn't even want to date 5's. If I couldn't get a girl I thought was hot I would just stay single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:27 AM
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It's not just "rpers/guys who are angry with women", it's men in general. Women sympathize with struggles faced by men they personally know and like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 07:24 AM
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Yes, that's what I think it is. For example, a woman suddenly crushing on a guy just because he's nice to her. Or a woman wanting to date the first guy who expresses interest in her. THAT is scarcity mentality. But the women here seem to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 05:21 PM
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Again, I already said in my OP that other women want him as well. I know very well that a guy just wanting other women is not preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 05:18 PM
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boys are like buses, another one will come along in 10 minutes, who curr You basically just said that you disagree that preselection is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 05:07 PM
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That's what I said in my post, Atlas. when a guy they don't know desires another women over her, and is in turn desired by that women So other women want him too. I just also added that the guy has to want her as well, because he has to want another woman instead of you, for you to notice that he is being preselected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 05:01 PM
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I'm talking specifically about guys that you don't know very well though. That's what my post is all about. I think the reason you say this is because women in general are bad at thinking about guys in a hypothetical sense. That's also why the "just be nice, be yourself" advice is spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 04:57 PM
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You can't really tell just by meeting someone if they're high status. Like you might assume someone is if they're wearing a suit for example, but that comes back to my original question...does high status really mean having money, or is it popularity? So yes, it is a real question. I need to know what others are referring to when they talk about status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 06:39 AM
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Yes, exactly. I think a poor guy can be high-status too if he's lazy. Having high status just means you're well-liked, as in people want you at their house party, etc. But it seems like alot of people here are talking about rich guys when they mention status. Even if women date guys for their money, it doesn't mean they like the guy himself. I think the key point is that women don't swoon over rich guys. I think what really triggers women's evolutionary attraction cue is enough people liking you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 06:49 PM
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While I would never say kicking your kid out is the right thing, I do think that girl has problems. What I would have done is try to teach her against casual sex from way earlier. She clearly doesn't have a very high opinion of her father if she's bringing one night stands over to her parents house and having sex with them in front of him (figuratively speaking). Is that a thing there in the States? repressed views when it comes to sex. And i also wonder if seeing his daughter get laid so often …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:08 PM
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Lol, I was just talking to someone the other day about how alot of guys fail with specific women because they don't know how to show their best qualities in the first few minutes. I do agree with you, but I think actual high status guys would know exactly how to signal those things, it will come easier to them than your average joe. Are you saying that you do consider high status as having popularity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:51 PM
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Oh, well in that sense I wouldn't say it's contextual. Like I don't see a person's credentials automatically make them high status. They can contribute to it, and sometimes they do, but those credentials aren't status itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:45 PM
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Wrong post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:37 PM
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Isn't it always contextual? A guy who is a top dog in one city, might be a nobody for the first few weeks he lives in another city. Is that what you mean? Also by high status I don't necessarily mean well-respected. I mean people would respect him I guess, but not in an "upstanding citizen" type of way. They would like him first, and respect him second.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:30 PM
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So I have a genuine question. Why do yall always talk in such extremist terms, like "the world is divided into alphas and incels." Do you forget there is a huge middle ground that actually makes up the majority, or are you just exaggerating to make a point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 09:14 PM
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He doesn't say they wanna get laid though. He says they're "talking smack".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:41 PM
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Not a woman, but I have a hard time believing that "experiment" was real. I've never used online dating but from what I've heard catfish/bots are a big annoyance on those sites. If I saw a regular hot girl on a dating site I would be wary of her not really being the girl in the picture, or even a girl at all. This guy had professional photos taken, says in his profile that he is a male model and world traveller, and the women on their straight up believed he was real? Doesn't add up. That's why …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 01:39 AM
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How is that a cliche though? Pretty much everyone you ask will tell you that women are as visual/shallow as men are. It's only a few people like me for example for believe women don't really care about aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:58 PM
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What constitutes status in your opinion? Wealth or popularity? If it's both, which one contributes more to being high status?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:05 PM
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Lol, you're damn lucky this is the internet. You tell me this stupid shit in real life and you better have a good dental plan.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:47 AM
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There have been times where I've hit on the more attractive woman in the room, and the woman I "passed up" on would constantly be looking over at us, especially if we were hitting it off. Some women do have that scare city mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:53 AM
