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Thanks everyone for your advice. I thought about it and this is what I'm going to do. I'm writing it here so that I feel more accountable. I can only change myself and not her. I think a break-up is coming, but if I improve myself I'll be better off once it's over. If my changes bring up a change in her, good. I doubt they will, though. My plan for the next weeks: I'll do one more strength session weekly (now 3) instead of one cardio. I'll be turning the messaging app we use on silent for as lon…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 07:57 AM
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I enforced boundaries from early on in the relationship, but she doesn't respect them and I have to remind her too often. Example: on one of our recent trips we've been making a lot of photos. She was giving me shit about the bad photos I make of her and that I'm a bad photographer. I then stopped making photos of her and instead focused on the landscape. Later on I took more than 10 photos of a mountain in the distance. She shit-tested: "You took more photos of this mountain today than of me". …
/r/askMRP25/07/17 03:51 AM
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Can you give an example of someone breaking their old frame and getting a new one? If someone is lifting, has a good career, good social skills, big social circle, a lot of confidence, success with women -- what exactly is it they have to throw away and rebuild?
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:39 PM
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I don't know her dad that well. We have the same hobbies, but that's irrelevant here. Of course I try to avoid doing everything bad he does: getting angry for no reason, letting others treat him poorly, not being a leader in the relationship. But everyone who's been in a couple of relationships and reads TRP/MRP knows that. Right now I don't know if there are any similarities between us and I'd have to think about it. It's a good idea though.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:23 PM
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Well said. I should have just read what I just wrote.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:13 PM
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I hope I won't disregard your advice!
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:12 PM
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Yes, I can only fix myself. Thanks for the reminder about the "fixing the relationship" bullshit.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:10 PM
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I needed to hear this.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:08 PM
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She wasn't polite. I actually wrote it too nicely in the FR, she said it in a worse way and with bad tone. Then I tried to explain myself, but that made her only switch into lecture mode.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:01 PM
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I have. But the health care where I live is broken, so I had to go abroad to get proper diagnosis. It is already improving.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:59 PM
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I would probably slow down. But she didn't say it nicely, it was quite patronizing.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:49 PM
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It's not contagious, it's my metabolism and stomach misbehaving.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:47 PM
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