whostonedtx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admit	CMV	whostonedtx	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 09:40 PM
15	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup?	Discussion	whostonedtx	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 08:57 PM
5	Does my crush sound like an alpha male and how do I get things moving along?		whostonedtx	/r/askTRP	23/12/18 09:06 PM
1	Harsh truth: if you don’t have friends, hobby and career you are undatable/unfuckable		whostonedtx	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/19 08:10 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail. Honestly women are more attracted to a man’s smell more than his actual appearance. Look it up. It’s pheromone matching	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 12:06 AM
2	Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail. I think what y’all consider an ugly man may be different to what women consider ugly	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 09:07 PM
5	Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail. Perhaps what y’all consider a below average dude is different from what women consider below average? And the thing is most educated successful women aren’t necessarily looking for a rich dude but we would prefer someone who’s financially stable which is different from being rich. I grew up poor and worked my ass off not to only get myself but my mother out of poverty	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 08:53 PM
6	Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail. Truthfully I’m tired of hearing this argument bc I see below average dude / hot girl couples everywhere I go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 08:27 PM
1	is making a woman laugh one of the most important qualities for a man ? 100% I’ll take a medium ugly man who makes me laugh over a hottie who takes himself too seriously every day of the week	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/22 08:35 PM
11	Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers? He’s funny and not ugly. Like he’s not conventionally attractive but he’s better looking than a lot of funny guys out there. Women want men who make them laugh.	/r/seduction	24/05/22 06:54 PM
1	We know gym can really fix fat/skinny guys into a more attractive version, what about the rest. I’m actually female but women tend to have worse genetics when it comes to body building in general because of hormones. Women have so much variation in things like height, hip shape, butt shape, waist size, butt size, skin types, shoulder to waist ratio, boob size and shape. Some of us can work out and diet all we want but NEVER be conventionally attractive. That’s why plastic surgery is more common. I could see men going that route in the near future as well. I hear it’s already starting - Kan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 06:42 PM
2	Why do women often hate men playing videogames? I personally don’t care and prefer this type of guy over the ones who party hard bc I find party guys more likely to cheat tbh. It’s only a problem when they’re lazy and neglect other aspects of self improvement and the relationship when it becomes a problem. For example I had a gamer bf in college who was failing most of his classes and very close to getting kicked out of his parents that somehow had time to play league of legends but not for his school work or to look for a job. Also, he didn’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 05:41 PM
3	Do single mothers get a bad rap? Honestly single moms are killing the dating game. Men think they want women to make them a priority when in fact most don’t - it creeps them out. Modern men prefer women who have a life outside of their relationship which single moms have. They have more important shit to worry about than wondering why a man didn’t call or text quickly enough. Also they’ve proven they can be good mothers (the ones who are good mothers ofc) can usually cook, and are appreciative of the little things since they do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:02 PM
2	How many of you have actually dated/hooked up with someone that you don't find attractive? I’ve been with people that I didn’t find attractive at first but became attracted to over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 11:29 PM
4	Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among women No she didn’t even do it for herself . Ate take out daily and hired someone to clean her apartment (nothing wrong w hiring someone esp if you work) but the take out daily thing was wild to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:42 PM
4	Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among women Yeah options to continue fucking around with no commitment. Until a man decides he is ready to commit - he won’t do it. And when he is ready it is to whoever happens to be there at the time when he decides he is ready. I had a former female co worker who had terrible hygiene (foot fungus), didn’t enjoy cooking or cleaning, she was attractive but still on the average end of attractive, a complete party girl although she was nearing 40… she met a guy who was in his mid 40s and desperate to settle …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:42 PM
5	Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among women Men also put really attractive, wholesome take home to mom type of women in the fuckzone bc for men relationships aren’t about emotions but about timing	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:16 PM
