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widdley/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 04:56 PM
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I had the same problem. I had a mirena for 5 years and it was fine, got a new one in and WOAH. Depression, anxiety, constantly tired and upset. I switched to the copper (nonhormonal) iud and the difference was night and day. I don't turn into a psycho before my period anymore, and I am actually happy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/18 04:49 AM
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Good post. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 10:53 AM
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I'm all for it. If I ever get married both of us will be getting pre nups. It just makes sense to protect any heirlooms or assests you may have in the event of a divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 03:55 PM
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Mine got a T-bone steak, asparagus, and mashed potatoes with champagne and a fruit tart for dessert. :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 04:43 AM
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Try changing your laundry detergent to unscented/gentle along with the other tips and changing your bed sheets every week. Taking not as hot showers (if you like them scalding) helps as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:01 PM
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Oh, yay! I cant wait.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 12:18 AM
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Id be down to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 06:23 PM
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Funny anecdote: the same day I read this post (it was insanely coincidental) I went over with my Boyfriend of 4 years to his sister and husbands new house for drinks. While there, she brought up being frustrated about a trip to home depot. I (as I think myself hilarious to bring up references no one else understands) asked "oh, were you guys shopping for door knobs?" And she responded "no, cabinet knobs for the kitchen actually". She then proceeded to tell me exactly the same story as above, /ex…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 06:23 PM
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We don't feed trolls here, sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 07:01 PM
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I agree and have witnessed this firsthand. I was at a friends birthday and another couple was introducing themselves. "Hi, Im bob, and this is my wife sue". The woman's eyes instantly narrowed and the husband actually corrected himself and apologized! "Oh, Im sorry, this is Sue, my wife. Shes a person first." I was in shock. It would be a point of pride with me to be referred to as my SO's wife, and yet there are women who do not appreciate it an iota.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 06:37 PM
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You forgot to link the article :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 04:34 AM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. I actually know the creator of TIL personally, and I know he wouldn't have deleted it, so it mist have been one of the other moderators. :( as for the people doxxing you, thats pretty ridiculous for stating a fact they didnt like to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/14 06:42 PM
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Not to me personally. I have always had a thing for shy men, and am currently dating one. He's stoic around strangers/acquaintances but when it's close friends he is the funniest and most well spoken man I know. I like that I am one of the few people that gets to see that side of him. :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 03:57 AM
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In all these long term relationships, it seems like communication is lacking. My boyfriend and I knew from the get go what we expected from the relationship. You need to sit down with your boyfriend and have a serious talk about if he sees you two getting married and, especially because of your age if you want to have children, a timeline for that happening. Don't have the talk right when he gets home from work or when you're both about to go to bed-- give him a heads up that theres something yo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 03:00 PM
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Well said phantom. You articulated what I was thinking as well. :) Kids are important yes, but in order to show them what a healthy adult relationship looks like your spouse should always be your first priority.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 01:24 AM
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I am a ENTJ. My SO is and ISFP. Opposites attract?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 05:51 PM
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I read but am not subscribed, and do not comment. Its a dudes space so i dont want to invade it. Pluse I am at the point (since Im relatively new) that I dont feel i have much knowledge or experience that would contribute positively to most threads. Over all Im just a lurker.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 05:14 PM
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Done :) im interested to see any correlations.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 01:49 AM
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I would like to update on my progress: I managed to break a ceramic knife, a juicer and stab two of my fingers picking up shards making previously mentioned pie. Baking is hard.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 01:44 AM
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Me and my SO have a date night tonight at a fancy restaurant and i am making a keylime pie from scratch for dessert. Then this weekend will consist of cleaning his and my places and trying to make him feel as less stressed as possible :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 03:00 PM
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Maybe set aside a day to get it all done? Plan all the questions and options ahead of time, let him know and pick a date/time to just sit down and chat a bit, maybe during a meal so it won't feel to him like 'omg pressure'. And since you already have everything ready for him, it won't waste time. Then give him a few days to mull over any decisions he didn't make. After work casually bring it up to see if he's decided anything. :) If he's expressed interest in helping out I don't think he will mi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 06:42 AM
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Welllll were not married yet but I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and were getting engaged this year (after he graduates). We met when I was 21 and he was 27, through okcupid. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 06:37 AM
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The giving sex and encouraging healthy/dominant behavior were two entirely separate points in the list of all things she does for her RP relationship, you made it seem like they weren't and she was manipulating her man via sex. I was just trying to correct your assumption that the two points were related. It was never stated that she stopped these behaviors when he did something she didn't like, just that she encouraged him when her spouse did something she DOES like. I think it's healthy for mo…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 06:32 PM
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I do not nag him, I only encourage good behavior using positive reinforcement. Give him sexytime. She wrote this as two separate sentences, not a comma as you quoted it. I don't think she meant that she uses is to promote good behavior, she was just listing things she does in her relationship, no correlation to the two.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 05:57 PM
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I would recommend you ask /r/bdsm; they probably have a lot more tips and tricks then we would.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:29 AM
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Hi! I'm in the same boat as you as a full time college student. Here's what I've don't to help maintain my household: pre plan meals. Slow cookers are your friend. If you don't have one buy one so you can drop a couple things in in the morning and have a delicious meal around dinner time. There's a slow cooker subreddit on here that's really great. schedule yourself for chores. Make a list of things that need to be done on a weekly, bi weekly and monthly basis. Plan your weeks out by spreading t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:53 PM
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Me and the SO are going to get massages at a spa tomorrow since we just spent the last couple of days moving me to my new apt. :) No July 4th plans as of yet.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 12:05 AM
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i would enjoy seeing this with a Lamborghini and a beater car, and see which works better. Because honestly, most women won't outright recognize the value of a car unless it screams 'omg fast shiny sports car' as most women don't take much interest in vehicles. That and being yelled at out of a car window isn't that sexy. This is coming from a girl, by the way.
