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I don't get why women are ashamed to admit it. It's pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:34 PM
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My point is you can't suggest to stop sexualizing. It's a base instinct. You are fine with it now because you have options. A guy who never speaks to women can't help it. He won't like in some fairy tales show her his soul and she'll run into his arms. If he's ugly and fat, he'll be friend zoned at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:26 PM
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The advice of "become friends with women" legitimately infuriates me. Men who are desperate for a girlfriend aren't just gonna turn off their libido and forget she's a woman. They'll be waiting in the shadows despite their best attempts. I speak from experience. Plus it's really off putting when a man using this type of stealthy approach. If you approach me and I don't want to date you, I'm not gonna change my mind after we become friends. It's not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:16 PM
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Exactly Should there be injustice and wealth inequality in the world? There is, so one needs to deal with it. Most men pay even in very liberal areas based on my dating experience so you're just shooting yourself in the foot if not. I would interpret a bill split as a "I'm not interested" from the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:13 AM
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I agree on both points. Someone has to pay and if it's not dad, it'll be the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:40 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly but this is the government pushing this not women. The government doesn't want to pay for a bunch of kids and welfare to single moms. That's ultimately the issue. I'm sure women couldn't care less as long as someone helped raise the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:38 PM
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50 shades is about a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:44 PM
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LTR can be a three month dating stint lol. Speaking from experience, I have had 13 partners and all were some form of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:43 PM
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I'm pretty sure your boyfriend made that up. Pretty unlikely he met two women who thought a hookup gave them bargaining power.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:41 PM
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They don't say that. They just don't do it. Yes technically I can live in a dirty house with a peed on toilet bowl and moldy dishes and eat takeout only. Or I do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:28 PM
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People answered. Become a senator or CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:52 PM
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This is why I don't want kids and I'd never date or marry a man who makes less money. You want studies? Here you go. Let's see what you have https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/10/01/women-more-than-men-adjust-their-careers-for-family-life/ https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-5-americans-time-at-paid-work-housework-child-care-1965-to-2011/ The charts in second link say it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:47 PM
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Yes they do. According to studies overwhelmingly. Child rearing is almost entirely done by women and household duties as well. Men say they want to do 50 50 but that is not what actually happens. And I can't make a point not to do more work. If he doesn't change the diaper or doesn't clean the house, the baby stays dirty and the house gets nastier. I cannot force him short of putting the baby at risk and living in squalor or leaving him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:01 PM
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Just think of every quadriplegic or significantly mentally impaired. They definitely make up at least 2% of the population. You think they get into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:59 AM
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People didn't have relationships in Victorian era lol. It was a very modest and strict society so you had to marry right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:57 AM
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Lol no I actually mean it. Women don't leave en masse as soon as a guy levels up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:32 PM
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Oof you got them there, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:29 PM
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I read about it and I admit you're correct. Damn that's actually crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:31 AM
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All women don't. The world population is only expected to cap in 2080. It's still growing like crazy. And again it's not my problem. I have the right to enjoy my life and bearing children for society to create more consumers for the machine and risking my health and destroying my finances and quality of life doesn't understand me. If you care so much about this issue, be a good man, make sure your male friends don't abandon their girlfriends if they get pregnant and do the same, support your fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:29 AM
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Oh really? What's the towns name? Can't wait to see this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:23 AM
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People can exist. It's just not my job to just my body and life energy to make that happen, that fair or you also think we should be forced to bear children or go to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:22 AM
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A person of Arab or Indian or whatever descent that grows up in the West has the same values as a white westerner. A white person who grows up under sharia law in Iraq has the same views as them. It's got nothing to do with race or color but upbringing. By vetting immigrants and getting their children to grow up in the West with Western values, you create more westerners. Not by triaging by skin color. I'd rather live with Mohammed who grew up in America a billion times over John Smith who grew …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:59 PM
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I'm 100% for women having the mandatory draft as well so you're off there. I think every able person can hold a gun in case of an invasion. A draft is necessary but only men being impacted by it isn't. I get the logic though. You need women and children for the next generation. It's not fair by any stretch. Still, the small chance of you needing to go to war to defend your country vs forcing all women to carry babies is a terrible false equivalence. One is a matter of literal survival and the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:39 AM
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I believe you but don't you think it could be your lizard brain that's bonding you to your son making you have this opinion? If you rationally looked at him from outside, he's not the best thing that's happened to you and not amazing? Just curious what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:34 AM
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If you read some of the comments, they're overtly racist One guy said "unless women start making babies, your neighbors will be soon Jose or Mohammed" And that's a problem why? You start wondering why these guys have romantic problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:33 AM
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Yeah because it's something Mengele would dream up. Forcing me to carry a child I don't want is torture. It is abuse and dehumanization. It'll never happen because women will find ways to rip off their wombs so they don't have to "comply". As long as demographic replacement is slow and methodical and the people from poor counrries are vetted before being brought here and their kids grow up in the West and have Western values, we'll be fine. No one said to send a boat and pick up 2 million gazans…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:31 PM
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For literal tens of thousands of years, the earth population was a few million - 100 of million. To give you perspective, Rome at its peak had 1 million population. That was unimaginable back then. It was absolutely insane. Now it's an average city in the Midwest. If you were born in 1950, you lived alongside HALF of humanitys population ever. Yeah look it up. We will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:27 PM
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Fundamentally it's this. The men here crying over this are upset over white women refusing to make white babies. The population is still growing at a fast pace just not in white countries
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:24 PM
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It's been explained many times here and by OP. Having kids sucks. Education and options show women that and they opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:21 PM
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I am literally confused why women have kids. It's just a mystery to me. The only explanation is they have a stronger biological drive than me but even so, you would think the mind would prevail that there are no benefits except companionship and feeling you've raised the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:20 PM
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Women standards have risen because pairing up is no longer required for survival, like the commenter said. Many men are indeed worse than nothing in my experience. As in dating them makes my life harder than being single, so why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:18 PM
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I guess I'll deal with Mohammed, Babu and Juan then... Oh no, fewer white people in my area!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:17 PM
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A reproductive draft lol. Is that like raping women to make them have kids? A dream of many guys here maybe... More realistically America and first world nations will max out immigration from Africa and Asia. Prepare for slowly white people becoming rarer. After Africa stops breeding? It'll be 2080 so not something to worry about. Most likely we'll have robots doing most of labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:16 PM
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It absolutely lowers your looks lol. What do you know about this? It's insanely hard to get back to your previous weight. Your body is absolutely drained from having a living thing feed in it for a year. Biology prioritizes babies so mothers are biologically disposable once they give birth. It makes perfect evolutionary sense. The hot moms you see are either younger than you think or work so insanely hard to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:14 PM
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I dated amazing men but it's extremely obvious what kind of fathers they'd have been. The cool dad who plays catch with them once a week while Mom is doing literally everything else. I know in real life dads at work who do everything to escape fatherhood. Work super late, volunteer for any project or trip just to stay away from the hell that is home. And no, it's not for their career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:11 PM
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I literally showed you the math how you'd be house poor on 90k. Hence why I said you need two of those salaries to live comfortably. our household income is 300k so this isn't a problem I have. But if you really think that wanting more than 90k from a man in this current environment is high maintenance, there's nothing more to say really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:49 PM
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90k is 5.5k a month. That means more than half of your money goes to your base housing. I'm not including utilities or maintenance here. Our barebones budget is 6.5k (that's no going out and cutting everywhere). 120k is 7k so that would be doable unless you lose your job. And that also means no savings. Let me remind you that prices have gone up since as a result of interest rates. So my mortgage would be easily 4k a month if bought today if not more. Anyway I hope you see my point that no one i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:05 PM
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Sorry but you're totally out of the loop what pricing is like I bought a house in 2021 for 395k at rock bottom interest rates 1.5h north of NYC. My payment is 2800 a month. You think that's doable on 90k? It's not "riverside loft".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:49 PM
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Automated cooking and cleaning? Not sure what you mean but no, it takes 10-15h of my week. And lol, you clearly never cooked for someone. People have different tastes, there's more to clean and people create mess. I don't need "an excuse". A man does not inherently bring me enough added value to my life to settle for a broke dude. If you don't like your answer, that's fine. But that's how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:34 PM
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Automated cooking and cleaning? Not sure what you mean but no, it takes 10-15h of my week. And lol, you clearly never cooked for someone. People have different tastes, there's more to clean and people create mess. I don't need "an excuse". A man does not inherently bring me enough added value to my life to settle for a broke dude. If you don't like your answer, that's fine. But that's how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:34 PM
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I can live in a studio or small apartment but the bigger issue is that that men tend to be less neat, not cook and require a lot more emotional support. So overall cleaning after him and cooking and everything else and poverty wages means materially negatively affecting my quality of life. That's just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:46 PM
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Let me put it this way. I'd rather be single and provide for myself than date someone making 45k and needing more space and live in misery, let alone bringing children into the mix. Single > poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:37 PM
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Must have been pre pandemic? And I also suppose it's not in the northeast or west coast. You cannot buy a house on 60k nowadays unless it's extremely rural or an apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:35 PM
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I agree as a woman. You can overlook a lot of bad traits in exchange for safety and comfort. Framing 90k as a lot of money or bait for golddiggers is just hilarious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:29 PM
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You also can't really comfortably make that money elsewhere unless you're fully remote and that's been declining for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:38 AM
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I know right? These people talk like it's some fuck you money where gold diggers are going to be chasing you. You need two of those income to buy a house in most cities in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:36 AM
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So date women of your own race? We're racist for having preferences now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:35 AM
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I think he means also going naturally about it not talking to every single woman he sees. At some point it's like spray and praying resumes for any job. You'll have zero success if you don't narrow focus and strategize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:34 AM
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90k = "attracted to your money" lol. Give me a fucking break. That's a salary with a normal college degree a few years out of college and the bare minimum to buy a house and have a normal middle class life. You're not rich or impressive making that money and it's funny you think women would be impressed "omg he makes 90k!!" I don't know maybe in Alabama or Mississippi.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:31 AM
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It's not a good salary for young people because houses have quadrupled in the past 30 years or so. Making 45k as a boomer living in LA is fine. You have a house, car and pension. Making 45k as a 25 year old? That's poverty plain and simple. Forget ever buying a house. You need to pick between food and bills. There is a major generational gap where that kind of salary (90k) is bare minimum and it's got nothing to do with gold diggers but not wanting to be poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:29 AM
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I don't agree personally. The correlation is social skills. I've met both successful and unsuccessful men in dating and their job and career and money wasn't a factor as much as how awkward and weird they are. Looks too, but much less
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:26 AM
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... I'm not responding to OP .. what
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:47 AM
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Have you talked to any woman? I don't know any woman who's ashamed to say she'd not date a scrub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:40 AM
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What, you mean my life isn't centered around OP and his lack or dating success?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:22 AM
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What rights men don't have? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:01 PM
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🫣🫢😳 "Is that smoking hot guy looking at me or at the wall behind me, Becky?.."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:24 PM
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That's truly sad. All it takes is one recession and major job loss and the castle of cards will crumble
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:38 PM
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Lol you are not a 5. I'd be checking you out in a bar and blush if you talked to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:36 PM
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You must not have spent much time here. Most of the usual women posters left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:37 PM
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I love how you claim it's only other unstable people who have vitriol against all women and just right after that, call me some cheap whore chasing Chad despite knowing nothing about me. My point exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:36 PM
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That's a fair point. I didn't think of this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:57 PM
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I think women have a much better experience than men in dating nowadays. I think we have tons of choice and leverage. Maybe just me idk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:32 PM
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...I am a woman. But I agree with you. Men here are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:16 PM
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Now you see why so many women leave this subreddit and why I disagree that women need to be empathetic and listen. Look at this vitriol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:53 PM
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I disagree. The vitriol on this subreddit anytime a woman posts shows that they're angry at us liking Chad. The terrorist incels killing people... that's what you mean by being heard?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:49 PM
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I mean yeah. I think most people would agree your average Muslim is more of a threat than a Hindu.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:48 PM
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This isn't just a philosophical discussion. For you it is, for me I'm forced to carry a fetus to term in my own body as a real life incubator. Again this is my point exactly. Y'all don't empathize at all. You don't give a crap about the "life" let's be honest. This is a way for women to have less agency. And even if you did care, you should care more that me a living woman is forced to carry a living thing in my body against my will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:15 PM
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There is no child. It's a fetus. And the fact that you see a woman's agency over what's in her body secondary to a clump of cells proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:10 PM
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Ok let me rephrase that. There is overwhelmingly more men complaining than women. Easily 10-1, even on that dating subreddit. Obviously there are women out there who aren't happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:49 PM
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Abortion bans. Easy question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:38 PM
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True. Makes me think of the books by Jane Austen, especially Pride and Prejudice. The women and their parents are consumed with how to get her a husband (and the richer the better of course). Women couldn't inherit. Couldn't really work except very few jobs... there was no other way. Men on the other hand had plenty of women chasing them especially if they were stable and were under very little obligation to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:19 PM
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Yes from a collectivist standpoint, I would agree. With that logic, birth control should be banned because it's bad for society however. We in the west favor the individual over the collective and even in collectivist societies like Japan, women aren't interested in dating either. Bottom line, asking us to sacrifice for the common good is a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:07 PM
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So where would they post it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:04 PM
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Gonna disagree with you there. If a guy is attracted to you, he shouldn't attempt friendship. He'll fall in love further and then it'll end in tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:02 PM
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Welcome to the capitalist economy. Women have way more options so yes you have to do more work. No one said life was fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:01 PM
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Yeah, I've never seen women here say this. If someone did it was a rarity. Women very rarely start off relationships from friends unless they were friends in primary school or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:00 PM
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That's what I'm saying. A bunch of men are feeling targeted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:46 AM
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I'm just being transparent. Not sure why you find it funny that people date and marry people who they're attracted to and who are successful and intelligent. Yes according to the men here I should not care about any of this and marry the first incel that sends me a dick pick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:45 AM
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Yeah well I'm gonna disagree on that one as are countless studies where women do pretty much all of the housework and child rearing regardless of respecting incomes. Every guy I have dated would become more of a slob the longer we were together. At some point I just accepted my fate and clean up the house instead of my husband otherwise we'd have urine stained toilets and greasy floors perpetually. I work in the office a few days a week on a long commute. He doesn't. He just doesn't notice or ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:20 AM
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No I don't want to be the fifth one asked out of eight women in a room. It's offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:49 PM
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It's offensive to ask me after you ask five other girls there. And I don't really care what he does just don't go to my yoga class with the purpose of asking every woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:27 PM
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Or they go to a weird meetup someone recommended them on Reddit and awkwardly hit on every woman who's there for the event. Literally hit on one, get rejected and move on to the other one, with no basic understanding how awful it comes off. I have been the girl who's in the middle of the list so to speak, and I can't think of anything more offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:21 PM
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Can't wait to hear about how you married one of them and she expects you to provide for her 40 family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:17 PM
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Well said. I'm getting really irritated with "just go to meetups or your local yoga class to meet women!'".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:14 PM
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Single women tend to be much happier than single men. Certainly having a great man will improve women life but an average dude who doesn't clean up after himself, is bad in bed and earns 50k doesn't really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:14 PM
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Yes but men have less leverage now to impose grossness because women earn money and don't need them as much. That's the main difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:12 PM
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Men do not inherently provide a benefit for many women due to their predispositions, nature or nurture. Most obvious example is house chores. Men naturally do far less. Women earn money and thus no longer rely on men for income like in the olden times. That was the main reason to settle for a man. Now, I may be taking on more work for no benefit. The men who women settle with provide a marked benefit that makes it worth it: great sex, well traveled and educated, makes more money (hypergamy to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:11 PM
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People who follow celebrities must have the saddest lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:02 PM
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Scrolled too far to see this. Get a hobby if this something you read about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:01 PM
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Who cares. Get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:54 PM
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What's different about them? Both have women doing their own thing. Women don't go to yoga to meet men but they may end up meeting one. Same with walking down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:37 AM
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She's telling me to "listen what women are saying" yet every woman (including me) except her are saying that it's fine to cold approach. Must be depressing living thinking everyone is out to rape ya on every corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:28 AM
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I'm a woman. I would have zero issues if a nice looking guy chatted me up at the grocery store. Are you scared you're going to get raped in the frozen food aisle? Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:27 AM
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Agreed with everything except last sentence. I'm married and I definitely do want to fuck my husband. But I also like Jewish looking intellectuals lol so not exactly the usual fare women chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:27 PM
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Up to you. Often men here think they're uglier than they are and the problem is they're just socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:05 PM
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... You mean black?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:35 PM
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A woman looks at you for longer than a second in public, she finds you fetching
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:01 PM
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I think OP is saying your odds are better than zero shooting your shot. Also, most men think they're uglier than they are. Often the problem is social awkwardness or anxiety not looks. 99% chance of failure is better than 100%. OP is simplifying the issue though. Not like women are desperate for some fat weirdo to ask her out in a yoga class that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:59 PM
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I mean that's the honest truth. You won't be more successful cold approaching if you don't have success on apps or through friends, work etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:57 PM
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I don't know. You can dm me your picture if you want and I'll be brutally honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:48 PM
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You're welcome. I swear to you I'm being truthful. Only caveat is the obvious one. If you're not an attractive guy, you're unlikely to succeed with cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:34 PM
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Because women aren't here complaining they can't meet anyone and apps are a scam? I'm not approaching anyone because I have tons of options online and in person and also don't want to be thought of as a cheap lay. Men don't respect women who chase after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:33 PM
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Female redditors are the kind that sit at home afraid of getting sexually assaulted by the post man. Not exactly a reflection of most women. Ask women you know in real life and I assure you, you'd have a different result.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:30 PM
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Seconded. Stop listening to shut in Tumblr socially anxious cat women. I don't know one woman in real life who would not want to be approached by an attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:29 PM
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I can tell you the response would be most likely positive in all these scenarios if you were good looking, well dressed and charming. I've only been approached in person by fat weirdos or old men so yeah, not going to be successful but not for the reason you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:28 PM
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Are you seriously wondering why insecurity is a turn off? Have you ever met or hung out with insecure people? They try to bring others down. They're negative. They fear criticism. But the worst is you don't know how deep the issue is. Maybe he has more reasons to be insecure than height compounding the issue (min wage job, small penis etc). It's a glaring signal this person has major risks. Confident people send the opposite signal. That they're a catch. And who doesn't want to be with a catch?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:04 PM
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This is actually really eye opening. I don't evaluate men sexually at all until I get more information on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:40 AM
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Both are valid here. And youd have the right to be upset because you got deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:33 AM
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It's a valid analogy ironically. How would you feel if you realized that as soon as they find out you're broke, they stop being friends? That's how it feels when a guy doesn't want friendship if I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:32 AM
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It's a fact of life. I am not ashamed at all to admit it but I agree many women would feel uncomfortable admitting that they have "shallow " preferences. Nothing shallow about wanting to be attracted to your partner and not feel grossed out every time you see them come out from the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:21 PM
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I don't think any women are arguing this point. I would love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:10 PM
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What is a reasonable and normal man doing on this forum? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:09 PM
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We are out there. The bigger question is do you want kids? If you don't, then definitely do not enter in such a relationship. She may get pregnant without your consent and then you'll be on the hook. If I were you I would get snipped and tell women you can't have children without explaining why. You'll filter out women who want your money or women who want kids immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:48 AM
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Find someone who makes same money as you and don't have children. Problem solved. She won't have any case against you. Get ahead by getting a vasectomy. My husband and I are happily married, trust me, it beats dating around having a nice stable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:34 AM
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It's only men on this sub who don't want to get married. Every normal man I know does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:27 AM
2