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I think it would affect them more if the other women was more attractive, not less. If the guy decided to hit on a less attractive women they could just chalk it up to him having weird taste or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:50 AM
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Truest comment on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 01:21 PM
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If we're measuring the time it takes, one comes along maybe every few weeks to a few months. I usually don't have to wait too long(when I am looking) since hot girls are everywhere. Even if you're objectively bad looking, there will be some babes out there who are uniquely attracted to your look. You just have to find them. It was easier when I was in my teens though, since high school girls are thirsty. Do u ever end up in relationships with them? Yep, relationships are the main thing I date fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:15 AM
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/u/Kerb_Poet I'm sure this is generally true, but there are exceptions here and there. I'm a 3; I can get girls who are 5's no problem. Now as bad looking as I am, by all accounts I should be happy that I can get who are 2 or 3 points higher than me, but I don't want to date even them(I don't feel attraction for them). I will usually hold out for a girl who is 7 or higher. What is the point you are trying to make, anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:57 PM
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Thanks, will check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:06 PM
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More of this cartoonish worldview. Is your brain not capable of nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:06 PM
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How do you find these articles?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:06 AM
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What does disclosing information about your personal life have to with this thread? Seriously? Is the concept of using examples to better illustrate one's point new to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:47 AM
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Why was gay lube oil banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:36 PM
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I've never been a normal woman What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:00 PM
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Red Pill is a result of divorce rape, among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:51 PM
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RP's obsession with status stems from women's obsession with...status. Women salivate over confident, high status men the way men salivate over hot girls. So it isn't hard to see why a community dedicated to getting as much sex as possible is obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:50 PM
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Red pill communities do have a higher rate of divorce, but I've noticed most of it being situations where 40 year old men leave their long-time wives for young twenty-two years olds, ie divorces initiated by the man, than it being cases of men being divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:48 PM
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yes women don't like being talked down to by men, but what I'm saying that is that these men become that way because of how women are, because women don't empathy. Not just for "bad men". For all men. I guess the fact that these men are disrespectful to women makes women actively dislike them, instead of the simply not giving a shit that women feel for men by default. The men they are friends with and are attracted to are the exceptions. They don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 04:09 PM
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but the reality is simply that women rarely feel empathy for Red Pill/macho/embittered men who think women should 'submit and know their place' "women don't want you because you think bad thoughts." You have a very cartoonish, naive view of the world. Women don't feel empathy towards men, regardless of what those men are like. In fact alot of genuinely nice, decent men BECOME embittered/red pill due to women's general lack of empathy. The only men women feel true for are guys they know and like,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:36 PM
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I don't really learn new things about women or dating from peeps on the internet anymore. Most of the stuff I know about them, that I know for a fact to be true, are thing I've learned in real life. But here are two small exceptions I guess: 1) On the topic of men's rights being violated: it seems like women do actually care about this issue, but only when it happens to men they personally know and like. 2) There is actually more empathy from men towards guys who struggle in dating than I though…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:37 PM
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Call me blind but I didn't see it coming, and everybody was running and I couldn't hear nothing except
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:10 AM
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and I though PPD would debating it What language is that? I might need to get a translator
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:18 PM
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What did you used to do on 4chan?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 02:04 PM
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Well being shallow is usually discussed in terms of relationships. If someone is shallow it means they don't care if their partner, who they're gonna be in it with for a while, is someone they actually enjoy spending time with, as long as they have good looks. It's not morally bad or a character flaw, it's more of a poor personal choice. Looks communicate your genes, ethnicity, often even class and wealth of parents None of which means anything in the context of a relationship. People want to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:46 AM
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confirms what I've always suspected about the underlying issues that have made terpers romantically unsuccessful I just want to know...so what? If they're on The Red Pill, then they must have something holding them back, and you've found that thing to be lack of social skills. That's a real reason for why a lot of people who struggle in dating struggle. Why is this so profound to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:30 AM
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I mean, it's not a nonconcept. It does have a meaning, which is caring about looks more than personality. The problem i have with "shallowness" is that there is no such thing as far as women are concerened, so I don't see the point talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:08 AM
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Lol, I love how every "harsh" statement is automatically honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:15 PM