1	Correlation between intelligence/education and meeting women? Think about the way he was raised though… rich, entitled and abusive… it’s the perfect recipe to breed a narcissist	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 02:18 PM
2	Correlation between intelligence/education and meeting women? Also heard he was abused by his dad… which is a common element in the making of a narcissist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 01:39 PM
7	Correlation between intelligence/education and meeting women? Exactly… like doctors and engineers don’t party either lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 12:46 PM
8	Correlation between intelligence/education and meeting women? I sometimes don’t think he’s autistic and actually a narcissist instead and uses autism to gain empathy and to seem more relatable	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 12:44 PM
0	I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men. I think dating is hard for men bc a lot of men want either casual sex or to have control in a relationship where women simply want loving relationships and that scares men away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:38 AM
2	Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man? Bc there’s more reasons for a marriage failing than just cheating. Some men are porn addicts or emotionally unavailable. They’re fine with simply existing in the marriage but not providing sexually or emotionally. They don’t feel like anything is wrong so they see no reason to end things. (My ex was a porn addict and was fine with not having sex and just watching porn)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:28 AM
1	I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men. Looks matter but not in the conventional attractive way. I’m a woman and what matters is that the person is attractive to me doesn’t matter what others think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:07 AM
2	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Yeah dating has changed in the sense of telling someone you’re interested in them/want a relationship is the easiest way to get them to lose interest. You gotta play it cool and act like you’re just friends/fuck buddies, almost lose them to someone else and only THEN make it official. My friends who have boyfriends pretty much went through this. As for me, I’ve genuinely lost interest in sex and dating because of the games. Im not acting uninterested- I am uninterested. And funny Enough my lack …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 02:01 AM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Some of the really well done BBLs you can’t tell if it’s real or fake	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 01:53 AM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Idk how long ago you got married but things have really changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 01:12 AM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Bimbofication is literally becoming more normalized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 12:14 AM
2	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Because youre one of the good ones who’s idea of beauty ideals haven’t been tainted by social media and porn. And idk where you are but it’s more common in coastal cities with large Latino populations bc the surgery can be done for cheaper in places like Mexico Colombia and the Dominican Republic. Miami, LA, New York and Houston have lots of them	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:58 PM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Brazilian butt lift. Takes your belly fat And puts it into your ass instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:57 PM
2	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Oh I agree completely. He’s now wasting another woman’s time - heard through mutual friends they’ve been dating for a year without sex. He’s convinced her to wait til marriage	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:44 PM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Sorry I don’t understand what you said	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:38 PM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? I spent 4 years in a relationship with a porn addict and didn’t have sex for 2 years bc he stopped finding real life women that didn’t have plastic surgery as sexually attractive. He would rather chat with bots. Super sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:36 PM
5	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? I spent 4 years in a relationship with a porn addict and didn’t have sex for 2 years bc he stopped finding real life women attractive. He would rather chat with bots. Super sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:35 PM
2	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? You act like all men are in perfect shape. They’re not. I’m an average woman not fat but not fit so I date average men. Simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 10:28 PM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Weight gain is more complicated in women than it is in men. I too used to think bad habits = obesity but it’s much more than that. First and foremost- height + shape plays a more important role than weight itself. A taller hourglass or pear shaped woman can get away with carrying more extra pounds than a short or apple shaped one. Secondly is hormones. Conditions such as pcos, thyroid disorders can make it difficult to lose/maintain a healthy weight. These conditions are more common than you thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 10:08 PM
