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I have to congratulate you - as someone who dates frequently and has good success with cold approach this is the post that has convinced me to unsubscribe from this subreddit. You are negative and have self limiting beliefs. Those kill game. Seeing posts by dudes like you is bad for my game, I need to remain confident and self assured and guys like you who have such negative outlooks can only become cancerous to my success. Do not associate or engage with negative people or unsuccessful people, …
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:47 PM
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You have some weird and icky mindsets. Are possibly autistic. No one wants to hear your sob story - especially yourself, you’re trapping yourself in a downward spiral. Stop dreading all your missed opportunities. It’s too late to change that stuff. I don’t tell you that to shame you, but to try to help you. You’re clearly quite sheltered and anti-social. Try to fix that now while you’re young, it becomes exponentially harder as you age. Stop thinking so hard and so deep into everything. You can …
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:55 PM
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I wear nice form fitting shorts (if you know what I mean) and a nice shirt I think I look good in when I go out, even to the store. When I go to the beach, I wear a speedo. For a hike or jog, short semi see through shorts. The attention is nice, but it also just makes me feel more confident and comfortable in my body. What’s stopping you from doing the same? I used to judge but once I tried dressing this way for myself I see the appeal and then some.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:45 PM
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Wait you guys didn’t know that asking girls to come smoke is a easy way to get laid? In all seriousness it’s not a great play for every girl and some girls will take offense to the idea but being a smoker and asking if they have weed in pics or are smoking in pics is a solid way to score.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:36 PM
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Stop putting people in little boxes in your head it will change your outlook on life in huge ways. Try to think of women as those you are willing to fuck and have some kind of relationship with, and those you aren’t attracted to. Any other mindset is not only extremely vain but will toxify other aspects of your life and perspective without you realizing it.
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:02 AM
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I meant that in sexual relationships women have the choice of mates and men typically don’t carry the same negotiating power that women do. This is why women are so insanely successful on dating apps and men struggle to get matches at all. You are already going to have access to more attractive partners by virtue of your gender, and the risks associated with sex for women. Being potentially impregnated means you have to be more careful with your selections than a man, you’re naturally more disce…
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:07 PM
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I mean to be completely totally unabashedly honest with you - it’s very easy for women to play outside their league. The fact that you are saying you’re trying but it’s not working maybe means that you have maxed out your home field advantage, catch my drift? However I also hate thinking this way. When you go around judging everything based on a 1-10 scale or what have you you’re building toxic belief systems. I don’t think about it as more or less attractive when I evaluate potential partners, …
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:03 PM
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Check them out, if you’re so inclined, and if they are into you they might do the same and then you have a possible green light to approach. If they don’t like it, then you know to leave them alone. Win win. Also I find a lot of people don’t make eye contact, usually looking at their phones.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:11 AM
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I don’t think it matters at all if OP is telling the truth. That’s not something that should matter to you either. If hearing about someone having sex with dozens of women is that upsetting to you, I have to assume it’s because of your own lackluster experiences. There are people out there will sex addiction. That means they are constantly seeking out sex and having it with as many people as humanly possible. It doesn’t necessarily mean they are having rich experiences or that it’s always a good…
/r/seduction19/04/22 11:34 PM
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This is a really toxic mindset OP and you wanna try to break out of that. Putting so much pressure on appearances and what’s above or below average, that is a mindset that will only cause you suffering. All that matters is if YOU find the person attractive and don’t let society or your bad beliefs limit your ability to be seen in public with a person you are otherwise interested in. If you aren’t interested in anything beyond a hookup with this person, you can also just be clear about that I hav…
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:15 PM
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OP, just freaking dance with them. Go out to a club ASAP and next time it happens just dance with them and don’t be afraid to get a little handsy or escalate things, let her feel that she is turning you on etc Obviously you have to take it slow but and start small but that’s always how it works for me. Good luck Man, you already have the hard part down if that’s any consolation.
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:14 PM
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Different strokes for different folks man, You’re growing and changing and so your taste in women is too.
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:40 PM
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I think the pizza box line is a little weird because when would you be in a pizza shop long enough to take your coat off? Anyway, comments on the weather or an article of clothing are about as neutral as you can get but I try to go with something just a little more engaging and situational sometimes, so for instance if we are at the beach I could ask if they know how to swim and wanna take a dip or can be my lifeguard because I never learned or something ridiculous like that. I am at the beach a…
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:51 PM
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There is no time limit on life, except death. Harrison Ford was a carpenter at your age didn’t even think about being in the movies yet, went on to be one of the biggest stars ever and it’s a lot harder to become famous than it is to make some friends or go clubbing or have sexual experiences. That’s a common example but there are many. What you gotta ask is if you’re willing to give up yet. I know i’m not, but there are already other people posting here who have given up for the time being. You…
/r/seduction01/02/22 09:56 AM
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I dont think if your hobbies are gaming and stuff you do by yourself that means you should just stop doing those things to meet more women. Being social is important for a lot of reasons and will surely help you meet new women but I prefer to spend my time doing hobbies with people I don’t have romantic interest in because I’m usually there for the hobby and think it’s worthwhile or the people are equally worthwhile. A better piece of advice still really would be do social things in places where…
/r/seduction11/01/22 07:30 AM
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Chill TF out dude consent is cool now.
/r/seduction08/01/22 06:43 PM
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She may be scared of intimacy, recently dated a girl like this. You will have to start slow if that is the case, a lot of open communication helped me in that situation and we did eventually get to a place where we were sexually intimate but I understood it wasn’t something I could rush into and had to take it slow. That’s a bit of a commitment and up to you to pursue or not.
/r/seduction08/01/22 06:42 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:14 AM
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Im sorry man I’ve wasted a lot of time on girls like her and the sad fact is it’s too late for this dynamic to be changed and despite any sexually charged energy, she is hesitant and so it’s just not gonna work out. You should have: A) pulled the trigger sooner B) built more attraction at the outset C) not wasted so much time and money on someone not sexually gratifying to you I don’t want to have a relationship or date a woman who doesn’t want sex. Some men accept that or don’t even mind. Not m…
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:33 PM
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Why didn’t you try starting something up with another girl? That’s what I would have done. Clearly you did make a mistake by giving the space needed for another dude to start doing what you were just doing with her, and if you hadn’t maybe you’d have gotten further with her. That’s not what happened though. Learning opportunity. When you meet a girl who wants fun keep the fun going or she will find someone else to.
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:42 PM
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Clever idea to ask what she saw in him but he needs to see that in himself, she could help with that but since he’s seeking outside validation for it I would argue that’s less effective than just finding a way to loving himself on his own. Therapy is gonna be essential here. Honest communication with a therapist could address these issues but I feel like a lot of people even when they see a therapist avoid talking about their issues and make more generic im anxious or im depressed statements whe…
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:20 PM
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A single kiss really isn’t much, Id argue he’s still closer to a kissless virgin than someone who has gotten any play whatsoever. Not to be a dick or anything that’s just not a very shiny silver lining.
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:17 PM
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Negative self talk is something nobody else is mentioning but honestly how can anyone be successful when they call themself a loser? Im your same age but can no longer count how many women I’ve been with and that would never have been possible if I walked around calling myself a loser. If I sat around calling myself a loser, I would probably be one. In statistics it’s found that success is of course a matter of luck like all things in life, opportunity meets preparation, but there is another fac…
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:10 PM
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They assume you can hack the matrix for them then.
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:57 PM
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As someone who smashed a girl named bambi I was fawning over that pussy and it gave me a real thumper good luck G.
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:33 PM
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Well let me say as someone who has struggled and been where you are at, stuck getting no play for years, I am doing a lot better now and I am not certain I did anything different than you. Maybe I got gud and you haven’t yet, idk. I can’t tell you exactly what it is that’s holding you back, but I don’t think it will be like this forever, if you keep at it I think you will find success. I’m sorry you’re hurting and I know you deserve intimacy and love all of do and you’ll find more people who wan…
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:14 PM
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Op dont take this the wrong way (you will) but I think you’re just being too try hard. Remove the pressure. Have fun interactions where you have ZERO intent to attract or take things further. I don’t know why, but sometimes when you act disinterested it helps them be more interested. Lower your standards. Maybe you aren’t as attractive as you think or the type of women you like tend to dislike you. Idk, just throwing out some options here I seriously doubt you’re that butt ugly nobody is. Have y…
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:50 PM
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King shit
/r/seduction15/08/21 01:06 AM
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I really would reconsider not having friends as someone who also has no friends I know for a fact it is bad for my mental health. Everyone is different of course maybe you can cope better but we evolved for millions of years to be social creatures and I think for our species in particular friendship is invaluable to your quality of life. Personally, I need to see a therapist about it because my avoidance issues with friendship have gotten pretty out of control and I’m (26) just starting to accep…
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:59 AM
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I would have to agree, my girlfriend has a lot of trouble approaching women, even if you’re an awkward guy you’ve been conditioned to approach - its hard breaking in for women because you’re conditioned to just be approached and learn a totally different skillset for dating.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:18 AM
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It’s just good manners. You want to both enjoy the sex and I honestly lose interest in sex after I cum sometimes so making her cum first is a win win.
/r/seduction29/07/21 09:56 PM
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You should always try to escalate with kindness to rude people. Since I’ve adopted this strategy I learned alot of people just have resting bitch face. Most people that give off antisocial pressure tend to fold to you being genuinely nice pretty easily. Disclaimer: some of them are in fact just assholes and you may have got the vibe right OP.
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:12 AM
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Funny because that’s actually a line women have used on me before! Lmfao 😂 Edit: I am an english major tho, so maybe that’s why it worked?
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:06 PM
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I don’t interpret it as an affront to my advice at all. I don’t know everything thing about talking to women or every methodology. I honestly believe that there is no other way to frame it. If you want to see major success a kind of metamorphosis must take place. You must turn into a man who is successful with women, and kill the man that isn’t. You won’t be the same person once you’re successful because that’s not who you are now. I think no matter what, everyone who is healthy anyway, grows an…
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:27 PM
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Definitely have to be careful and considerate of the age of the person you’re talking to, you don’t wanna be a creep. Usually at the beach I’ll strike up a conversation, and try to surmise their age right away if I’m unsure. Asking about their job or college at some point early on can help, but I rarely if ever have made that mistake and talked to a teenager, you just stick to the girls who look 20+ Never really liked mall pick up, unless it’s outdoors. Outdoorsy places are best for me. Events t…
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:00 PM
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Asking where she studies is a bit of a downer. To spice it up be like “you’re an english major aren’t you? You give me deep thinker vibes” Something that’s an assumption and less bland than just straight up asking, she can then elaborate and you have something to talk about. Honestly though I avoid those kinds of questions. I prefer talking about hobbies, interests, good movies or shows I recently or they recently watched, where they are from or live in the city. That helps with logistics and ca…
/r/seduction09/07/21 07:10 PM
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So you’re totally right in your assessment of typical relationships. I would say the typical isn’t everything though, perhaps the majority but I don’t even know if that’s true. Yes, social and attractive men tend to get more play. That’s correct. You can get play without being either of those things though and I see plenty of ugly awkward dudes who still manage to get dates. I would give you the advice that would have best suited me and my aims. Years ago, I wanted to be a PUA. I wanted desperat…
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:11 AM
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Well then I consider myself lucky for my limitations.
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:34 AM
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I have a fiancé whom I have a child with and plan to be with for my entire life, two less casual relationships with other women, one less casual woman me and my fiancé see together, and also see women casually, with my fiancé sometimes. You have serious self limiting beliefs, so probably will not be able to wrap your head around that.
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:27 AM
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Im a male pickup artist you idiot, you can learn a thing or two from those women even if they aren’t always right they have a LOT of valid critiques and would call it mandatory reading for any PUA. It’s not trashy to be sexually active and have sexual experiences with consenting adults. Grow up.
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:15 AM
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Wow so you’re just a total psychopath good to know.
/r/seduction29/06/21 11:49 PM
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There are plenty of women who just wanna have casual sex, what’s wrong with that, man or woman? Not a great pickup line lmfao and I would NEVER talk shop - mention game - to a woman, because that’s a big no no and women would think you’re crazy or pathetic even it if helps you and is neither of those things.
/r/seduction29/06/21 11:18 PM
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This is where the vast majority of us started. It’s probably not even true though. I’m sure you wanna have casual sex, but you probably also want the companionship of a long term relationship too, most people do want to find someone to build something with even if it’s not priority one. Besides, nothing wrong with wanting sex, most people do.
/r/seduction29/06/21 11:15 PM
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Classic self limiting beliefs being projected onto others. YOU are in a happy committed relationship and that’s great but has nothing to do with other people’s desires or goals and your happiness in a monogamous long term relationship is no superior to OPs casual dating. Reeks of insecurity about your own ability to get dates casually. 2hrs a date isn’t bad for a first meeting or even second date, people have busy lives and yeah more time is better but that doesn’t mean you can’t have a good dat…
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:37 PM
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Honestly sounds too exhausting. At the same time though, instead of spreading these 5 dates across an entire weekend or week you were able to accomplish a lot of filtering in a short period of time. Something to consider trying, definitely.
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:13 PM
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Interesring. Not quite pronounced like Ian, theirs is pronounced a-on or e-on.
/r/seduction29/06/21 06:19 AM
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Im always trying to tell people negativity kills game, and it really does. Then you have the misogynists who will tell you every girl has a million options and if she isn’t absolutely gushing over you don’t waste your time, or simply complain constantly about their inability to try and hang ups with their own lack of success. Idk how you fix that though, and honestly not sure telling dudes like that I hate you is gonna help since they’re just gonna feel attacked and entrench themselves deeper in…
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:16 PM
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Id call myself an outsider. I don’t have any friends - like literally not one unfortunately, I tend to befriend the women I’m seeing to kind of fill that gap - and I tend to not fit in to groups. I’m not well educated or have a high income, I’m pretty poor lmao. I am a little younger, I’m 27. I think seeing yourself as an outsider as accurate as it may be, is too alienating. Everyone struggles in some way or another some more than others. You’re still here though, still fighting, and I’d say eve…
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:01 AM
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Idk, why are you looking for a girlfriend this summer of all summers? This summer is for no strings bro! Live it up, there will only be one post pandemic summer.... well, we hope so anyway.
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:51 AM
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This is legitimately horrible advice. I’ve been rejected by countless women I don’t think are even close to as cute as me but who I’d date anyway; I mean objectively just not as attractive as me. Conversely I’ve talked to women I thought would immediately reject me or had no interest because they to me seem to be more attractive and they think I’m great for some reason. The lesson for me was DO NOT partition people into a hierarchy in your mind. You will waste time approaching or talking to peop…
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:07 PM
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If you want something bad enough you get it or you fail trying. Not saying you can have whatever you want or will get it, but if you really want something, which can be teeth or to have fulfilling relationships with women - you will get it or you will fail trying. That’s life.
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:59 PM