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choosing instead to "learn to love his appearance " ( lol by the way). That is how it happens most of the time, though I wouldn't use such cheesy wording. But anyway, you are right. Attraction to a specific man "grows" on women the majority of the time. That's how most romantic relationships start out. It's unrealistic as well as a relatively rare occurrence for women to initially be attracted to the guys they end up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:02 PM
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Jesus, she sounds like a fucking terrible person. This just confirms what I initially thought of the situation that it isn't Paige who won, it's just that Del Rio is actually a low-value man in real life. Remember that just because a guy has muscles and is rich doesn't automatically make him alpha. He is probably just the best she could do given her history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 10:11 PM
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You could achieve the exact same goal and you wouldn't even need to use an extreme number like 150. To filter out the type of guys you're referring to, you could just say you slept with two guys in one week. Where do you even get 150 from lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:24 PM
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You never mentioned being goth in your comment. You just said you dressed slutty, which I like. The trashier, the better. But if you were an actual goth were gothic fasion then forget it lol. you wouldnt have even ever met me You shop at malls, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:11 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:04 PM
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People don't realize how easily women lose attraction to a guy when he starts showing beta behaviours. I can't tell you how many times I started dating a girl I shared mutual attraction with, who lost interest in me sooner or later because I let them become my purpose in life. It's something I'm still trying to fix about myself, but that's what's wrong with being a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:02 PM
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I'm a beta and I would have probably approached you...at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:57 PM
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because that's how you get baggage Not to mention that being with an a abusive partner is a bad experience in it's own right, while it's happening, even before you consider the baggage and all the other things one has to deal with after the ordeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:54 PM
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If anything, I see a woman with a high n-count as an example of weakness, not strength. When I think of a woman who is that easy for us guys to talk into opening her legs, "strong" isn't the first thing that springs to mind. Rather I see her as being damaged, not just as in damaged goods, but also probably having a damaged past, which could be the cause of her problem in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:32 PM
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This. I personally have never really seen the "women not admitting that looks matter to them" in action. So I don't know where it comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:47 PM
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Oh, ok. Thanks for not attacking me. I'm really tired and don't feel like getting into an argument now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 11:11 PM
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Oh boy, here we go. I do believe that but that wasn't the point of my reply to you. Yes, I'm aware that "women don't care about looks" is a controversial opinion. What I don't believe is women being attracted to stability/financial security, or that being nice and being yourself is enough to make you successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:55 PM
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I can never tell if you're being sarcastic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:13 PM
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I honestly don't know why people bother pretending otherwise. Because the people who truly believe it, me for example, aren't pretending. That's the point. They are just saying what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:52 PM
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Disregarding the fact that you should pay attention to what women do, not what they say, as far as the "more than they admit" part goes, I personally have't seen this. Most women on the internet as well as in real life will readily claim that a guy's looks do matter to them quite a bit. Far more women say this than ones who say men's looks don't really matter, which I don't really hear much. Basically I have found the inverse of this study to be true. Most women do go around saying that they car…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:50 PM
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But you'd date him over a fat slob or some skinny IT guy, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:15 PM
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Because the majority of people have average personalities and social skills. And when people don't know you they'll assume you're the average person. An attractive person with average personality is more dateable than someone else who has the same personality but with mediocre looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:34 PM
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Women only value a man's intelligence if he can utilize it in a way that makes him fun to be around. Like if he's sharped-tongued(funny) or talks about interesting stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 10:10 PM
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I don't know who either of those dudes are...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:06 AM
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You need to see a dude walk in with movie star tier looks and get passed over like nothing before you see what people are up against when they 'roll stag' to a club. Well I don't believe women really care what you look like so that argument is kind of lost on me. I would expect the guys with the best game to get laid, not the best-looking. That's kind of the point of why PUA says you should pick up women in clubs. Your example actually makes perfect sense - a guy goes to a club to pick up girls.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:44 PM
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How did this absurdly anecdotal garbage become the most upvoted comment on this thread? This sub has disappointed me. because they are there to hang with their friends, not to meet guys as much as milk them for drinks. I literally cringed at this. Note that I'm not taking an attack at you here. I'm attacking the users who upvoted you. we were busy doing well in our academics and contributing to our communities Congrats on getting straight A's in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:18 PM