2	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? I’m having trouble articulating what I’m trying to say. But OP said they don’t find most of the women they see on a daily basis attractive and I’m just saying that’s probably common for men today because of porn and social media. Especially after Covid not having much female interaction aside from online for 1-2 years. That’s why it takes dating,a few drinks and maybe some weed in order for a man to find a woman he’s sleeping with attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 09:42 PM
5	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? but you’re missing the point. Most men want the 10/10 ig model type but aren’t able to pull that so they find something they like in an average looking girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 09:03 PM
2	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Men aren’t getting pickier. What I mean is most men aren’t going to be attracted to most women initially but they end up growing attracted to women they date as time goes by. Good example would be if a man is seeing a woman named Megan. Megan has smaller boobs than he would like but Megan is chill and laughs at his jokes so maybe Megan ain’t that bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 08:53 PM
14	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? There was a viral tik tok where a girl said “we were never supposed to see this many pretty people in our life time” and I wholeheartedly agree. Yes there’s more obese people but there’s more “beauty inequality” back then you had “attractive people” and “attractive enough to be on television” people and now you see normal people who look like they could be celebrities on a daily basis	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 08:51 PM
6	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Truthfully the best way to combat obesity is in childhood. Fat cells can only shrink but never go away. When you build new fat cells your body creates a new baseline level of fat. The reason we’re seeing fatter adults is because we are raising fatter kids. It’s very difficult to lose weight if you’ve been overweight since childhood	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 08:27 PM
12	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? I am a woman and I can honestly say bc of the over exposure to porn and social media - a lot of men aren’t attracted to most women based on looks alone and It’s only getting worse. women are resorting to lip fillers and BBLs to compete with porn and Ig models	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 07:42 PM
5	Dating is moving on a minefield for women Have you tried dating women with immigrant parents? Women who have immigrant parents or are first generation immigrants themselves often have to work just as hard if not harder than men to establish themselves in a first world country. I’m not talking the 90 day fiancé gold digger / green card ticket types I’m talking the my parents worked hard so I could go to college and build generational wealth types.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 10:33 PM
1	Dating is moving on a minefield for women Woman here. Good sex isn’t about looks but about vibe. The issue is - manipulative men know how to match and mirror a woman’s vibe to get what they want and then change into who they are	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 09:25 PM
1	What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon? I think it has to do more with the fact that older women who haven’t had to work a customer service or (any) job if they’re a stay at home mom type are more out of touch with the struggles of a (usually) younger, working class service employee. 20 years ago a family could afford a mortgage on a $40k salary. Not so much now. People now are struggling to pay rent or even move out of their parents homes. Millennials and gen z are projected to have less than our parents for the most part, not more. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 05:04 AM
8	Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless? Not really there’s this guy I think is cute in a wholesome way (dimples) haha but I’d still rip his clothes off	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 08:47 PM
4	Do you have any backup plans if your dating life collapses? This. Doesn’t matter if it lasts 2 weeks 2 months 2 years for 10. Have fun, get laid. I’m female and that’s where I’m at after a sexless relationship that broke me (yes it was him that didn’t want to have sex) it happens to women too	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 12:56 AM
3	How many women would be willing to get marry if child support and alimony did not exist? Woman here. Marrying financially stable does not equate to marrying rich. Someone can make $100k but blow their money on bs while someone can make $60k and invested their money wisely. I value financial stability the same way I value honesty. It speaks volumes for a persons character to be able to plan ahead for rainy days and not just fly off the seat of their pants. Also financial stability matters these days because it makes sense to want somebody that’s going to hold you down if shit hits th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 05:25 PM