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Dating apps are a good option, I’ve had a lot of fun with approaching and had sex with women that way but dating apps are far easier to get sex with, doesn’t matter how attractive you are. I’m not saying dont cold approach, I just went out over the weekend and did a ton of it and had an awesome time got a bunch of numbers and made a couple friends/potential partners doing it, but during that same day I got 2 matches on dating apps who I’m already arranging meetups with and are honestly much more…
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:48 PM
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Take her to: her place, a park, her car, your car, the bathroom - there’s still options. Not everyone is into that but it’s something to try if you wanna close. As for passive VS active approach I think it’s good to not fuck with people and respect everyone’s boundaries so I get that. I personally am more ... confrontational? I like to be the one to initiate but knowing when you have to leave peoples alone is so important!
/r/seduction19/06/21 10:07 PM
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It’s hard to get good at approaching and a lot of people will just flat out curb you. The fact you got a number was a success! Next time try to build more when you talk in person, like since you talked about where you live and work you could have suggested a nearby venue to check out together sometime. Or Done a bit of light kino escalation like a shoulder or elbow touch or more if things went really well. Or You could have added her on social media instead so you have social proof or if you don…
/r/seduction19/06/21 10:04 PM
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Everybody has choices - if society no longer thinks 20 year old people are old enough to decide to have sex with someone then they shouldn’t be allowed to go to war to die for their country either or have self determination in general. There are PLENTY of older women who do the same thing and society tends not to give a shit or give those ladies nearly as much shit so I think this is a case of bias against older men. Understandably, older men have a reputation of abuses of power and manipulation…
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:00 PM
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If you were interested in her romantically you most likely messed up on the date by not escalating enough, that’s typically why a girl says that after one date, you didn’t take it to a sexual place so she feels platonic about you.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:19 AM
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Hmm, maybe just be more upfront with guys that approach you? Tell a guy you don’t fuck on the first date before he agrees to meet you, that should scare off the ones just looking for sex. Have you tried hinge? It’s a dating app designed to find a long term partner mostly. Other sites like okcupid are also more geared towards long term. When it comes to meeting people irl for long term start with friends and family members they can introduce you to potential matches and aren’t gonna point you in …
/r/seduction24/04/21 09:11 PM
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Guys catch feelings too, sometimes we are the ones who get attached. Otherwise couldn’t agree more with ya.
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:45 PM
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Gotta do what feels right, you made the right call her being so drunk was kinda sketchy for you, could end up as a messed up situation. If you were into her you could always try again with clear heads.
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:43 PM
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This reads like something Neil Strauss would write
/r/seduction17/04/21 05:32 AM
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I’m settled down with someone who let’s me have sex with other women and the opposite is true, I love her so much and am so attracted to her and happy with how things are with her it’s hard to find energy/time to fool around.
/r/seduction16/04/21 04:07 AM
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Being bold is a major part of seeing success though because even saying hello to a girl is bold to some guys and the more fun you have when you meet her, the more confident and relaxed you are, the more likely you will get a response when you text her or even get a real number in the first place lol It’s not good advice because a woman is giving it, it’s just good advice. Agree though that is very rare for this kind of post. A vast majority of women coming on here aren’t saying just be more bold…
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:58 PM
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Keep your options open, WIDE OPEN. I suggest building a strong instagram for social media game, using all the apps, hinge, pof, bumble, tinder even okcupid, feeld if you a freak lol AND approaching, approaching everyone you think is attractive learning to do it with good calibration. AND social circle game, have strong hobbies you are into preferably active ones involving exercise for your health, but anything you can network through. Befriend women! Having female friends is a huge key they will…
/r/seduction12/04/21 07:02 PM
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Cobra kai fucks
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:06 PM
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Good work man. You have a severe anxiety disorder most likely, so I think you’re doing really good pushing yourself. I hope you have done more of this since this post! If your around LA and need a wingman PM me bro.
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:40 AM
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Bruh I live with my parent but how you gonna be such a brokeass you get mad at having to pay a 100 dollar bill for a woman who not only made out with you but was willing to spend all her time with you three days in a row? I think you should have escalated quicker, I personally am very touchy feely so I am always always trying to kino escalate. Moving up the touch comfort. From rubbbing shoulders to my arm around her to on her thigh, always be escalating your touch. Once you break down those barr…
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:26 AM
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That makes a LOT of sense. This subreddit isn’t really about finding a long term partner and is more about playing the field and geared towards people who have trouble with that specific kind of dating. To be honest though, long term dating wise it’s still weird to be frank. A lot of people want a serious long term relationship with someone in their own city, for one. Hard to build intimacy and get to know someone when they are restrictively far away. I would consider dating someone who lives in…
/r/seduction18/11/20 02:56 AM
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I don’t know man, it sounds pretty slow from what I’ve experienced. Most guys and girls I’ve spoken to have been a lot quicker and long distance is kinda rare for “pretty girls”. How did you meet these guys?
/r/seduction18/11/20 02:48 AM
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Different strokes for different folks. Like I said, your approach is totally valid if you like to take it slow. If you are very conservative or uncomfortable or shy around women and want to ride the brakes, I’m sure your method works.
/r/seduction18/11/20 02:39 AM
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You may not have noticed lmao, ok. I understand that you felt that way in whatever specific situation you are referring to, despite the fact that the guy is still getting play by you anyway and seems to be keeping up with mr. slow bones, but I am speaking about the fact that in general the burden is on the man to make a move. You said yourself in the OP that as a girl you’re on the receiving end and it’s more difficult to pursue. Your lack of success pursuing women is kind of a tell if you ask m…
/r/seduction18/11/20 02:34 AM
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Ok, this is kinda bad advice. I would say what you describe is not pushing at all. In every situation I have become intimate with a girl I was the first one to initiate touch (Kino). I didn't start touching her pussy like I'm Donald Trump or something but I initiated touch, and then let her show she was into that or not into that. It's ok to be the first to touch, or first to move closer, but if you are and she doesn't reciprocate or pulls back you know to slow your roll, and always ALWAYS keep …
/r/seduction17/11/20 11:21 PM
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I think that a lot of dudes on here are not gonna get this because it sounds a bit like a logistical nightmare. Most guys on here are trying to have casual dating experiences and what you are describing sounds a lot more serious than that, yet at the same time not so much? I also find it a little weird that you're in a long-distance relationship with the one dude but don't wanna share a room when taking the time to go to another city to meet up. I just think that most people who are willing to g…
/r/seduction17/11/20 11:15 PM
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Das true lots of people do that nowadays.
/r/seduction13/11/20 08:26 AM
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I mean it’s up to you isn’t it? Some will find it reprehensible, some will want to go for it regardless. To me, as long as you don’t know the person I don’t think it should be your prerogative. If your girlfriend cheats on you that’s completely on her, not the person she slept around on you with. I would only feel betrayed by the dude if I somehow knew him. Then it’s on both of them because you shouldn’t fucking do that to people you give a shit about.
/r/seduction13/11/20 08:26 AM
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good on you for admitting your mistake, and living at home is, unfortunately, more common for our generation.
/r/seduction29/08/20 05:35 AM
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OP you know you’re autistic if this is a true story right?
/r/seduction12/08/20 03:29 AM
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If this subreddit really cares about men's rights that means black and minority rights matter too. It's proven in many studies I can link you that black and brown people are discriminated against in hiring. https://www.fastcompany.com/90514809/to-close-corporate-americas-inequality-gap-we-need-to-end-discrimination-against-black-job-applicants That's why it's important that room is made for minorities and women in positions that are typically only given to straight white men. Workplace discrimin…
/r/MensRights30/06/20 08:51 AM
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If this subreddit and you really care about men's rights that means black and minority rights matter too. it's proven in many studies I can link you that black and brown people are discriminated against in hiring. That's why it's important that room is made for them in positions that are typically only given to straight white men. This is real. This is a men's right's issue for minority men and if you're a decent man you should care.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 08:48 AM
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We make the children, and they have the audacity to think if they cross us they will be on their side? Think again scrotes! You leave me, say goodbye to your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:43 AM
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I see that actually pretty often. I live in LA and there are definitely many situations where that’s because well duh, money, but also there are times I see fat dudes with girls and they aren’t always as big as them. Often I see fat dudes married to women who are thinner. It’s possible. Don’t limit yourself. In my experience as a overweight guy often times its the thinner women who react more positive to me, thicker girls which I actually prefer seem to be more concerned with my physique. Just m…
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:35 PM
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See, you're toxic.
/r/seduction14/03/20 08:45 AM
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You're just a very negative person I don't want to give my energy to. I only comment here to help dudes make progress with their dating lives; actually women too, albeit quite rarely. That's explicitly and only what this subreddit is for. You are not helpful, just hurtful. Your assumptions about me are also incorrect. I have never tried to get into a girls pants through social media so, no, not that guy. I don't shame his game tho.
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:53 AM
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I find your appraisal of this admittedly desperate dude to be judgy and toxic. Everyone has the right to be happy, and to try to find happiness. Even if they suck at it.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:19 AM
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This could happen to you. So fucking what though? You want to meet someone you need to make the approach somehow. If you really aren't being predatory, meaning stalking behavior or sexually harassing women, then you are within your rights. Men, do not forget you have the RIGHT to pursue happiness. It is a fundamental human right.
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:13 AM
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hahaha. But seriously, not worth it.
/r/seduction12/03/20 04:23 PM
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SMC? if so let's be wings when the apocalypse is over lmao
/r/seduction12/03/20 04:05 PM
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Most people watch about that much netflix every day, or spend that much time on social media. Its an hour a day every week, I mean, IS it that big of a waste? Not to mention it’s got the benefits of socializing in general and being someone who goes out a lot. Combine this with a healthy amount of social hobbies, wingmen, and nightclub game, going to the gym, you could be living a very abundant life. It all depends on what any given individual wants for their life.
/r/seduction28/02/20 07:57 PM
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That’s because I’m not one you idiot lol In fact it’s a reportable offense on this sub to even call people names like that, but I mean of course you have no respect for civil discourse you’re entitled and bitter. I have sex, am in a happy relationship, am a father, and date around. Ive offended dozens of women by simply hitting on them, am not ashamed and will continue to do so. No matter how many women like yourself dislike the mating game when it doesn’t benefit you. Everyone’s looking out for…
/r/seduction28/02/20 07:17 PM
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Both dudes called you beautiful though Lmao. This is why it’s best not to take advice from women necessarily, depending on how a guy comes off in the moment it doesn’t matter what he does, it’s more important he makes her feel right. You won’t make every woman feel right, and that’s ok. Neither man she described did anything wrong either or became belligerent, and I would say, that’s called being a gentleman. I downvoted too you can call me an incel if you want now. Maybe your ego needs the boos…
/r/seduction28/02/20 06:16 AM
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Cosmic convergence, now that’s a much better way to put ‘cold approach’
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:43 PM
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are you ejecting too often? are you getting a lot of "no" girls? are you establishing eye contact before your approach? are you using a disqualifier or false time constraint to make it less weird when you approach? are you improving on your approaches, fixing things you analyzed and know you can do better? are you ejecting yourself too soon? Are you trying to close every set? Trying to make solid leads every set by building comfort + attraction?
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:46 PM
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when you improve enough and get comfortable, it will be easy to not have to change your schedule around approaching. You will find plenty of opportunities in your day to day routine, even if it's as simple as seeing someone at the grocery store. take advantage of any opportunity for socialization and good luck with your goal!
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:40 PM
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OP's balls of steel probably helped a lot here too.
/r/seduction21/02/20 11:58 PM
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Learn to move on, that’s the most important part of dating for a man, accepting rejection and lack of interest. Respectfully most of all, don’t get nasty when it’s clear a woman doesn’t like you. You will hurt all men by doing that, make talking to women harder for everyone because the assumptions made about men based on that kind of behavior that men exhibit every day.
/r/seduction11/02/20 12:16 AM
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Dude I literally said be willing to accept rejection MORE OFTEN as a man. Meaning, when a woman makes it clear she wants you to leave her alone, leave her alone. How is anything I said braggadocious in the slightest? Being willing to talk to as many people as possible and extend a social olive branch? I am in a happy relationship, date, and make friends all the time. That’s because I talk to everyone, am open and honest about who I am and my intentions and I listen and learn about everyone I tal…
/r/seduction11/02/20 12:02 AM
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Nah. that’s the kind of bullshit that keeps men trapped in little boxes. The kind of attitude that makes men more depressed on average and more likely to commit suicide. The kind of attitude shoved down all mens throats, to the point most men wont talk to women at all. Most men do have to try harder than women, so women have to deal with rejecting more men. That’s simply life my dude. Men annoy women, women annoy men, nobody is hurt by it though, unless you’re a freak that gets mad at being reje…
/r/seduction10/02/20 11:40 PM
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That’s nice but guys have to be more aggressive and try harder in dating. So even if we know it’s a super slim chance, we have to take the rejection on the off chance that it’s not gonna turn out that way. We don’t usually have endless matches on tinder to fall back on or women approaching us regularly. The best advice I’d give OP is sure approach the librarian again but more importantly, keep approaching more than one woman and don’t fixate on random women you don’t know, like this library chic…
/r/seduction10/02/20 11:21 PM
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You were friendzoned hard and didn't know it. Why would a girl who is romantically interested in you have you hang out with her friends and her before dating / fucking you? This girl was probably just being nice and thought you only wanted to be friends. Most likely, because you are afraid of intimacy and didn't touch her or flirt with her or make your interest in her romantically clear at all. Learn how to Kino escalate, how to make flirty comments and tease, how to be DIRECT. You don't know ho…
/r/seduction25/01/20 10:06 PM
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We are awaiting the sauce dark arts, don't let us down mang
/r/seduction11/01/20 04:14 AM
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If she was too drunk she was too drunk. You did the right thing, and If she really likes you she'll still like you sober. What's better, "tricking" someone into liking you, or being sure it's their choice?
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:30 PM
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Confidence is part of the struggle, and so is becoming the best version of you. Despite being Confident, you can still be aware of parts of yourself you want to improve.
/r/seduction12/10/19 03:52 AM
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Maybe you look kind of gay? no offense op lol, I just don't understand you would think if dudes wanna smash women would too. Maybe they are defensive because they don't want you stealing the cute dudes or women feel defensive around gay guys? Idk that doesn't even sound right man. Weird.
/r/seduction12/10/19 03:50 AM
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LMR coaching will never tell you to force a girl into anything. They tell you to cool off, take a step back, relax, and then when things continue to get hot and heavy to proceed. If she says no again, you don't keep going! nobody would say that! Nobody is gonna say just keep going until she stops resisting. That's NOT advice I've ever seen given. The advice is to try to make her comfortable enough to move forward, and it often times works . That's not rape. Rape is keeping going when they say no…
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:21 PM
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Nothing wrong with baby steps. Sometimes, I go up to a girl, stand close, and am JUST about to say something but can't: and that's ok. Maybe creepy but whatever lol. I usually stop having that problem when I approach more and go out days in a row. It's all about exposure to the thing making you scared, which is women you find attractive. Tragic I know.
/r/seduction29/06/19 04:04 AM
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bro that last part though wtf. is that a blue carrot? what is that. I could never give up computer games personally I love that shit.
/r/seduction10/06/19 12:17 AM
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great starting point for a Hard case. Watch RSD tyler stuff and google Hard case stuff PUA on youtube etc bro, that's what you need the advice for people who literally have no game whatsoever. I usually go to the beach, it's a chill environment and if you have a busy local one it's great. Or even a mall on weekends when it's packed depending on where you live. Gotta know what the fun stuff to do in your area is then just start making conversation. Do not DO NOT go out with any kind of objective …
/r/seduction10/06/19 12:16 AM
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President Kamacho, played by Terry Crews. Hilarious movie, the fact that our future does in fact look that dim, less funny.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:56 PM
1