/r/seduction30/05/11 07:41 PM
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I'm sure his family didn't want pictures of him all over news sites. Grieving is hard enough as it is without looking at their face online, on television and in the newspaper for a few weeks when it's just happened.
/r/MensRights07/01/11 05:34 PM
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This is the best advice I've ever heard. I have been to Europe 3 times now, and not once have I thought of saying hello to a guy I thought was cute. Now I know what I was doing wrong all those times!
/r/seduction20/10/10 04:17 AM
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This. When I was 18 I was dating a 32 year old, and now reading this, is exactly what he did. Tease the girls, make yourself seem funny and interesting. And don't tell them your age till they ask, because by that time they're usually already hooked and don't care anymore.
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:49 PM
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"but I don't know where I could run into her in person" Just send her a message, don't move to stalking please. Theres nothing wrong with asking her on Facebook as long as you seem friendly and casual. Shes probably getting a million messages now thats shes done the official 'status-change' so you might want to wait a few weeks to make it seem like that isn't the only reason you are messaging her. Wait until she has a interesting status or picture up, and start the conversation through public co…
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:41 PM
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The only one night stand I had ever, I was fine with leaving. I got up at the crack of dawn, got dressed and was ready to go before I bothered waking him up. When I did, all I said was "Do you know where the nearest bus is back into town?" Then told him I had a nice time, thank you for dinner and I was gone. He literally told me I was the most polite and well-behaved one nighter he'd ever had. BUT, now that I'm done rambling, I think the best way to get them out is to tell them you're busy, or h…
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:37 PM
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It would really depend on what kind of BDSM relationship you were looking for. A 24/7 Sub is hard to come by, but if you were maybe looking for something that was a 'just in the bedroom', or whenever you gave 'that' look sort of relationship it could work. I myself have been involved in multiple LTR where I was sub. It worked out well when the guy wasn't being dominant just to get his way. It's a good feeling when you're both in tune with each other sexually. If you're really interested in fin d…
/r/seduction13/10/10 08:18 PM
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There is a difference between a girl who wants to get hit on while reading and a girl who is genuinely interested in a book. Namely, a girl who is looking for some hot, flirty action will be looking around a lot for any guys in the immeasurable vicinity to undress with their eyes. If a girl is sitting there in a big squishy chair with her nose in a book, she probably is actually interested int he material she is reading and would take to a pick-up better when she was done with her chosen reading…
/r/seduction13/10/10 02:41 AM
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Psssh, haven't you read The Game? You get them in a room, massages all around, and a threesome will be had, it's that easy! Not, but seriously- In my experience, I was approached by a couple, and they asked me upfront, no games, or slyness. You should find a girl willing first, then have her pick the 3rd party. It strengthens your bonds with the first girl while having the second feel wanted and attractive to both genders. Don't panic if the second girl doesn't respond right away, new things in …
/r/seduction12/10/10 04:53 PM
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It depends on what I'm doing. If, per say, I am reading a book (this has happened to me several times) and a guy walks up and says 'Hey, what are you reading?' I will promptly reject him with 'A book.' and leave it at that until he goes away. But if I was just walking down the street and someone came up to me and started flirting, I would enjoy it. Its all a matter of timing, gentlemen, and relative smoothness. :)
/r/seduction12/10/10 04:43 PM
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