2	What are some dating hills that you will die on? Huh ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 06:52 PM
1	What are some dating hills that you will die on? I’m not a bad looking female now but I was a late bloomer and looked 12 from the time I was 12 up until about 15. This led to not being invited to events, getting dates, getting bullied by other girls AND guys for looking like a child. And though things got better for me at 16+ when I started looking more “my age” I still feel like the little girl who got made fun over something I had no control of (puberty) inside and somehow men are still able to sense that and treat me as if I’m unattractive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 02:42 PM
-1	What are some dating hills that you will die on? It only works on younger women .	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 02:30 PM
6	What are some dating hills that you will die on? You’re spot on about this. All the married people in my family do is bitch about money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 02:27 PM
6	How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one? I’m 100% with you - if you’re a woman who finds herself single after age 25 only date established men or men who have been in your friend zone for a while who already respect and value you as a person. This is especially true for women of color dating men of color. A lot of our men see dating outside their race as confirmation “they’ve made it” my ex even told me to go “marry a Mexican who just wants to pop a bunch of kids” in the heat of an argument because he was on his high horse making 80k a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 09:09 PM
2	How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one? On paper this sounds great… if only things worked out this way. The truth of the matter is idk if you ever heard the saying “marriage is a business” bc it is. And when men get to a certain point of success in their life they will choose the partner that will be the right “business move” for some men this is a stay at home wife/mom that can take care of the home and children to give him freedom to focus on his career, to others like in my cousins and friends case - it may be the complete opposite…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 08:41 PM
1	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? Most men I know actually want / prefer women who have careers	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/20 09:04 PM
16	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? These men want a woman who has a full blown career yet still cooks, cleans, and raises the kids, works out, has her own hobbies and friends. The issue is when the men want the women to do all this alone while he just gets to focus on his career and sit back	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 03:09 PM
2	Is it possible that women ride the carosel in college because they don’t understand that male sexual attention is very cheap? Woman here. You can’t make a guy wait for commitment unless all women on earth simultaneously agree to put off sex until a man commits. Even then - that would be manipulative and would result in men settling to commit for whatever comes their way if they got desperate enough. As a woman do you really want to feel like a man settled for you or like he’s with you because he chose to? College is a weird place because for the most part everybody’s broke and clueless. Both women and men use sex for v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 01:45 AM
3	Biggest BP lie: exaggerating the number of demisexual women Never knew there was a word for it but I guess I’m Demisexual and female. I typically develop crushes on male friends, co workers, classmates after I’ve seen their personality around different people and situations. I hate dating and going on dates because I find it to be staged and somewhat forced. In general people tend to act like an enhanced version of themselves when dating because they want to impress. That facade can only last for so long and eventually the real them will show. My ex was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 04:23 PM
1	Lost. No friends, no girl, no mission or purpose, no job, no hope. What to do? Not trying to be mean here ... just providing you with perspective. It always amuses me how kids from middle class / upper middle class American households from decent families manage to throw their lives away like this. It all starts with trying to be cool and give your parents a “fuck you” for being boring conformists who got married, bought a house and had a few kids. As a child of immigrants - this is completely unacceptable. While many American kids resent their parents for choosing this “b…	/r/askTRP	09/02/20 02:53 AM
2	Harsh truth: if you don’t have friends, hobby and career you are undatable/unfuckable Well I know what it feels like to be desperate After my DB relationship and it sucks.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/19 08:35 PM
-7	Harsh truth: if you don’t have friends, hobby and career you are undatable/unfuckable They have hobbies. Make up is a hobby. Traveling is a hobby. Working out is a hobby. And being and IG influencer or model is actually a job. It depends on the guy and what they consider to be hobbies. For some guys that’s enough.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/19 08:33 PM
1	Harsh truth: if you don’t have friends, hobby and career you are undatable/unfuckable He has a fetish for a certain race of women and I am not that race. This was discovered upon breaking up.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/19 08:30 PM