Game is actually a filter preventing most men from entering the dating pool. Most men will never game, and certainly never game well enough to make a habit of sleeping with women on a regular basis. This means that those men who are more attractive, or are willing to game, or have some other kind of qualifying value; fame etc will be those who fuck, while the rest die alone in misery. Savage world but personally I don't see what's not to love about it.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:53 PM
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any tips for someone into this? lol
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:47 PM
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Ay bro fuck these fools, everyone has a right to be here and anyone who wants to can be even women post here occasionally. Good on you for being more assertive dude, I mean maybe it wasn't the nicest thing to say but it slipped out she liked it nobody got hurt. As an aside OP I also live in LA and am shy and need a wing so hit me up if you want to do some pickup sometime.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:41 PM
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This is dope as I have a dad bod and live in LA and love fat asses lol but no really i am trying to lose weight I understand the importance of health.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:37 PM
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As you learn game, work on your inner game. That means, your own well being. Get hobbies. Get friends. Get a job if you don't have one. Have all of those? go to the gym, put money and effort into every aspect of your appearance, be the best version of you. There is probably a more attractive version of you that you can attain, stop worrying about how attractive other people are.
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:17 PM
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That's actually not necessarily true. There is good scientific support that positive thinking can improve your life, here's a article from the Harvard Gazette talking about it: https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2016/12/optistic-women-live-longer-are-healthier/
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:36 PM
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As others have said, you were triggering a release of dopamine in your head, like if you smoke a joint or play a video game you really enjoy. ​ I'm not gonna tell you fapping is wrong or bad, I think you just need to actually focus and put in effort on the things you wish to accomplish. Want to make friends? great. want to get into therapy? awesome. You have to consider what you are willing to risk to get those things. If you are in a small town, you will most likely have to move. That's just a …
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:34 PM
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Tell the bros. They are your frat bros, they can help you. Tell them you are tryna get laid lol you’re young dudes I’m sure many will feel the same way
/r/seduction28/02/19 09:27 PM
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Look at RSDTyler bro or other dudes like him who are fat and ginger and balding I think this is a self limiting belief. You have to have the balls to open the cold ones or you’re gonna stay luke warm forever. Our favorite girlfriend our left hand is luke warm, makes you feel comfortable, you really want warm over cold?
/r/seduction28/02/19 09:06 PM
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Next time try bouncing to another venue with her and her friend or just her, that could be a date. Usually food.
/r/seduction28/02/19 09:02 PM
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Ate and ran * Like he would have them go out to a fancy restaurant eat his meal and then skip out on the women leaving them with the bill
/r/seduction26/02/19 01:33 AM
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Maybe doctors don’t have time for the BS and you’re her type. Lucky sob.
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:23 AM
2

