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do everything friends don't do : 1) avoid small talk : either talk about more intimate or emotional, but in a fun way...don't be like "do you believe in love?", but you can be say stuff like "how many kids do you want? i want 4...if you want less than 4, we should just stop this now." in a joking way. 2) touch her : this is basic. i don't really think about it but if i were to think retrospectively about what i usually do, i tend to start with friendly touches on the shoulder, then back, then fo…
/r/seduction26/08/15 06:08 AM
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it really depends how you said it. that can come across as flirty or extremely needy depending on your intonation. the way it works is : 1) Earn her trust 2) Seduce her 3) Make a move If you jump into 2 before 1, that's generally when you look like a try-hard. Otherwise, I agree with the others, you probably did nothing wrong...you win some you lose some.
/r/seduction26/08/15 04:22 AM
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MOVE ON! save yourself the embarassment, she is not down. I hate to be that guy that shits on your dreams but : 2 weeks means 336h. a girl that can't even spare 1 for you is not even remotely interested.
/r/seduction25/08/15 06:49 AM
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girls generally don't understand the notion of wanting to fuck someone without even talking. even when girls find guys "attractive", they are not necessarily thinking of having sex with them right off the bat. you probably show them too early that you want to fuck them and that turns them off. just try to pretend like you want to get to know them before you show how bad you want it. or even better, try to get to know them for real.
/r/seduction25/08/15 06:47 AM
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or you can say some stupid shit like "my pet guinea pig just died...i can't stay in the house by my self. wanna come over for some sexual healing?"...i find the invitation to come over and watch a movie a bit played out. it's not gonna be exciting for her receiving a text like that and she might even not be interested
/r/seduction24/08/15 05:37 PM
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ok that works too. "i wanted to watch [insert movie, tv show] this week. you in?" just make it seem as though you have your plans already and your life is fulfilling enough but you just want to know if she's interested in accompanying you on the ride.
/r/seduction24/08/15 05:31 PM
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don't call. text. i know some people are like "real men call yadaydaydayd..." no. do whatever you're comfortable with, to each their own.
/r/seduction24/08/15 06:38 AM
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it's too serious man...it's almost like a business meeting. i'd go for something like : "i want to try [insert bar, restaurant, activity, anything] this week. you in?". this makes you sound like a guy who takes charge and it's more simple for her. your question kinda puts all the responsibility on her. i hate receiving texts like this cause i want concrete plans.
/r/seduction24/08/15 06:35 AM
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While what you are saying sounds very alpha etc., in the real world, a lot of girls will be very intimidated by such a direct approach. They might just put their guard up or just act in such a way that the conversation can't move forward. Also, you are telling her you are interested, which is kinda boring for her. I find that girls enjoy the uncertainty when you don't overtly try to flirt from the get go.
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:34 PM
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Nah man, i disagree. I think it's good if she lets her guard down for at least the first 5 minutes. If she knows you have "bad" intentions, she won't even give you time of day or she'll answer but just be waiting for an opportunity to leave. Obviously, you want to start escalating the interaction ASAP when you have her attention...
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:02 PM
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When I say talk like she's a guy, you can even start the conversation with like "Yo! where did you buy this?". she'll be kind of confused cause she rarely gets approached this casually and she'll automatically lower her guard as she will assume you probably aren't trying to get into her pants.
/r/seduction15/08/15 08:54 AM
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1) Talk to a girl as if she were a guy. 2) Try to grab her contact info as if she were a guy. 3) Look at her in eyes when you speak and don't overthink as if she were a guy. 4) Invite her out. 5) Start to talk about subjects that AREN'T FACTS : what she thinks about a movie, how she feels about her job, where she would go traveling if she could go anywhere, dreams, aspirations, yada yada yada. 6) Try to get to know her as if your sole objectif isn't to kiss her (It's even better if you get into …
/r/seduction15/08/15 08:51 AM
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If i were you, I would make the move regardless of how you think she sees you. Think about it, if you don't make a move, you're just living a fake relationship and pretending shit to spare yourself the awkwardness/failure. You want to be fake?
/r/seduction15/08/15 08:38 AM
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You have 2 options buddy. 1) You actually do see her as a friend too and you don't want to jeopardize that by making a move 2) You actually really don't want to be in friendzone and would rather not even hang out with her than hang out with her without being intimate. If 1 : keep doing what you do and hope she makes a move or gives you an opening. If 2 : make a fucking move. if it works great, if it doesn't...nothing will happen, but it might become awkward and you'll slowly drift apart. the goo…
/r/seduction15/08/15 08:34 AM
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Don't tell her anything. If you perform, tell her it's not your first time. If you choke, you can tell her the truth.