You want sources from rabid incels who just want any justification that then being alone and no woman ever acknowledging is a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:26 AM
1

Pretty sure those businesses were mostly bars and brothels. It's laughable to say women in 1890 England had equal financial standing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:23 AM
10

I would leave the country if I were a man. Lifelong payment because you were married for a few years? Insanity. A remnant from the 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:22 AM
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Even when we agree with you guys, you still manage to get angry and go on a rant lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:21 AM
1

I would move out of the country. Nothing is worth this. How much are you giving her if you don't mind me sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:19 AM
3

How much does she make per class?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:22 PM
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Not really true. I think most studios lose money and the average profit is 80k a year which is distorted by places like Bikram which rake it in. It's a rough business model more akin to a calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:21 PM
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The male equivalent of that is crypto investing or wall street betting, so tone down the arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:20 PM
11

I mean... Yeah. We all have trauma. We either deal with it in therapy or fight it heads on. You think the rest of us have rosy lives and no issues ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:26 AM
1

Maybe but I'm not interested in finding out. Taking care of a home isn't a full time job. It takes like 3h a week at most to clean a house. And I'm a much better cook anyway but even that takes a few hours a week at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:35 AM
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I can tell because my husband despite working fewer hours on average and working entirely from home does nothing around the house. When he has fifteen minutes, her plays video games. You think that would change if he stopped working? Housework is women's work in most men's minds. Or best case they do just enough so we don't complain like load the dishwasher while the counters stay dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:32 AM
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No way in hell. I know exactly how it would work out... Badly clean the kitchen and then play video games in PJs until I'm home. Reheat me some old takeout and go back to play video games, if that. I can guess because my husband works from home and I go to the office and I still do the most housework by far and cook pretty much everything. Also a man with zero ambition and ability to earn a dollar except cleaning dries my pussy faster than the Sahara.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:47 AM
0

How many of them have you met?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:44 AM
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Pretty unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:43 AM
2

I'd argue permanent stay at home wives are deadbeats. Unless you have kids to watch before they're in school, there's nothing that needs a full time person at home. Cleaning doesn't take that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:40 AM
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Women are poorer and earn less, probably because they're usually saddled with children and need to raise kids as single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:19 PM
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Taking money from men for their children is welfare? So you should be able to abandon your child and the mother needs to provide for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:10 PM
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Wouldn't you like that? Just knock up poor women and dump em on the street with your children. Remove birth control and abortion too so they can't even get rid of them while out on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:09 PM
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Gotta agree with this. Same experience. The worst I've been treated is by an obese lonely guy i was really attracted to (he was very intelligent). I guess it's because they secretly think this isn't real or a ruse and we're playing them and they're defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:36 PM
1

Yeah I gave an honest and brutal answer. You're already more mature and level headed than most here to not to get upset by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:00 PM
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You need to have two of these : money, looks or amazing personality. If you don't have two or don't have any, you need to figure out how to get it. Most women would rather stay single than be with someone poor, depressed and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:23 AM
5

