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Rantwhy_do_I_need_login/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 12:06 AM
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Lawyerswhy_do_I_need_login/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 11:25 PM
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She took everything. It was basically all her’s or paid for by her. If I was petty I could probably go after her shit but we both are not doing that. It’s probably the cleanest divorce you could have but since she is taking everything I think it’s fair to not pay anything.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 01:00 AM
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Damn this it’s really close to home and I am on a similar path. I wanted to make it work with the wife but she checked out long ago. For the past 6 months my self esteem and self worth have been in the dumpster. I haven’t been on any dates but just talking to other women on dating apps remind me that she wasn’t the only one out there.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 08:46 PM
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Yeah sorry I’m not emotionally dead but I’m trying and maybe I will be able to reach your level one day.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 08:47 PM
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We were together 5 years married for 1 and a half. We both had jobs. The were making harder for us to see each other. When we were seeing each other I would be depressed and didn’t want to do anything. She tried helping me in the beginning but she lost the spark. She recently talked to about how she had always had her doubts about loving me for a while now and it was all so bottled up and just exploded now. I don’t know. I’m so mad at her but love her and want her to be happy. She’s gone and nev…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 08:32 PM
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I believe my wife was having some similar issues to the way you are feeling. I don’t know everything cause I’m not her. I think she was burnt out with our relationship. She wants to continue to grow as a person and work on herself and she said she didn’t see me doing any of that. Which is true but I have been suffering from depression. My father died last year from Alzheimer’s and was struggling my entire relationship. My mother and myself were in and out of the hospital for the last year but mo…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 08:07 PM
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I wish everyday my wife would give me one more chance. I don’t think it’s gonna happen. We don’t have kids or a house. Everyone says it’s the easiest divorce you can have but I still want my best friend back. She texted me today for a record that got misplaced. Ripped my fucking heart out she cares more about getting the record and not making it work with me.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 03:51 PM
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If you love him and he is your son no matter what, then no. If it’s eating away at you and it’s something you can’t stop thinking about all the time then yes. Either way I would sit on the idea for a good while.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 03:48 PM
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Sorry man. That sucks. I wanted to fight for her and make it work but her mind was made up. She has been cold to me since she told me almost 2 months ago. I don’t think she will ever talk to me again unless it’s about signing the divorce papers. I’m so sorry you have kids and even more time than me. I’m still in so much pain. Hopefully you and I can both survive this. Maybe even come out better on the other end. Least with kids you will see her from time to time maybe. My wife will become a ghos…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 02:52 AM
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Yeah I’m trying. I also understand I can’t make her love me. 100% effort times 0% still equals 0. I know I’m gonna stop talking to her. The problem is I love so damn much and we had a good marriage with a normal amount of conflict. I wish I could hate her
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 02:49 PM
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Thank you. I go to therapy once a week. It’s been helping. Sometimes it’s the only thing I look forward to. Which seems sad to me. I’ve gone to the gym every day since being in July. Trying to get into shape, but it’s mainly to distract myself. I sit in the home we shared a lot of things packed up, and it sends me down a spiral. So I try to go to the gym so I don’t have to look at it all. Not my first breakup that hurt but my first divorce. seems like this hurts 1000 times worse than my other br…
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 01:24 PM
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32 here. Crazy how similar to my story is to your own. Unfortunately, I’m only in the first month of separation, on the fast track to doing the divorce. The antidepressants are helping. I still cry a lot though. I don’t think I’ll ever be over her. She can easily treat me like a stranger already though. After tomorrow, I probably won’t talk to her again till the finalizing of the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 06:16 AM
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Definitely not but I’m close to 75% in agreement.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 02:56 AM
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She went on a vacation that we were supposed to go together and I ended up not going. In the meantime, I’ve packed up all of her stuff and I’m not gonna stop her or harass her. I love her, but I’m not a psycho.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 02:56 AM
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I’ve asked and she’s never been a liar. She says no. I wanna believe her, but I also believed that we would be married longer than a year and a half. So you could be right. A lot of my friends and family think that as well.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 02:55 AM
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Thanks. I never wanted to get married. Met her and knew I wanted go through any challenge or obstacle together. I wanted to continue working on it. That’s why I married her. Guess it doesn’t matter to her though.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 02:53 AM
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