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I would recommend reading "Men, Masculinity and Love" by bell hooks
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 06:26 PM
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No
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 04:41 PM
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I'd recommend taking those insecurities to a therapist if possible, building up that isolated world isn't healthy for you. It's also inherently prejudiced to assume that all women aren't safe to be vulnerable with. What makes women less safe then men?
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 04:18 PM
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For ms it's weird for someone to say "separate but equal" in regards to anything and think that a non hateful version segregation can even exist. Are all women in the world not worth you time?
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 03:35 PM
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Your ideas of what makes men valuable to society is incredibly simplistic. Men exist for more than fucking and war, to believe thats the case is misandry. You seem to be chronically depressed, this limits your world view and makes you think nothing will ever get better. You are capable of change but imagining yourself as a genetically inferior incel only removes yourself from having responsibility for that change. You can believe what ever you want, but you should know that continuing to think t…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 11:48 PM
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Everything you desire already lives within yourself homie. To find it is a skill set, and skills can be grown. You're a real man because the standard you're holding yourself too is bs and isn't founded on reality. People just like you have been an integral part of society for thousands of years, the only difference between then and now is global capitalism eating people up. I know for a fact that nothing makes you happy isn't true, because I don't believe you're the very first person in the hist…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 11:02 PM
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Maybe you should try to get a hobby and try to find a way to be proud of yourself. If you don't, you're kind of just resigning yourself to unhappiness right?
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 10:30 PM
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You should try to not classify your self as a "bottom 1% man" For one, comparing yourself to others is never healthy, secondly it's not fair to yourself to only find self esteem in the validation of women.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 09:23 PM
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Healthy love is conditional, toxic love is possessive
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 06:51 AM
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Gotta call it out for what it is, if I want to address sexism I need to the words used to describe it
/r/ExRedPill24/02/26 04:27 AM
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Not cute, misogynistic
/r/ExRedPill24/02/26 12:28 AM
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You should put some time into considering how other people's desires, needs and preferences may be different from yours. Good luck on leaving the redpill in the past
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:27 PM
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Like what?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:50 AM
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I think random sex is bad for men and women. Can you see by saying that, you're passing judgment even without realizing it?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:45 AM
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Personally I think people get weird situationships by not openly communicating expectations and feelings. But you can have what ever expectation or boundary you'd like, but you shouldn't pass judgment on others who don't have the same.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:21 AM
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How attainable is this desire for to only ever having sex with the person who've promised to be monogamous with, in reality? People change over factors out of anyone's control, some people's partners die unexpectedly, and some people are r*ped before being given the opportunity to consensually have sex for the first time. There is also the simple fact that sexual experimentation is a healthy practice people can do to become a better partner for their future beloved. Everyone is young and discove…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:08 AM
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Why do you have this preference? Not trying to judge, just curious
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:16 PM
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No, it is always a case of a traumatized man putting the work in to do his own self-healing. People don't heal others, they can only provide support. Healing is always done internally
/r/ExRedPill04/02/26 05:30 PM
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I'm glad you're able to see the internal contradictions in redpill logic in this scenario. Redpill influencers have a vested interested in keeping their audience unhappy, and I'm sure that you'll be able to see other holes in redpill logic
/r/ExRedPill27/01/26 08:40 PM
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Well do you believe that? I feel like there are plenty of examples of the contrary, but here is the problem with the red pill about those relationship dynamics: the red pill does not respect those men, they engage with misandry. They can see a happy couple where the man stays at home and the women goes to work and the red pill calls that man a pussywhipped soyboy cuck. Even if they follow the internal logic of redpill, if they believe that men who stay at home are brainwashed subservients, what …
/r/ExRedPill27/01/26 08:03 PM
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So I believe the point of your post is the question of if women can serve as equal providers to men, that's why your asking if people have experienced "reversed gender roles" in relationships. But why is that an important distinction to you? What does that question serve to change your world view? A full time working man would be unable to have his lifestyle if he didn't have the labor of a domestic partner in the home. Preparing food, cleaning, childcare, run of the mill chores, they are all ve…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/26 07:17 PM
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All of the women on "secret lives of Mormon wives" a reality TV show, provide thier house with the majority of income. Most politicians that are women make more money then their husbands. But the better question is to ask yourself, why is one seen as more valuable than the other?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 09:21 PM
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What does the word provider mean to you? If a spouse (any gender) is stay-at-home, and does all the labor of running a home, are they not providing their partner with a well functioning household?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 08:38 PM