So they're all single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:53 PM
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And every one I've had has been from the internet. Everyone is different and there is no secret sauce to this. I agree that hating women is a huge issue and we can smell it from afar but "go to meetups" is such a tiring advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:52 PM
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Incels have been pretty much equated to Islamic terrorists. No I'm not accepting that there is a rise of men who want to kill women because we don't want to date them. This is an insane thing to suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:50 PM
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To a cannibal for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:00 PM
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I mean I have met men that i truly doubt any one would ever be interested in. Think obese, mentally impaired, on a wheelchair and extremely poor on disability. Dating him is essentially becoming his caretaker. The autistic ones are also real in the sense they give off a vibe that makes women really uncomfortable. Reflect on a time you met a man and he acted desperate and was unattractive and said weird things. You can't really fix that whole combo. If you have one issue like social skills but go…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:59 PM
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Why can't a third world wife love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:56 PM
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Respectfully, read some comments here. The only reason they don't use misogynistic language is because they'd get banned but it's quite apparent what they think of us. I'd argue a good half of male commenters here either despise women or at the very least think we're lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:37 PM
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Perfect. We're on the same page then. You're bad at sex and so are we so we won't indulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:13 PM
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I guess I'm still angry about this situation. I take back saying I'm not empathetic. I am. It's rough. In some ways, i despise him now and that skews my perception. Either way we seem to be on the same page here how to behave except acting aloof and not caring from an ugly unatteactive guy is very unlikely to yield results. You're getting them because you're probably fairly attractive. Acting aloof signals to women that you have options and aren't desperate. That's a pretty good social proof you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:08 PM
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We hung out every weekend and continued to do so after i met the husband. One day he stopped responding to my texts. I thought something happened to him. Thought he died of COVID or something. Then my now husband suggested checking steam activity and sure enough he had played games that day thereby ignoring me. Why i should i be empathetic? We were friends.. he knew I wasn't interested and frankly miles out of his league. We had a great friendship. You know what a normal person should have done?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:05 PM
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Scrolled too far to see this. It's fine to end a friendship. It's not fine to ghost a close friend. Tell them you need distance at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:44 AM
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Ah here we go. Now you're showing your actual opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:40 AM
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I empathized with your first post. I've been the woman in the story twice. As I'm sure you can imagine, it is horrifying when you've been friends with someone for ten years and they vanish overnight because you started dating "a douche i met two weeks ago". I was friends with him for ten years and when i met my now husband and he saw how in love i was, he vanished completely. He funny enough texted me out of the blue a few months ago as if nothing happened. Not sure what he is trying to achieve …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:31 AM
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I'm 33 and married so not sure how I'd fare lol. Marriage is great so hopefully I'll never find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:00 PM
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... Yes love isn't a rational decision. Just because you've never felt love doesn't mean the rest of us haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:43 PM
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Nah not true. I'm pretty average and you should have seen the selection i had in my late 20s of guys wanting to date. And yes they did want a relationship because some of them i dated and we broke up due to incompatibilities but it wasn't like they wanted a casual thing. They were all 28-38 and ready to settle and A+ quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:40 PM
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It's all good but that sex was horrible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:15 PM
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Men need to be better than me in some way and make me feel safe or id rather stay single. Not exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:27 AM
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Or worse, makes up stories that anyone with a modicum of experience can tell are fake "i have sex for at least 3h each time. Foreplay needs to be a minimum of 1h ..." Your friends were correct. I had sex with men i suspect were virgins but they never told me. I'm pretty sure I would have said no had they.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:24 AM
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I can tell pretty accurately. You can't feign experience. The reek of desperation smells strongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:21 AM
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Employers also don't know if you never worked a job in your life but they can find out by asking you questions and feeling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:20 AM
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Your flattery is super effective, i won't lie. Tell me, what do you like the most - the chase or the reward of the chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:54 PM
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You are such a charmer 🤭 i can see why you are so successful in your "occupation"!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:26 PM
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Gotta agree with this. I am 143lb and 5'5. Doctor tells me I'm perfect weight. I'm not. I'm objectively overweight and I'm working on it but it's a red herring to bring up health when someone says a woman or man are overweight. There's a gut, it's a turn off..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:25 PM
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I never said I was special just that i don't know anyone else like me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:44 PM
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Haha, i was just being cheeky...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:34 PM
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I dunno. I don't know any other women who get off at being cream pied except me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:33 PM
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It's awesome. I have a breeding fetish but don't want to be pregnant so cream pies are A+ 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:32 PM
1

... What business are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:31 PM
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Yes absolutely. I'm looking for exciting sex and travel, not changing diapers or cleaning up after someone else's kid. Only exception would be if that person was truly amazing and was significantly above average in other areas. It's a huge burden to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:20 AM
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Yeah please don't date until you sort that out. Not fair to the other person. Sort of reminds me of this dude i saw on tinder where ever single picture of him was with his i assume ex - hiking, spelunking, chilling on beach, restaurant etc. Why are you even dating when you're clearly still in love with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:19 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, i am hopelessly attracted to men who are exceedingly good in math and they tend to be high functioning autists. I ended up marrying one. He has a hard time reading emotions and managing his but his other traits make up for it tenfold. Your bigger issue is self esteem. That one is a killer. Don't over analyze too much and work to your strengths. When you think you're awesome, everyone will too. If you think you're a loser, so will everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:43 AM
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Go outside and you'll see tons of couples. Mostly everyone pairs up eventually. You can also check actual single numbers. Very few men are virgin past 30. There is a loud minority out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:05 AM
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I would say it's not worth it to marry a man who is not established, not necessarily rich. I genuinely do not see a point in most cases dating a broke guy. We do the lion share of the cooking, cleaning, have crappier sex... Add to that a depressed insecure broke guy, and being single would be a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:44 AM
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This sub is full of lonely incels or larping successful red pillers. It is no reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:41 AM
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Your first paragraph is so spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:09 AM
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Honeymoon phase last 1-3 months and that is when you realize it's not a match. I ended up finding a good one and marrying. Married 2 years now so it all worked out in the end. No disrespect taken!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:23 PM
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This has been my experience every time I was single. Longest was one month to find a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:26 AM
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First time(on this sub)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:23 AM
3

Incels watch those movies from the early 2000s where McLovin scores hot chicks by going to a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:32 PM
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I know right? The only irl men I've met who complained about apps weren't average. They were a combination of obese or poor or living with roommates at 32, red pill and not intelligent. Normal average men don't seem to have an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:29 PM
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I somehow doubt that meeting in a pub means you'll have a healthier relationship than on an app. Studies have been done on this and online dating leads to lower divorce rate which makes perfect sense. You have more choice for compatibility https://prjlaw.com/2022/07/06/online-dating-may-result-in-lower-divorce-rates/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:54 PM
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Yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:16 PM
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So talk of intellectual subjects to a wall and get a dumb grin in response? Sounds ... Horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:25 PM
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Absolutely not. Huge turn off for me. However I know a couple of very attractive women who truly wouldn't care and prefer a "simpler" man provided he's handy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:23 PM
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60% of modern couples are formed on dating apps. The majority of people under 35 nowadays find their partner online...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:30 AM
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Translation: women would be forced to settle for the drunk jobless loser next door or the ugly nerd on the next street. Like my parents and grandparents had to. Of course men don't want us to use apps because we have choice and aren't forced to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:29 AM
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General consensus amongst fringe ultra feminist online boards maybe. Everyone else sees it as obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:09 PM
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You're not an outlier. Something like 60% of modern couples form on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:45 PM
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It's always the people who have no success on them that are writing op eds how the rest of us shouldn't. I think I'm gonna rely on my own experience which was fantastic on them, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:44 PM
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Every single relationship except a parent and child which is driven by hormones, is conditional. Every single one. No one chooses a relationship which doesn't somehow benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:41 AM
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Only on Reddit and Tumblr do recluse cat herding women say you can't approach women irl. I don't know one single woman in real life who doesn't see it as a compliment when she's approached. The problem is what you look like. I got approached by a handsome man in a suit once, I was ecstatic and gave my number. Another time, it was a fat kinda ugly dude who was shaking while he was trying to make casual convo on a bus stop. I was not flattered then I hate to say it but the same rules apply on dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:37 PM
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Yep. I tell everyone I'm broke and struggling. Why would you want people thinking you have money beats me. No one jealous of you, no one asking you for a loan and everyone is happy thinking they're better off than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:26 PM
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Incels.is still up? Thought they'd get shut down by the FBI. Wouldn't be surprised if a quarter of their active members are journalists and law enforcement larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:20 PM
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Cool. Post them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:10 PM
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Dude, I'm all for preferences for some ethnic groups over others (humans are tribal after all) but rejecting someone just because you find out they have African American blood is not "preference". She just doesnt want to be seen or anyone to know she is with a black man. If that's not racism not sure what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:01 PM
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That's because it's not hard to find a great guy in two months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:52 AM
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This new hot trend is for all of the cool people, local realtor tweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:31 PM
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There is no good explanation why someone is a virgin at 30 except maybe being held in a basement by armed military all your adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:12 PM
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You're 23. Obviously that's normal. If you were 33, I doubt you'd hold this view or be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:11 PM
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I didn't say ban but I'm not gonna start respecting them or saying that it's just a job and all that jazz. It's as much as a job as dealing drugs. It's not worthy of respect and the fact men overwhelmingly wouldn't date a sw shows they don't respect them either. It's not a preference. Liking blondes is a preference. There is no men who has a preference for sex workers. "Oh I have a thing for prostitutes. Always wanted to marry one!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:05 PM
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My point exactly. The fact that this guy thinks he's some great intellectual for knowing this and women cannot possibly reach that level of brain says all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:18 PM
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Probably lost everything on the latest crypto scam but trying to tell himself he's an alpha because he's so not risk averse like those beta men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:45 PM
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Well I'm very curious if you maintain that view if you have that experience. The ick factor aside, I heard that women in those relationships commoditize sex and become unable to love or feel emotion. It's their mind protecting them from the horrors of being intimate with a gross strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:44 PM
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If there are such women, they are a minuscule minority. Women don't decide to be sex workers just like men don't decide to be felons. Life circumstances push you towards the depths of despair and those are the only choices you have. And I'm pretty sure women know by the age of 9-10 about sex work unless they grow up in a Mormon commune. It's omnipresent in society. Would you be ok and supportive if your daughter was a prostitute? Would you marry one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:43 PM
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Well this question has beek asked on this board many times and overwhelmingly, men say absolutely not. Doesn't matter if it's just OF, it's a no. So you are likely a minority. Edit: on what part of sex work would it depend? If she meets clients every night for piv, isn't emotion not involved here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:35 PM
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Well there we have it. Thank you for admitting it. Sex work is not accepted, will never be accepted and no one who's educated and decent wants to be around sex workers. So when OP asks why don't women like sex workers, the better question is why doesn't society?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:34 PM
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Please sir, can I have some casual no sex strings attached sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:33 PM
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My point exactly about you thinking you're smarter than you are. https://www.englishraven.com/Why-Do-The-English-Call-Women-Birds/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:32 PM
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This. OP you sound about as pompous as that one commenter yesterday who was an expert in "compound growth interest rates" and women were just not interested, you see. They only are interested by makeup and celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:30 PM
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I don't believe that is the primary reason. You know very well she will a society outcast, on the bottom rung alongside meth addicts. Would you mind if your daughter became a pro athlete? They also age out early!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:22 PM
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Yeah ok. I'm sure there's tons of women who pick prostitution during career day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:14 PM
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Oh please. Would you date or marry a sex worker? It's just a job after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:13 PM
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Your wife and liberal friends are all super pro sex work when reading op Eds in the times on it but I'm willing to bet a lot of money you 1) have no sex worker friends and 2) would be horrified if your daughter became one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:12 PM
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Not to mention its harmful for women as a whole and society. To use your example, if black people wanted to stay slaves, It would hurt black population as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:11 PM
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It's not because other cultures are more accepting lol. Women there are desperate to escape poverty and will date just about anyone to get a visa. There's a reason the US has very serious immigration verification for marriage because so much fraud occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:09 PM
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If the market is random, how does math even generate higher yields? Makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:15 PM
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Damn. That's a brutal insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:09 PM
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Well I learned something new. Still, you had to have had the foresight to invest in a group or up and coming quants in 1988 when there were thousands others just as smart. It's pure luck. It's easy in hindsight to say but this appears more to be an outlier than a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:23 AM
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It's reality TV. If you actually read about the behind the scenes, drama is stirred up big time. I only watched chunks of the first season. The conclusion of the show can be quickly summed up to no love isn't blind. If one of the persons wasn't attracted to the other when they met it didn't last, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:04 AM
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It's literally impossible to do. There are tons written on this. No one has been able to consistently beat the spy over a period of 20 years. No one. I doubt this dude is smarter than every investor ever. He probably got lucky in past bull run and maybe bought puts at the right time recently. He's gonna get greedy and too aggressive and lose it all. Source: been there. Now stick to etf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:21 AM
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I think it's because you sound pompous and think you're so smart that you're into "compound annual growth rate". It doesn't take a genius to understand compound interest but you must think you're one. Dumb women cant possibly understant such esoteric subjects right? So I'm guessing you're not very smart, come off with an attitude of superiority despite that and majority of people just cringe and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:47 PM
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Here's the lecture. Invest early, it's a marathon not a race, interest compounds over time. There is no complex science here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:46 PM
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Yes the UK is a haven of equality. Give me a break. How many mixed couples you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:35 PM
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See quote by Tywin Lannister on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:29 AM
3