Keep improving it is like the gym you are building those muscles.
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:11 AM
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That’s because you’re a man. Just use that energy on productive things that will bring your goals closer to you.
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:10 AM
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Haha damn dude this some evil genius shit right here like that dude that ate and ran on all those women in LA I love this.
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:08 AM
1

Good luck brother yeah I think that line of priority is correct, you DO need comfort, so after comfort maybe try to get the arousal started during the first encounter that way when you text there is already precedent for something to happen, either way man good shit!
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:02 PM
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First congratulations man you are overcoming like the first hurdle after you start approaching which are flakes. Flakes happen when you don’t discuss real concrete plans often or soon enough. So to overcome this you need to talk more logistics where do you live around what part of the city with who etc find out what places that are fun for dates are around you or the girl and you could be like oh isn’t that by the natural history museum I haven been there since I was a kid and I always wanted to…
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:51 PM
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Hey anyone in the LA area looking for a wingman send me a PM if you want guys I’m 24 Hispanic dude who has been reading game for around 6 years and practicing it on and off. Not a lot of success for me thus far, but I am starting to approach more in the day in the Santa Monica area, I could go wherever though, GOOD LUCK MY PUA ANGELINOS.
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:42 PM
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Personally 15 a week sounds low. When I have gamed and gotten numbers and seen success I was going out more than that. I like to do 10-20 a day, if possible if not more. I have had major success and noticed my mental health is far better when I game a lot. You should make it a priority like you say maybe you have to try starting night game though man, it’s a scary step but I think you have the determination.
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:39 PM
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Take the chance or die without having tried. That’s what you have to remember. Maybe you are gross and most people don’t want anything to do with you: maybe you can succeed anyway though if you just tried really hard and failed a ton and embarrassed yourself a ton and get ridiculed and made fun of. What if that’s what it takes to get good at this ?
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:32 PM
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But here’s the facts even if you are brother that’s not illegal A you aren’t doing anything wrong. B there are women who won’t feel that way C NOT TALKING to them makes your chances infinitely less that they will be found and D THIS ONE IS IMPORTANT * they Don’t care what you think of feel and clearly Don’t make you comfortable so your priority shouldn’t be their sensibilities. Seek happiness man.
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:28 PM
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You have to calibrate yeah. I have had situations where girls escalate on me or just tell me to escalate but there are others who like you said are shy and you have to make the moves. I think a lot of women expect you to too because I mean you have all the burden of attraction after all my bro. Some women will be “skeeved” out but I honestly feel like a lot of those women have issues and I tend to move on. Some women are just not comfortable with it and will be cool but some women get really fre…
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:06 PM
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22 is like still a kid bro. I’m 24 and I am barely like gonna be 25 and people still tell me that’s not shit. Most dudes on here are around our age though and they do look at it as a excuse. There are 50 year olds on here who bust ass and have success with game, you can never let anything in your life be an excuse age least of which, there will always be women as old as you lol
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:00 PM
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I think you just have to value yourself and see yourself as attractive. I got a belly on me now but I think I’m hot still. And that shit matters. I used to not approach girls who look like models and shit because I had a limiting belief but now that I do they are sometimes sweeter than shyer less attractive women. Just have to let yourself be happy.
/r/seduction17/10/18 10:45 PM
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Damn dude that sucks. If you can afford to keep it going I would for at least a year, sometimes it takes a while for things to work and I know I have gotten a lot better since starting to address my mental health.
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:52 PM
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This is something everyone on this sub should do. Shit, everyone in general as far as I’m concerned can do better to take care of their mental health. That being said, there is nothing wrong with trying to talk to and meet women while you clean up your mind. For me at least as someone without all the best resources at my disposal it is a arduous process and I am still trying to go see a therapist regularly.
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:45 PM
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I think you have made changes in your life to the point where u are getting positive results and you are of course gonna question is it ok for me to be this successful? Only you can make that decision.
/r/seduction12/10/18 05:50 PM
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I agree dude. It’s crazy hard. And as someone who had a fucked up childhood and is at the moment a bit overweight, it feels impossible most of the time. Depression makes having friends hard so meeting girls is not easy. That’s genetic selection at work. We are anxious and unsure and indecisive by nature. Not confident by nature. So nature has begun to weed us out. It’s a miracle we are human, because we are the only species that has any chance of fighting against that tide. Keep up the good figh…
/r/seduction12/10/18 05:46 PM
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Yeah should have tried asking about logistics: u guys stay on campus ? That’s how u know if u can go back to her place or yours. Personally I have my girlfriend at home so I always check logistics lol. Second, this one was like a no brainer, you should have tried to bounce with them somewhere cool (which can be the taco truck down the street) or back to their place. This would have been your opportunity to build attraction and get that f close. Live and you learn.
/r/seduction12/10/18 05:38 PM
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If you have tons of friends you aren’t lonely. But if you have trouble looking lonely that’s a perspective of yourself you should change. Or ask all those friends of yours to pick up with you. Edit: so I see you mean romantically lonely. There’s this catch 22 where abundance is attractive but how do you reach abundance without having it if that’s what’s attractive. That sucks. But you have hook ups and stuff. That’s a start. Keep doing that. Keep meeting girls. Spend more time with women you are…
/r/seduction09/10/18 05:44 AM
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That’s a good start. I would suggest approaching don’t worry about how hot they are out of 10 just start training your social skills meeting people going on dates. Then you will have the skill to approach those girls when you do see them, and maybe even have fun stuff to invite them to go do.
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:37 AM
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They probably aren’t even that perfect. 10/10 is a rare girl, like epic level rare. You probably are just obsessing because of your inaction start doing cold approach go out at night put yourself in social situations you will be less depressed.
/r/seduction07/10/18 11:16 PM
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First 5 sets: warm up sets, didn’t get past the intro. Everyone is ejecting so far, no surprise there, I’m rusty and some were “moving” sets. Used some small calibration to be more effective stopping, gonna approach again now. Edit: Sixth set went well: it was a older woman, but fuck off thst doesn’t matter what matters is results. Got a bit of keno, was flowing in conversation, genuine; but she is in a relationship, so couldn’t take it anywhere. 7th was a two set, they were shy, I held my frame…
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:20 PM
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We’re actually married but we were at a swingers event earlier
/r/seduction05/10/18 10:29 PM
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That shit happens dude, and it sucks. I have had trouble going out for a few days. This is a reminder that our anxiety will run our lives if we don’t take the wheel. Keep going out, keep trying, every day talk to someone and try to approach. Good luck man.
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:46 PM
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So OP I think you should know that is actually quite abnormal. This to me, indicates you have social anxiety and some of the same issues that a lot of the men using seddit struggle with. This isn't a judgement, but most people by 22 have gone on many dates and had multiple sexual partners. For you to not have done that means there is a underlying reason that you don't want to be around men. I would maybe talk to a therapist about why you don't have normal socialization. I would also ask myself i…
/r/seduction22/09/18 05:07 PM
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So you would prefer to be in a situation where you have all the power and get your pick of the litter? Because that’s what women experience online, and the exact reason men could approach. I honestly don’t care if I make you uncomfortable, I’m not a rapist, I’m not gonna sexually assault you, and I’m not gonna take responsibility for your baggage.
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:00 PM
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So I’m hearing you have trouble escalating things, and building attraction. Maybe be more flirty, kino more, be less indirect more direct use less humor. Push pull, which is like, not being so agreeable. Using conversation spikes, so just basically every once in a while spice the conversation up with a more risky statement, or something more emotionally stimulating. Google any of these concepts RSDtyler and RSDmax are my favorite YouTube PUAS And they are better at explaining it than me.
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:41 AM
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Congrats, you have made a amazing first step. Some helpful tips; don’t stop approaching. Your mind will tell you that now you are ok because you approached the other day but you want to still keep approaching and socializing. Socialization with anyone will help reduce anxiety on approach. Another tip, smile and have good posture. Smiling is very important socially it conveys confidence as with good posture, and psychologically it will affect your confidence too. Again, good job. 👍
/r/seduction21/09/18 07:37 PM
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See here’s the thing, if you are bothering someone, and you are in a first world county, they will most likely let you know. So unless they do with radio silence or asking you to leave or saying goodbye then, you are probably ok to talk to them, and it will help you work through social anxiety doing so. Discomfort is good for personal growth. Another situational one is I saw you from over blank wherever you were and thought you were cute so I wanted to say hi, and if they look weird when you say…
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:00 AM
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Edit: so you asked where I approach I usually go to the beach, venice beach I live in LA and there are tons of people. Literally thousands and thousands every day hundreds of women to approach. Shopping malls are good too and they have AC, so you don’t sweat which is nice. No that’s not a good opening thing to say. I usually start with a small genuine compliment, “I really like your Death Star tattoo” is one I used recently, and then “you look really good in that dress” is another I like, but ge…
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:42 PM
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I see what you are saying here, but come on not attractive? That’s a bad bad bad mindset. You have to love yourself for others to be able to love you. That’s some advice. I’m fat, and I got fatter. I’m working on it but if there’s nothing I can do it’s ok. I love myself. I love how I look. I can be confident and recognize my issues, it sounds paradoxical, but it’s not. Learn to like how you look and it will help. Negativity in any form will only hold you back.
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:30 PM
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I’ve approached over 200 times dude, that’s not a lot. One day I did like 40-50 approaches, and that was more productive but not a huge amount. 100 a day is a huge amount. So u have, maybe, 4 good days of sarge experience. If you don’t have high volume places near you try social game, meeting through friends and online. If you do have access to beaches etc go and be more direct. I approach a lot but I’m often not as direct as I need to be and getting the number isn’t even a good goal. A lot of p…
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:18 PM
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Could be a shit test or a sign that you act like a little boy. Either way, it doesn’t matter. I would just say something like does that mean you’ll protect me from all the girls trying to pick on me. Because it doesn’t sound totally shit in my mind and kind of implies abundance. If she says yes you can then describe the girl you’re taking to be and be like yeah she was super rude to me and said I’m like her kid brother beat her up for me.
/r/seduction18/09/18 04:04 PM
1