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Lol...Red Pill? Hosting and djing at parties? Sorry but I just can't stop laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:14 PM
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Even if it is, that's not the point. She phrased her comment weirdly, like every short guy out there knows that his equal in the smv is a fat girl. I'm a short guy, and I was not aware of that lol. Women date below their physical league all the time. So if anything I imagine most short men go through life never knowing what their true smv equal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:31 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:07 PM
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Lack of kindness can cause a guy to strike out. So it's a minimum requirement. It's still not enough for women to date you. "But a lot of assholes get laid!" You don't know how many times they strike out. Many PUAs go around to 50 women a night and get rejected by 49 of them. If he does this 100 nights a year his n-count is 100 and that makes him sound like a sex god even though he actually gets rejected 98% of the time. You're half-right. Assholes do get laid, but what you aren't seeing is all …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:07 PM
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The situation with those "bitter" incels is much more nuanced than you're making it out to be. Alot of them actually do start out being nice and caring. They become bitter once they realize that they've been lied to and that being nice and caring isn't enough for women to want to date you. So teaching them to develop kindness would just be taking them back to the way the before, which is not necessarily a bad thing, but isn't exactly progress neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 05:35 PM
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What Im saying is that these qualities do make women physically attracted to men, despite his looks. Yes they are They are not. We're talking about things that make you attractive to women, like looks, or the aforementioned charm and charisma. Kindness do not make women attracted to you, it's like you said, it's something they want in a guy they're already attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 05:34 PM
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When I say "date", I don't literally mean just going on dates with him, I mean everything that comes with it, including an active sex life. I think that "I'm tired, honey. Maybe some other time" only happens to those nice, caring guys you talk about, or when a woman settles for a guy she isn't too thrilled about because she doesn't fell like she can get someone better. And yeah, if your best traits are being nice and caring, then you'll probably have a hard time getting sex or even relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:59 PM
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A guy who's technically in shape, but short and balding, shouldn't be surprised that his smv equal is an overweight girl. shouldn't be surprised He doesn't even know that his smv equal is an overweight girl lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 09:03 PM
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He'll find a really attractive woman early on in his life and be taken off the dating market Lol, this was me in high school and I'm not even attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 04:13 PM
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Yeah, I've witnessed pretty much the same things as you have. I think you're both right though. In extreme cases like the ones she's talking about (10 in looks and 0 in personality vs 0 in looks and 10 in personality) then looks matter more when it comes to getting casual. But once you've hit a bare minimum requirement, say at least 3 both in looks and personality...then personality matters more, in relationships obviously, but in casual sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 02:03 PM
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I don't get why the author is citing examples such as JK Rowling, Serena Williams, and Adele. That is not women dating below their league. No matter how wealthy, popular or successful a woman is, men don't care about that when they're choosing who to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:28 PM
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I think it's because deep down these guys feel that women don't really care what you look like that much. Women will date a guy if he has the right personality, as long as he isn't downright repulsive looking. And you don't really need to "try" to not look repulsive. I agree its a bad attitude for guys to have. But if there's no real reason to put effort, dating-wise, into looking good, then they have little incentive to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 02:48 PM
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The author's lack of self-awareness is disturbing. Yes, we started out shallow This is why women should never speak for anyone but themselves. I'm a guy but you will never see me trying to speak for other guys. I don't have a problem with women wanting to date hot guys, but I do take issue when one says "women who aren't me are this way". She seems to be completely clueless on how dating and attraction works despite the fact that someone is apparently paying her to write about it. That aside, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 10:33 PM
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Sorry, I ready the comment of the user you're replying to but I don't understand it. Do you mind paraphrasing what he is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 10:29 PM
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I have found that when it comes to male smv, looks make the biggest difference in cases where all other parts of the equation are equal. So if both the good looking guy and the average guy were beta, the good looking guy has higher smv. Likewise, if both those guys are alpha, it is also the good looking guy who has higher smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 06:35 PM
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Well I mean if you're willing to tank your standards into oblivion then of course the girl will still might still keep liking you and keep trying after a higher quality (in terms of looks) girl would have lost interest already.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 06:28 PM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/nuxnTxBi5T8jK/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 11:37 AM
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Not really. In terms of physical attractiveness, it's women who date down far more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 11:27 AM
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The most intense mod then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:34 PM
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Where might I find these videos? Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:47 PM
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Yeah I agree, but I believe that women actually don't care about looks that much at all when it comes down to it, not just height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:33 PM
