whysys Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	14-16 was when I got catcalled the most Yeh first catcall one of the few times I was walking alone age 11/12 and then builders/cars walking to and from secondary school. It's always when you're alone or with maybe one equally young female friend. It's a lot less now I came to this thought myself recently. So predatory.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/20 04:42 PM
24	Faking pleasure- pick me behavior? Yeah same here... Faking seemed like a daft way to never feel genuinely good and fluff others' weak egos.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 07:47 AM
45	The comments section is a bunch of LVM twisting the conversation to victimize themselves, and pickmes/cool girls slut shaming, as usual Holy crap, I mean a part of me is glad he at least had the minimum emotional intelligence required to feel bad afterwards (and most importantly not do it again, and I hope with all his future partners going forward because you've got rid of this trash by now right???). But the fact he was upset because of the way HE felt about it AFTER is so effed up. I'm sorry you went through this. Say it loud for people at the back, NO MEANS NO!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 06:52 PM
-2	Yikes Against the grain but I'm equalist in compliments. Someone gets a new haircut and looking fresh in the office? I'm going to tell them. Someone's top brings out the colour of their eyes, yup I'm going to tell them. Man or woman. However I do it to randoms in the shared kitchen or colleagues I see all the time the same. Anyone deserves to hear the nice vibe you're thinking in my opinion. I don't simper, grovel or bribe for friendship or attention like this pickmeisha is doing...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 04:23 PM
8	Actual r/wholesomememes I've heard of bimbofication, reverse b is new for me... What will they come up with next. It still just bugs me there is a visual 'type' for someone who reads, with small boobs, brown hair, flats. Argh!! Just put the first image in fluffy sock in an armchair with hair up and boom, got yourself a reader. In any case I was agreeing with the poster above with women uniting. I've worked with women who looked like all of the above, and sometimes trying to stop one pointlessly shitting on another just…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 06:03 AM
3	Actual r/wholesomememes OK if you take the context of bimbos out and just see it as a pic of big boobed, big blond hair tight dress, who apparently can't read a book without becoming a covered up glasses wearing brunette. What about the blonde beautiful women who love reading? What about hoodie up, brunette glasses women who don't like it? It is a generalisation. A fetish/porn of a stupid generalisation perhaps but the message it gives before it was fixed pissed me off. Reading isn't limited per beauty standards. But t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 05:57 AM
8	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? Well said!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 08:42 PM
123	Actual r/wholesomememes I'm so pleased someone "fixed" the original pic which is disgusting in its generalisations!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 03:59 PM
12	Women aren't "making men feel special" anymore because we're tired of so many men not meeting our standards for even being a basic decent human being. I'd much rather make myself feel special than a man who thinks I owe him anything for existing and wants me to inflate his ego even bigger than it is This actually really angered me!! OK so some expectations of women doing "indoor work" means they cook and clean and raise kids and men's outdoor work mean they randomly lawnmow and do a bbq. So men come home from work to a partner who's also worked doing everything inside workwise. Which is unfair unequal bullshit. On the other side of that I was leaving little notes in my bfs bag before he travelled for work and doing big welcome home surprises like without having to become a servant. (I stopp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 05:14 PM
3	Abuse is abuse. Walk away Queens. Mine too. Also only told the truth about something when caught because 'he didn't want to upset me'. But actually he just didn't want me to have the full picture to make informed choices (yeh if you do something I wouldn't be happy with it shouldn't be an option to hide it) and only based on having an easier life himself	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 04:15 AM
11	So many queens here 😻😻 I'm with you! ♥️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 12:04 PM
2	(Ex) boyfriend called me while cheating last night Agreed, I really wish there was more to it than just letting everyone suffer through their 20s until they wisen up. I think the world is getting there though a lot of this kind of behaviour is getting airtime for the horror it is and not being swept under 'boys will be boys!' or death before divorce mentalities. And thanks for the pep talk too :) good luck with your adventures!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 03:42 PM
3	A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out. These are the posts I struggle with. I think I've just had so many interactions with LVM who are loud, bolshy and confident and no problem asking someone out, yet looking back I met a total HVM at uni who had some (completely unfounded in my mind) self confidence issues when it came to women. E. G. He had bad skin, but he was still absolutely gorgeous and so intelligent, friendly, charming and he'd dance with me proper partner dancing (a talent I've yet to find in many others). 10 years on he st…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 06:03 AM
2	(Ex) boyfriend called me while cheating last night Yeh girl you are so young, and I wish I had some of the influence of this sub through my 20s. It would have saved a lot of heartbreak having the early dating advice before I dated chauvinists, narcissists, and people with incredibly naff habits. All which left some deep scars. No reason to settle for less, and you should enjoy dating and meeting all kinds of people. Have the empowerment early!! Ghost this f**ker, the opposite of love is indifference, not hate. Write him off as a bad decision and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 05:50 AM
110	This man got chewed out in the comments. If I was his wife, I would leave him. Dream woman to me is someone you want to have sex with, and then make pancakes for in the morning and go on adventures together with. It's the total package. He admitted something AWFUL. IN PUBLIC. About a woman he sees regularly without his wife. And is too obtuse to work out why it's had a bad reaction. I wonder how many times he's mentioned his spin teacher was hot to think this was a winning move for his wife to 'guess' it. Poor woman	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/20 02:41 PM