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Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:40 AM
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My problem is living with parents and paying for a lot of hotels. Still cheaper than paying rent. I just paid off 30k in student loans and Bill's last year this year I'm going to save a shit ton.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 05:26 PM
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I call!
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:19 PM
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Similar as you in many ways... I think the best thing is to work on our selves. Find out what's making you unhappy and work on it. Then ask yourself what are you looking for in a woman? Be real. They are qualifying themselves to you. You are cherry picking plates, girlfriends, whatever u want. Because you are the prize. Then go out and do it. I personally failed. Alot. But you learn as you go. The failures turn into experience and every rejection you learn more about what you want and how to get…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:41 AM
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Thanks. I got it trapped in a room. Going to grab some sticky pads on the way home from work and lay it in there.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:02 PM
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Nice. Who cares anymore it already happened. You had a great time and the girls didnt get assaulted by some creep. The end.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:21 PM
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Try visiting endocrinologists or go with defy medical. They have a great team.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:01 PM
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This is pretty important. I was in normal range for everything. But I felt depress and made little gains in the gym despite destroying myself. So I started trt and I'm wat better off. No more depression. Clear headed. With a little viagra (I get nervous when I have sex, and it helps) I went for 5 hours last weekend. I've only had sex ~10 times. And 4 of them was during those 5 hours. I mean we were going at it like animals but I only nut 4 times. After that I couldn't climax but fucking her felt…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 04:41 PM
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Yeah this just happened to me. Had around 6 dates with this girl. Kissed and got to 3rd base when we had a drive in movie date. But I stopped because I thought she didnt want to have car sex. FUCK IM STUPID. Met her last night for dinner. Shared a passionate kiss. And she texts me a few hours later that it's not working out. I see this when I wake up in the morning and i ask why. She is still awake or she woke up meaning she only got 4 hours of sleep. And she just goes nuclear. Never felt anythi…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 10:45 AM
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Probably. I made plans with other plates to keep my mind off this one. It's just my turn....
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 10:54 PM
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I had this eye opening moment having my dick sucked by some girl I just met. She was hot. And I was an asshole. Period. I've been in denial, trying to game and charm a new plate. I never had a girlfriend and wanted to know what it was like. I acted purple pill but probably more blue. She seemed receptive at first. But idk I dont know the first thing about game. Went on a few dates. Kissed, felt her up but she never did shit for me. I never text her other than to set up a date. Then she says let'…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 10:48 PM
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Slow. Down. Seriously. I had this problem and I still do. It was usually when I try to talk to fast.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:17 PM
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Might have lost a good one or maybe I wasn't alpha enough. Met a girl on tinder and we hit it off. But she lost interest in me after 3 weeks because we only went on one date and I didnt text her enough and thought i wasn't interested. Maybe i pushed more than I should have.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:29 AM
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Great write up very similar experience here growing up trying to please your parents trying to make them happy and putting your needs aside. I'm 26 and I still have my needs at the bottom of the list. I've read nmmng but I seem to fall back into my nice guy habits. My culture (asian) enforces beta behavior since you learn to talk. I'm way better than before. But it's scary how ingrained this stuff is, that it's an automatic reaction to put others needs first. I've always tried to please everyone…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 11:34 PM
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This. I rather know and thank them and dump the bitch.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 01:22 PM
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Thanks for this, another eye opener!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 01:17 PM
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What would you like me to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 12:05 PM
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This was me for a few years since I found TRP and I'm just doing this. Felt entitled to the best pussy I can find. My looks were getting there and get me plenty of stares and matches on dating apps. But my personality isn't all that alpha yet. Women have a 6th sense for that shit. As soon as they sense I'm a little beta I get ghosted. I failed a lot and had little success over the years. Even had a HB8 stalk me and go on a date with me but I was still beta so I got ghosted LOL. ​ Took a year to …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 01:35 AM
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Thanks ithink I'm going to look for someone in my area
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 10:01 PM
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Thank you I really appreciate you for taking the time to reply. I'm going to try and find someone for CBT, just like you describe I'm right there but I'm missing something. Cheers to being the best version of ourselves!!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 09:57 PM
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I see myself as the complete control narcissist. I am very ambitious and I think most people are dumb and self absorbed but I've been making a daily effort to be more empathetic. At the beginning of my TRP journey I was the epitome of a nice guy and as I learned and pushed myself over the past two years 1 thing hasn't changed... I always keep everyone at arms length even my best friends... I've been going through depression and had major shit go down, but I covered it up as much as possible. Nev…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/19 10:16 PM
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Thanks for this. I really needed this today.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 08:49 PM
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Thank you GLO you have been a great mentor over the year that I have been lurking and reading on this sub. This post really opened my eyes that I am the man in the text. I'm trying to be more red pill but I'm pleasuring myself the whole time. I've gone on monk mode and the like but I always found an excuse to slack in some form. Would love any advice you have for lifting or books. I just switched over from doing leg, arm, back, chest days to upper and lower body days. I go 5x a week and two of t…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 11:32 PM
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Awesome go with them have fun if not you'll still learn something! !! I'm excited for you!