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:16 AM
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Well for starters, if you are the one leaving...it is more likely she was interested. If she finds any reason to gtfo, she probably wasn't that into you. But what you must remember is that girls sometimes don't make a decision as quickly as us. You can look at a girl and in 1 second know if you're interested or not. But girls don't just view us as sexual objects. They will interact with us a bit before making a definite opinion so it's hard to tell the difference in such a short period of time. …
/r/seduction30/07/15 09:28 PM
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1) Hot girls on Tinder that you match with are generally not real. They won't answer or they will send you something like "Hey, are you looking to meet hot single girls in your area? go to www.fuckhotbitches.com". 2) Average women are generally a bit psycho because those who aren't don't need tinder to meet guys. 3) Unattractive women are unattractive. Just forget about Tinder, it's practically impossible to find a hot sane woman because all the hot sane women are not on Tinder. Or if they are, …
/r/seduction30/07/15 03:42 AM
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Got it. Yes, we are talking about non-escort. Look man, I have met girls who were flaky as hell. I have also met guys who were. I think you have been unlucky. But trust me, there are some pretty cool girls out there. And they don't cost anything and you know they're not pretending to enjoy your company. I feel like you were hurt by your ex and you need to meet women that are going to make you feel like "the man" again but you won't get that from an escort I believe. But then again, if you absolu…
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:36 AM
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No but what I meant is : why do you care if she's dishonest if she's just there for sex...why do you care if she's unreliable?...you're not trying to find a mother for your kids. If you just want to fuck, then any girl who is hot should do, no matter her personality.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:15 AM
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Aw man, your post makes me sad. It sucks that women have disillusioned us so much. Chicks can be gold diggers, super emotional, dishonest, two-timers, unreliable, and headaches. Why do you care about this if all you want is sex though?
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:04 AM
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for your whole story, I had a mental image of Drake in Degrassi.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:36 AM
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Don't do that. They're just girls, at the end of the day. Not worth getting yourself into these big inner debates. If she doesn't respond well to you being yourself, fuck it. You tried, she wasn't right for you.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:34 AM
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I would say don't restrict yourself to being friends with a girl you want more from but also don't run away from friendship. It can be really nice to have some lady friends, but you also don't want to end up in the friend-zone so make sure you become friends only with girls that you want as friends. Don't be afraid to be assertive and show what you want, I think girls will definitely respect you for that...
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:21 AM
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I don't even think you acted too horny, I think you were trying to act all "alpha" and it came out wrong.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:15 AM
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what i mean by ignore is just leave her time to forget your blunder. or like give her some air to breath so she doesn't feel like you're trying too hard or being overwhelming.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:14 AM
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To each their own. Play on your strengths. If you're a quiet, calm guy, try to approach at bookstores, cafes, house partys and bars with a lower volume of music. Try to think about your interactions with women differently. Don't think so much about the content of the conversation, but rather try to convey emotion no matter the subject. Stay stupid shit, don't think too much. If the conversation amuses you, you'll have fun. Fun = charisma. I know you're probably having a hard time with that since…
/r/seduction28/07/15 04:40 AM
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I'm impressed by your approach my friend. congratulations on that set of balls. I have a hard time meeting women like that but once I get a conversation going, I tend to be very comfortable and confident. I've been faced with that situation many times. Here are 2 options that have worked for me. 1) If you really want 1 of the 3 in particular : "Hey girls, I gotta get back to my friends but it was really nice meeting you. I actually came to talk to you because I noticed Sara's [...] and I figured…
/r/seduction28/07/15 04:26 AM
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Although girls will never admit it, they want to live the single life too and hook up with different people : the freshman life. She doesn't want to get tied down before starting college. She probably wants to get more intimate with you but she is afraid you are looking for something too serious. I think the strategy should be to make her understand you are not looking for something serious...don't juste state it obviously. You could start bashing on couples and how it's dumb to be tied down at …
/r/seduction28/07/15 04:15 AM
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There is no way to tell for sure. I don't see any reason why this event would change her whole image of you. If she was into you before, she should still be. Or maybe she was never that into you to begin with. Either way, don't be too attached to the outcome. Step 1 : Ignore 48h Step 2 : Fun and playful message that requires her to answer...that way if she is really ignoring you, we'll know. "I saw somebody doing [...], it really reminded me of that time you [...]. How are you btw?" Step 3 : 2-3…
/r/seduction28/07/15 04:09 AM
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That being said, let's not dwell on the past and let's look at what you can do starting now. I think you shouldn't talk to her for 48h or so and give her time to get off her high horse. Then send her a text (forget snapchat). Something VERY light and playful, almost like you're just joking with a friend. Keep the text convo as short as possible and try to see her in real life. In my experience, no girl will ever agree to meet with you if you tell her that it's to "hook up" with her. A lot of the…
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:14 PM
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I think she is not really "playing hard to get" because she is sending you very clear signals that she is into you. But the problem is that you reacted in a horny way and that makes you look sex-deprived. Hence, you become less attractive to her. You should've reacted like you were not even phased. This makes it seem like you are the kind of guy that gets approached by women all the time. You did not challenge her enough. "You wish hun" is very flirty IMO, but the way you responded just further …
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:03 PM
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