Fuck opinions about you. Keep approaching or you will live long enough to regret never doing it.
/r/seduction13/09/18 10:17 PM
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3 week’s into the semester. I’ve done 1 approach, got the number. I have been socializing more, talking to people saying hi to people keeping eye contact making small talk and giving compliments. Going to start approach off campus at the local beach, try to just pound out as many approaches as possible. But if I don’t at least I’ll be out in a social environment. Outcome independence I think the idea is. Also I have been watching a lot of RSD Tyler talks about anxiety and being a hard case. It w…
/r/seduction13/09/18 09:51 PM
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Never limit yourself. I am entering a similar situation but I am allowed to have my own fun without the Fiancé. She is ok with it and it’s only because I was honest and open. It was scary at first but I am now happier than I ever imagined. Be open with yourself give yourself the chance to be happy that’s my best advice. Congrats to the OP here on his baller lifestyle.
/r/seduction11/09/18 10:09 PM
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Haha wow so true, sometimes you see a hot celeb naked and your like, huh, I guess that’s what was under there.
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 08:31 PM
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The thing is everyone here gives this advice already. Going to the gym, and investing time into your appearance are some of the MOST common advice I see given out. Many of us are here because it’s a support network and we want to be able to show our vulnerability. and that’s if you ask me, actually a strength. It’s a real problem dudes have with pick up and normally we get told what you’re saying oh just get gud. Well we are doing that, and the other stuff you seem to define PUA as is just tools…
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:39 PM
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Sometimes it has to get worse to get better because before you weren’t aware of the problem. Now you are, and it is glaring. But that’s step 1, acceptance. Now you just have to find a way out of that. I suggest talking to a doctor for sure since you just realized the anxiety is a big problem and also just trying to maintain eye contact and smile at people, especially these girls you are struggling with. Start with baby steps. That’s ok.
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:08 PM
2

I usually wouldn’t but in this case might start with a little hey sorry about last time, then just jump in with some romantic sounding plans, what u have come up with sounds perfect bro.
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:00 PM
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I would say yeah u could salvage it. I would suggest sexual escalation but I mean u already know that.
/r/seduction05/09/18 10:50 PM
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She wanted you to close, and then not disinvite her haha.
/r/seduction05/09/18 10:45 PM
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It’s college man we gotta buck up and approach. I’m broke till Monday when I get financial aid which is when I’m gonna start going hard but I still opened and got a number last week, and have talked to people this week. Today the anxiety is high so I’m not practicing approach but since I have so much downtime I have seen some blatant opportunities. A girl smiling at me, or just looking longer than average. I wish I had approached more today 😭 don’t be like me. Approach now, regret never.
/r/seduction05/09/18 10:41 PM
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First off if you are under 18 being a virgin is not too uncommon man. Secondly if you are in high school still then that’s why, high school is bullshit. Stick up for yourself no matter who you are but if you are in college you aren’t hanging out with the right people. Also, not telling everyone you are a virgin would be a good idea from now on.
/r/seduction29/08/18 05:05 PM
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It’s important to not let our ideology to become corrupted by disrespect to due process or racism, etc. this sub is a safe space for men and we should support rationalism and intelligent action. That being said I hope this cunt rots in hell.
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 03:03 AM
2

If you didn’t know her well yet that’s why she stopped talking to you. If not, damn, what a bish.
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 02:53 AM
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We are genetically predisposed to failure something women cannot understand. but if you really care you shouldn't just accept it you should play the game to WIN. r/seduction looks forward to your company boys.
/r/MGTOW21/08/18 09:53 PM
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Other factors made up in yo head blaming men because women can’t keep their legs closed. I Don't get this, maybe it's because im not a MGTOW but it seems to me those 75% of black kids without a dad have some questions dad should answer. I have a kid on the way and if i just decided to check out that wouldn't be all on the mom. Even if she was a slut which she is the opposite of I would take care of my kid. Being a cuck and being a responsible parent are not the same thing at all.
/r/MGTOW18/08/18 05:30 PM
2

Haha maybe some of u ugly fuckers not me
/r/MGTOW28/07/18 07:35 PM
1

PUA: Pick-up Artist or pick up art, essentially everything we learn from seddit
/r/seduction25/07/18 06:38 PM
1

Well, I’m in a relationship where my girl knows that I have interest in the PUA stuff and she has become accepting of it. It has fucked things up between us a bit but at the same time, I can’t say I regret it. I am who I am and being into PUA is part of that. I’m about to be a father and I’m still learning to balance the two, hope it works out whatever you decide to do dawg.
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:49 PM
4

This is tough, women don't often have to deal with rejection and she must have thought she was a POS after that. But, on the other hand, it's no different than when a dude gets rejected and we are expected to buck up. At least you tried to make a good excuse at first and be nice, oh well.
/r/MGTOW01/07/18 04:46 PM
1

I am like you but I don’t lie about things and it’s a 3 year relationship next month. I get to sleep around, She knows but she also almost left me last night. I don’t know if it’s worth it to sleep with other women anymore, I just feel compelled to do it and master the game. I kind of consider it an addiction at this point but she has decided to stay with me for now. I don’t really know what to do either and need advice as much as you OP. Well anyway maybe this helps.
/r/seduction10/01/18 01:33 AM
1

yeah and it's BS. you're hella proud of some random makeout you got. that's not good game, sounds like you hardly ever apply it. You dont close, which I don't get. Sounds like you're all into "self improvement" but you pine about all that's missing from your life. Take it serious and put the work in. Like it or not. Be these people bellow your icarian hights or not. Just fucking put the work in all I hear is complaints how do u even go on 15 dates and have so little to show for it? there's clear…
/r/seduction18/12/17 11:37 PM
1

I have advice. Commit 100% to changing this right now. That means eating clean. Exercising. Putting hard work into your appearance. Your sense of style. Your social life. Your hygiene. Work on you. You have to start shaping your life into something you are proud of and gain confidence through it. I know hard cases who have long term girlfriends. Anyone can find someone they are out there. I was a hard case. Now when I go out, I can easily close but last time I went out I tried for 50 blowouts. 5…
/r/seduction18/12/17 05:34 AM
1

Goals my dude. Goals.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 07:25 AM
1

But that's just a pattern of behavior you have become accustomed to, you can change that though. But you will have to make some people uncomfortable, yourself first most.
/r/seduction16/11/17 12:19 AM
2

Think about how irrational and subservient that is though. People make eachother uncomfortable often, would you rather avoid it at all costs and be lonely forever? No. So be a little more selfish bud.
/r/seduction15/11/17 11:14 PM
1

But why fear those things either?
/r/seduction15/11/17 02:12 AM
5

When u want a pity party (myself included) but get solid reasonable advice
/r/seduction14/11/17 03:05 AM
3

It happens that way a lot. it isn't about you being creeped out, its about him being comfortable talking to people. I force myself to say weird shit sometimes and girls hate it sometimes, sorry, gotta do this for me bby.
/r/seduction09/11/17 12:44 AM
1

emotional spikes, saying things that build attraction as opposed to comfort, like the shit that other dude suggested.
/r/seduction21/10/17 11:13 PM
6

use spikes, see if she reacts well to them. Most likely though you have been friend zoned, and you should just abandon all hope. Best advice, find someone else to persue. Cold approach, POF Tinder, ANYONE else.
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:24 PM
1

That's the problem get out of your head, let lose, don't be outcome dependent. U don't need a girl to have fun and be happy. Figure out how to do it with and more importantly FOR you. Don't game people like video games we aren't machines u can't Konami code us, and it sounds like you are stuck in your head. Success happens when u say hi and stop worrying about all the other fluff.
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:20 AM
1

That's a bad attitude to have becase most people getting "rejected by everyone" haven't even properly started trying to game yet. The other thing is that this attitude is shitty. Abundance mentality, and success comes with hi not yes. Center yourself friends.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:05 AM
1

im 22, not quite as old but am feeling that dissonance now, and regretting all the missed opportunities. But that's the wrong attitude, you're right. We have to remember that just because we're older doesn't mean it's too late, that's more self defeatism. Thank you guys, it helps to know there are other older dudes who are trying and succeeding.
/r/seduction30/03/17 11:03 PM
2