Damn. OP needs burn heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:28 AM
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Agree with second part. When I used old, it took me less than a month to find a fantastic boyfriend. I don't why so many women complain about the selection there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:26 AM
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I'm willing to bet $10k that wouldn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:25 AM
2

Nailed it. Do I want that min wage job where I'll be psychologically abused or should I keep looking? Tough one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:23 AM
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😮‍💨 it was a joke...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:05 AM
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Nov 10, 2022 - This would be an ideal day to think about your personal interests in all areas of your life, Aries. You've surely noticed that in various relationships you tend not to consider yourself and what you get out of it. The configuration of the planets today can help you concentrate on yourself and think about what you give up in return for your need to please others. I think this is saying you spend too much time on reddit 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:00 AM
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You can think whatever you want of us but do know that all women in your life know how you think of us as lesser. It smells from far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:37 PM
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You know fully well why we can't help in a fight. We're physically weaker. Do you expect your child to help you a fight too? An elder? Of course when you set unrealistic expectations just to have a reason to look at us as lesser you'll succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:33 PM
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Yeah they're not. I learned that many times the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:26 PM
0

100% agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:25 PM
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Your post is exactly why I swore off male friends for life. For basic aspects of friendship like listening to my problems, they low key were hoping for sex or relationships. I grant that I won't fix your car or protect you. But I cook, I help emotionally, I give advice on women and I read about finance more than 99% of the population. Sounds like you surround yourself with women you want to sleep with and use the friend cover. Tell me. Have any of your female friends been ugly or ones you wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:25 PM
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"Women are dumb and only follow celebrities" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:22 PM
1

Dunno, I've never done ONS but I'd agree most women don't tell. However men do ONS as well so it's not the same. I get that you're affronted because you date prostitutes and you consider yourself respectable but we can agree to disagree on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:05 PM
1

O...Kay. just gratuitous misogyny now got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:46 PM
5

Lol what? Come to r/harrypotter. It's all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:32 PM
6

Keira? Bah! 5/10 on a good day. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:30 PM
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Eh I disagree. It really depends. A horrible movie from the mid 2000s comes to mind where she meets a prince and he doesn't he tell her he's one. She's average and he's hot. She finds out and then he keeps pursuing her put of love. Total nonsense. Another example is Twilight. Fifty shades of gray. Women who are average for whom princes or hot billionaires or immortal beings fall for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:30 PM
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You'd get similar answers but maybe more positive on other dating subs actually. Everyone knows this an unenviable position to be in and one hard to escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:05 PM
1

I wouldn't. But if he did tell me, I don't know how I'd react. But it wouldn't be positive Tell me. Would you a date a former prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:04 PM
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And where do you take this information from? Because Asians are almost totally not religious and don't value virginity like Abrahamic religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:25 PM
1

He would tell you there's no hope and just prepare for death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:05 PM
1

What's logistics ...nice car?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:05 PM
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How am I being presumptious? The fact you didn't stoop to hiring prostitutes speaks highly of your moral standing. Edit:I didn't mean that men who can't get women normally aren't respectable. Apologies for confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:01 PM
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Would you date a prostitute ? It's just work after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:53 PM
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It's not even that. It shows your moral compass and also your social value. Respectable men don't hire prostitutes because they can get women the normal way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:53 PM
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Sex work is not "real work". It's a crime in many countries and 98% of men (hyperbole here) would end it there and then if they found out a woman they're dating has done sex work. Plenty of threads on this sub confirm it. Women feel the same about hiring prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:51 PM
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I would distinguish between making friends and just being around both genders. It's a big distinction. Entering into a friendship with false intentions is morally wrong and may hurt you in the process but i agree one needs exposure to the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:50 PM
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I guess if you don't care about the woman friends feelings, fair. But then don't call it making friends but just surround yourself with women for study purposes. And again this technique can also hurt the man by making him fall for these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:48 PM
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I can't tell if you are uneducated or trolling. Japan doesn't have an arranged dating culture since the 19th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:46 PM
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Other cultures don't have a dating culture? So how do they date then? I get America bad is a popular trope here but you or any man here wouldn't make a day in China where they have more men than women and women ask your salary on your first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:45 PM
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You didn't have one hour in your life to meet a woman? Are all men with sick relatives alone and virgin at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:43 PM
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I empathize. I do. But us women rely on social proof. If a man hasn't been of interest to any woman ever, my default assumption is there is something wrong with him. Is it fair? No. But that's my innate reaction. The best thing you can do is to learn to fake it until you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:42 PM
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I know a guy who was virgin at 22. Met a girl who wasn't who was super into him. She was hot and smart and the whole thing. He was secretly miserable because he hadn't experienced casual sex and was resentful of her because she had. He ended up breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:40 PM
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These are terrible analogies. For one you have a boss making you train the junior and also having a trained person would relieve workload down the line. There's no benefit or boss for a woman to train a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:38 PM
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Agreed with you on solution but disagreed an alpha male or whatever is scared of women. Alpha men are leaders and charismatic and confident by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:37 PM
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Bingo. The fact that men here are saying being virgin at 25 is totally normal and everyone is like that are just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:35 PM
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Dude. It's not average. At all. 14% of men are virgin between 20 and 24. 5 percent are virgin between 25 and 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:34 PM
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Only weird religious people choose to wait. Waiting until 22-23 is understandable. It's not when you're 30. It's not average to be virgin at that age. You're an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:32 PM
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Go ahead and tell it to the next girl you want to date and let me know how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:30 PM
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Don't listen to advice about getting prostitutes. Only men give this advice. If a man accidentally let it slip he's hired whores before, I would seriously considering ending it there and then. It is beyond the low and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:29 PM
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Strongly disagree about female friends. First of all, starting a friendship on grounds of learning about "the other" is disingenuous and fake. Imagine suggesting tp someone to hang out more with black people to make friends for an ulterior motive such as getting a job or looking less racist. Sounds horrible right? How do you think a woman feels when she realized she was being studied under the guise of friendship? Friendships should form naturally. Going to hang out in yoga studios to make women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:25 PM
2

Thank m'lord for not enslaving me. Can I offer myself as a lowly sex slave in gratitude ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:30 PM
3

What? I guess when you get beaten in an argument this is the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:53 AM
2

