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| 8 | Are we the failed ones?I remember OP. He messaged me asking for advice. I gave the same as the mod did. I did not see him start. I offered to hold him accountable for his progress; he did not take me up on it. I told him to start lifting; he did not start. I told him to lower his sights and work towards finding any job offer to stay in the States; it seems he did not. I am convinced that OP was looking for an easy way out. Not ready for TRP yet. It could be depression. Weakness. Inertia. Any number of things. I hope t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/17 10:40 PM |
| 115 | Cucked by the ManagerRule 1 exists not because of what you know others will do, but because of what you don't know others might do. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/17 02:19 PM |
| 3 | It's Frightening How Easily A Woman Can Cuck You...You're looking for Neil Broadbent's "The best dumping video of a cheating girl you will ever see" on Youtube. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 01:43 AM |
| 29 | Commanding 101Commanding men successfully is a much simpler affair. Do what you do well, own your mistakes, socialize / fraternize with your men, and be decisive. Would you look at that- that's basic TRP. This is what being in the top n% means. You are respected in your social circle, and the men come to you. The women will follow. This also means that you have to have a good social circle. Being a jacked Viking CEO doesn't mean anything if your social circle is your local D&D group. Having a bunch of fat ner… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 03:29 PM |
| 6 | How to Overcome Women's Objections (with step-by-step-examples)Most of OP's advice is bad, and likely to lead you further down your incel-ness, because it is too focused on you demeaning yourself in order to get more of nothing. If you have no past experience, then go out and get some. This is the only way to get better. Reading will help up to a certain point, but it's like bashing at a tutorial dummy- you gain no experience that way. Expect to fail. The same as with everything in life worth doing. You will not get it right the first time. Remember every b… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 04:12 AM |
| 8 | Hooking up on a daily basis is cool but it can get boring and hurtfulListening to girls talk, you begin to appreciate how difficult it is to find a dude who has his shit together. They talk about height and looks and money and all that jazz, but if you listen closely, their criteria are pretty damn low. Welcome to the 21st century, where the average dude doesn't have his shit together. Don't get me wrong, they'd all jump on the 6'5 bearded Viking CEO, but guys way less hypermasculine than Conan Haraldson Ph.D are getting girls. Take a little care of your looks (d… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Hooking up on a daily basis is cool but it can get boring and hurtfulThank you, this is a great post that speaks to the core RP philosophy. Take those AWALT and carousel posts to heart, but with a grain of salt. The redpill moral you should be taking from that is not "oh, look at how bad women are", but "oh, how can I make myself better to minimize my risk, and such that if and when it happens to me, I will be strong enough to laugh it off and move on"? I can already tell that OP is not strong enough; he is easily hurt. Imagine if someone who doesn't care about y… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Think of every rejection like thisWhatever works for you- some people drive themselves harder and better this way, especially when starting out. It isn't healthy in the long run, since it focuses on others instead of yourself, but I defer to rule 1: it has to work. Personally I am at a place where I know it's their loss, and there are so many others I could take along, that rejection is not even worth a second thought to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/17 06:00 AM |
| 4 | LTR Protip"I know" is the single most alpha thing I have heard in a movie. Basically, "my frame is so goddamn adamantine that while being frozen to be taken to my mortal enemy by literally the second and third most dangerous men in the galaxy, I am still going to flirt with you and I know you are going to be dripping wet". | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/17 03:45 AM |
| 7 | LTR ProtipIt's good and beneficial to be upfront if your actions carry your words through. For most people, they learned RP on hard mode (condolences, but congratulations, that you got through on Legendary). So they know the most important feature of RP, that sets it apart from PUA, is that to get past one evening you need substance as a man. If you're a man of no substance, open communication, especially in a LTR where the truth always comes to light, just shows that you're a sub-par piece of shit. Open … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Ex texted me today telling me it is our 1 year.Agreed. You do the best you can do, given who you are at the time. By doing, not just reading, you are making yourself better through action and habit. As long as you don't use your past as an excuse, taking steps one by one is the way to get better. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/17 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Men climb the mountain, women sit where they are and declare it to be the mountaintop.Men build the fucking mountain. Men after the first scale it, build on it, and proclaim themselves kings on high. Welcome to science. My field (computer science) was built by women as well, in the days when women built things. Where did those women go? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 04:33 AM |
| 2 | The Wife, PMS, RedPill, and AWALTBut, I can't just do that right now. You can, but you don't want to. Do you not want to because you've looked at the consequences and objectively judged them to be worse? Or are you afraid of taking that step? Don't confuse the two. I get it, it's near impossible. But it's far easier to run away with an excuse. I'll take your words at face value, and think about salvaging the relationship. And she starts fights, says hurtful, stupid shit that she would never ever say otherwise? If you were so ea… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 04:57 PM |