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This isn't really a solution, if you end up dating someone on your own level (if you're unattractive). Come on man, guys want hot girls. You know this. Literally any guy can get a girl on his own level. Any guy. Even those so called "neckbeards". Having trouble with women means you can't get women you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:31 PM
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Do women really have so much casual disdain for the unsuccessful men? I think they do. As a guy, I get not so much attention from women, and almost all of it has been by women that I haven't found attractive. These women aren't even low value, as they call it. They aren't particularly unattractive; they are plain janes. And I don't care for their attention at all. I don't find their attention validating. Every time it happens all I can think to myself is "why can't I get this kind of attention f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 09:31 PM
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lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 08:08 PM
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Oh, that's what you meant. Your comment of "...to even come up with a number makes more sense now."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 08:05 PM
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Read my original response to you. It's not that it doesn't make sense. Coming here to say that you don't care doesn't make sense. I already assumed that the people who post on here are the only ones who care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:57 PM
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That's not shitposting though. Shitposts are low-quality, yes, but they usually make sense to some degree, unlike your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:54 PM
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Goes into a liquor store I don't drink Seriously, why post?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:45 PM
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As in...30 a year? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:33 PM
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This was definitely an attempt, but it just comes across as tryhard. Oh well, there's always next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:33 PM
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Yeah I agree with this pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:02 PM
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I'm sure this is true for some guys. But for alot of guys, the issue they have with it is that a woman who has had a lot of sexual partners is seen a dirty and devalued. Obviously, in some cases it's both. I myself like when women have a high n-count, but I also have never really been interested in casual sex, so your example can't apply to me. I think another reason guys find this off-putting is that these women know that having alot of casual sex is gonna hurt their chances of finding a long-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 06:23 PM
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The reason they don't know any men who have an aversion to high-encount women is because those men just have sex with them, they don't stay in their lives long enough to voice their opinions on the matter, and the topic usually doesn't come up in such casual relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:43 PM
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Yes, but I think you're severely limiting your options for no reason if you only date guys who have traits that were beneficial thousands of years ago. It's one thing if you simply can't be attracted to a guy isn't tall or whatever the case may be. But I find that hard to believe, even for one woman. But what do I know. I get why women would prefer tall guys though. I'm short myself and I hate it, because being short doesn't suit my personality. Oh and you're welcome, sweetheart. I bet it isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:02 PM
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It's crazy to me that you seem to be super smart in general, but then you believe bullshit like this It provides the natural advantage of size. In the wild bigger is better. We don't LIVE in the wild. Height serves no purpose in today's world. It hasn't for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:52 PM
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Us women know the difference between a man who's actually confident and a man who's trying to come off as confident. Well first of all, you don't. Not trying to be blunt, but I know from experience that women aren't as good at sensing "fakeness" as they claim to be That said, I'm not talking about "pretending", per se. In both cases the guys's confidence is genuine. The difference is that in one case he is confident because he is actually good at something, in the other, he is confident even tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 05:16 AM
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Confidence is like being accepted to play on the major leagues. You meet the bare minimum threshold, but that doesn't mean you will actually do well or have a long career. I don't think so. You're acting like confidence is something most guys have, which obviously isn't the case. If confidence was the "bare minimum", it's only a small percentage of guys who would ever get laid/relationships. You're also implying that the average woman is pretty enough to attract guys who have confidence and othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 05:11 AM
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Hope you learned something today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:48 PM
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What I'm doing here is simply saying that if I put 2 and 2 together, I'll get 4. It isn't that complicated. What's stopped you from getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:55 PM
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Well, I guess that does make me different to you then, which is what I was asking about more or less. Not saying I'd never get rejected, I most likely would, and alot. But I'd be able to get laid consistently, and with different women, if I wanted. "Swimming in pussy" was obviously a bit of an exaggeration though. My look is a certain way where, I'm unremarkable looking as is, but if I just put some effort into looking, I'd be attractive. And I'm not completely clueless when it comes to dating, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:17 PM
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This has been something that's been on my mind lately. I am guy in my twenties who is an involuntary virgin. And while I am not a virgin by choice, I know exactly what I could do to get sex if I wanted it. I know that if I made a few adjustments to my looks, I could actually be attractive. I know that if I picked up one or two cool hobbies, that would allow me to not only meet women but would make me more interesting to them. If I simply did all these things, I would be, to use crude language, "…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:21 PM
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