The terrorists either shot down women or drove over them with a truck. Pretty sure women don't need strength to do either. Men are more violent and prone to crime, this is statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:51 AM
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As someone said above, men didn't give it out of kindness. Capitalism saw big dollar signs by making women work by reducing the value of labor and went along with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:49 AM
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Said it better than me. Men didn't give us anything. Capitalism did because they saw dollar signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:46 AM
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The reason we have the upper hand is not because you granted us anything but because of societal evolution where women are now working because life is too expensive on one income combined with the internet and online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:54 AM
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I certainly am not asking the men to give it up. I'd be holding onto it for dear life too. And they have been since the advent of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:34 AM
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Not to mention misogyny led to at least 4 terrorist attacks where women were brutally murdered. Name me an attack resulting from misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:21 AM
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Lol just means we're mature adults. Goodnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:19 AM
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You want us to change the world so it's less advantageous to us? I'm sure you would tell me to suck it up if we were in reverse positions. Get on with the supply and demand model.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:18 AM
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Agreed with you there. Most men definitely are not attracted to fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:15 AM
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I'll stick to ghosting then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:14 AM
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I never said it's a default preference. YOU said that no man date a fat woman unless to settle. Changing goal posts? Kink or not. It's a preference. I have a preference for Jewish facial traits. Only date men who look Jewish. Is that a kink or a preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:11 AM
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How did they find you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:47 AM
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On the other thread, men complain about ghosting and want feedback. So which is it - do they want feedback or ghosting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:42 AM
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I know a few couples where the guy is in much better shape than her. In the case of one couple, the man is obsessed with massive breasts and only goes for fat women because they have F+ sizes. May be hard to believe but not everyone thinks like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:37 AM
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Maybe you're an outlier? Just like men who are meek and nurturing are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:15 AM
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Ok ... well your excuses are your own but I wouldn't text you back either even if I was very into you at first. The reason is simple, you clearly weren't that into me and either got horny 2 weeks later or your first choice of woman broke up. I'm not some backup hoe to call when you want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:03 PM
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There's a million reasons you can't text for two weeks???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:58 PM
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You need to pick only incels and guys that are undesirable. That will show that you don't care about looks and are a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:57 PM
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I don't need a credit card in my name if I can have cheap housing, low debt and the lifestyle of the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:29 PM
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As a woman who most often disagrees with men here, I totally side with trp on feminity. Women have rejected what makes us powerful to be become more like men. Western women are ashamed of their innate strengths and would rather act like men without men's natural strength in the arena of masculinity. It's like the women are ashamed of being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:27 PM
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Gotta agree with trp on this one. I don't understand why modern day women reject what makes strongest: our feminine charm and feminity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:25 PM
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First is intelligence for me and then potential. Does the guy offer potential as a husband and partner? Then of course do I want to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:19 PM
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Legit can't tell if sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:12 PM
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I've been propositioned twice. Once by an older colleague who made a fortune in RE and Apple stock. Basically told me off the clock his wife is old and he wants a young one. Why work when I could be provided for? I was dumbfounded. The other was a boss after my internship. He proposed seeing each other regularly and I was so innocent back then I was terrified and my mom got involved lol. In short, i don't know of it happening to my friends but it happened to me and I took it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:07 PM
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Women aren't the ones who have have problems dating. But yes life is not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:11 AM
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Well yeah if you take literally a pedophile as an example, sure. But if we ignore felons and mass murderers and look at 80% of the population, there's generally no consensus what's a decent or non decent guy. You're the one taking extreme examples to play dumb here. Think of 20 guys you know, I'm sure that at least 16 of them are arguably decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:11 AM
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Sorry but disagreed about the friend part. The friend zone is real. It is exceedingly rare for a woman to realize her BFF is her love. It only happens in movies. When we friend zone you it means you're cool to hang out with but not bf material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:08 AM
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Gym, hobbies, money. As my morbidly obese boss said, to get women you need two of the following: money, looks or charm. I got money and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:07 AM
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Definitely agree with first paragraph. Life is too short to settle on some boring, average and milquetoast dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:04 AM
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What does that mean? My male friends I have no interest in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:03 AM
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Agreed with both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:47 PM
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Being a decent guy doesn't mean anything. Everyone thinks they're decent. Where you see decency, i see a doormat. Where i see decency, you see a manipulative asshole. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:29 PM
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I see. Would you be satisfied with "I didn't feel any chemistry". Because that's been the issue 80% of my time. The guy is fine but ... I just don't want to be with him. A lot of men are bothered because it is not actionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:02 PM
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So you would like to be told "you acted really desperate" or "you're less attractive irl than on your pictures". Do you really think this would go well with most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:45 PM
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Which other situation? Companies don't notify candidates. Friendships fizzle out. I think ghosting is just normal. Also yes it often happens that the guy at the other end becomes really mean and calls me all sorts of names. Why take a risk of that when I can just fade away? The guy could be aggressive and take it personally or have had bad dating experience and my rejection pushes him over the top. I don't see a benefit for me to vocally reject, merely increased risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:44 PM
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Because we're stronger together? Sharing resources and leveraging other strengths, being there for your partner when they're down means they will support you when you need it. It's not some archaic notion that a family unit is a good thing to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:42 PM
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What does it gain for you to get a text saying I'm not interested? I guess I don't get it. When I got ghosted, i took it as no interest and moved on. It's like a job interview. It's not ideal but it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:40 PM
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Of course! You wish you took everything and threw her out in the cold when she raised your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:30 PM
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People have families and share resources to survive. You can hoard all you want. It's your life. But do understand that it's not a norm and never been in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:30 PM
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The women that organize communities out of anger of being pumped and dumped by men are laughed at and called spinster and cat ladies. I have just as much right to laugh at your community that's acting like a sore loser for not having the upper hand in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:27 PM
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We do. But whats wrong with that? Back in the day, we had two options. The son of the blacksmith down the road and the son of the farmer. Nowadays, there's literally thousands. Why would I carefully date every guy I go on one date with when I'm not feeling it when I could use that time instead to date a guy who I instantly connect with? It's a net loss if you have options. And grass is sometimes greener. If you went on a date and you feel meh, why not see what else is out there? This technique w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:49 PM
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Totally disagree. Every time I tried giving a chance to someone i didn't feel connection with, the attraction never grew. I trust my gut that says "I don't want to sleep with this person". I usually give 2 dates if I'm on the fence but frankly there are so many other men on apps then why bother dating someone with whom the idea of sex seems repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:31 PM
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Best advice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:28 PM
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A big one I had was not looking like your pictures. Either being way fatter or just different. Another is making weird comments or talking about exes but usually it's just not really feeling chemistry. And yes I've dealt with the "going for a kiss" when you're not feeling it. It's often men with lack of social skills that think "date is almost complete, receive reward".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:28 PM
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I really don't understand the issue with ghosting. It's never bothered me. He's not interested and stopped responding. What is there more to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:18 PM
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I would give the same exact advice to men but yall probably wouldn't like it, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:17 PM
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I mean this is the summary of this sub reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:14 PM
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I don't understand what your argument is here. That it's unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:11 PM
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We don't owe you a treatise what went wrong. We went on a date. I wasn't feeling it. There is no obligation to explain. Not to mention most of the time there's no explanation that the other person would like such as "you were fat" or "you lacked confidence or acted desperate" or "you made red pill comments all evening".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:07 PM
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One thing i can agree with RP on. No response is a response. You're not owed a treatise why the other person doesn't want to see you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:05 PM
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Well I stand corrected. Props to you for supplying proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:05 PM
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Please share your empirical evidence men are smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:01 PM
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A TV stand at ikea is less than 200 dollars. I didn't argue you can get the same furniture for less. Obviously not! But it's not a money saver. It's a hobby. Just like me painting a painting for the kitchen is not a money saver vs buying it at Sotheby's because I can get something cheaper on ebay that covers the stain just as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:08 PM
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Your position is very fair. But there are a lot of very odd conflicting beliefs on this sub. For instance I'd argue most men here think women should have very low count and the men can do whatever. Unfortunately normal and reasonable positions like yours are drowned by the nonsense from the radical wing of trp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:05 PM
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Isn't it convenient. They want a submissive hot virgin who takes care of house and kids AND earns half the income? He can relax and watch TV while she cooks and cleans after work. He can also neg her so she feels worthless. What a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:32 PM
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Canada is an in between culture. I'm from quebec and culture is much closer to Europe. We don't kill ourselves at work. Much more chill. I lived in Ontario and it was pretty close to American way of living. Personality is huge here too lol. Its just that all things equal or appearing equal, women will go for the well off guy. Keep in mind the American system also has ingrained mechanism for people to seek money at the expense of happiness. Paid Healthcare plus private universities almost guarant…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:40 AM
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Those movies are more recent. Disney is definitely correcting I think starting with Mulan. The recent movies are much more egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:31 AM
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I can tell you I'm ethnically eastern European, grew up in Canada and married to an American. It is truly bizarre how obsessed Americans are with money. They make so much of it but it's all they think about it. It's almost fascinating because you can see the capitalist brainwashing in action. They'll take more money and tons of stress and less vacation just for... I don't know? Like I'm telling my husband. We don't need more money. But it's almost a sacrilege for them to stop and think. Do I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:30 AM
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Haha I did and removed that second paragraph lol Upon further reflection i think it's a mix of nature and nurture but the fact that every society has it to some extent is proof its ingrained. Hypergamy goes away the wealthier a society becomes which makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:22 AM
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Women are brought up on Disney hypergamy tropes. The poor maid who meets a prince at a ball. The daughter of a village inventor who stumbles on a castle. The lost maiden saved by a prince. You may scoff at the influence these formative years have on a girl's psyche but I'm willing to bet a lot of money most Aldi cashiers and similar working class girls all dream a handsome lawyer or doctor sees them and is mesmerized by them and asks them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:19 AM
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I can guarantee you it costs less to buy furniture than build it. 100%. He does it because he enjoys it not because it saves money. Same thing as gardening and art. Repetitive daily or weekly tasks are chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:13 AM
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Do you think the Aldi cashier herself wouldn't be more interested in you than her peer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:10 AM
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I wish the ugly guy in the office with a massive gut who keeps asking me out followed your guidelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:07 AM
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Yeah gonna call bullshit on that. It is well known tribes of hunter gatherers in the past 200 years waged wars with others, eliminated them and took their stuff. The whole myth of the peaceful savage is a total invention still perpetuated today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:05 AM
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I'm sure you have better luck than the Aldi cashier. Highly doubt women don't care. Netherlands has a rough economy and people try to improve their circumstances. As for your question, the west is comparably less materialistic than east. In China its customary to ask a man's wages on a first date. In Russia no woman will even look at you without a high title and an apartment which is very hard to earn. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:45 AM
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As other women, I've had the exact experience that men start asking me out despite knowing I'm married. It's kinda crazy. I just said I like your shirt or what you said was insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:15 AM
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Oh no problem at all. Just don't complain you aren't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:03 AM
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Yeah sorry but that's not enough. I'm not destroying my body for some redneck ideals. Pass whatever laws yall want. Women will just go abroad to do the deed as it has been throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:39 PM
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Yes only the people agreeing with you get it. Everyone else is stupid or lying 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:53 PM
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You're literally making stuff up and using tik tok videos as your evidence. And you ignore anyone telling you otherwise. Why do you even bother posting if all you want is vindication?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:52 PM
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You're wasting your time. OP is agreeing with the incels on this board who say that we'd pick the meth head over all things equal a good person. It's impossible to convince these men who just want to feel vindicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:51 PM
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Okay... well good luck with that "math" in your future relationships. And it's pretty standard in tech. He is called when there is a problem to fix. Otherwise he plays video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:19 PM
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No you're totally a 10 ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:38 PM
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My husband makes 40% more but works a total of like 10h a week and fully remote whereas I commute 3 days a week. By your logic, I should be doing most of the chores. Is that fair to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:20 PM
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More like first date Where they split the bill And she picks him up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:58 PM
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Building furniture is art. It's not housework. I painted a painting last week! Is that housework? Its a hobby. Doing dishes and washing underwear is chores and they fall on women disproportionately. There's studies on this if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:54 PM
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Correct And they stop once a woman moves in. Source: every man I've been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:52 PM
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It was brutal but we're both in relationships now and much happier. I wish I could shake anyone considering settling like this commenter, don't do it. Just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:32 AM
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What is promiscuous? You want a virgin. That's the other extreme. Promiscuous for me is one night stands every weekend. Most men don't care that the women dated other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:42 AM
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Exhibit above wonders why women aren't interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:41 AM
0

What is a woman? Educate us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:40 AM
1

Of course. Just like men prefer feminine women over manly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:39 AM
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I haven't read Mein Kampf either. Why waste your life energy on drivel?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:39 AM
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You need to stop reading and following angry manosphere posts and talk to people in real life. Find me one person who thinks this way in the real world and let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:38 AM
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Yeah and it's very easy to get commitment. Don't believe the incel forums. It is very easy for a woman to find a man to commit. Also most men date around as well and have plenty of sex. So those people pair up and voila, they're a couple. In fact, I know two women who were virgins until 30 and men didn't want to date them when they found that out! Because it's fucking weird to be virgin at 30 in modern society. You seem young. Yes being a virgin at 18 is normal. But you need to be realistic that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:32 AM
2

Yeah I don't think there's any correlation with wealth here. But more just plain what people want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:30 AM
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The fact King Solomon is some holy figure boggles my mind. He fucked everyone and was a shameless womanizer and partier . What the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:28 AM
2

We can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:24 AM
2

Man some extra angry folks here tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:24 AM
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I think you are just surrounded by men who are like that that happen to be family oriented. If I had to guess, it's more got to do with your professional life. People in corporate jobs don't run around meeting new women every Saturday. I don't think it has anything to do with wealth but more free time. Conversely there are plenty of serious family men in working class neighborhoods who also just want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:24 AM
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I'm just saying that you're acting like a sore loser. Since women can have casual sex and you can't, you want them to wait for you until marriage. But if the roles were reversed, you wouldn't think twice and laugh that women want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:22 AM
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Would you wait for marriage if hot women wanted to hook up with you? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:18 AM
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I hope I'm wrong but I recognize myself in your words when I settled on a guy I wasn't into and was making mental gymnastic pirouettes to explain why I dreaded sex. The break up was ugly for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:12 AM
2

Ok... I misspoke. If she doesn't sleep with you, she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:10 AM
4