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Vulnerability is scary, you'll never know if a relationship will work out. But you can rest assured you'll never be happy if you resolve yourself to self-hate.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 08:32 PM
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy has a trust module that goes into those topics. The book "The Body keeps the Score" goes into the effects of CPTSD on people's well being. Getting sucked into the red pill does give you literal PTSD. They traumatize you into thinking with fear and anger.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 07:13 PM
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Every one is capable of change and everyone is deserving of love.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 08:21 PM
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People make fun of Cristi Noems cheek filler all the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 04:41 PM
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I engaged in historical revisionism by saying women didn't have rights whe they were burned to death publicly? The conversation changes because you jump around topics like you have the attention span of a goldfish
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 09:43 PM
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Don't forget about the color of her skin
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:38 PM
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I can't answer that question because I don't know any background or events in their life ;) I'll reiterate that's not how privilege works. I'm sure that homeless white person has the privilege of never being called "n****r" or dealt with the fear of lynching, which is a privilege that's not bestowed on black women regardless of housing status. But on the other hand, because housing is not a human right for some reason, that black women has privilege in that regard. But in the end, privilege isn'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:30 PM
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Looks who's engaging in oppression Olympics? I thought this was about which qualities that define a lack of rights women have experienced throughout history
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:18 PM
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Well its not true, you deserve to be happy and to think positively about yourself. Every time you tell yourself something bad about yourself, intentionally tell yourself something good about yourself. Our self-esteems are formed by habit a lot more than we think
/r/ExRedPill08/01/26 04:41 PM
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The way you just described privilege as some sort of points system tells me me that you don't understand the nuances of privilege. Also no one who talks about privilege seriously describes it as a magical protection against disadvantages in society. So if you think white privilege exists, does female privilege exist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 07:19 AM
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It happened in a lot more places than just Salem dude. Learn up on it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 06:06 AM
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Are you white? If so, do you think you have a white privilege?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:49 AM
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Witch trials
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:12 AM
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It absolutely does matter that most homicide perpetrators are men You also conveniently cropped out my inclusion of rape as a part of that "murdered and discriminated against" line.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 04:50 AM
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You've been talking to a man this whole time btw, yes I advocate for men's rights. But when MRAs deny the reality of women's subjugation, ill speak against that. Feminists don't actually claim patriarchy is a universal privilege to men. I suspect if you ever engaged critically with Feminist thought you'd understand that. Do you think systemic racism exists?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 04:46 AM
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Who's almost all homicide perpetrators? Men killing men, be critical of men who kill people. Talk about internalized misandry. Bro you talk like all men who pay child support are victims of rape, please have empathy for the reality of what most women actually deal with. I'll stop you before "men get raped too" Men are mostly raped by other men. Be critical of men who rape people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 04:37 AM
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The white women who vote republican absolutely should feel responsible for voting against their own interest, and perpetuating patriarchy, yes. That's nothing like actually holding power in this country which is predominately men. Now you answer my question please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 04:28 AM
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What a horrible thing to say, I hope you don't think that about yourself
/r/ExRedPill08/01/26 04:18 AM
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You are comparing men's financial drawbacks to a threat that literally kills women. Is your money more important than other people's lives?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 02:37 AM
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Those are such thin margins, your acting like it's a supermajority when it's less then 10 percentage points. https://www.thoughtco.com/more-likely-vote-women-or-men-3534271 If only women voted in the last US presidential election Harris would have one. Do you think men in power hold any responsibility at all for perpetuating the damages that men face?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 02:36 AM
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Do you have a source on that voting stat? Especially because most elected officials are men, you know the people who actual write our laws? Also when was the last time there was a draft in any western nation? It's a volunteer army and has been for decades, bringing up the draft as a way to show actual discrimination is silly. However, if you want to bring up the draft as a way to highlight toxic masculine expectations, im all for it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 01:56 AM
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All selective service laws were created by men, be mad at the men creating these laws if you want to be mad about that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 01:14 AM
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Don't you feel like you engage in oppression olympics when women are being raped, murdered and discriminated against at magnitudes proven to be way higher than what men have to deal with, then women call out for equality and all MRAs do is say "what about my oppression?" Have you ever actually advocated for women in the real world or do you just talk about things what personally effect you? Don't you think you engage in the exact same self centered advocacy you accuse feminists of? Women are dis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 01:11 AM
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That's fucked up. Do you think it's more fucked up than a 14 year old girl rape victim being forced to give birth? Because there lot more examples of that happening than 2
