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The thing that never really seems to get addressed in these discussions is that often the "quick sex" guys are not the same as the "relationship guys", very few men switch between those states the way women do. I fully believe the frustration comes from the guys who are lumped into the "wait" category, because, ultimately, women are the ones who define everyone's role in the smp and I imagine that creates a sense of powerlessness in the guys made to wait, even if you choose to believe what women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:53 PM
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Does that matter if sex is the only thing they're good for?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:41 PM
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So? If you don't care about rewarding these men then why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:21 PM
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What's the logic in making anyone you're attracted to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:11 PM
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Good question, like I said I just assume every woman has had ONS/casual sex, as it's generally a safe bet these days and I think anyone who has a mixed gender social group, especially one that goes out clubbing and partying can see this is true among their peers. I guess the guys that spend all their time online can probably come to the same conclusion via social media. I'd personally advocate most men to assume the woman they're dating has jumped into bed with guys in the past, perhaps tried mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:08 PM
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Can you see how a man may assume you're not as interested in him if it takes longer for you to feel like sex with him feels right compared to other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:02 PM
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Tbf you didn't need to tell me, I assume every woman has had a one night stand or casual sex. If I hadn't given up on finding someone worth LTRing I'd probably feel insulted if a woman made me wait and be put off LTRing her. It's like when someone says you'd be a good husband 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:56 PM
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Kindness is largely irrelevant to having quick, easy sex and getting what is considered "fit" for a man these days takes a lot of work and maintenance. There's plenty of hoes out there with low self esteem willing to let themselves be used by sub-par men who display confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:52 PM
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Most men are pathetic, they'll do whatever they have to to get pussy. If women one day decided they'll only fuck guys dressed as clowns, fancy dress shops would be struggling to keep up with demand. It seriously blows my mind how women struggle so much to understand how fluid male nature is and how it largely responds to find the path of least resistance to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:44 PM
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Every woman I know has had a one night stand with a guy they barely knew. I've also had women who had barely said a word to me come onto me, some of them even had boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:38 PM
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In what way? Edit: I also don't particularly disagree with some of the stuff on FDS, women are more attractive when they know their value and maintain their boundaries, but I think some women, who have previously been the town bicycle, trying to pull that off are closing the barn door after the horse has bolted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:31 PM
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The qualities for short term success are not the same needed to maintain a long term relationship. I'd even argue that, for men anyway, being stable, reliable etc, all good for LTRs, actively harm your chances of attracting women and even having the chance for long term success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:28 PM
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I think the issue these guys get hung up on is the fact that different men get held to different standards wrt what comes first. If women were consistent and made all men wait, I doub't they'd have such strong visceral anger to this. It's easy to feel like you mean less to someone when that same woman has previously had one night stands/casual sexual relationships, but make you wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:26 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:21 PM
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If this is the only info I had, I'd go with the woman who has had sex with 2 men. Someone who would suck the dick of 5 guys she's not even fucking isn't too appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:14 PM
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Yeah I suppose if she's sucked 5 dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:21 PM
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I feel like we've pushed new scientific horizons with this incredible insight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:56 PM
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I suppose perfectly taught labia would be easier to shave yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:54 PM
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Those rinkles in the ballsack don't make taking a razor to them easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:49 PM
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Any sexual act with a new partner adds one to her n
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:46 PM
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The world in it's current state is a dystopia, anyone who isn't cynical is either blessed or delusional. Yes, the point is exactly that it is subjective and that these days everyone is being compared against completely unrealistic, often completely doctored, beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:32 AM
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some women like that while others prefer gamers or nerds and others will prefer other things Most don't though and it's a numbers game for men. Any gamer or nerd holding out for a compatible gamer girl will probably have killed himself by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:02 AM
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I think the takeaway is that movies, media and social media have completely skewed peoples perception of what normal actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:47 AM