As a woman I can assure you the answer is very simple. She's not that attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:08 AM
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If a woman in modern society, not hyper religious, doesn't want to sleep with you after 6 dates, she's not attracted. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:00 AM
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2-3 dates but I personally believe these kind of games are stupid. You can easily tell from first date if the guy is looking for a hookup. So one date minimum just to filter out guys like that but then anything goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:51 AM
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No, not at all. That's what you want to believe, I get it. But many many men are looking for a woman their age to marry and settle. I'd argue men are less interested in ons at 30 because they've been there done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:45 AM
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At least you understand why being #20 is not desirable in any circumstance. I've been that woman a few times: my prom date asked me after his choice #1 declined. I've been that woman at a bar when other women don't give him any interest comes to me. If I'm not your first choice, I'm not interested. As for your point about being more covert, not sure how more covert you can be striking up conversation in a bar. You make eye contact with your woman of choice. The rest of us see it. Even if you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:15 AM
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Most women on reddit are socially anxious cat herders and I'm a woman. I only met on reddit women who hate being approached in public by anyone.. take what these recluses say as much with a grain of salt as the inceliest folks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:12 AM
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Why wouldn't she? Do you have female friends or you're just imagining what she would or wouldn't do? Also you purposefully picked 2 out 3 things that women aren't good at like fixing car and moving to say were useless. Great intellectual honesty. I however do listen to their problems, cook for them, bring them gifts, play games with them and help babysit their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:27 PM
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Have you ever been outside the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:06 PM
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Lol do you know what other cultures are like? I'd argue American dating culture is one of the least transactional in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:48 AM
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It's called supply and demand. When 10 doctors want to date you, why would you settle for the Walmart cashier?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:48 AM
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The guy I want is the one asking me out. I get that for socially inept shut ins this is inconvenient because they want us to pursue them, have sex with them and clean up after them, cook and earn money to boot but I think I know better than you what I want. I want a guy who has balls to ask me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:09 AM
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Why would I when a man will show his confidence and courage by the fact whether he asks me out or not? It's not beneficial in any way. If you're too afraid of asking me out, I don't want to go out with you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:01 AM
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Exactly. So why should she give up her advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:59 AM
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Respectfully, when it makes the news it's a rare outlier not a trend. You may know one such person but it's extremely uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:59 AM
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Play Heavy Rain a bit more. All those QTEs will train you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:58 AM
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Then why is it always men lamenting we don't approach? I'm quite happy with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:55 AM
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Respectfully I disagree. I would 100% cook and bring coffee to a friend and Have in the past to male friends. YOU would perceive it as romantic hence my point. Those men did too. They thought I was flirting or secretly in love. So this is why I am no longer friends with men. I don't know what friends you've had but I give back in friendships and most women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:58 AM
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No. First I don't believe in men and women friendships. Learned my lesson enough times after being one of the "not like the other girls" in my teens and 20s. As for the app, this is just another avenue for men with no success in dating to make "friends" to find a girlfriend. See meetups. I went twice. It's all single unattractive men looking for a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:20 AM
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I agree. Exceptions are one or both are gay, both are in very happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:18 AM
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So... basically a friend Thanks for reinforcing my belief men don't want to be friends with us in any circumstance unless it's sexual or romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:17 AM
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Agreed with first paragraph. I already imagine men joining it with the covert intent to get a GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:16 AM
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The last paragraph is called being friends. If you think that she's using you by talking to you about her problems, you don't see her as a friend and are just bitter she's not with you. I stand by that men and women can't be friends personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:14 AM
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I bet the friends you guys have have their own happy relationships. I do not believe if your wife is friends witha single male guy he isn't secretly hoping she falls for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:11 AM
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Lol that never works. Trust me. You can't just go back to friendship and see the other person dating others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:10 AM
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No i wouldn't. But that is because I can easily date successful and hot taller men. If I had fewer options, I'd date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:32 PM
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I just don't know what to tell them. Yeah 5'3 is wildly unattractive and yeah life is not fair. Not much more there is to say 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:03 PM
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I mean I am 5 '5 and I would never envision a situation where I'm dating someone who's 5'1. But a 4'4 girl totally could. And the 5'3 guy admitted he's quite picky with women if you read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:30 PM
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A 5'3 man is way below average. He has as much luck as a 600 lb woman. Both are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:22 PM
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RIP to that 5%. Higher than I would think for permanently sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:10 PM
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Physical: lanky or too thin or fat. Both are bad. Small hands or small wrists yuck. Shorter than me (5"5). Thin arms that don't have any muscle. Balding but not shaved. Not a fan of blonde or red hair. Brown or black only for me. Dead eye stare. Non physical. Lack of confidence. Agrees with everything i say. Insecure. Depressed or woe is me. Angry at everyone and generally negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:01 AM
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Ugh I feel you on small hands. Dated one guy and couldn't get over that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:56 AM
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Yeah same. I don't know why. It's a huge turnoff. Although I'd stop at dad bod. No way I'm dating an obese man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:55 AM
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Man I don't miss dance clubs. Are they still a thing? Do people dress out skimpily and go on Friday night to the club?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:43 AM
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I agree that we are naturally hypergamous. I am almost animalistically driven to benchmark a man I'm with. Takes a lot of control to fight that base instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:42 AM
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You think Jeff Bezos was a virgin when he married her? and they lost their virginity to each other? He was a wall street trader.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:07 PM
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Yeah that is a fake story that tends to float up on the internet every few years like a dirty condom to enrage TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:42 PM
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😂 can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:41 PM
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Pre nup do not protect for assets acquired during marriage. I don't get how people keep bringing this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:23 PM
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For the last time pre nup is only for assets acquired before marriage. There is no scenario where a sahm is out on the street with nothing with a prenuptial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:22 PM
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Why exactly would a hot woman making great money date a dude who's broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:10 AM
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Women find weakness and insecurity sexy when it's an added dimension to the man and a rare event. The default should be strength and confidence. We heard a weird noise outside and my husband grabbed the gun and went to check. It didn't occur to him to be insecure. However, he gets emotional and cries sometimes. That makes me love him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:57 AM
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I don't know any woman who likes anal. How many girls have you been with and are you sure they weren't lying ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:29 AM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:13 AM
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Proof? But yeah I wouldn't date someone earning less. I do everything around the house, I cook and take better care of myself. If I have to be the bread winner too, it's just a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:21 PM
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That's how us women get doxxed by a bunch of incels and I won't be able to sleep again because thousands of incels put a fatwa on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:02 AM
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Look can we just be honest here that being approached by an ugly incel dude in a bar, in a store, at work, on the street, at a paint class, at a yoga class, at a video game convention or at church will still work the same because us women don't want to date socially stunted, ugly and depressed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:59 AM
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Men make more money even though we're more educated. My husband out earns me by a wide margin. Also he opens jars. And gets rid of bugs. And teaches me to be a more logical and less emotional. But I agree that most men I know kinda suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:51 AM
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Oh hun, not at all. ☺️ you are honestly so kind and well spoken, I really truly want to help. And crying is totally OK. It's cathartic to let it all out. You haven't given up and you're looking to fix whatever issues you have. That's better than 95% of reddit so give yourself some credit!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:14 PM
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You obviously need to be at the gym every day and eating healthy. Seeing yourself get fit and in shape will improve your self confidence too which i suspect is your major problem. I had a crush on a guy who was way fatter than you but he was so terrified even talking to me that he would just runaway if I ever came close. Obviously I moved on and he would sheepishly message me after trying to deal with his insecurities but that ship had sailed. You need to pull yourself together and get fit. Face…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:11 PM
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I actually unlike most women here agree with men that it's fine to have the preference of a woman having little experience. Expecting a woman to be virgin at 30 is just about as likely to happen as winning the lottery but I personally think it's a valid view to take. No one wants to date a woman who's the town bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:42 PM
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I am sorry you're experiencing this. I think a lot of women are so angry at the incel and misogynist culture they're unable to separate the wheat from the chaff. I don't have much advice on hand but if you want to pm your dating profile if you have one I'll be brutally honest what my view of your problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:40 PM
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I never said it's not unfair or that I don't deeply empathize. Being alone and unwanted is essentially being told you're an unwanted specimen of our species doomed for extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:10 PM
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Men don't care about women's future?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:02 PM
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It's not a ridiculous demand at all. Something like 3% of men are virgin by 30 (I can pull out the exact study) so if you think wanting a man that's part of the 97% is unfair you're just unwilling to accept you're part of a small fringe minority and yes there is likely something that has turned women consistently away from you and we take that as social cue. Just because your group of friends is all virgin doesn't make it normal by any stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:44 PM
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Is having been in jail or being unemployed also just "a thing"? People rely on criteria and parameters to decide whether they want to spend time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:42 PM
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Right back at yall. Did you see the statistics of how often men leave their wives when they're ill vs other way around? Yeah we live in a society where everyone looks up for number uno. That's always been the case just that leaving was much harder back then but they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:50 AM
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Life is transactional dude. Only children believe in unconditional love and eternal devotion for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:49 AM
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Most men don't do this. Also these aren't daily tasks like cooking and cleaning. Fixing a sink once a year isn't equivalent to cooking 3x a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:48 AM
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It's not your fault but if her life was worse as a result of you being, I assume, fat and financially strained, why would she stay in an unhappy relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:44 AM
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Those are weird anecdotes not really proving anything. Yes men care more about sex but in my experience, men's love is deeper. I'm not sure why that is but I have seen the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:34 AM
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I think it was fomo and fear of settling down young and with the only person he's been with. I mean it could have been me the issue and he just never came clean but then why date someone for 7 years? I know plenty of stories like this. Men don't want to settle down young because they want to date around, experience and such..I get it but then like you said, all the normal people are taken and they're left with single moms and mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:01 PM
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Both. We broke up at 25 mainly because he didn't want to marry and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:56 PM
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Again we all have our anecdotes and there's no established fact in the matter. My ex didn't want to settle down between 18 and 25 so I broke up with him, am now married and he's single and upset he can't meet anyone. They're just anecdotes and everyone has them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:54 PM
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Ok... you referenced two people in Hollywood. There's hundreds more there who don't cheat and have normal lives. And cheating doesn't have anything to do with looks. Many times cheaters cheat on uglier women. Your experience is your own I guess and is probably geographic. I don't know any man who settled before his late 20s. In my area, people start settling in their late 20s. Sure I agree with you if you're in a religious area, everyone will settle down early but its far from the norm or it wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:43 PM
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Yes but if you look into those numbers, women outperform men by a huge margin in low paid fields like arts and teaching. The highly paid fields of engineering and such are overwhelmingly men. Also it's no sign of intelligence and success to have a degree. Everyone and their dog has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:25 PM
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Because not everyone is interested in sleeping with a bunch of women and most men want the comfort and love of a happy marriage ? Most successful men I met were happily married and weren't interested in some young pussy. Also top 20% means somewhat fit, over 60k salary and decently tall and educated. These men are definitely not having boatloads of options. Maybe top 1%. Yes playboy Chad's are a thing but easy to filter out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:23 PM
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Can't disagree with that. The thing is, it's not that hard. Most women are less successful, make less money and are... I'm gonna be frank with my own gender, less intelligent. So finding someone better is not difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:05 AM
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The OG incel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:01 AM
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Yes straight men are the only ones who aren't vain and don't care for looks or appearances 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:57 AM
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That's my experience. It took me 2-8 weeks to find someone to date exclusively with 1 date a week. And I'm pretty picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:38 AM
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The NY post is a tabloid fishing for clicks, outrage and people reading in anger disagreeing. No one except some freaks online would call that a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:48 AM
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Men are as vain as woman? So 100% of the humans are vain? I guess so yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:47 AM
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Black wavy hair. Dark brown eyes. Intense look filled with intelligence and cunning. Large nose. I like the classic Jewish facial features. Well manicured facial hair that highlights the strong jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:51 AM
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You have no idea what you're talking about. It is a literal parasite feeding off your body. Our bodies would kill us first to allow the baby to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:18 PM
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Imagine this argument is Jim crows laws are reinstated. Somehow people made it to 1960 a-ok. How stupid do you sound .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:11 PM
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The point is women aren't allowed to be sterilized. Not sure what abortion has to do with this. Obviously a doctor would do an abortion on a 27 year old. The reason they don't want to sterilize us is because of the infantilization, like we don't know what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:05 PM
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This board is filled with incels who hate women and celebrate any pain on us. Whatever. At least we have loving relationships and they're alone jerking off to porn for the rest of their lives 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:46 PM
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When was the last time you protested about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:42 PM
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Not true at all. My husband got a vasectomy at 27 no questions asked. All doctors agreed to do it. It is absolutely true that women are the only ones not allowed to make these decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:38 PM
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As a woman, gotta agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:40 PM
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Men wanting to support women?? Where? I have never met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:22 PM
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I mean aren't you the guy that gets women begging you for a hookup? You would have a skewed view, to be fair. Now, I'm gonna come out and say it but I'd rather be single than date someone who doesn't make 6 figures, is taller than 5'10, fit and well traveled. Is it hard to find? Not at all. I would have 3 dates lined up with men who were superstars. Lead game developers, specialists in their fields, name it. All wanted to settle down. I know if you're a struggling young man pulling 45k and livin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:26 PM
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I mean ... yeah. The bottom 30% are drug addicts, starving artists, homeless or work at wal mart. So just because a lot of people earn less, I need to settle with a Walmart stockboy? I'd rather be single, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:21 PM
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Yeah I'm not dating a 47 year in my 30s. That's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:16 PM
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They're only common in the revenge fantasies of red pillers online. All stats show that overwhelmingly people date within 3 years. Even a 10 year gap is like 6% of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:14 PM
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I meet you. I subconsciously plug you in the 'would date' and 'would never date' bucket. You can move from the former to the latter and vice versa but moving from never to would would require major change. Like total new makeover, new found confidence and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:21 PM
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You're the 1/10 then. He's absolutely right. I 100% friendzone men. If he's not date material for any reason, friend bucket for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:14 PM
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Couldn't agree more woman who's been the victim of this 3x
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:13 PM
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Oh no, the baby spilled some food and you wiped their snot! How hard! My gosh, we should be paying you for that awful labor. 24/7 give me a break. People who have jobs come home and do laundry and cook too unless all you do is clean and cook for your baby around the clock. Here I down voted all your comments too since you're so emotional about it. Yeah your "job" is not the hardest job in the world. Changing diapers anybody can do. There is zero risk or responsibility. A person who's working in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:36 PM
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I think it's far easier changing a diaper than doing an intense job. I'd take take any day and I'm sure most people would.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:25 PM
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Yeah, how about no were not doing that. Just because a man earned more money doesn't mean the woman did nothing. She could have given up job opportunities to move for a promotion for him. I would never marry a man who would make me sign this. Means he doesn't trust me from the get go and probably gonna find a way to screw me and take whatever scraps I have. Pass. You want to plan throwing your wife to the street, stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:40 PM
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Let's be honest. Staying at home with kids is so much easier than working. You don't have to deliver on objectives. You have no responsibility. What's the biggest risk, kids hurting themselves ? Anyone who says crap like "being a mom is the toughest job" either never had a job or is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:27 PM
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Prenups are for assets acquired pre marriage. You can't 'sign a prenup' for assets acquired during marriage. You can't kick her out on the street even though you earned most of the money, sorry. That's not how it works. Don't like it, don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:23 PM
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Do you think life is any different in the west? Let me guess, we're driving Lamborghini, traveling to the Caribbean every weekend and are all professional actors? We also work 12 plus hours and can't afford shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:12 PM
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You know, you're making me reconsider my position. You're actually right that I'm limiting myself to one topic instead of looking at things more broadly... thank you for that insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:51 PM
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Same as men claiming all women have 30 body count whereas the statistical average is like 2.. or that all women fight for the top 3% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/v7ywbg/what_is_an_average_woman_to_you/ibnvc5y?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 I don't think they were joking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:29 PM
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🦍🤝💪
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:21 PM
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Yeah. A trip to Costa Rica is 2-3K. It's not like buying a boat or a jet. A man having a boat would be a turn on for sure tho. What do you expect, that we should be happy dating broke men whose hobby is playing world of warcraft ? Having a good personality is bare minimum. It's really not as hard as you think to find a man who can afford vacations and has a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:13 PM
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I would agree with your last paragraph. As for death note, it's just a very childish concept. You can kill anyone you want. Guy tries to rid of bad guys. Investigators follow him. You want my opinion of deep adult fiction? Korean Movie Parasite. TV show breaking bad. The concepts they explore are complex human experiences. You're right that Dan Brown and Martin are more adult fantasy writers. A guy who reads them wouldn't bother me because the themes in those books are still adult... allegory fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:10 PM
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Just keep HODLing, fellow ape
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:32 AM
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I think men here think attractive is this typical Chris Hemsworth look. I personally don't find that type attractive. My hubs looks a lot like Kylo Ren minus the crazy. I'm sure most women can agree he's super hot but not conventionally attractive And thank you🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:30 AM
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What hobbies, I'm curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:19 AM
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Damn, the gall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:18 AM
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I liked his comment under crusader kings 3 update on Facebook. He messaged me because I was cute. I added him because he was cute. We really hit it off. Left my ex for him and about to move to the usa to be with him. He's not conventionally attractive. Looks like a typical Jewish guy, about 5'11. As for other women, yes for sure. He's the most successful and attractive of his friend group. I insist he cannot hang out with female friends alone without other people present and he's fine with that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:15 AM
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Yeah... I want a partner that's fun. Not sure what trophies got to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:02 AM
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Same. Life is hard enough without dealing with some downer sod every other day and trying to cheer them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:50 AM
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This is the right answer. Still can't get over the one who said Zooey Deschanel is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:47 AM
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Sure, can't argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:06 AM
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Emphasize mindless games. If you play civ competitively with friends once aweek that is not mindless. That's what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:48 PM
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Did you also study the blade?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:44 PM
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The fact you think Death Note is deep means you're either under 18 or have childish tastes. That's my point. Death note is about as deep as Harry Potter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:43 PM
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You sound like an expert on this. You studied the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:40 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:39 PM
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Women don't care if you hate yourself? How many women have you spoken with? Self loathing is a major turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:35 PM
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It's a general trend. Obviously you read one Manga but you're a balanced individual otherwise that's fine. I'm talking about people who have that as their main hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:21 PM
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🥺 that really hurt my feelings 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:17 PM
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Harry Potter is a book for kids. If you read it back then and reminiscing now it is not the same as constantly reading children books. Yes, if you read books written for 10 year Olds all the time, I'd consider it a red flag too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:07 PM
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And yet all men here and on other subs strategize how to get sex from us. Stop looking for it if we suck so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:06 PM
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You're free to consider losers whoever you wish. Someone who plays call of duty every night is not a man I want to date. Casual, a couple times a week gaming session is not the same as daily world of warcraft grind. Max 10h a week I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:58 PM
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Dude don't attack me. I'm just sharing whats a turnoff for me. To answer why, grown ass men reading about big boob fighters from space or big boob Japanese Sci fi drama is not a grown up man, an adult. It's a symptom of possibly other problems... like refusal to grow up, wanting a mommy figure and not having more productive hobbies like other adults. I don't see myself investing in real estate or starting a business with a man child like that. TV shows and books are not red flags as long as it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:55 PM
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They are. Fit men are statistically above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:53 PM
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r/suspiciouslyspecific
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:49 PM
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Apart from what others have said about looks, job and personality... A man who doesn't make me feel alive. A joe schmo who wakes up, burps, grabs a coffee and plays games. I can elaborate on real life examples but I'll limit to one, my now husband. Met him during covid and he was in another country. He was so interesting and exciting, I braved the lockdowns and quarantines to see him. We both just went on a whirlwind trip to Europe... life is exciting with him. We have fun. I feel alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:48 PM
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I would 100% agree with this post. Companionship with a man who adds nothing would be a negative for me. 1. Sex. I don't want to have sex with a man who doesn't excite me but just.. there. Plus most men suck in bed. 2. Women are still expected to cook and clean. So with this wonderful companion I'll be expected to cook and clean for two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:43 PM
3

