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Hilarious. Also unifying lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 06:48 PM
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This is cope women tell themselves to feel better when they don't get "picked."
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 12:41 PM
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You asked how to find men that "aren't deathly afraid of discussing it." People who are seeking it aren't afraid of discussing it, so that's your first clue to move on. If you're over 30, never married, most men are gonna have misgivings about your potential body count also. Your career and education mean basically nothing to men, could even be a detractor for someone looking wife/mom material. That said, don't give up hope just because the odds aren't ideally stacked in your favor. Keep an open…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/24 07:50 PM
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Ask questions. Understanding what he's talking about will help. And men love to explain stuff to us. He will probably end up rambling less if you show interest.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 10:55 PM
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I only have people I'm friendly with. Then again I have kids a husband a career and hobbies. I guess friends are more important if you're a young single woman. I did have much more of a social life back then.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 10:50 PM
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No but most men are not homebodies. It becomes an issue if he can't do what he wants with his free time like you can. I'm a homebody and my husband has many outdoor activities he does with his guy friends or by himself. It works fine for us because I get alone time to work on my creative hobbies and he gets to roam. He loves that I don't mind, and all his friends are jealous that I "let him" have hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 10:47 PM
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Interesting. I'm a woman but opposite. I guess my mom was stressed. Checks out actually.
/r/BlackPillScience01/08/23 11:47 PM
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Positive reinforcement. Women these days are so negative. Never speak your doubts into a partner. It's honestly transformative when you become a wife who inspires rather than criticizes. And really we as humans should be that way with everyone. If you see a friend struggling with something, tell them they're the opposite. Your friend is being weak and whiny about something, tell them they're strong and you know they'll succeed. They're being stupid and naive about something, tell them they're to…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 12:14 PM
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And stop supporting your parents. They need to take their own advice and get jobs.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 08:19 PM
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I left college when I was 26 for a variety of reasons but mainly because I wanted to have a baby and be a sahm for a while. Everyone told me I was having a mental breakdown and I would regret it for the rest of my life. My family was SO disappointed in me. I was suicidal before this, because my lifestyle was so mismatched from what I wanted. Even people who knew that said I was a disappointment for choosing a path that didn't make me want to die. Its been 8 years. Still waiting for the regret to…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 08:17 PM
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Spend more time around them and you'll realize they're just dorks. I find tall men less scary than short men. Short men really do have anger problems. Tall men are more mellow in my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 08:08 PM
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This is most women my age too. Either in miserable relationships because their roles are reversed and this makes everyone bitter, or chronically single. Since its everywhere, I cant really escape it. I've just learned to withstand it, and occasionally clap back. They're miserable/single for a reason, I'm happily married for a reason. Those reasons are crystal clear to me. I dont need their approval. I definitely keep them at a distance though. I'm not inviting them into my life, just being toler…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 08:01 PM
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It's hard for me to answer this question because I was the one who avoided and put off marriage for a long time. I have a dysfunctional attachment style that makes it really stressful for me to "commit" in the normal terms. I was always committed in my heart and lifestyle, but it took him 8 years to drag me to the altar and another 5 to get me to change my name. It gives me a severe panic because in my mind its like a jinx. I wanted to do those things but in my backwards mind, it felt like I'd l…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 07:44 PM
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Every generation tries to reinvent the wheel when it comes to dating. They soon realize the conventions exist for a reason. My husband would not go out with female friends without me. Even his female friends are more like acquaintances, friends of friends, friends of family etc. If at any point I said, I get a bad vibe from this girl, I dont want you talking to her. That'd be the end of that. And it goes both ways. The reason is that it protects both parties in a relationship from being put into…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 07:21 PM
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Great comment. Only thing I disagree with is the "boyfriend gets sex." Yall have sex. The two of you. Not one doing a favor for the other, ideally. Men don't just want sex, they want you to like it. They want you to need them. This involves knowing your body, your likes and kinks, exploring continually with your partner, and asking for what you want. Most women, even really promiscuous ones, still struggle with repression and feeling like sex is "for men." Their orgasms are secondary, their part…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 06:50 PM
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I agree dont lie. People can change. Lying would indicate you haven't changed. Accountability shows maturity and growth. "I did some stuff when I was young and stupid and it ended up making me feel awful, so I changed my behavior." Anyone who cant accept growth as a concept isn't worth your time anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 06:23 PM
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