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i think that you could definitely find someone. just swipe on black women on dating apps. or i don’t know how old you are but colleges tend to have ally groups for POCs and you could start there. and my advice is to remember that not all black women are the same, which duh you already know. but try to go into a relationship without assumptions and ask questions and have an open mind. and i haven’t written off white men completely but i’m pretty close just because of past experiences as well as i…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 11:17 AM
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you’re asking the wrong question unless you’re trying to fuck all men or multiple or a bunch. the question you need to be asking should the man that i want to spend my time with be so concerned about my body that he treats me worse when it isn’t perfect? stop trying to impress all men. you want just one, i’m assuming. if you want shallow men then yeah, worry about your weight. you don’t want a lot of dates. you want the date that turns into a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 02:51 AM
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there’s no such thing as being emasculated because masculinity is a social construct. and why would you want something that’s so easily threatened by i don’t know a woman having autonomy? your husband seems like an abuser in the making.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 02:47 AM
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which is so odd given the huge k pop craze in the USA.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 02:21 AM
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lol sorry i’m stalking you. but yeah as a black women I don’t really find that other people find me undesirable. the only people that really don’t find me attractive tend to be racist, but then again even racist people will find me attractive while simultaneously being repulsive racist assholes. me personally i date people of all races and i have a lot of matches on dating websites. but the thing is having matches doesn’t mean compatibility. and once i change my profile to be “less conventionall…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 02:19 AM
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yes! make the person comfortable. back massages are nice, or foot massages as well. kissing. making out for hours is fun with the right person. and check in with them. make sure they’re okay with everything that’s happening. and try to relax yourself because i imagine you might be nervous. remember that this is an experience not something to win or conquer or beat. you’re a human engaging with another human. have fun, make mistakes, laugh. also if you end up moving further kissing inner thighs i…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 02:09 AM
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how is it taking advantage? are you seriously implying that men are so stupid they think twitch streamers and pay per snap girls are going to fall in love with them or something? come ON. they’re not stupid. they pay for porn not a relationship. they’re not being tricked or swindled. it’s degrading to paint them as vulnerable men.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 01:31 AM
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my advice? delete all social media. now. stop interacting with incel content. invest in your irl relationships and your hobbies and your jobs and self improvement. try to become more self aware and emotionally intelligent. smoke some weed. RELAX. life is not that serious and most of it is bullshit. you’re already on your way just keep walking.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 01:17 AM
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for me personally i have a shallow vagina and my partners all had had like HUGE penises and it’s always uncomfortable and not fun to have sex. so i’d love to find someone with a smaller dick so i don’t have to worry about being in pain and can just relax. i’m sure there are a lot of people like me out there. and yeah, like the other person said. how many times do we have to answer this question. most of us don’t care.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 01:12 AM
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yeah to go off on what you said. women do get attached to people that are unattached to them. the same way men get attached to women who don’t give a shit about them. RP is filled with men and boys like that. because it’s human nature to want what you can’t have. thing is, RP makes it a gender thing when it’s a human thing.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 01:05 AM
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to answer your question it’s a chemical thing. simple trauma bond. all of the tactics in the red pill thread are teaching men how to abuse and form trauma bonds. so in a way they are right. abusing people can sometimes get you a relationship. but it’s because of wearing down their self esteem, making them question their sanity, and using intermittent reinforcement that makes them chemically bonded to you like a drug. it’s not a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 01:04 AM
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hmm i have a different experience but i think it could be due to porn. for example i am a woman who watched porn for a long ass time. during this time i thought about sex a lot, masturbated 3-4 days week, fantasied constantly. pretty much very stereotypical guy behavior. i didn’t realize it was different for other girls until getting older. and i still don’t really know what’s a normal libido for a girl. but anyhow, as i began weening myself off this addiction i noticed a difference in my sex dr…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:59 AM
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i’m not shocked at all. even when i look very bad (hair not brushed, baggy pants, ill fitting shirt, no make up) men still look at me in a sexual way vs when i’m dressed up, wearing make up and yeah men still look at me. that’s why it annoys me when people say i dress for men because men literally do not care what i look like so why would i dress for them? 😂 men are very easy in my experience (not an insult). but of course, there will always be an exception to that rule. and my theory is that me…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:40 AM
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yeah idk. i’ve always been very forward and that never worked for me. as in, i dated like a man. and i will say my life literally changed when i started letting men chase me. so much so it was annoying. in my head i was like “so this is what was stopping me from getting dates/relationships??” so to be honest the world (or at least the people around me) are still in that men chase/ women reject mindset. when i pursue men they don’t want me but when i stop pursuing all of a sudden i’m interesting.…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:33 AM
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when you eventually get a girlfriend you’ll find you will not be complete. the relationship will not fill that void in you. everything will not fall into place. a relationship adds to your life but life isn’t like a book or a rom com or TV show. a relationship is (ideally) like having a really great best friend. it won’t solve everything but it’ll make stuff better. but if your life sucked before having them, it’ll still suck in some ways. so focus on finding a way to love yourself, or for start…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:25 AM
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stupid question, no offense. that’s like asking “do people want to sleep with others or are they satisfied with just one.” there is no answer to that question because you can’t generalize all of the human race. just like it makes no sense to generalize half the human race.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:21 AM
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try treating them as human beings and not people on a roster to boost your self confidence. how do you expect to have a relationship if you don’t show consistent interest? no self-respecting person wants a relationship built on flakiness.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:19 AM
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ikr. i hate that mindset. me 2 years ago would’ve dated literally anyone. and that’s because i didn’t have friends due to moving. there are lots of women with zero standards. it annoys the fuck out of me when i hear “women only want hot guys”. most of the people that subscribe the philosophy have very little life experience.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:16 AM
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no i always feel sick and awkward or shitty about it. i’d say most people do. some people suck though so there will be some women and men who like rejecting people. those people are narcissistic in some way and very insecure. edit: also everyone gets rejected. i feel like the red pill thread doesn’t understand that every human being has faced rejection. every. single. one. it’s apart of life and most well-adjusted people don’t relish in rejecting others.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 12:12 AM
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yeah personally if all you do is talk about working out it’s a turn off. it makes sense that a girl who works out would like to talk about that every day. but it comes off as being obsessed with looks rather than fitness. and it’s just plain boring. even the rock doesn’t always talk about working out and he hits the gym like 2-3 times a day. as long as it’s not your whole personality i don’t think people would really care though.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 08:43 PM
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