-2	Harsh truth: if you don’t have friends, hobby and career you are undatable/unfuckable Right but the less you have going for yourself in terms of friends, hobbies and career the more likely you are to have too much time to think about sex and come off as desperate	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/19 08:29 PM
2	Harsh truth: if you don’t have friends, hobby and career you are undatable/unfuckable Well I don’t indentify as red pill or blue pill but there is some merit on some of what the red pill preaches on becoming the best version of yourself. Career, friends and hobbies are the 3 pillars of becoming the best version of yourself. If you’re missing Any of those 3 the only people interested in you will be someone who is seeking to fill a void and you will Either be unfulfilled or risk getting taken advantage of. I have a great career and so does the guy I was interested in - and I was fl…	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/19 08:20 PM
1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? lol well I’m not fat so I’m happy 🤷‍♀️	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 07:15 PM
1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? Oh wow no I’m 26! It’s just I was in Vegas. I don’t normally dress that way.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 07:13 PM
2	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? IMO Short girls only look good skinny if they have wide hip bones and long legs. Skinny w Short legs and narrow hip bones is not a good look. Having wide hip bones makes it so that you don’t need extra fat/muscle on your hips to look womanly. I unfortunately was not blessed with long legs / wide hip bones so I need a bit of Extra weight there to balance it out.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 02:04 AM
5	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? I honestly think a lot of people don’t know what weight looks like on different heights, body frames and ethnicities. Many people assume I’m somewhere around 100 to 110 pounds because I’m petite but I’m not. Could I afford to lose some body fat? Probably but not necessarily weight. I don’t want to look like a kid. Short girls look better with more muscle or curves because being skinny makes us look like middle schoolers. https://ibb.co/G03wMzW	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 12:45 AM
-2	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? There is . You can still be healthy and fit for your body type. It’s just a fit ectomorph will look different to a fit endomorph.	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 05:15 PM
-1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? 5 foot 2 and 118 pounds	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 02:02 PM
1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? depends on the frame. Ectomorph, mesomorph endomorph etc. I’m a mesomorph and I’ll never be under 100 pounds and if I was it wouldn’t look cute. I would any type of boobs , ass and curves at that point and would look 12.	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 01:57 PM
0	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? Height and muscle mass should be factored in as well. 170 pounds at 5 foot 3 looks different on 170 pounds at 5 foot 9. Also - lots of women lift weights these days and have muscle weight.	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 01:51 PM
2	I have zero sympathy for men who go after wrong girls, then act surprised when they get hurt To be fair though sometimes red flags don’t show up until later. And people lie. Do you think most serial cheaters their new prospective partners about heir cheating ways? Also - when people are jaded they always make out their ex to be the asshole but there’s always 3 sides to a story - his, hers and somewhere in the middle is the truth. Most of not all issues in relationships stem from shitty communication and conflict resolution skills. The truth is MOST people suck at communication. Why? Bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/19 11:03 PM
3	LTR of 3.5 Years that "loved" me to death cheated this weekend. Why and how to pursue? Alcohol lowers people’s inhibitions. Not saying she deserves a pass - But when in relationships people should be mindful of how much they drink and who they drink with. I’ve seen binge drinking ruin so many relationships and marriages or put people in compromising situations - it’s not worth it. This is coming from a woman - the next time you date a girl for a LTR - let her know that binge drinking in a relationship makes you uncomfortable unless you’re present. If you’re not there - limit it to…	/r/askTRP	21/10/19 10:22 PM
3	Girlfriend cheated on me There’s men like this too though. I honestly think some people can’t be monogamous	/r/askTRP	01/10/19 03:13 AM
1	What is the female equivalent of the plate-spinning, untouchable alpha male? Different goals. Let’s say a couple that would rather travel the world or for financial reasons (kids are expensive) or health reasons (mental illnesses , disabilities and diseases that run in family that could be carried on )	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/19 02:23 PM