/r/askTRP14/01/19 07:30 PM
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Stop over thinking it. She was shit testing you. You failed most of them. And when you said you were moving on she panicked because she only sees you as a beta orbiter and didn't want to lose the benefits that come with it. It seems like you're still new to trp. It's okay. Keep reading the sidebar. Educate yourself. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Improve yourself and focus on your goals. Love yourself. The self confidence will follow when you truly know yourself.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:58 PM
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Tldr; Girls don't care about your opinions if they view you as a beta male. Still a great write up! 3 years strong over here too and I'm still learning new things everyday.( those boy rule t shirts would be dope!)
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 01:00 AM
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Yea I was a huge pleaser I won't lie about that. But I don't do anyone favors anymore unless I feel like it. It got annoying being everyone's errand boy. It's a long journey and I get lost sometimes. Just wanted to make sure that going to her birthday dinner is a waste of my time unless I'm in the mood to game her friends, which is what will most likely happen. I don't like going to these things when I only know the host since the odds are against me. I'm not far enough into the red pill mindset…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:34 AM
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Thanks for the solid advice. I wasn't gaming her I was just helping a coworker out. But I do see how she perceives me as a beta in that sense. Just curious, should I avoid doing any sort of favors for females if I can help it? Only if I know I'm getting something out of it? I just don't want to cross into a "nice guy" mindset where favors have hidden strings attached.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:34 AM
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That's what I thought. Thanks
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:28 PM
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Successful = more haters/more people being jealous Keep doing what you're doing
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:43 AM
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I'd love your template I've been lurking and trying to improve myself but something is missing I don't feel satisfied with all the gains I've achieved. I always feel like I could do more, be a better me. I want it to happen sooner than later. Right now I'm bartending. Have a bachelor degree in biology. I don't want to work in a lab. I was going to teach English abroad to travel and have pocket money but I started having seizures. Trying to figure out why before I leave the country. Appreciate yo…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:29 PM
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Meal plan and prep. 80% of gains are made in the kitchen and stem from what you eat.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:40 PM
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You're on the right track. You will be elite in due time. Probably more alphas at your university than back at home.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:36 AM
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Very well written and informative. I would like to know more about how you are emphatic and use your "interview" knowledge to learn more about your date. Also kudos for being able to read her blood work the average guy would have definitely missed that, myself included even with a biology degree.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 10:36 PM
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Thank you for this! Going to give it a listen today.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:33 PM
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1) most of the time yes. Depends on context. Is she confident? Does she have low self esteem? 2) personally I would say, "yeah fat ass" with a shit eating smile and smack her ass. Assuming the girl is in shape. If not I would say you're getting a little pudgy with a smirk. Any subtle way that tells her that you're into her but she could lose u if she turns into a pig.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:13 PM
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That was very insightful and I thank you for taking the time to give me helpful advice! She had work at 1pm and we finished coffee around 11am. She kept mentioning that she had to go home and give her dogs eardrops and that she does it twice a day. It might have been her covertly inviting me over and waiting for me to invite myself over to "help" her. She may have felt rejected for me not being bolder when we both knew she was into me. I probably should have invited myself over with a shit eatin…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 03:02 AM
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I may have acted too beta for another chance. I'll reflect and improve.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:51 PM
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Yeah it's a big mistake I made. She's got sorority events this weekend. Idk might be blowing me off. Just gonna learn and move on if she's not into me anymore.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:43 PM
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Hopefully. I knew i missed something
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:57 AM
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I had a feeling I fucked up there
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:57 AM
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I appreciate your insight. I'll keep that in mind. Sometimes when i see a girl that's in full pursuit mode and checks all the boxes. I get tunnel vision and lose my cool. We are both out of college and working. Going out to a bar this weekend. Confidence is key and I will work to improve my frame and confidence for this weekend and beyond.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:06 AM
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Both are good, it depends on what you want to improve first. Do you want friends and learn how to speak better? Or do you want to work on your game first? Both will make you a better, you pick the order.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:14 PM
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Read the book of pook. Have fun with whatever you're doing.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:54 PM
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I'm the same as you. I graduated college two years ago. 8 months into the red pill. I was in great shape, got down to 8% bf. Started applying to pharmacy school. I cooked, cleaned worked 2 jobs and volunteered as a fireman. But something inside me broke. I quit my job. Didn't finish applying to pharmacy school. Started doing more drugs. I always smoked weed but I started to do acid and cocaine chased the immediate joys. Two years later I have nothing to show for it. I failed myself and put my go…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:38 PM
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He does love reading books, I'll try that, or "forget" my copy at his house. Hail Mary is better than nothing. Thank you for the idea!
