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I'm probably going to be downvoted for this, but I'm going to say it anyway. Red Pill or no Red Pill, you don't have to do a sex act that you're not comfortable with...ever. Having your fiance suggest that you take a goddamn benzo to get through a sex act is a massive red flag to me. There's a difference between "I'd really like to try this, are you open to it?" and "Here, take Ativan so I can put my dick in your ass even though you have trauma associated with the act."
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 12:55 AM
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The Surrendered Wife is not a book I would recommend giving to your wife, unless you know that she wants to change. Same goes for the other two, honestly. Giving a book about alcoholism to an alcoholic isn't very helpful unless they've expressed their desire to get sober.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 07:54 PM
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It's interesting that you say that. I started out as the overachiever, but fizzled out pretty quickly. I never went into full self-saboteur mode, but I've spent the last ~5 years just sort of lost and wandering. I'm still a perfectionist to a fault though. I'm an interesting mix, I suppose :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 11:52 AM
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I'm certainly not advocating that anyone start thinking of their mother as a narcissist because she's selfish or rude sometimes. I wanted to share this book in case I'm not the only person who felt a connection to The Surrendered Wife in a deeper way than just how to be a better wife. The Surrendered Wife resonated with me in a way that made me question why I controlled my husband. It just so happened that I had already been exploring my attachment style in therapy. The abuse of a narcissistic m…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 12:53 AM
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Why is our culture so obsessed with the idea that one has to receive a paycheck in order for what they do to be considered worthwhile? It's the same thing for middle class stay at home moms. I don't earn a paycheck so apparently my contribution to society isn't important or valuable.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 07:29 PM
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The Mrs. degree
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 07:16 PM
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I think that the responses would be drastically different if she had interviewed women even just a few years older. 21 year olds who are just finishing up college have very different views of the world than even a 25 year old does. I got married when I was 22 and I'm 25 now. I've noticed a huge shift among my friends even in the last few years. Most of them have gone from "I'm never getting married! Why bother?!" to "I'd like to get married, but not until I'm closer to 30." Among my friends from…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 06:55 PM
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Let me preface this by saying that I'm a stay at home mom. OK so, to my point... I don't really like articles like this because working parents have to do all of the day-to-day tasks that the author lists in this article. I mean, sure, if you're making a lot of money, you might be dining out for most meals and hiring a cleaner, but all of these things are things that all adults do, regardless of whether or not they have children or if they work. I consider my contribution to be the $1,400 per mo…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 07:50 PM
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This makes me so sad. I can't imagine feeling that way about my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 03:48 PM
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Is $14/hour your husband's maximum earning potential? Could he go back to school or get a certification to increase his earning potential?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 01:18 AM
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You're wasting your time. Find someone who wants a future with you. Age is not an excuse. I was 22 and my husband was 24 when we got married. If you want a future with someone, you want to start your future as soon as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 03:28 AM
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Not to mention the higher rates of chromosomal abnormalities, birth defects, pregnancy complications, and premature birth associated with "advanced maternal age." So many people look at this issue in terms of simply "can I get pregnant?" instead of being concerned about the very real risks of having a baby at a time in your life when your body is just not designed to be carrying and birthing a baby. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Edit: One other common theme in the 2X thread is wo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 06:12 PM
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I had my first child about a year ago. Now that I'm immersed in motherhood and I spend a lot of time with other mothers, I see mothers turn towards their children and away from their husbands as it happens. My take on it is that most women don't have much of a relationship with their husbands even before they have a child. I'm a "young" mother at 25, but all of the mothers I spend time with are in their very late 20s or early 30s. They started approaching "the wall" so they found a husband, got …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 02:54 AM
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A woman in my mom group is in her early 30s, has been dating her husband since high school, and has been married to him for about 3 years. She has never given him a blow job. I've heard about these mythical women, but I've never met one. I couldn't have sex for the second half of my pregnancy and my husband got several blow jobs every week.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/15 09:59 PM
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I was 22 and my husband was 24 when we got married. If someone I didn't know very well said something to me about being too young, I just smiled and nodded politely. If it was someone I knew pretty well, I told them how I think it's better to get married young and grow up together instead of spending a decade living alone and getting stuck in your ways and then trying to mesh two lives together in your 30s. I know too many people who settled for someone in their 30s because they felt like time w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 05:19 PM