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The point of my comment is that men don't need to think about this shit, they shoot their shot and move on. It's better to assume any woman who isn't fucking you is fucking other guys and don't do what the guy below did and get hung up on someone who doesn't want him. Don't play the long game because even if a woman is into you she'll get bored and move on if you don't make a move. Men need to realise they are disposable to women, they need to harden their shell because the moment they start to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:30 AM
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Any men reading this remember this only applies to men. Women won't be upfront about their feelings and will rarely make things clear for you. It's on you to make the first move, don't sit back wondering if she feels anything for you because even if she does, you'll never know if you don't ask and if you don't make a move she'll drop you without a second thought as soon as someone else comes along 👌🏿. Don't be scared to drop them if they don't feel the same way, never hang around hoping for more…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:04 AM
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Everything you do is filtered through the lens of your aesthetic; how you look directly affects how someone perceives you. Does that mean you need to be brad pit to be sexy? No, but no one is going to perceive the legendary 5ft balding Indian janitor as sexy regardless of how he acts. Also it's not something men can learn, some men, perhaps most, are destined to be lead by the yoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:44 AM
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Does being nice and kindhearted pleclude someone from treating people they are attracted to better? The halo effect is subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:59 AM
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Men treat women they want to fuck better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:46 AM
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Just because they've never made a move it doesn't mean they never wanted to fuck you 👌🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:09 AM
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What do you consider pursuing? I'm not asking this in some attempt to catch you out, I know it happens as I've been outright asked on dates before, but it is vanishingly rare for women to pursue and I think it's generally a good idea for men to assume/believe they won't as plenty of women, regardless of how into a guy they are, will never make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:23 AM
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Probably not. I've known and heard of men who just pay because it's easier than putting up with wooing a woman and the bullshit being with one can entail, those guys all seemed happy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:10 PM
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I always laugh when people talk about women's supposed 6th sense when it comes to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:13 PM
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Anyone with friends surely sees this reality play out. The group of guys hooking up with lots of women aren't just hooking up with random hos from the bar, they'll have strs or pump and dump women from all walks of life. I think this is what these guys are getting at, that there is a small group of men who do well with a group of women much larger than them. Does that mean 80% of women are going around sleeping with 20% of men? Probably not, but the guys who get regular casual sex from different…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:51 AM
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Putting aside the implication that conventially attractive white teenagers in the west have apparently found insight into the human condition, the more time you spend with people the more you realise they aren't snowflakes. After a while I've found even people's faces seem to be cut from a production line. This idea that the world is full of diverse and unique human beings is a fantasy. There's a reason that the masses can reliably be marketed to and manipulated so well, that algorithms are so e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:31 AM
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I know plenty of women who could've had decent partners but took whatever garbage came along. It's part and parcel of being the passive party.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:50 AM
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is there really that much difference between 6'2" and 6'4" Yeah, about 2 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:33 AM
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👍🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:27 AM
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There's no point my brother. The women here have been chosing to date garbage for so long they don't realise ditching their self-respect and not setting boundaries was a choice they made. From the perspective of their microcosm, men who don't shower or maintain basic hygiene is the norm. That is reality to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:23 AM
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Many fail to do any of this out of ignorance or laziness or both. Maybe if you're a part of the underclass. I've come across a very small handful of people in my life that didn't maintain hygien/grooming and they clearly had mental health and emotional issues. What swamps are you people living in? Who are you associating with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:18 AM
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They don't completely change
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:33 AM
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Don't waste your time, she's an FDS single mother; she has a chip on her shoulder and nothing is going to change her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:30 AM
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Granted female perps are probably the least likely to be reported because a lot of people, victims included, shrug it off. A friend of mine blurted out in conversation once that he thinks he was raped by a woman on a night out and everyone else just carried on the conversation like he said nothing, I was astounded and called them out on it, but my friend just laughed it off and didn't say anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:05 AM
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Grew up poor, essentially raised by a single mother because my father was an alcoholic who evertually drank himself to death, to this day I still don't know why she stuck with him, why she chose to give us a hellish, alienating and embarassing childhood. I also know I was an accident and she treated me like it a lot of the time, wasn't remotely encouraging or warm. I also have older sisters, each of which have kids with multiple men. So these early experiences began shaping my opinion, but growi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:24 AM
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