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:02 AM
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I'm hoping it happens sooner than later(when he's married). Or even have kids with this bitch. oh god no. Thanks for your response. May Sam become a better man in the end.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 07:50 PM
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Sad stuff man.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 07:36 PM
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Thanks for your advice. That analogy was spot on. I'll do my best when it's time.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:48 PM
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Thanks for your thoughtful response. If there really is nothing I can do. I'll be there to support him once he falls. It would be terrible if I rubbed it in his face. I was considering going as far as recording a sex tape of one of us fucking her to prove our point. Even if it ruins our friendship at least his life isn't ruined. But that would be the nuclear option. And I'd rather not do that.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:43 PM
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I really don't want it to come to that. This could really fuck him up and his life. Is there really no other way? I know I'm asking for a lot. He was usually red pill by nature before he met Katie if that helps.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:29 PM
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Here's something that happened recently that REALLY got me triggered. Sam works at a hotel so he gets discounts. He planned to go to a festival out of town with his friends and books a hotel for the group. Fuck yeah! The hotel is an hour away from the venue(ok..). And he booked Katie at a hotel that's 10 minutes away from the venue(not cool). Katie is there with Chad. (Jesus..) Sam didn't want to be in the same building where Chad is fucking Katie. So he books another hotel even if it's AN HOUR …
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:19 PM
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Law 38: "Think as you like but behave like others." Thanks for reminding me to brush up on my laws.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 09:35 PM
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I can also see it as a poorly executed attempt at dread game. He should have been more subtle, rather than overtly inviting his crush to see him hanging out with another girl. To add insult to injury he even told her they just fucked.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 06:14 PM
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Yes learn to have fun with shit tests. Prove to them that you are the alpha they think you are. Beta males rarely get shit tested and when they do, they cave. So the shit tests stop for them.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 07:18 PM
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In the east. V day is when the WOMEN confess their love by giving chocolates to MEN. The opposite of the west. And a month later there's White day where men respond in kind. But they are expected to return gifts that are two to three times the worth of their V day gift. Edit: I wonder if it were like that here, or if someone would try to implement it, would it be widely accepted or rejected?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:35 PM
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She enjoyed it after she let me. I didn't mean to make it sound so forced. She brushed my hand away in the beginning and after some more foreplay I tried again and she let me. This was also from when I was in hs.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:47 AM
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What if she really is on her period?? Happened to me in hs. She resisted my attempts to finger her in the car and I did it anyway. Afterwards I went to the bathroom to pee and my finger is red as fuck and my boy saw it and told everyone. I still laugh to this day.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 05:35 PM
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Do it bro. I'm right there with you. Let's feast 2017 and beyond !!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 10:42 PM
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U sound a lot like me. I made good progress last year. Got in shape. Did things that made me uncomfortable. Tried to socialize. But I was never genuinely interested. We may be suffering from depression. It could be self inflicted. You set out to do something and it doesn't turn out like you'd expect it. Don't be too hard on yourself. I have high standards and when I don't meet them the way I expect it to, i get bummed. I need to work on my outcome independence. And also realize every step in the…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 05:48 PM
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Hey twin. I also have a disc problem and bad posture what have u been doing to fix ur spine? I've been doing yoga poses. mostly downward facing dog. and its been helping but I could use some advice since its been taking a long time to recover
/r/askTRP03/05/16 01:16 PM
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Good job dude! I'm in a very similar spot as you. Except I did revert..just a little. I'm working on rereading nmmng and book of pook. I also recommend the rationale male by Rollo tomassi. But back to reverting... It only happens if you let yourself. If you don't completely kill off that inner voice saying its OK to blah blah blah. And you find yourself making excuses for not doing something realize that's male hamstering. Ive done it all my life and old habits die hard. You're a man now. Kill t…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 01:10 PM
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Glad I made the right choice. Yes my smv isn't as high as it can be. My game is not good and I've been working on improving it by reading up on trp game and applying it to my matches. Its been a learning experience with gradual improvement over these past two weeks.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 07:10 AM
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Listen to these guys. Lifting and doing physical activities not only makes you look better you also feel better.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 01:33 AM
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Hey long time lurker here(about six months). After finding trp I've been making a lot of changes to improve myself and my quality of life. I'm in the same boat as you, almost the same circumstances. Hang in there bro!
/r/askTRP04/07/15 02:21 AM
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