I have a love hate relationship with tinder. I love how easy it makes things, and hate how hard it makes seduction outside of tinder when you rely on it.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:47 PM
5

And yes, you're trying to fuck anyone not white. Devos is setting it up so white people can have "choices" for university, I.E. segregating those who aren't fit for that so called choice. Trump tried to block tons of muslims from coming in, too bad the justice system is temporarily still doing it's job huh? And of course the anti-hispanic rhetoric of the president, and his billion dollar national monument to xenophobia. So not only are you trying to fuck other races, you're so stupid you're tryi…
/r/PussyPass01/03/17 04:49 AM
2

Ahuh white women voted hilary white males voted trump, you guys are literally the sausage party, except as I said, all the senior citizen women. Have fun with them though, and your inbred cousins from the hill tribes.
/r/PussyPass01/03/17 04:44 AM
7

negroid. See. I already knew you're a neo-nazi. I could smell the FEAR and COWARDICE in your comment alone. Funny how you all are so fucking obviously pathetic.
/r/PussyPass01/03/17 04:43 AM
17

the only cuck is you bro, that's why you neo-nazi's are trying so hard to fuck all us other races. But sad news your daughters will definitely be a part of the inevitable race mixing in this country. Allready happening if you consider how popular interracial relationships are. All the white pussy is moving on fam. Have fun going to those really pathetic and unsatisfying rallies while all the hot liberal pussy in the country stand by our sides in the rallies against him, those really massive rall…
/r/PussyPass01/03/17 04:02 AM
28

Yes, they are. I'm unsubbing because this shit's retarded.
/r/PussyPass01/03/17 03:31 AM
8

loosely used in this context I'da beat that big nigga's ass.
/r/PussyPass30/12/16 11:25 AM
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Seems like a limiting belief in some respect. I have a serious girlfriend, and I get to have girls on the side. If what you want is lots of women you don't have to not have a girlfriend, this subreddit is a big part of why I was able to become the man I want to be and you should never tell yourself you can't have something. Chase your dreams bro's.
/r/seduction26/10/16 02:07 AM
1

eye contact for me was just a matter of working up the courage to challenge myself to make eye contact until the other person looks away with everyone I saw. Now don't do it to a point it's weird, but practice will definitely build comfort. And let me tell you, being able to hold great eye contact is one of the biggest things I got out of seduction.
/r/seduction15/04/15 07:25 PM
0

telling a girl she's cute is cool but I think what most people in this community don't talk about is being flirty. I know that's kind of a effeminate term but you know what it is, and you probably have some idea how to even try to do it and that's going to be better for communicating and possibly getting back interest.
/r/seduction20/02/15 11:53 PM
0

took me so long to see that's a fat joke
/r/seduction20/02/15 11:50 PM
1

well if she kissed you after calling you a friend I might agree with you. If you don't get past a kiss next time though I think you should really ask yourself if you think things are actually going anywhere.
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:33 AM
3

There's usually going to be a struggle for her to overcome whatever it is you care about that isn't her, but that's good because it's attractive that you have your own shit you care about. And honestly, any woman who tries to change you just to exert her power over you won't be the girl for you in the long run so it doesn't matter just enjoy what comes before those kinds of conflicts with those kinds of girls.
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:18 PM
2

Not so. Think like in planet of the apes, when the guy trying to overthrow him is being apologetic he always is looking down. Looking down definitely shows submissiveness and if you watch someone getting yelled at by their boss chances are their head is down. There's a reason for our body language, and head down means submission. If someone feels guilty about something, like a little kid that ate too many cookies and mom is scolding them, they look down. These things are all related, it shows su…
/r/seduction01/11/14 10:57 AM
7

It's hard calling out your friends, especially when you don't have many to begin with you can feel trapped in the relationship and not even realize that you are unhappy being friends with that person. It takes bravery to risk losing the people you do have for people who will respect and treat you the way that you deserve to be treated and I commend you for taking steps to setting boundaries. Hope you find some friends that value your input or at least get the ones you have to treat you right man…
/r/seduction13/10/14 11:06 AM
36

fuck yes son, got your dick into something didn't ya?
/r/seduction12/09/14 12:05 AM
1

WHAT YEAR IS IT?
/r/seduction10/09/14 10:14 PM
2

I open fat girls. Nothing like waking up to breakfast being made. But seriously I like fat chicks.
/r/seduction10/09/14 10:13 PM
1

I'm no expert, but I'd say that you should start by slowly escalating things physically until she's comfortable with you touching her pretty much anywhere. Usually there is no asking to fuck or talking about it, things just get to that point on their own when you're making out usually.
/r/seduction05/09/14 04:44 AM
4

I think the most important thing is that you learned from it, tried, and didn't just do nothing. Now, with that in mind, it sounds like you never had sex with her even though you say you spent days hanging out with her and that probably made you look scared to seal the deal or not sexually confident or assertive enough to keep her into you. What should we take away from that? I'm taking away that you should always be escalating to sex until you've achieved it with a girl you want to be with, don…
/r/seduction05/09/14 04:38 AM
1

I think the important thing for a lot of dudes, yourself probably included, is did you get off. And the answer to that is no. Now considering you had both of them in your house and they weren't that attractive and you're basically bragging about being fit in your post, I'm gonna say that you didn't do that well. I'd suggest next time pushing things as far as you can, I'm not good at this by any means especially meeting girls, but my ratio for having fucked girls that make it to my place is like …
/r/seduction01/09/14 06:05 PM
1

once you've got a girl don't stop either.
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:18 PM
2

scarcity makes any commodity more valuable.
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:14 PM
8

This is only true once you know what you're doing. It's easy to say that after you've gotten used to it, but at first it takes time understanding what the natural timing is, learning to recognize oh, she wants me to kiss her or oh she's showing me she's attracted and learning to subtly convey the same message. It isn't as simple as just saying be suave and yourself, that's bad advice for someone trying to get advice on specifically what to do.
/r/seduction04/05/14 11:15 PM
2

True enough you'll probably not be good at this for a long time, especially the touching part. When I first got into seduction the first thing I taught myself to do was sustain eye contact. I did so by forcing myself to hold eye contact until the person looked away first with everyone and there were some creepy and now hilarious moments but now my eye contact is great and the last girl I ended up with specifically said when I asked her what made her take me back to her room a big part of it was …
/r/seduction30/03/14 07:18 PM
6

This is one of the most important things. Most guys fantasize about fucking these girls of their dreams but they take no time to imagine how they would go about getting them to that point. When you're fantasizing fantasize about her from the moment you two meet, that way you are forced to escalate isolate etc in your head and have at least an idea of what to do in reality.
/r/seduction30/03/14 06:21 PM
14

10/10, because I like it.
/r/seduction18/03/14 02:52 AM
5

This is very true but I don't think it detracts from the value of psychological principles such as this one. If you have a method that makes people statistically more receptive to you, why not use it especially if you're already struggling to approach or have something to open with. The best method for making numbers matter in my opinion is by making your intention to be with her in a romantic setting very clear. Most guys end up getting numbers and they don't go anywhere because they didn't put…
/r/seduction18/03/14 02:50 AM
1

the reason your bio is hot is because it's honest and unashamed of sexual desire. That can be conveyed in any number of ways, it's the message you're sending not the words specifically.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:50 PM
1

Think of the pride of having thousands of dudes copying you to get a taste of success, It outweighs your pride of coming up with your totally rad original bio I'm sure.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:29 PM
3

And this is the real power behind it. It isn't the actual bio that's getting OP laid, it's his belief in his bio's ability to display himself in a way women desire.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:27 PM
2

If anything he's trying to get your cock wet and just told you one of the easiest ways to do it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:26 PM
3

If you want to bad enough or if you think you've gotten an IOI go for it. But if you've tried establishing eye contact and they avoided your eyes or you in any way and they have headphones in or are on the phone you should know they're probably busy. Learn to read people's body language, you'll be able to tell who's receptive and who isn't. Most importantly though remember the worst that could happen is they ignore or don't want to talk to you.
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:57 PM
1

just be honest with yourself and her. If you don't want to be with someone don't feel bad, you just aren't compatible and it's a disservice to both of you to not tell her that. There's plenty more fish in the sea for both of you so as soon as you know it's not working just let it go.
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:43 PM
2

Yup, the only thing to fear is fear itself.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:03 AM
3

Hey, it's a fun ride to the loony bin.
/r/seduction04/03/14 08:26 PM
3

Dude, I want to be that kid just so I can meet you. Seriously I think that's the coolest FR I've read here.
/r/seduction04/03/14 08:24 PM
1

Genuinely have fun and act how you would act if it was just you and your best friend and you just finished getting smashed and singing karaoke. Be the you that you are when you're not thinking about who's watching. Act strange. Wear things that stand out but not because they stand out because you like them. Things that are easy for a person to notice or talk about and you think actually looks good or cool or has some kind of meaning to you. Don't be afraid to act or look like a fool and everyone…
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:27 AM
0

Don't know that I agree on this one. Every situation I have been in where things are getting heavier than kissing and we're in a viable location for sex sex has happened, except when I didn't have a condom and that's out of personal respect. If a girl puts herself into an intimate situation she wants sex, her body is craving it and her mind is putting her into a situation where she can get it. Sometimes there's tons of resistance but by steadily escalating you can pretty much have sex every time…
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:10 AM
1

I think it would be better just explaining that you should use escalative foreplay that is always taking it a step further. You can escalate in more ways than one and it feels kind of awkward trying to check off a list, at least for me personally once things start escalating beyond the kiss it's a lot more natural and intuitive. Start paying attention to how she's reacting and playing into that. Never be afraid to escalate especially if she has allowed you to so far and reciprocated or loosened …
/r/seduction13/02/14 09:59 AM
8

"Hey, you're going to make me late for class but the way you were smiling at me I couldn't resist coming over here and getting your phone number." This is what I would say, it fits my personality, it's direct and shows you are confident enough to point out you notice the way she was looking at you. Also notice not asking her for her number, it shows intent and isn't wishy washy.
/r/seduction30/01/14 02:32 PM
2

Exactly. Besides, everyone deserves to be fucked now and then why not fuck some girls a little less attractive than you feel entitled to, you can't always get what you want but if you try sometimes, you can get laid.
/r/seduction24/01/14 08:22 AM
1