| 16 | Female psychiatrist tells me to forgive the 4 years of lies from my LTR, and marry her as long as she makes a promise to stop the behavior when the time comesGood on you for being honest with yourself! Set lofty goals, plan your steps to achieve them, hold yourself accountable for every inch of your progress, and you'll go far in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 02:35 AM |
| 11 | Friend of mine, who had an ONEitis that kept stepping on him, asked me to apologize for standing up for him when I called out her bullshit.You do the best you- you, in the moment- can. It's good and noble to think of your friends. You might eventually find (like many others here) that redpillers make the best friends, because they generally have no interest in you other than that pride they get at seeing people do well for themselves, so become that man. Unplug properly, keep moving forward, and you'll go far in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill truths that "Red Pillers" don't want to swallow.Agreed. Here is what I take away from this all. 1: I'm not special, but neither will be 90% of the people I meet, so with some hard work and cunning planning I'll outrun them. 2: Looks and genetics matter, much more than people realize, so I'll use that to my benefit. If people aren't instinctively attracted to me, that means I'll have an easier time getting them out of my life. 3: Shit tests never end. No witty thing here. Like, never, literally. I've seen some poor sods get shit-tested from be… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Go Cold on Any Woman and see the reaction.There's many reasons for this, some of which involve you- which are the least scary, because you see them coming- and many more which will never involve you- which are downright terrifying because chances are you will never consider them. The most obvious: if you actively fuck up anything, you're in deep shit. HR gets sicced on your arse and you get hit with harassment, this will be a black mark on your entire life. Your career going forward will be marked by this one incident. Future co-workers… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 02:06 AM |
| 11 | Think like a cynic, feel like a stoic, work hard, and live like a king.I agree. That's why this is in ranting, not in theory. It's easy to receive thoughts, but hard to make them habit. This is as much a reminder for myself as it is meant for others. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Signs that She's into youAh, brings me back to the old days of Verdun, trench foot everywhere, Jerries on the other side of No Man's Land... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Signs that She's into youProtip: socks on during sex, for some weird fucking reason, leads to orgasms for her. I'm not even kidding. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Signs that She's into youAgreed completely. Theory is necessary, but any good Greek philosopher knows that practice is the other half of the good life. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 04:12 AM |
| 9 | Signs that She's into youDon't break that rule. It's a rule for a reason, that way lies dragons. You'll jeopardize your entire future, not just in your current job but going forward. On the other hand, if she has friends whom she'd absolutely love to introduce to you, that's always cool. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Realizing that nobody gives a shit about you should be the most liberating thing you think.TRP awoke me to the fact that our attractiveness to others is literally a fantasy, a construct in their minds. That's why masculine mystique is an important part of a passionate relationship. It keeps both man and girl on their toes and (the girl especially) hungry for more. The next enlightenment was the nugget of thought that became this post: this extends to every relationship you have with others. Break the fantasy, and you become worthless. Such is the nature of society. It is, after all, o… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Realizing that nobody gives a shit about you should be the most liberating thing you think.This is where I come from. A deep realization that, in your deepest darkest times, it's only the ones who don't care about what you do who care about what you undergo. I don't exaggerate when I say "nobody", because just as you do not know the temper of steel until you smite it, you do not know the depth of a friendship until you hurt it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Realizing that nobody gives a shit about you should be the most liberating thing you think.I'm glad to stimulate discussion. It's a nice change from getting shouted down in so-called liberal politics. But enough about that. DialecticParadox brings up precisely my point. We are all shallow creatures looking for the validation of our peers. It feels good. And people know it makes you feel good, and instinctively use that for their own benefit. You won't know who's really on your side until you've taken a hard fall. As for the military- indeed, you share the world while you're in the ser… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Realizing that nobody gives a shit about you should be the most liberating thing you think.You're biologically programmed to ensure your offspring have more offspring, and part of that involves protecting your offspring. But look at places where it's socially acceptable to disown or even kill your children for violating marriage and childbearing norms, and you'll realize that it really boils down to the grandkids. Of course your parents care for you. They sincerely love you. It's their biological imperative. But they do not necessarily want your happiness. Keep that in mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 01:45 AM |
