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| 1 | Accept,not hate?I'm well aware that women are not a monolith. But you wouldn't say to a woman who is opening up and being vulnerable about insecurities stemming from cultural expectations "men are not a monolith," would you? When people see members of a group professing a sentiment and others agreeing, its natural for people outside the group to think that there is some validity to that sentiment. If men who try in good faith to explain why they feel insecure are met with this kind of dismissal, how are we supp… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/25 07:39 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.THIS. Every time men try to talk about the struggles they're going through, there are women who will say "well women have it worse." And what that's doing is invalidating, dismissing, downplaying, and disregarding our feelings and the things we are going through. And the immediate response to that from women is to explain how women, as a gender and social group, are oppressed by men - when sometimes all we want is to have our struggles acknowledged, and yes, maybe sometimes addressed. Not sure i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Accept,not hate?I think that's a fairly consistent expectation that women have of a man, and we hear women talk about it as a qualifier, and we hear women talk about the inverse (men who don't have a job, men who are "broke") as extremely undesirable or off-putting or unattractive and call them losers. I think that's where that insecurity and valid concern comes from on the men's side. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/25 06:46 AM |
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