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I was vehemently opposed to marriage and children. I was going to be an independent woman with a fancy career who didn't need a man. I always had a nagging thought in the back of my mind: what's the point of having a flashy career and a lot of money if I go home to an empty house every night? But I pressed on during the first couple years of college trusting that it would all fall into place once I was working and making money. Then, by 100% pure luck, I met my husband when I was 20 and over the…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 03:59 PM
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Comparing that way of life to the average person's life now shows just how lonely our lives are now.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 03:41 PM
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That's interesting too! I think that's the worst part about this. People live hundreds of miles away from their families now and then they're left to raise their children with no family support. Most daycare centers have a revolving door of low paid, subpar caregivers, but that's the only option many families have.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 03:23 PM
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That's really interesting. If you had children though, it was common for you to stay home with your children, at least until they were in school. Were there even daycare centers 50 years ago? I guess the choice I'm referring to is the choice to not stay home with your children when they're little.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 03:04 PM
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I guess my point is that we go through our teens and twenties being told that we don't want to have a husband and a family so we focus on their careers. Then they start approaching 30 and suddenly realize that they do want a husband and a family. Then several things usually happen: 1) They often find and settle for a man because they feel they're out of time to be picky, 2) They often have issues with infertility and spend years trying to get pregnant, and 3) When they have a baby, they realize …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 02:56 PM
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I'm a stay at home mom, so I mostly agree with what you're saying. But what I think feminism did right was that it gave women the choice to be something other than a housewife/stay at home mom. While it's easy to say that all children should be raised by their mothers in their homes, the reality is that not all women are cut out to be stay at home moms and their children are actually better off in the hands of a child care provider for the majority of the week. I guess the flip side of this is t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 02:41 PM
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Backstory, I agreed to marry a guy a few years ago This is all I needed to read to know that this marriage will be an absolute disaster. "If he just wasn't fat, I could love him." "If he just wasn't x, y, z, I could love him." You don't love him. You never will. You'll only grow to resent him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 02:25 PM
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I'm learning to stop expecting the rest of the world to view and behave in situations as I would. It causes a lot of disappointment and unneeded stress. It comes with having a type-A personality. Being aware of it truly is the first step towards calming the F down :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 07:31 PM
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I think you're taking it personally when it's really not anything personal. I once recommended a friend for a job. He was hired and he ended up being a terrible employee. I felt somewhat awkward because I worried that it reflected poorly on me. In the case of work, I couldn't really sit down in my manager's office and explain that I didn't know he was a bad employee when I recommended him. Since we're talking about your boyfriend here, you can tell your boyfriend, "Hey, I had no idea this friend…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 07:27 PM
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It doesn't have to be anything more than that, but your reaction is much bigger than the problem itself. Personally, I wouldn't fly across the country and crash on a stranger's couch either, but that's because I'm shy and not particularly adventurous. I don't really see it as rude that someone would do that because I know plenty of people who literally travel the country and the world by couch surfing with complete strangers. If I was going to be at a conference all day and there was going to be…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 07:16 PM
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Ha, sorry :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 07:10 PM
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I was wondering if there's some jealousy happening here. An attractive, sexually promiscuous girl staying in her boyfriend's condo. Hmm... Otherwise there's no reason why any of this matters.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 06:53 PM
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This was my thought. Sure, we all leave something out every now and then, but a grown man should be capable of putting food away after he makes himself something to eat.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 10:49 PM
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At the bottom of this page, it says it originally appeared on Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 08:15 PM
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Absolutely. I'm just whining haha
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 05:58 PM
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Men and women are different all the way down to what diseases we're more likely to get. How would it even be possible to think that our brains and innate preferences aren't different, you know?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 05:48 PM
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If you believe that men and women are exactly the same (aside from physical differences) and that each sex is socialized to be either masculine or feminine, then you would believe that this is a problem. I know a number of women who grew up with mothers who worked outside the home and then they themselves were vehemently opposed to working after their children were born, stating that their mothers had been busy, stressed, absent, uninvolved, etc. due to their jobs. If the desire to be provided f…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 04:19 PM
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I know that some men are totally freaked out by having sex with their pregnant wives. He might not be totally freaked out, but it might be more unsettling to him than he realizes. I fear this issue might get worse before it gets better. Sex after having a baby can be...problematic in many ways and for many months. For now, I think you should keep communication on the topic open for the rest of your pregnancy and in the months after your baby is born. Once your sex life gets back to normal after …
