whorekitt3n Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Older Woman going Cold Yeah, the indecision definitely means something. I think if you send a respectful message like an earlier commenter posted, and stay busy with your own stuff, she may circle back around at some point. But I would def not pursue harder. It sucks to be in the situation.	/r/seduction	10/02/26 07:05 PM
1	Older Woman going Cold What you do depends on what your goal is. I reread your post and didn’t get a good idea of whether you want a relationship, FWBs, or just to get closer to someone that feels compatible and see where it goes. You need to remember that whatever her reasons for going cold, they’re ultimately about her, not you. You seem like a nice guy, sometimes things just get lost in translation.	/r/seduction	10/02/26 05:35 PM
1	Older Woman going Cold Both parties have to be ultra clear on what the goal is. Imo the only realistic goal considering your age gap is consensual and respectful sex, not a relationship. Think friends with benefits. An age gap relationship can feel awkward (and lots of other things) for the older woman in this situation. I don’t think it helps you by framing her as insecure, and I also doubt it’s accurate. This can be an extremely rewarding and fun situation when it works. I agree with the advice to put the ball back …	/r/seduction	10/02/26 04:37 PM