I would add "basic male hobbies": mindless video games, comic books, Marvel and the worst of them all, anime. I would consider liking anime or Manga past age of 21 as HUGE red flag. Edit: damn this triggered the weebz here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:39 PM
2

What about you, are you an average guy and if so, what are you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:32 PM
5

Me too I raised an eyebrow that having a job and not living with parents is women being demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:05 PM
3

Define below average woman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:58 PM
1

That's not true. Men tend to expect us to do most of the house chores, cook and look beautiful. Also endure them gaming 8h a day. How is this a benefit to us? And before you say sex, I've had 13 partners and only one blew my mind so I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:57 PM
0

Let's do a poll and find out. All women I know got what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:50 PM
-1

What, that looks matter? No one is arguing that, for crying out loud. No, we don't want to date morbidly obese or sub 5 feet men as a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:37 PM
7

My experience is similar except I know several who are incel into their 30s. From what I hear, it's their doing at that point. Women have pursued them but they freaked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:31 PM
9

As a conservative voting girl gamer, I know a panoply. Physical: either overweight or really scrawny. Usually under 5'11. Balding is a common feature too. Job: all of them either studied some bs crap or never went to college and work service jobs, call center or attempting twitch fame. Personality: meek, say yes to everything especially to women, passive, don't stand up for themselves. Super easy to take advantage of. Intelligence: average or below. I know one smart incel but he is the kind of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:29 PM
1

Or some women like big noses? I love the Jewish look personally. Big noses turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:35 AM
3

Affairs are almost always not to get sex but excitement and romantic connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:28 AM
6

They don't just work 100h. They live and breathe their company day and night. You do it for prestige and money I guess but at the cost of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:54 AM
0

I'm a woman but the reality seems to be the vast majority of women lack what it takes to make a company big. I still remember Marissa from Yahoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:23 AM
10

AMD? I need to buy more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:44 PM
2

He thought I was playing hard to get for 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:27 PM
2

I really don't think he thought of them as dates. If going for brunch and chat about other people you're dating (he would tell me about his dates) counts, then he's really delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:58 PM
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No he ghosted me after I met him and made it clear I'm really into this other guy. He doesn't even know I got married unless someone we both know told him at some point. I hung out with him because I enjoyed his company. I don't get why men are so angry here that a woman can enjoy a guys company and not sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:56 PM
-1

Do we have a counterpoint that we have no personalities or anything of value and are empty shells only good for a fuck? No i got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:24 PM
2

Yeah the third paragraph was chilling to read. 'Why won't women date red pillers?' Threads, please redirect here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:23 PM
1

So deception? Yeah. That sucks. If you said upfront "I just want to fuck you and not call you", no one would be complaining. The problem is men won't do that because they know most women don't want to be disposable hookup partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:19 PM
1

I mean it's probably true that if the guy is nonchalant, he has other options which means he is desirable (good in bed, smart, funny etc) whereas a guy who clings to you like a bloodsucker probably has few options therefore something may be wrong with him. It's called social proof. My husband pursued me but was very upfront what he is not and what he's not and made it clear what was never acceptable to him. That showed me he had tons of options but preferred me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:16 PM
1

You showed self respect and maturity. That's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:14 PM
1

I mean I can tell you that men I keep as friends are lower on the totem pole for me. They're usually less attractive, earn less money and are less confident and have less future potential. Seeing someone as a friend in inter gender relations is a demotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:11 PM
2

All women on this thread are ok with ending friendship. No one is actually complaining about that. We're complaining about men then pretending being only friends to seduce her and growing angry and frustrated at their failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:09 PM
1

🤨 ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:26 PM
1

Do men have a nature or are yall complex individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:25 PM
1

I'm sure I wasn't blameless in this whole thing. I may have sought attention. Either way, it's best for both parties to cut friendship immediately after one develops feelings. That's definitely my strategy going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:21 PM
2

I really don't understand how a man can think "she rejected me but still hanging out as friends. Maybe she's just playing hard to get... for 10 years". That's willful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:02 PM
1

I really don't understand how a man can think "she rejected me but still hanging out as friends. Maybe she's just playing hard to get... for 10 years". That's willful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:02 PM
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Define lead on. He never paid for anything. In fact, he was super cheap. I invited him for food many times and he would charge me the exact amount to the penny if he paid for a coffee. If that was him in love with me and courting, I can see why he has problems. Only way I may have led him on is not pushing back on the jokes about my butt and such. I didn't want to be confrontational I guess so just ignored those jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:00 PM
2

I did want to be his friend. Call me naive, but I thought he had moved on from me. He told me he wasn't interested in me. I believed him at his word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:57 PM
3

He never paid for anything... what? We just hung out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:56 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:56 PM
1

Why was he friends with me? Why should I be protecting his feelings? I was friends with him because I liked him as a friend. Stop excusing shitty behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:53 PM
0

This story is super common. Many men take the slow approach thinking we will fall for them after spending enough time. If I didn't find you attractive at the start, I won't now. As for the men who are blaming us here, they're just recognizing their own behavior and how awful it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:47 PM
2

So a man can't get over a woman? Again we were friends, he told me that and still wanted to remain friends. One can't be friends with anyone that ever had feelings for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:57 PM
2

I mean... yeah, i agree. That woman is an adult and if she's not leaving, it's not up to the man to protect her Itty bitty feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:49 PM
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Movies yes. Comic book conventions no. We alternated doing things we liked. For instance, I went to see marvel movies with him even though I hate that stuff. Sure, he listened to me talk and I to him. My mistake is not reading between the lines for years. He, on one hand claimed he had hordes of women after him but none good enough. I thought it was true because I did witness women hitting on him in teh past. Conversely though he kept talking about red pill and mgtow crap. What man that is succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:47 PM
2

And why couldn't he stop being friends ? Why is it my responsibility to protect his feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:44 PM
2

What? He just ghosted me over night when I told him I was serious about a guy and to stop making comments about my ass. Vanished overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:43 PM
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So what should I have done then? I thought he had moved on. What should I have done to prevent the outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:42 PM
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He was fun to hang out with. We went to festivals and laughed about stuff. I don't think he's lesser than me as a person but I can and did better with men. You are telling me you don't have friends that are obviously less successful and attractive than you and it's obvious to you both? You're just trying to create a claim I used him or something. Yeah, if hanging out grabbing a beer is using sure. Don't worry. Not making that mistake again. I swore off male friend for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:41 PM
2

Read your history. Jesus what did your ex do to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:45 AM
2