12	What is the female equivalent of the plate-spinning, untouchable alpha male? I agree with this. Not necessarily the children part (not all alpha men/ women want or can have children) But a woman in a LTR or married who supports her mans goals and stays by his side while working on her goals they’re both committed, respect each other and don’t cheat. Basically a woman in a power couple with the utmost love and respect for one another	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/19 05:53 PM
1	Is Sexual Liberation a facade? IMO it’s harder to find a happy medium. I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years and he stopped having sex with me the last 2 years of the relationship. I tried to make things work and I stuck it out for so long because he was always there for me “and that’s what matters” ... Umm yeah both are important. We broke up and make better friends than we did couple. Still single because I was someone that’s nice but also wants sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 06:24 PM
2	What are the major red flags to notice on a girl? They don’t do coke etc around me they know I don’t mess with that .	/r/askTRP	02/08/19 03:58 PM
14	What are the major red flags to notice on a girl? This describes quite a few of my friends. They’ve tried to rope me into that lifestyle but I don’t give in	/r/askTRP	31/07/19 09:10 PM
3	How to determine if someone is out of your league? The weird thing is I’ve had more physically attractive guys than the one I’m into chase me but I wasn’t into them because either a) they had douchey personalities and to them it was a game of conquest bc they’re not used to hearing no and I could see right through it 2) younger and/or make significantly less money than me 3) have been in relationships with people I know	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/19 06:55 PM
8	How do alpha males flirt vs how beta males flirt ? I’ve recently had an alpha flirt with me and I’m hooked:) They like you but will put themselves first and aren’t going to put their life on hold for you Basically the leave the ball in your court if you reciprocate cool if not they move on	/r/askTRP	24/12/18 07:42 PM
3	Need a diagnosis: Is this Oneitis or am I falling for this woman? Best comment. Men in here make it seem like it’s a crime to love a woman! My best advice would be everyone in your life can be Put into 3 categories: asset (the value they add to your life exceeds what you have to lose... In this case single life) liability (the drama and bullshit they bring drags you down and takes away from your life) neutral (most people will probably be in this category ... they’re good people to be around but don’t really add or take away from your life) When choosing a LTR…	/r/askTRP	24/12/18 05:56 PM
1	If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity? Female here. I believe the truth lies somewhere in the middle while I’m not full on red pill I think there is somet truth to it. I think women should be selective when it comes to personality of the person they sleep with. Someone you can agree and see eye to eye with in case something like pregnancy or STD happens. One night stands are scary because you don’t know WHAT this person is like at all! I am pro choice as I know MARRIED women with kids of their own who have had abortions because anoth…	/r/askTRP	24/12/18 05:39 PM
1	Does my crush sound like an alpha male and how do I get things moving along? This is my concern that he’s interested and would pursue otherwise if it weren’t for this because he is very career driven	/r/askTRP	24/12/18 05:45 AM
3	Would it be scummy of me to apologize to a girl i used to bully, just to attempt to sleep with her? That is really shitty. Apologize because you mean it and it’s the right thing to do but leave her alone and don’t sleep with her	/r/askTRP	23/12/18 04:34 PM
1	What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill? Female here. I would say some red pill stuff is true and some blue pill stuff is also true. I take what I can learn from both. I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy who basically consumed my life. He was really needy and I ended up distancing myself from friends to avoid conflict and became overly reliant on him. Once he realized I was hooked he flipped the script on me - started cheating, became addicted to porn and stopped having sex with me and that messed with my self esteem. For both me…	/r/askTRP	23/12/18 04:31 PM
1	Poor work ethic or no career drive, due to how one was raised? I do think it has to do with the way you’re raised and whether your parents pushed you enough or simply allowed you to live life on your own terms. My mom Is not career driven whatsoever she is perfectly content with staying at home watching Tv all day she was raised in South America where women are home makers and their parents let them coast and don’t put pressure on them to succeed. As a result - my mom got into abusive relationships with machista Latin American men who basically view their w…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/18 03:58 PM
1	Where to find a traditional valued woman? I would say I’m both career driven and traditional at the same time. I grew up poor and provide financially for both my mother and I so I am driven by that need to be successful but I also do want to get married	/r/askTRP	23/12/18 03:38 PM
2	Will most girls write me off because of my body? Skinny Guys can be attractive especially if the have a good sense of style. Male models can be quite thin. I honestly think for both men and women general shape and proportion matters more than actual weight.	/r/askTRP	23/12/18 02:54 PM