| 5 | You should ghost women who have cheated on youAgreed that moving on is still the ultimate and best goal you could have. Still, as an Aristotelian I'd say that the visceral satisfaction of well-deserved revenge is a good thing. It is right and proper to take satisfaction in doing the right thing, as long as you're not doing the right thing purely for that satisfaction. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 04:18 PM |
| 9 | "If you're not losing most of your approaches you are not pushing hard enough": Go For NoThere are principles and then there is pragmatism. They respond with physical violence because it's socially appropriate. Slapping just so happens to be an accepted way of expressing that they're not interested in you if you've come on too hard, they're not easy, how dare you, &c. On the other hand you slapping a woman is not socially appropriate in all but the most contrived circumstances. If it is legitimate self-defence take a video recording then strike properly, but no more than necessary t… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Look at youPractice, practice, practice. If you want a good philosophical treatise on becoming a happy person through habit and reflection, go no further than Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics. I'm happy to discuss it if you have any questions, I found it at a dark point in my life and I have never found a better source of moral truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 06:18 AM |
| 9 | The one personality trait you must eliminate if you want to be successful in dating as an ugly man+1. Sounds like a paradox, but girls don't want you to focus on making their time enjoyable. They want you to fuck them like a possessed animal and fully express your attraction to them in the most physical way possible. So stop caring about what you think they want, and start simply enjoying yourself. You'll find that they'll enjoy themselves a Hell of a lot more and you'll be left thinking "fuck, I don't know what the fuck that was but I'll take that". | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 06:12 AM |
| 68 | "If you're not losing most of your approaches you are not pushing hard enough": Go For NoI'm reminded of this old Russian joke (yes, Russian- before the Soviet era). This perfectly illustrates abundance mentality, DGAF, and game. Kniaz Andrei Bolkonski asks Poruchik Rzhevsky: "Tell me, Poruchik, how did you come to be so good with the ladies? What is your secret?" "It's quite simplement, mon Prince, quite simplement. I just come over and say: 'Madame, would you like to fuck?'" "But Poruchik, you'll get slapped in the face for that!" "Oui, in most cases, they slap, but occasionally, … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 12:32 AM |
| 21 | "If you're not losing most of your approaches you are not pushing hard enough": Go For NoDon't shit where you eat. I bet he hit on a colleague. Again- I'm not telling you to be offensive, antisocial, or violent. "No" means "no", unless there's a safeword. And within your own social circle, "no" comes a lot sooner because you aren't an idiot who likes to burn every bridge he comes across. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 12:31 AM |
| 6 | It's ok to lose sometimesKeyword is MOST. You will in fact lose most of the girls you approach. If you don't push hard enough, you're just wasting time and setting yourself up for rejection down the road. If you feel that playing this game and wasting this time is justified in exchange for being tolerated to be in her presence, you need to learn how to spend quality time with yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/16 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Interesting technique I developed for training your brain to be confident at all times."You've got the touch! You've got the power!" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 03:03 AM |
| 28 | I surpassed myself today and I am so so proud of it. I wanted to shareYou did perfectly considering where you think you are. Go read that stag's horns post on the front page and try this out again, you'll feel a million times better and you'll be laughing all the way to your bedroom. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Interesting technique I developed for training your brain to be confident at all times.Damn, that's fucking glorious. I wish I'd read this sooner, I'm going to try it out at dance class tonight. I echo your sentiment of thanking TRP. It's overall a great community. Past the people who are consumed by their own rage and the people trying to sell you something, you have the best self-help manual a man could ask for. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | She can cheat. She might cheat.I love it. This is the Zen of red pill, the Aristotle and Nietzsche and Marcus Aurelius. Always seek to make yourself better, grasp your purpose, and enjoy what you have. Never focus on breaking others down, for that is the slave's morality- focus on building yourself and taking what you want, as a master. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/16 03:24 AM |
| 6 | VERBAL JUDO has an important place in every man's mental toolbox. [Repost]Although there is something to be said about how to practice. Make a note (mental or physical, whatever it takes) of how you react emotionally to anything. Anything at all. Knowledge is the first step on the road to success, and is what separates us from beasts. Go out and interact with people. While you're doing that, note your emotional reactions. Write them down, tape the conversations if you have to, because replaying them will jog your memory of how you were feeling at the time. Force yours… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 09:09 AM |
| 11 | VERBAL JUDO has an important place in every man's mental toolbox. [Repost]This is solid all-round advice. It does require discretion in when to be tough and when to be soft, and this means that it is a skill. Don't just file this away after you read it, start practicing it in everyday life. It cannot be overstated that command voice is to be used rarely, if ever. I have used command voice exactly once in my civilian career. A representative from another company was starting to whine on and on about the problem we had at hand, blaming my boss for everything, and genera… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 09:00 AM |