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/14 02:23 AM
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As someone who got married when I was 22, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't get married "young" if that's what you want. I also had my first baby several months before my 24th birthday. I think it's awesome that my husband and I can have 4 children before I turn 30 and we'll be in our late 40s/early 50s by the time our kids move out. So I'm all for marriage and babies in your 20s. The only thing your family can do if they're unhappy with your choice to get married is refuse to help pay fo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 05:09 PM
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I started dating my husband when I was 20, we got engaged when I was 21, and we got married when I was 22. With that being said... I see from your post history that you're 20 and I'm going to assume that your boyfriend is within a year or two of 20. Based on your post here, your relationship sounds really immature. The truth is that (in my experience) most 20 year old guys are not looking for a wife. I know a number of men in their 20s who have absolutely no desire to get married until they're w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:29 PM
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That is positively absurd. Is that the norm where you live?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 08:07 PM
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Saving thousands of dollars per month in child care expenses is nothing?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 06:26 PM
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Good luck with that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 03:55 PM
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Why not write up a pre-nup to protect your assets? I feel like pre-nups have a bad reputation, but I think it's very useful to sit down BEFORE you're headed for divorce and out for blood and to decide how much money and what assets your wife would get if your marriage ends. If you and your (future) wife decide to have her stay home with your (future) children, she is taking an enormous risk. She's dropping out of the work force, which will affect her long-term earning potential and (sometimes) h…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 03:17 PM
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Can someone explain #15 to me?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 11:42 PM
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Adriana Lima, Alessandra Ambrosio, and Gisele Bundchen are all 5'10" or taller. They're arguably some of the most beautiful women in the world. I'd kill to be a little taller (I'm 5'4") because being taller usually means you have great legs. It wouldn't matter if I lost 50 pounds, I will NEVER have legs like a woman who's 5'10".
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 03:13 AM
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I remember reading about how some feminist writer wrote in response to these columns and the title was something along the lines of, "Dennis Prager encourages marital rape." I mean, what?
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/14 07:38 PM
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Could he be depressed? Depression can manifest itself in not-so-obvious ways sometimes. Just a general sense of unhappiness and negativity over a long period of time can point to depression. Just a thought.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/14 04:45 AM
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I did all the math while I was pregnant. I knew that my income was nearly canceled out by the cost of daycare, driving to work, work clothes, etc. If I recall, I'd be bringing home about $200 a month once it was all said and done...but I worked for a major university and the health insurance was incredible to the extent that I thought I was willing to work just to keep it. My husband works for a small company so we were concerned about how we'd manage with insurance that wasn't nearly as good an…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 01:13 PM
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I love, love, love Dennis Prager. I've been listening to him for years. I've never been able to tell anyone I know about him because he's so "radical" compared to my super liberal, feminist friends.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/14 02:29 PM
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I was never a feminist, but I had a certain view of the world that was influenced by feminists around me. When I graduated from high school, I didn't want to get married, I didn't want kids, and I was going to be a pharmacist so I never needed a man to financially support me. I remember thinking to myself, "well all this money sounds great, but what's the point of having a lot of money if I go home to an empty house every night?" This was the first time that my subconscious anti-feminist feeling…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 10:41 PM
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I got engaged when I was 20, got married when I was 21, got pregnant when I was 22, and had our first baby when I was 23. I'm now a 24 year old stay at home mom. I'm 99% sure most of the girls I went to high school with think I'm a total fucking idiot. I'm 100% sure I'm totally fucking happy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 03:04 AM
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I imagine it must be mentally draining to spend every waking hour of your life searching for things to be offended by.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:31 PM
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Yep, people will look for any excuse outside of themselves for weight gain. It certainly couldn't be that they make poor eating choices. Having just had my first baby 10 months ago, I've found this to be true for moms who gain weight and/or stop dressing nice, wearing make up, and doing their hair. They're usually people who didn't care about their appearance very much before they had kids and now they can use pregnancy and motherhood as an excuse for looking like they just rolled out of bed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 09:30 PM
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I'm fairly certain that a primary reason why women gain weight on birth control pills is not because of the birth control pills. Historically, many women started birth control when they left for college...which is a time in a person's life when many people gain weight (Freshman 15) anyway. I'd try birth control pills and no matter what, see your doctor. 2 weeks is a lot of time to be having severe PMS each month.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 02:45 PM