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 12:15 AM
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That's not what we're arguing, we're arguing that women face more discrimination than men. Do you expect me to believe that unfair child support laws equate to laws that allow for women to be killed during forced childbirth?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 12:11 AM
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So you've shown those examples and expect me to think that outways the thousands of women who die due to medical complications after being denied an abortion? Take a look at reality and try to give some empathy to the women who are literally being killed. That's so much worse of an outcome than being made to pay child support.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 11:40 PM
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No you didn't, you've asserted it. Hey by the way, do you know the most statistically common way a pregnant person dies?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 11:20 PM
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The existance of laws that discriminate against men doesn't mean that women have more rights than men, because there are also laws that discriminate against women. What's your point?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 10:41 PM
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Restricting a woman access to abortion creates equality with men? Please explain that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 10:39 PM
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Do you have any examples of an underage male rape victim being put in that position that happened in real life? Also I'm not trying to argue that child support payments can negatively effect a man if he chooses to not be a father, the idea in question to this thread had to do with the idea that there are no laws in place that discriminate against women. Asserting that laws can discriminate against men too does not negate the reality of discrimination against woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 10:37 PM
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Is your idea of male reproductive rights mean that a man can enforce his will onto a women's body because she is pregnant?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 09:17 PM
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I don't understand, are trying to state that a woman right to choose is discrimination towards men because a man doesn't have the right to choose if a woman terminates her pregnancy or not? Also men have terminating pregnancies since the beginning of time. Do you know what is the leading cause of death in pregnant woman is?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 09:09 PM
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Send me a link
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:48 PM
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I'd give it a read, she dives into some interesting criticism of women who uphold ideas of misandry and react negatively to men's emotional needs
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:48 PM
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None of what you just said has anything to do with abortion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:47 PM
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There are laws in place today that specifically discriminate against women, is that worth consideration for you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:45 PM
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Did you get to the part where she criticized women who act punitive to their male partners who attempt to open up to them emotionally? Criticizing the idea of "Mankeeping" over 20 years ago, crazy right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:42 PM
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Okay what about now after Roe v Wade has been overturned? What about during 2004 when no fault divorce wasn't implemented in many US states? What about the non Western world? Does that just not matter to you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:01 PM
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Have you personally read the book?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 06:58 PM
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"The Will to Change, Men, Masculinity and Love" by Bell Hooks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 05:50 PM
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Have you ever read any gender theory literature on the topic? That's a lot of down votes for asking a question
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 07:50 AM
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If you have enough money for this surgery, you have enough money for therapy. And therapy will do a much better job at building your confidence. Please trust me, you lack of self-esteem acts like a mental illness and it will just find something else to find fault in because you haven't changed. YOU ARE CAPABLE OF CHANGE! YOU CAN BE A BETTER YOU!
/r/ExRedPill05/01/26 04:40 PM
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"Adult children of emotionally immature parents" by Lindsey Gibson "The Will to Change: Men, masculinity and Love" by Bell Hooks Great resources available to read or audio book. I recommend them
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 07:13 AM
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There are many reasons for something like that. Maybe she has a traumatic history with a man that looks like that and she's looking at him from a place of fear. Just communicate and ask questions
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 07:09 AM
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There are many reasons for something like that. Maybe she has a traumatic history with a man that looks like that and she's looking at him from a place of fear. Just communicate and ask questions
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 07:08 AM
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There is a difference between initiating communication and jumping to conclusions
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 07:06 AM
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Have you considered that OPs feelings might not be reality and she might be looking at someone for any reason under the sun besides checking them out? If you suggested that he asks her what she is doing and then she said "I'm checking them out" then yeah OP can have those boundaries, but jumping the gun to trying to control someone without communicating first is a great way to get broken up with. What if OPs girlfriend has a traumatic history with men who look like that and she's looking at them…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 07:05 AM
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Defining yourself by your suffering is a bad idea imo, you are a nuanced person with all sorts of different qualities. Focus on your good qualities, grow them. Don't be ashamed of what makes you imperfect, because everyone is imperfect. I've found community service is a great way to find purpose and belonging. I volunteer at a soup kitchen one a week and everytime some one says thank you I feel human connection. I don't think I'll ever find a girlfriend there but it makes me feel needed
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 06:49 AM
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