2	"Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not! My bf is late 30s and I just turned 25. I chose him because strangely some guys my age have more baggage than he does (baby mamas, still hurt by their first long term relationship gone sour, live with parents or in a trashy 2 bedroom apartment with 6 people where furniture consists of a beer pong table and inflatable mattresses)	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/18 11:04 PM
3	Single moms - Tread carefully The ones on my newsfeed are doing the “it works” wrap things, hair vitamins, lip sense	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/17 08:31 PM
2	Single moms - Tread carefully What’s sad is some of these girls came from good families with big houses in the suburbs but because their parents were too busy trying to be cool parents and being more of their friends than their parents they won’t ever leave home and have virtually zero chance of ever being as successful as their parents. I used to bitch and moan because my mom was an older mom who thought any kind of drinking and smoking was bad and not a cool mom but I’m kind of thankful now.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/17 07:39 PM
12	Single moms - Tread carefully I’m good friends with an ex of mine who was An amazing guy. Unfortunately at the time I was only 17 and he was only 21 so neither of us were in the position to have a serious relationship so we kind of just fell off with no hard feelings. I have a bf now but would totally date him if I didn’t. Anyway Because he’s such a nice respectful guy from a good family he seems to attract all the “burnout” chicks that were popular in high school but never left the neighborhood. He was always an attractive …	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/17 02:51 AM
1	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? Nope it's like the no makeup make up look it looks like natural tone and minimal effort and that's good for me. Yeah he could get more ripped but that wouldn't increase his attractiveness to me. However if he gained 20lbs of fat that's different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/17 08:26 PM
1	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? My bf does BJJ twice a week he's not ripped by any means no six pack but isn't fat and has decent arms and Back but I think he's sexy as hell sexier than any ripped guy to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/17 02:19 PM
3	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? Nope they volunteered it. "I hate it when girls wear so much makeup it's so fake some of them look completely different when they take it off"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/17 05:14 PM
3	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? Yeah and the whole dark thick eyebrows trend is to look more masculine if you haven't noticed most models are very androgynous looking	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/17 05:13 PM
2	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? Honestly I asked because guys (including my bf) say they like natural girls but I catch them checking out girls with the "fake" look	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/17 02:59 AM
2	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? To me it's a deal breaker cause I'm 5foot 1 and petite and I would be scared he'd kill me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/17 02:18 AM
1	Women Don't Fear Bodily Harm or Annoyance or Interruption in Public. They Fear Attention from Men They're Not Attracted To. Well tbh it's because the men who do those things usually come from low education low income backgrounds and it is a socially awkward behavior so we assume you are socially awkward. If Channing Tatum said "ayye girl" to me outside of a gas Station no matter how hot he was I'd most likely still assume he sold drugs/served time in jail and had a seedy upbringing so I'd get in my car and lock the door.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 10:43 PM
5	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? lol I don't think I'm ugly without makeup just kind of plain looking	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 10:36 PM
2	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? I'm going to get makeup lessons from that friend of mine. She charges though but she's my friend and I support her business. It's not so much that I feel ugly I just feel "out of style" and a bit dated with my makeup look. And maybe women who keep up with trends are perceived as more intelligent since intelligence is the ability to adapt to change even if its not necessarily the case that is how it is perceived.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 10:32 PM
5	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? It's not that we don't like guys who work out. Working out is essential to your health. What we mean is we don't like guys who work out to the point of looking intimidating and scary or so obsessive about it to the point that they are too vain. I guess the same goes for girls. Make up that is well blended and compliments her features vs clown makeup. I care more about a guys over all silhouette broader shoulders nice arms vs six pack abs. A little chubby is good. Obese and sloppy is a no go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 10:30 PM
1	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? I had a feeling it was bs. I know this girl who isn't that attractive without makeup but she's one of those makeup guru type girls who easily knocks the rest of us out the park one the makeup is on. I wish I had her makeup super powers lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 10:21 PM