| 13 | VERBAL JUDO has an important place in every man's mental toolbox. [Repost]Practice, practice, practice. Shameless practice. Go out and interact with people without the fear of failure or embarrassment, while still keeping your wits about you. That means no drinking and no drugs. Like everything else in life, this is a skill. If Aristotle was right about one thing, it is that many things in life we take for innate or unchanging are actually skills attained through habit and practice. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 08:47 AM |
| 1 | "Why don't you have a girlfriend?"The typical goal involves you versus whatever you are working towards. If you swallowed TRP properly and fixed your mindset, you naturally adopt an adversarial attitude towards goals, and therefore optimize your actions towards achieving it. Most people don't treat LTRs the same way. The instinct we get, especially after centuries of culture glorifying the nurturing aspect of women, is to let our guard down and assume we can trust our partner. Many of you here will have learned the hard way that… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 06:27 AM |
| 10 | Sister doesn't like new LTR; should you ever take a female sibling's advice?Good advice, and I'd like to add that even if she does NOT appear nervous around your grandma and/or your grandma loves her, that is still no reason to become complacent and careless. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Sister doesn't like new LTR; should you ever take a female sibling's advice?You are the only one you can be sure of who is looking out for your own interests. This is something you have to remember: all men are alone. That does not change. Your family, at best, are looking out for what they think your best interests are; more likely, they are looking out for their own interests. You simply have been lucky so far in that those interests have coincided. At least pretend to listen, don't burn bridges unnecessarily, but take control of your life. At this point, I think what… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Meal prep tools: work efficientlyCooking this way is really easy. I measure out rice into the pot, and rinse it. Then I toss in the (defrosted) veggies. Then I toss the (defrosted) meat on top, and season to taste. I hit start, 45 minutes later, I have my food for the day. Everything in the same pot, at the same time. I can't really cook enough to freeze what I cook, so I cook every day. What I do is to make my life easier is to portion my meat before I freeze it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Meal prep tools: work efficientlyhttp://imgur.com/I2nKHjd This is roughly 2/3 of my food for a day (150g uncooked rice, 400g veg, 800g meat). 1l Nalgene for scale, you can see that the cooker handles brown rice, and I give its size as 10 cups from how much white rice it handles. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Meal prep tools: work efficientlyIt's just chicken breast, thighs are cheap and work well if you can handle that amount of fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Meal prep tools: work efficientlyDefinitely true, I could do better if I went a little further to look for good deals, buy in bulk, and freeze. I find chicken breast to be inefficient- in Toronto, pork or beef is much cheaper, and comes with more fat to boot, which works for my forever bulk. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Why My Girlfriend Broke Up With MeYou dodged a major bullet with that. That's the biggest lesson I took from TRP- you live your own life for yourself, and deign to take others along for the ride. Not like the conductor of a train takes on passengers, but like a mighty fucking Lord of Eagles showing the Ringbearer (heh, don't get engaged or married though, protip) the world. If they bite you, shake them off. Don't value the relationship more than you value yourself. I'm happy for you that the relationship ended, but plain old stu… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/16 03:46 PM |
| 0 | I just left my girlfriend. I am so fucking proud of myself.However, this shit has to be for me, not to make her jealous Once you start feeling the heady rush of pure gainz, you will realize that there never could have been any other reason. A few places to start: the fitness subreddit has good information if you have access to a gym, if not you can try bodyweightfitness. For emotional support and laughs, swoleacceptance is my favourite haunt. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 02:43 PM |
| 43 | You all make it seem so easy, but what if the girl made you truly feel happy?No, you don't deserve better. You deserve what you can reach out and take for yourself. Anything else is the charity of others. Just as important, in a relationship, nobody owes you anything for what you do for them. The point is not to hate whatever they did to you- that ultimately still leaves you a slave to them. No, the point is to change the way you think to focus on yourself. Realize that you are the only person in the world who you can be sure of that cares about your own happiness. The r… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 04:10 AM |
| 5 | You all make it seem so easy, but what if the girl made you truly feel happy?Start lifting. Feel better about yourself. Realize that you, and only you, have the power to make yourself a better person. Hell, if you've forgotten what it feels like to be wanted, go see an escort. But hey, start lifting properly, be humble before the iron, eat well, and never compromise form for bigger numbers. Gaining this independence and self-confidence is the point of liberation. You can still have fulfilling, close relationships after that, but you will also realize when someone is abus… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 03:39 AM |
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