Nah, it probably works better now because it isn't quite as shocking, like how the gore pics start to become a bit appealing in a kind of fucked up sadistic way after a while on 4chan.
/r/seduction24/01/14 08:18 AM
3

sit close, touch her arms then her thighs at certain points, alcohol or mj helps I always have those around. Always be escalating, after you touch her thigh leave your hand there, maybe hold hers, and keep strong eye contact you want to come off as assertive and in control never nervous or shaky. then a moment will naturally come up usually where you are looking into each others eyes and you just know it's the right moment and you go for the kiss. From there things usually escalate quickly.
/r/seduction08/01/14 05:59 AM
2

heh, yeah that's a terrible example of a board game to play with two people.
/r/seduction08/01/14 05:06 AM
0

Or just board games at your place, simpler and more isolated. Cards against humanity and a bottle or something would probably be awesome.
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:34 PM
10

"come back to my place watch some cartoons build a fucking pillow fort?" how could any girl turn this line down?
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:32 PM
1

Disagree both that the ideas will be caught and that it even matters if it is. If a girl catches me using something from the internet so the fuck what, like you say it doesn't really matter what the date is so why put emphasis on being original? fuck originality, there is nothing new under the sun do what works for you and don't be afraid to try anything out.
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:30 PM
1

I smoke joints with all the girls I'm invovled with, a little graffiti should be fun and exciting. A girl will rarely decline if it's something a little risky.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:04 PM
3

It appears you have made it bro, congrats.
/r/seduction20/12/13 05:36 AM
2

It isn't always about being attractive to me, sometimes collecting experiences is part of the fun for me and if that's seen as unattractive it doesn't really matter, nobody is going to know about it but me and reddit possibly. IDGAF.
/r/seduction04/12/13 11:48 PM
43

Attitude is 90% of the struggle.
/r/seduction13/11/13 03:41 AM
45

Attitude is 90% of the struggle.
/r/seduction13/11/13 03:41 AM
13

Not really, just think about it. If some random person comes up to you and you don't want them around but then they say they've got to be somewhere you're going to be a lot more comfortable with them because you think no prob they'll be gone in a sec anyway. It also makes it seem like you have shit going on in your life, which is good.
/r/seduction06/11/13 04:33 AM
13

Science, bitch!
/r/seduction02/11/13 05:47 PM
1

yep agree and amplify and this works not only for defusing people's aggression but also takes down bitch shields and is an all around good technique for conversation in general. ex: girl calls you a jerk for teasing her, you respond by saying "I know, how do I sleep at night knowing the horrible things I've done"
/r/seduction25/10/13 11:05 AM
1

He's got a piece of hardware billions of years in the making in his skull, he's interesting enough.
/r/seduction25/10/13 10:48 AM
2

Rejection leaves you feeling better than wondering what if, that's a powerful idea that can change the way people live their lives.
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:45 AM
30

Look at this right fucking here, a man unashamed to come out and tell another man he loves him and being upvoted for it. I wish I could just rub this in the noses of all the assholes out there that assume seddit is just a place for immature woman hating boys that want to manipulate their way into sex, this is r/trees level kindness.
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:42 AM
1

Confidence is believing in yourself, being in godmode is having complete undoubted faith in yourself.
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:36 AM
5

Be bold, I want to be friends with that guy.
/r/seduction24/10/13 08:10 PM
5

This wasn't my first approach but it was the first real cold approach I did that I can remember. I was skating home from the store with a box of dogfood and this girl waved at me from across the street so I cross and go over to her and ask if she wants to come feed my dog with me. She said no and from there it was pretty much all just a fumble. I thought for sure it would go better than that and I felt like an idiot afterwards, but I also felt free like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders.…
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:27 AM
1

Before you can go say hey how's it going, you must look death in the face. Funny but true.
/r/seduction24/10/13 12:33 AM
1

"Guys, or vaginas."
/r/seduction23/10/13 11:07 PM
1

Smile and then say something if this is a person you want to talk to, even if it's the stupidest thing you have ever uttered it's an opener and since they've already shown interest almost no way will it blow out, keep that in mind to stay confident. I have great eye contact skills but alone that doesn't mean anything, it's just putting your foot in the door. Train yourself when you go out into the world to study people, just think about them and you'll have thoughts, these are things you could u…
/r/seduction23/10/13 11:00 PM
7

The brain can actually be taught in reverse, teaching them to have good eye contact leads to them being more confident people and therefore treats the underlying cause, to an extent of course.
/r/seduction23/10/13 10:57 PM
0

Wow you're an idiot, who said anything about any of that shit? I'm just saying if you look hard enough people are out there that are compatible with you, people that will be there for you emotionally and that does't mean you live in a castle and slay dragons and shit, it just means you have found someone that works with you.
/r/seduction23/10/13 10:43 PM
1

There are always more girls they're being produced just for you on a daily basis, just better wait 18 years before you cash in or there are some legal repercussions you could end up dealing with.
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:41 AM
0

If a girl isn't there for me emotionally or doesn't care about my feelings she isn't going to get to be my girlfriend, I respect myself too much for that and you should respect yourself too much for it too. That's just another way of giving up on finding someone that actually cares about you.
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:37 AM
1

yeah teach her to play and play with her, the thing is girls want to be taken on an adventure so you have to have something you are excited about to get her excited, doesn't matter as long as you care about it and if she isn't into it then that just means she isn't right for you, not that you aren't right for her. I've noticed as I have become a more social person that I have become more selective of who and when I want to see people, if they aren't adding value to my life or doing the things I …
/r/seduction15/10/13 04:38 PM
1

Rejection is inevitable and once you're dead your "life's accomplishments" will no longer mean anything to you. Dare to get rejected my friend.
/r/seduction15/10/13 04:35 PM
1

If you don't believe you deserve something or are capable of getting it then you are going to be fighting a uphill battle against yourself, you should have enough inner value that you believe you deserve success in all of your endeavors be that seduction related or otherwise.
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:20 PM
2

Replying to save this little nugget of wisdom
/r/seduction06/10/13 02:14 PM
2

All of us are sexy bro, all of us.
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:01 PM
2

All I'm saying is cannabis doesn't make me a less social person or hurt my relationships with people, if anything It strengthen my relationships when I smoke and there has only been one situation where a girl judged me because of my smoking and she was a huge bitch and hyporcite who smoked a pack of cigarettes a day, not someone I need in my life. I would say cannabis has been a good filter to keep those people who will judge me over such a small aspect of my life out of my life. And so yes I'm …
/r/seduction03/10/13 04:43 PM
1

Wanting to be exceptional at something is simple minded? Have fun with your high aspirations, oh wait.
/r/seduction03/10/13 04:31 PM
6

Thank you that's a very reasonable attitude about the situation and I agree, if someone is having problems with smoking and considering stopping most of the time that means it's a good idea to do so.
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:17 AM
5

Don't let other people tell you who you are or who you want to be. Don't stop smoking cannabis because guys like this think it's obviously bad and you should stop, stop because you want to and for your own reasons if you do. I know cannabis hasn't affected my game negatively at all, in fact I've met a lot of girls and gotten a good amount of action because of my smoker friends and smoking.
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:05 AM
2

He feels emasculated because he feels like he should be able to lead the interaction and get the friends to allow him to take the girl home, like she wants might I add, instead of what happened happening, him ending up hanging with her and her friends because they won't let her go home with him. If you're going to deny it just go back and read the parts where she said she was going to text her friends she was leaving, It's crystal clear from that point that she is willing to go home with him and…
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:01 AM
2

Reminds me of this bit of wisdom someone shared with me once Student: master I've had such a horrible day I failed every task I attempted and don't think I can go on I'm horrible at this Master: It will pass then next day the student returned to his master Student: Master you were right, I beat every challenge I faced today and feel on top of the world now Master: It will pass It reminds me to flow with the ups and the downs, and that everything will pass in time
/r/seduction03/10/13 01:52 AM
0

Imagine it my friend, this guy was a complete amateur with no sexual experience and then like lightening struck him it all just suddenly changed. He's living the dream, and now it's time for us to go live it too.
/r/seduction03/10/13 01:48 AM
1

He just has an amazing attitude, and with the right attitude I truly think you can accomplish anything in life.
/r/seduction02/10/13 09:42 PM
2

I would argue that any man who truly works on his body and face and style to the fullest extent he can will be able to use the same material as any other attractive male. You HAVE to have your hygiene, looks, and body at the top of their respective games to want success, and until you want it that bad do you really think you deserve it?
/r/seduction02/10/13 09:38 PM
3

You say he was insincere but he was clear about his intentions of taking her home from the get go. And as far as him wanting to push things why should that be seen as a bad thing, they both want to fuck each other it isn't rape in any sense at all. So what he was a little dishonest, he had a good time everyone else had a good time, stop looking further into it than that.
/r/seduction02/10/13 09:23 PM
1

I would start by saying if the response that people give to your assholeness is one that makes you unhappy with your life, you probably should stop being an asshole because it's only making you unhappy and therefore is not what you really want. Now if you're an asshole and you don't mind everyone hating you, congratulations asshole keep up the good work.
/r/seduction02/09/13 03:01 AM
1

I think this starts to become less and less useful for seduction the further you delve into reading the clusters. What I mean is, it doesn't really matter if you observe clusters of IOIs or not and really the attitude seeing the single IOI gives you is more valuable then there even being an actual IOI. Basically, as long as you know the IOIs you should just go out there and start, the clusters will start to become visible subconsciously with improvement and calibration over time and you need the…
/r/seduction02/09/13 02:55 AM
2

I think mentioning that there are gaps and it's an uneven process is important. Some days you're going to not approach at all even though you have been approaching, some days you'll approach and not get one response, some days you'll approach and every girl you talk to will reciprocate. it's important not to let the bad days affect your morale and to keep up the good fight.
/r/seduction01/09/13 11:28 PM
2

I would like to add by saying you don't have to even kiss her cheek, you just have to kino escalate to a point where a kiss is the next obvious step. Example, I was with a girl the other night and I would say gradual tiny steps in kino escalation was the key to my success. The last kino step before she looked over and kissed me was me kissing her on the shoulder. I started by just sitting closer to her and moving conversation along, after I got brave with the first few steps up, sitting close en…
/r/seduction01/09/13 11:19 PM
2