2	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? Yeah I think guys say that to make girls feel better about themselves but we know the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 10:07 PM
1	CMV: Being able to have a few solid LTR's in the past (no cheating, minimal fighting) is a better metric of a girl's marriage worthiness than low n-count I hate this once a cheater always a cheater belief. It is always situational. I've been cheated on in every relationship each for different reasons. There are 2 types of cheaters: people who cheat for the thrill and are addicted to the feeling of something new and are serial daters and people who cheat because there is some need that is not being met in the relationship and they are hoping things will get better and change. The first kind of cheater usually has some kind of self esteem or unreso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 10:04 PM
6	If men really prefer women without or minimal makeup why do I always catch them looking at the ones with a full face of makeup? I asked because the majority of guys I know say they prefer little to no makeup. But I see them pursuing women with the typical contour makeup look more. So it seems hypocritical. I can't contour so I wear regular makeup and I've also caught my boyfriend liking pictures of women who wear a lot of makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 09:17 PM
2	Outside of having children, what reasons would there be to get married? I see it as a 2 heads are better than one approach. Example: one of you becomes unemployed due to a mass layoff you have the emotional and financial support to get through it. I see the whole point of relationships/getting married as someone who brings out the best in you and will help you get through the tough times in life. And it does help when you are physically and emotionally attracted to them. I'm in real estate and part of the reason why it's harder for millennials to get out of debt and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/17 08:47 PM
2	CMV: The 18 year old age of consent is arbitrary and random What's weird to me is the mindset. I'm 24 now and look 18/19 but I also looked 18-19 when I was 14 because I had the same body but what made me look younger was my choice of clothes and makeup. If I was a guy and would I fuck my 14 year old self? Hell no. Cause I was dumb and immature and talked about stupid shit. And I guess it also goes back to the "could be your daughter" thing if a woman reminds you of your daughter you shouldn't fuck her	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/17 03:03 PM
1	[Discussion] What is your N-Count, and what do you think is the "appropriate" N-Count? 7 but most of those were relationships that didn't last.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/17 12:32 AM
1	Q4all: who's your highest n count female friend? What is she like? i had a college friend who has a high count because she just keeps finding the wrong guys and she gets hurt over it. i guess shes an empath and people can see her kindness and naivety a mile away and use it to their advantage. i used to be sort of like this but toughened up after a really bad heartbreak in 2011 where the guy pretty much made fun of me for being naive to his friends. i have another college friend who is like this and she has that "daddys girl" spoiled manipulative personality. sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/17 12:28 AM
1	PPDers of Reddit: Do you believe that it's a red flag when a person has no friends at all of the opposite sex? I think that may be me. Ever since I was little I had issues with getting made fun of by other girls and it's probably because I actually ask questions and want to discuss rather than just talk which seems off putting to a lot of women. Also conversations with women can quickly turn quite negative idk if you've ever seen mean girls where they just start talking about everything they hate about their bodies. Yeah I've done that online and with female acquaintances but I can't be around that const…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/17 08:10 AM
1	What's so bad about women fucking a string of "Chads" then settling down with a guy who wants a relationship? Not redpill or blue pill but a lot of younger women (20s and under) have this fantasy of being able to get the bad boy to fall in love with her and change for her and they can grow together sort of thing. You hear about it in songs and movies etc it's like Society romanticizes this idea of getting a player to settle down. While some women do achieve this a lot of them get heartbroken in the process. So they date/fuck someone else to forget about them and act like they don't care. What better way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/17 07:18 AM
3	If you're not a top 20% woman, you don't deserve a top 20% man. just because a woman or man finds a celeb attractive doesnt mean that is what they are looking for in a partner. and besides "mainstream attractiveness" that we ser on tv theres an array of different features people find attractive. beauty really is in thr eye of the beholder. as a woman with curly hair i know guys who find it sexy and exotic like my bf and others who find it frumpy and unkempt and associate it with nerdy jewish chicks. i know a guy who is fit as hell married to a girl who is on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/17 02:25 AM