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Exactly. It extends the infatuation stage indefinitely. In a real relationship, the infatuation ends and the real work begins.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 07:54 PM
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Has she ever been in a relationship? Relationships are hard. Marriage is hard. If you're not careful, you get so caught up in all the other shit in life that your relationship with your husband suffers. It's hard work. It's exhausting. It can feel nearly impossible to have any energy left for yourself at the end of the day, let alone your husband. Her perspective will change if she's ever anyone's wife.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 04:19 PM
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It still doesn't solve all the other problems related to being a mother and having a demanding career. Those exist at any age. It also doesn't address the fact that if you're unable to get pregnant on your own in your late 30s and into your 40s, your body is trying to tell you something. These pregnancies result in much, much higher risks to the mother and the baby. It's telling women they can put their lives on hold for their careers and it's giving them a false sense of security. Even if your …
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 05:51 PM
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These corporations will certainly have to amend their maternity leave policies as well. I don't know how it's possible to expect everything. The best of all worlds. Fancy careers, marriage in their 30s, baby in their 40s, 12+ months of maternity leave, full pay, affordable daycare, and a flexible work place to allow you to balance your life. How do you get so entitled that you think you can have it all? Life is a game of picking and choosing and sacrificing based on what's most important to you.…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 10:01 PM
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I'm pretty new around here. Still adjusting to the fact that I'm not the only person who believes what I believe :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 08:54 PM
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It just perpetuates the lie that you can do as you please in your 20s and 30s and have a baby whenever you decide it suits your lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 06:22 PM
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Interesting, isn't it? This probably isn't a popular opinion, but the government (in the US) has created a society in which men aren't needed. You don't need a man! Your employer will take care of you. You don't need a man! The government will pay for the food on your table.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 05:14 PM
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I wasn't using it as a comparison.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 04:47 PM
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From your first comment, I thought you were missing the point. If I'm understanding you correctly now, you're just saying that old eggs are just one piece of the puzzle. Additionally, there has been research in recent years showing that the age of the man producing the sperm isn't as insignificant as we once thought.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 03:20 PM
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The point of this is to circumvent that. It's encouraging these women to freeze their eggs in their 20s so they have healthy, "young" eggs in their 30s and 40s.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 02:47 PM
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Thoughts on this?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 01:37 PM
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I'm not seeing a great number of differences between the twins. They all look pretty awful.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 11:33 PM
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There is nothing better than having a good man by your side through it all.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 01:14 AM
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People will always try to make themselves feel better by making you feel bad about your choices. Millions of women were told that they could have a career and that a husband and children would come later. When they find themselves completely alone in their 30s, they realize they were sold a bill of goods and they're pissed. Of course they would try to diminish your relationship because you're young. It couldn't possibly be fair that you've found someone at such a young age while they just keep g…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 01:53 PM
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I've heard of people who have never farted in front of their spouse and never heard their spouse fart. This concept is just bizarre to me. It's a normal, healthy function of your body. There are absolutely times when you shouldn't fart, but I can't imagine a life where I would be unable to fart in the comfort of my home.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 01:40 AM
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I really do understand where you're coming from. I used to think exactly like you, but I eventually realized that most of my life is out of my control. I can do everything possible to set myself up for success, but that doesn't mean it's going to be perfect or stay perfect. My husband could die, he could leave me, or he could lose his job. Those types of things are usually devastating whether you both work or not, whether you have children or not.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 09:52 PM
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While I agree that people shouldn't be having kids when they're REALLY not ready, I think people would never have kids if they waited until the circumstances were perfect. Life must go on despite all of the what-ifs that can plague your mind. They say you're never really ready to have kids and that's basically all it boils down to. If you wait until your marriage is established, your career is established, you have a big house, you have extra money, and so on, you could find that while you feel …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 08:05 PM
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An additional factor that this article doesn't go into is that even when pregnancy is achieved after 35, these pregnancies are often high risk, resulting in premature birth and health problems for moms and their babies. I realize we're living longer, but it's also less likely that you're going to be alive for the major milestones in your child's life. High school and college graduations, weddings, grandchildren. And even if you're still alive, what fun is a 75 year old grandma? It seems selfish …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 06:50 PM
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