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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Curious if anyone was aching for or really looking forward to get divorced and found that is was harder than they imagined it would be I was dreading it. Expecting the worst...and honestly it wasn't so bad. Not easy but not so bad	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 11:54 PM
1	How do I tell my wife I'm done? I understand all that completely. I was 19 years myself and had a similar feeling. I will say I felt like I was drowning and couldn't leave because of my church background and spiritual guilt heaped on me. So I was also suicidal. For me it was also living in a place and seeing someone and expecting some sort of connection but not getting it, feeling alone when with someone and then turned into not wanting it at all. I think I get that. Are you wanting someone or something else? Like craving a re…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 10:14 PM
1	How do I tell my wife I'm done? Weird suggestion here but ask chat GPT about it and it will likely help you put together the discussion. In my case, I separated first. I said that I wasn't happy and why, i did a lot of therapy before so I was ready and I only used I statements. Not blaming saying this is what I need. I went and said I need to know if I can still feel anything so I separated and said I would assess in 6 months, and I had the means to do so. At the end of that I said I'm so much happier on my own and here's why …	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 08:51 PM
2	Divorce is “catching”… Initiated my divorce too and am much happier. I wish I caught divorce earlier. I assumed it was going to be this soul sucking life destroying experience. If I would have seen someone with a reasonable divorce like mine I would have caught it sooner lol.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/25 12:20 AM
1	If your marriage isn't working and there are no kids involved — leave sooner rather than later My story varies from a lot of folks and I'm not sure wives will be as easy as my stbx but being amiable and telling the kids that we love them, divorce isn't this terrifying thing and that we'll take care of them and we're not leaving them helped them a lot. And I have sacrificed a bit now to keep it as friendly as I can. Well not friendly but not at each other's throats has really helped. Not long now. Only a couple weeks until final. Here in Oklahoma it's 90day from serve to final	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 09:21 PM

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