I would think the gym would be way harder, it's one of those situations where social pressure is way up because you're around a bunch of fit people all the time. Then again I don't go to a gym for my exercise so I wouldn't know.
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:58 AM
2

I admire you.
/r/seduction06/07/13 03:47 AM
1

I use that all the time but I say we've got so much in common we should just get married and have a bunch of children. This get's them to play along always and naming our future children as well as saying thank you for the permission to impregnate you are also nice ways to keep going with that conversation thread if she's receptive to it.
/r/seduction06/07/13 03:31 AM
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Will be using this line in the future, very good.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:57 AM
1

I found that to be a better more succinct way of saying it, I might repeat they're the icing not the cake but I'm not going to repeat women are the icing on the cake of life and should never be the purpose of any mans existence because that says more than needs be said, it's superfluous in a way and I don't know if I agree with the second part as much as the first.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:56 AM
3

you didn't approach her afterwards.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:49 PM
1

What I got out of this is there are no rules, play the numbers game and approach everyone. Also have outcome independence and hone your natural game (which you develop in field).
/r/seduction14/06/13 03:59 PM
0

I don't re-assess how I behave after any interactions. It's funny someone who talks about doing it for yourself in one of their posts is telling me the exact opposite here. I'm going to continue doing it for myself and continue being successful, and I'm going to do it my own way. Have fun relying on your alcohol to be yourself.
/r/seduction04/06/13 10:40 PM
0

Police attention for talking to people? Wow man, you need some fucking help. I didn't even do anything radical compared to some of the crazy shit I've heard people talk about doing. Just to prove how wrong you are I talked to another older woman on the ride home yesterday and she was extremely receptive and beaming at me. Then, I yelled out to a girl and her mom in a car you're fucking beautiful, I asked the mom is that your daughter because she's fucking beautiful. she started to roll her windo…
/r/seduction04/06/13 09:09 PM
2

go hit on girls with the goal to fail or at the very least no goals, just do it to see what will happen. Once you've done this enough you'll have a lot of rejections under your belt and it will start to bother you less. Just remember, jump in the fucking pool.
/r/seduction04/06/13 08:07 PM
1

Fuck it. I felt like doing it, so I did it. I didn't do it for anyone but me, especially not people who are going to judge me. edit: oh and by the way I was totally attracted to her and I plan to approach more older women in the future, if you don't like that either or think it's insane or whatever, well I've already made it very apparent how many fucks I give about that. hint: it's zero.
/r/seduction04/06/13 07:53 PM
3

I think it will be, I just feel so much excitement now where there was only anxiety before and I'm going to force myself to jump in every day. It's motivating and I would be out right this minute if my legs weren't killing me. The fuck it attitude also gave me the most intense skate of my life.
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:43 PM
1

I fucking love this guy, he makes me want to go talk to girls because he always looks like he's having fun and when he talks about it you can see he's passionate. Not only that but he's funny, I legitimately laugh at him on a regular basis.
/r/seduction30/05/13 10:16 PM
1

From experience with a girl named gabby I can confirm this one
/r/seduction28/05/13 09:03 PM
1

Pro tip: avoid the girls with drinks in their hands while using this approach.
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:39 AM
2

Thinking negative will get you nowhere, it seems to be working for him and that's more than I can say for a lot of people.
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:32 PM
2

this is the mindset of someone with no confidence in themselves, always assume attraction.
/r/seduction09/05/13 05:24 PM
2

I always regard sentences that start that way more highly even though you're taught not to even in school because it comes off as wishy washy or not confident but to me it shows honesty about not knowing, you only have your thoughts and belief to call upon you can never really know. Like many people I'm afraid to not know and so by having the bravery to admit you don't know you gain my respect, it's the arrogant fools that have undying faith in themselves I doubt.
/r/seduction29/04/13 03:35 AM
-1

Remembering a name is not gushy bullshit you are a fucking social retard if you think that I don't care how much you get laid.
/r/seduction22/04/13 03:39 PM
0

Things have to sound natural? no fucking way.
/r/seduction22/04/13 03:31 PM
1

Wow this one is really good, at that point I would call them out on it
/r/seduction15/04/13 06:41 AM
1

What is the triangle thing?
/r/seduction13/04/13 08:42 AM
1

This is cold reading put to work, instead of just taking stabs at it though make observations about her and comment on them and make guesses about her based on those observations. Samesies.
/r/seduction13/04/13 07:26 AM
1

Yeah I have avoided reading it in public due to it's title on multiple occasions.
/r/seduction13/04/13 06:50 AM
2

I got sex not being the be all end all to happiness which is true, there are a lot of things besides sex that make me really happy like drugs and books.
/r/seduction13/04/13 06:10 AM
1

I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with sex but I definitely see it as a need but people who have frequent orgasms are healthier so it's a good thing if you ask me, sex is healthy.
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:56 AM
1

Damn, this really makes me want to try this.
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:59 PM
1

I disagree, It's a mix of the two in the beginning which progressively becomes less necessary as with anything because you learn it but theory never stops being helpful or pertinent, you can always improve or learn more. There are always new techniques, new things to learn, more knowledge about psychology or attraction or biology or some obscure idea that works incredibly well and lands you that HB9 you totally knew was out of your league, and I have actually taken that theory and used it in my …
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:02 PM
1

They aren't bad you just need to have good timing, don't ask a question out of the blue
/r/seduction03/04/13 07:35 PM
2

There's just too much winning in one post, I need to go.
/r/seduction30/03/13 01:27 AM
1

I feel like mentioning this since its in a social engineering geared sub-reddit but there's this TED talk about how being in a certain state before and during an interview that made the people have better more open posture and confident body language gave them much better results than any other factor. That could help with the criminal record if you get that far, besides you're assuming that I need an employers approval and don't make a living some other way independently.
/r/seduction13/03/13 07:37 PM
1

I understand the pessimism but probably not, even a fat ugly guy could get laughs out of a corny pick up line if he performs correctly, it's just about learning to do that.
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:56 AM
0

Holy shit dude you just gave me a fucking flashback of this time in highschool in the plant nursery with these 2 girls I hung out with, they we're playing with the sprinklers and getting each other and me wet and afterwards we all hugged/huddled together to get warm, one of them had huge boobs it was nice.
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:41 AM
1

yet girls love making a point of rubbing up against my erection if I happen to have one and we hug and there's any attraction. Anyone else notice this it's actually something I've never heard talked about so any input would be noice.
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:37 AM
1

The only way is to stop wanting to fuck, and then you'll be swimming in it or complacent. It's a win win.
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:19 AM
1

You could tell the way she said it in my head she wanted to go see the cat.
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:04 AM
0

ooooh, I've never won an award. Choo Choo?
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:02 AM
1

I have achieved nobody does it better, sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet.
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:56 AM
2

if you have him under your bed and then run out of the room laughing manically afterwards its a two for one.
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:53 AM
1

I'm sure they'll add that function, it's an essential element of gameplay.
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:48 AM
1

You and OP have me excited to open some cops.
/r/seduction07/03/13 04:47 PM
1

I see not giving a fuck as an accepting of everything including thoughts, trying to push them out of your head means you are obviously giving fucks.
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:36 PM
1

oh, sorry I misinterpreted.
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:34 PM
1

So me giving people the benefit of the doubt makes me a douche? I didn't insult you, yet for some reason I'm the asshole. yeah, sure.
/r/seduction28/02/13 09:31 AM
1

No, you simply need better company my friend.
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:47 AM
1

I didn't get the nice guy vibe, I got a little of the douche vibe though and he did seem full of himself but who the fuck am I to criticize when he probably experiences success.
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:44 AM
1

Now I just need a pimp suit.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:55 PM
8

The look of despair on so many faces would definitely put me in a good mood.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:52 PM
3

Walk up with your phone, hand it to them and say put your number in my phone.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:48 PM
11

keep your chin up, so I can punch you in the throat.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:47 PM
4

I can't wait to make someone spit up their drink.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:45 PM
2

I kind of know what you mean, this girl on new years was a really aggressive kisser and I kind of had to slow things down with how we we're kissing by like pulling away a bit and moving attention to other places. I'm not sure how to explain it clearly but we made out for hours and hours so at the very least I gained a shitload of experience. Now that I think about it we kissed so much my lip was swollen for a few days afterwards.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:20 PM
1

And the neck! Don't forget the neck, girls melt in my arms when I kiss their necks and don't be surprised if you hear a little gasp of pleasure, shit gets cray.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:09 PM
1

What you describe IS not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction24/02/13 11:33 PM
2

Something I think is very important is eye contact. That is one of the most basic shit tests there are, and if you fail it you look like a pussy straight out the gate. It really isn't even that hard, I trained myself to keep eye contact in about a month, not even doing anything social. All I did was anytime I left the house I would remember to keep good posture and hold eye contact with anyone I happened to lock eyes with. At first I failed all the time and got intimidated, but after a couple da…
/r/seduction24/02/13 11:19 PM
1

Everyone fits in somewhere with someone, you just have to keep looking. There are billions of us here, I'm sure you will find one to be your friend.
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:14 AM
0

over 1000? are you serious? I don't mean to be rude, but could we perhaps get a picture of you?
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:09 AM
12

thank you for saying this. I hate when guys act like just because girls one night stands or whatever she isn't worth dating. I would have a one night stand or probably a lot of crazy sex shit if I could and nobody would say that makes me undatable just because I'm a dude.
/r/seduction18/02/13 08:52 AM
0

yeah you're right, only ugly people steal.
/r/seduction16/01/13 10:54 PM
7

he means his erection is pressing against his pants.
/r/seduction14/01/13 03:38 AM
3

20$ for the first date? why? you can get away with spending nothing sometimes.
/r/seduction11/01/13 08:45 PM
2

I don't know why you were downvoted, I have seen this attitude suggested in this subreddit.
/r/seduction24/12/12 12:38 PM
20

this was a pleasant read, I really like your self analysis.
/r/seduction24/12/12 12:24 PM
6

seriously man this just made something click in my head, I have been watching pick up stuff for months and nothing has resonated like what you just wrote.
/r/seduction24/12/12 12:12 AM
-1

I didn't call you shallow, that other guy did you just didn't realize it.
/r/seduction07/11/12 04:24 PM
8

you realize he was saying you're shallow right?
/r/seduction07/11/12 08:54 AM
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