I agree with the other person. There's an unspoken hierarchy in groups. It's just part of our survival tactics. There are leaders, there are the strong and there are the weak. You think with finite resources, a man who is a tall fighter will be seen the same on the totem pole as a disabled man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:43 AM
2

You don't need to do anything. A guy who acts submissive is a turnoff for the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:41 AM
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I have liked men who didn't like me back. Moved on within a month or two. I get you're feeling targeted here but I have zero pity. I don't owe an apology for not wanting to date my obese, undereducated, comic book obsessed, less paid than I ex friend why I don't want to date him. Not to be mean, but he should have guessed that he's trying to punch above his weight. We were friends. I made it ultra clear I'm not interested This is the problem you see. Many men, like yours, entitlement and anger w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:33 AM
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I had a friend being "friends" for 5 years, waited until I broke up with ex, then declared feelings, I said no I don't see you this way and he wanted to stay friends. We stayed friends for years while he gave me self serving advice about men: encouraging me to date men I didn't like and dissuading ones I liked. When I met my now husband, he disappeared overnight. 10 years of friendship to have me as GF. You think that's acceptable? He should have politely told me he can't be my friend when I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:25 AM
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I mean read this post again and ask if one would want to be friends with you as a woman. You don't see us as equals but only potential for sex. I can assure you that women feel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:21 AM
1

Dude, your nose is actually quite nice. Are you sure that's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:43 PM
1

100%. Men can be insanely mean. I once overheard what a fat virgin said about my looks and he'd never do it with me to a friend. Like, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:36 PM
2

Same. Longest I was single was January 2017 to November 2017 and I took that time to go on weekly dates and had a blast regardless. It usually takes me 4-8 weeks to find a relationship worthy man from apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:24 AM
1

Yeah we can. But expecting a woman to be virgin at a certain age is not realistic. Most women date many men before finding one they settle down with. Anyone who's a virgin past 25 has serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:54 AM
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I think she was offended because it wouldn't bother you that another man fucks her. It's not that she thinks she's the best she can do. Women want to feel special and the only woman in the universe for their man. And they want their man to feel territorial for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:45 AM
2

Antiwork kids all agree that they should be paid 2K a month to contemplate life and do shitty art. Others will be doing the farming, working fields and cleaning sewers. The ones who are passionate about those things. Antiwork is a meme but it's funny to rile them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:39 PM
2

What effects are those? More than likely, we will be chugging along as usual. No one has the balls for any revolution. The antiwork types all expect someone else to eat the rich, so they can get UBI and do shifty art in their Brooklyn studio.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:02 PM
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You're forgetting a key detail. Dowry. Men married in many many cases if the dowry was good. Men have historically cared about her money very much. In general, I think a woman who takes care of herself and earns under 100k should have no problem finding a decent looking guy earning as much or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:48 PM
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That's how I see it. If that's what she wants to do, that's her business. I actually know an attorney who makes 200k whose husband was German, earning like 50k euros, got his marriage green card and she told him not to bother moving until he finds a job that pays as much or more from Germany! Now finding a 200k job when you're in the US is super difficult, doing it from abroad with not an amazing job history is impossible. He didn't have much luck last I checked but did move to the US in the end…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:45 PM
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This is why. A man who can provide provides maybe companionship with more mess. Also there is an inherent ick turnoff factor at a man who earns little. Like me losing my job will mean we are homeless. It's just a huge turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:29 PM
2

People have been predicting the end of the world and destruction of society since Greek times. We will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:27 PM
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Hard disagree. I have met attractive guys who can't string two words together and it was a turnoff. Confidence is key. In reality, most attractive men are charismatic because they have had positive feedback all their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:25 PM
1

I can agree with this. That's certainly my philosophy as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:16 PM
3

What are you putting on the table? You're complaining women don't want to provide. What's in it for a woman making 200k providing for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:03 PM
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Why would we provide? Low odds of orgasm, low help around the house. I get that every man dreams of a sexy woman making 200K, cleaning the house, cooking delicious meals and giving a BJ while he's playing CSGO, but that's about as likely to happen as me meeting and falling in love with a sexy vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:58 PM
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That's your response? Well at least we all see you have no intention of actually discussing unless people agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:54 PM
4

Because we share 80% of our DNA with seals? Because we evolved from the same ancestor? Human behavior can therefore be compared to animals to delineate nature from nurture. For example, the argument that homosexuality was made up by men was debunked by showing that plenty of animals have gay relations in the animal kingdom. Therefore the behavior is natural and driven by base instincts not Instagram or the FDS subreddit. Seals don't use reddit. If seals reject 90% of their males, this means wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:26 PM
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He's bringing up nature and animal kingdom to show you women's selectiveness isn't some feminist thought but basic biology. Pretty obvious to me. No one is saying it's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:18 PM
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It's total myth that high value men don't want to commit. I'd argue the opposite. Losers who had bad experience with women only want to live out their Chad fantasy and not commit, fooling themselves they're high value in the process. High value men don't need to impress anyone. They had their share of casual sex in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:11 PM
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25K??? Damn gold diggers expecting hard working men to earn a quarter of 100k now??? Cat ladies!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:09 PM
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Are incels fringe for men? You'll likely say yes. Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:07 PM
4

That's... disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:38 PM
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I do make over that but also lol you saying that when it's mostly software engineers complaining they can't find a girlfriend... doubt they can afford to be too picky! I am being brutally honest here but if you'd rather insult me because you don't like what you hear, your business. When I was single, I made maybe 65K and it was insanely easy dating amazing men making double my salary. Do with that what you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:53 PM
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Sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:47 PM
-1

The average price for a home being sold now is 429K in Texas. The cheapest areas are Houston and Ft Worth at 400K. Good luck paying that on 60k. I don't live in Texas but almost every guy I know in texas makes over 100K. One can just avoid dating gas station attendants and date software engineers. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:19 PM
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Ah yeah, I see the 666 allegory now. Nonetheless, 60K is not getting you a house even in Texas (idk maybe in Abilene) and I would wager most women expect a bigger income than that. I personally wouldn't date a guy who makes under 80K.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:08 PM
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Yes. If she gives you cold responses and they're rare move on. She's pushing off the unpleasant task of talking to you at the end of the day. I would drop it if she doesn't respond within 12h more than twice without telling you (I'm leaving on a camping trip with no connection)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:32 PM
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I honestly can't comprehend the 51%. It must be skewed by older divorced men because that number is disturbing if it's similar for men under 40. Dating for men is super hard, I agree with men on that, the kind of men that wanted to commit to me when I was on apps would never look my way IRL. Men are no longer dating their match in real life so they're lowering their expectations on apps. The guys who aren't amazing are left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:30 PM
11

60K is high demand now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:06 PM
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Totally agree. The men I was lukewarm towards when dating I would keep on read for days as backup. The guys I was really into, they got replies within an hour. And my job was aircraft assembly shop supervisor for a new program critical for the company stock and profits. Pretty sure it wasn't involving sitting on my ass. But I went to the bathroom and had lunch so could text
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:52 AM
4

Give me a break. I had an insanely intensive job and had the time texting a guy I was into at least once. You're telling me you never go to the bathroom or have lunch?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:51 AM
2

Ok... well dont wonder why they move on then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:50 AM
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Hard disagree. When I was into a man and had a job that was insane, 12h shifts plus after work obligations, i found 10 seconds to text him. You're just not that into him or take it for granted he will be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:48 AM
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Yeah, no. Even the president of the USA has ten seconds when in the bathroom to send a text. You do too. You're just not that into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:46 AM
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That's just bad strategy. Also I think it's very unusual, never seen anyone having "text anxiety".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:44 AM
1

As expected... crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:49 PM
2

Ok link me one study then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:29 AM
1

You do blue collar work with 3 stem degrees in the market with the most job openings in history? Is your stem degrees marine biology and nutrition? That's nothing to do with the economy. Just bad major selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:27 AM
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Her point is most women would not say yes to any guy that asked her out thereby eliminating the possibility of getting into a relationship where the askee is the desperate one just settling. If a girl says yes when you ask her out, she is genuinely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:13 AM
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Right, studies that don't align with your world view are fake whereas your anecdotal evidence is reality. Look, it sucks accepting this but ignoring reality isn't a good strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:07 AM
1

I must be heartless. Took me 1-4 weeks to go over my ex bfs. But my experience is the same. I know men who 4-5 years later still thought of the one who got away. Jesus, move on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:06 AM
0

So then why date us? Why being obsessed with us? We bring nothing to the table. I don't understand why you want to interact with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:03 AM
1

I love the expression "fold like cheap suits". Never heard it but gonna use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:01 AM
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That book is the largest amount of drivel in a book I've ever seen. Don't care what others think! Ok... thanks, what a revolutionary concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:00 AM
2

Thanks for your insight on whether we get assaulted or not. Every woman I know has been assaulted or sexually harassed at some point. Its hard for you to believe maybe, because you wouldn't, but many many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:58 AM
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It's not about mistreating women. It's about being conditioned to only care about male pleasure. Dating incels and inexperienced guys means re conditioning this belief that only men need to enjoy sex. I had relations with guys like redditors. The sex was so bad I still cringe remembering it. They basically reenacted pornos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:44 PM
1

The women were way too nice to those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:12 AM
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Your story at 18 is an outlier. Every guy I knew at that age wanted to party and have tons of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:09 AM
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High chance? It's 100% guaranteed to be a selfish act. Most men on reddit subsist on porn and their idea of a good time is rough fuck and cumming all over her face. If that's what op has in mind i can see the confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:05 AM
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I agree that women are naturally hypergamous and disagree with women who say we arent. We rarely act on it but it's always on the back of our mind (is he good enough? Where is his career going? Is he gaining weight?) and always consider our options on the market constantly. Most girl friends I have in happy relationships always discuss about their current guy as a job and whether there is future, market value etc. It's not explicit but we all know we think about it. If you have a guy friend who'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:28 PM
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As fellow woman, agreed fully on all three. Especially point 2. Women I know who complain about that went out with 3 guys in 2 months and rejected the dozens of others and then complain of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:24 PM
4

Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:47 PM
6

This is my experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:24 AM
5

Same. For me the baseline is not fat (no dad bod or belly or just rolls of fat) and at least 5'7 in height and not scrawny thin. Normal physique and moderate height. No lazy eye or noticeably asymmetric features, no neckbeard chin. Either totally bald or with hair, not a noticeable receding hairline. It's really not hard to find nice men meet this threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:09 AM
2

Idk I've seen the personal responsibility argument just as much as "it's a life". Usually followed by "don't open your legs if you don't want to risk pregnancy" or "pregnancy is a risk of sex". The argument is that one's irresponsibility should not be ground to deny life. I can see the parallels of telling a man that he is taking the risk of being financially destroyed for life by having sex. It's just a risk of sex and if he doesn't like it, he needs to wait until marriage etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:03 AM
3

Props for having a healthy discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:30 AM
1

Are you pro life then? Because that exact argument is made by pro life people to say abortion should be outlawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:48 PM
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I mean that is the argument used by pro life people to outlaw abortions. And the answer is often birth control fails. Unless you're pro life yourself, it's a very disingenuous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:46 PM
2

Well... yeah. Every man who's been friends with me when I was younger was in for one long game. Not one was a real friend. I agree with this comment entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:03 AM
1

Sex is riskier for us. We don't want to risk being with a man who's not fully sold on us. Most men would be very happy with zero commitment. Women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:30 PM
1

? Do you want people to give their opinions or insult them if they don't agree with you? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:32 PM
7

That's disturbing. Did she go to daily orgies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:29 PM
0

I can see how this would benefit men not women. They can comfortably wait for a woman to throw themselves, have sex with her and cast her aside due to low cost or involvement. Women select a mate not a sexual partner so we measure a partner worth by his involvement and costs. Him finding the courage to ask us out, taking out to dinner, writing daily. That shows he wants me not just a pussy for the night. There is zero advantage asking men out unless I just want sex with the hottest guy. I don't.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:28 PM
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