wifeplate Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Comfort Tests vs. Shit Tests, need help	wifeplate	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/05/15 06:22 AM
12	Am I my wife's plate?	wifeplate	/r/askTRP	21/12/14 11:59 AM
6	How to show off your body?	wifeplate	/r/askTRP	07/01/15 09:45 PM
2	Did I fail at dread, or does it just not work sometimes?	wifeplate	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 08:39 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Comfort Tests vs. Shit Tests, need help Seriously, thank you. Great post. A blinding glimpse into what should be obvious for me.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/05/15 08:34 AM
2	Comfort Tests vs. Shit Tests, need help I thought it felt like pity sex at that point. Which I know sounds odd given that we have sex every night. I also didn't want her to think I was going to flat out ignore the issue she had by just having sex and forgetting all about it. In the moment, I don't think either of us wanted it frankly. The conversation really soured the mood, which is tough for us to do.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/05/15 07:17 AM
0	Redditor's fiance goes with "mutual" friend to "gym" for four hours and sends bathroom snapchats at 3am. Sorry, really can't say more. No, it wouldn't make a good movie. Message is: don't take revenge, it doesn't really gain you anything. Plus remember who the perpetrator is: your SO, not the guy she slept with. However, remember that if you are that guy that sleeps with the taken woman, don't get caught or be very careful.	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/15 08:25 PM
0	Redditor's fiance goes with "mutual" friend to "gym" for four hours and sends bathroom snapchats at 3am. I made it look like he had done something serious that he hadn't. In my mind, it was very fitting, I thought he was guilty of a crime, just not one that was punishable by our legal system.	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/15 04:46 PM
14	Redditor's fiance goes with "mutual" friend to "gym" for four hours and sends bathroom snapchats at 3am. Unfortunately, as anonymous as reddit may be, I don't feel comfortable disclosing that since it was of very questionable legality. Let's just say you would not want it done to you. As raven2000 said above, remember that you are messing with a man's life when your plates are someone else's SO, and some men are beta ONLY when it comes to way they act around their SOs. The lion seems tame in a cage at the zoo...	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/15 07:23 AM
21	Redditor's fiance goes with "mutual" friend to "gym" for four hours and sends bathroom snapchats at 3am. Something else to think about here since it has been discussed a lot in this thread. Be very, very careful when messing with another man's wife/gf. I know because at one point I was the BB and my SO cheated on me. I found out who it was, and let's just say that his life is never going to be the same. I didn't beat him or up or any shit like that, but I got my due payback. I don't regret what I did, but looking back I also take no pride or joy in it. All I knew was that at the time, my SO was eve…	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/15 03:54 AM
1	How to show off your body? Thanks for the comments. Really appreciated. Yes, in a well-fit t-shirt, it's very noticeable. My arms are very vascular. I should probably get a few tighter fitting nice shirts though. But for instance in a suit, yes you can see some v-taper, but it seems like that's about as good as it gets, even with the jacket cut very close.	/r/askTRP	08/01/15 07:52 AM
1	Did I fail at dread, or does it just not work sometimes? Thanks, very helpful. We'll see how it goes tomorrow. Yeah, we actually have the opposite problem of many couples on here. Sex has never been the issue. Emotional attachment is tough though. Hence my previous post: am I my wife's plate? - She had an emotional affair while I was used for sex. Not the worst thing in the world for many on here, but not good for a married couple.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 09:43 AM
1	Am I my wife's plate? Very good points. Appreciate your reply. I actually did speak to a lawyer. Right after I told her I was serious about the divorce and she caved. I went to see one anyway. He told me the standard stuff - no-fault state, you're fucked. I know the emotional affair was serious and since the first 'dread' (the threat of divorce) she has come back, but I can't pull that as my dread every time. Need something a little more on-going. Yes, I think the therapist and she obviously talk about way more than …	/r/askTRP	22/12/14 02:19 AM
1	Am I my wife's plate? Thanks, some great ideas. Some are going to be a little tough. I work from home for a small company. No female co-workers at all. I do have the occasional business trip to meet with clients, so I'll have to make my 'fake' person seem like a female client or something. Dread has been very tough for me throughout our relationship due to our work situations. She puts constant dread on me due to working with a bunch of guys who would give their left nut to go out with her. I've never been in a simil…	/r/askTRP	22/12/14 12:15 AM
3	Am I my wife's plate? Yes, we're actually in a situation I don't see posted too often on RP. She is certainly not withholding sex, and certainly not looking for it elsewhere. She is looking for romance and mental validation elsewhere.	/r/askTRP	21/12/14 07:02 PM
2	Am I my wife's plate? Thanks for your thoughts. I think I have gone through that process at this point. I did distance myself for awhile and had some good talks with friends/family. I did realize that I wanted to make it work, even knowing it will never be the same. What I don't understand right now is who this person is (her made up ideal person) that she is attracted to. He is somehow an alpha in all external actions but a beta with her. I'm not sure that's a healthy mindset for me to have because one of those is g…	/r/askTRP	21/12/14 07:01 PM
1	Am I my wife's plate? Ehh, the problem wasn't that so much. Guys hit on her all the time. It actually made me feel validated when she blew them off or turned them into orbiters. This is the one time where she reciprocated. Almost odd that the one time she did was with the biggest beta loser in history, but oh well, live and learn: everyone is a potential threat given a certain situation and a woman's current mindset.	/r/askTRP	21/12/14 06:55 PM
2	Am I my wife's plate? Thanks, we're working on the new job. This is a very touchy subject. As I mentioned in another comment. She won't just quit outright because she doesn't want to be a single, unemployed mother if I were to leave her. She doesn't really realize that this is in fact better for me than her if I were to leave (less alimony). I have had some ups and downs in my job over the years too, so she legitimately has a few concerns about lowering our total salary, even if her quitting is just a small decrease …	/r/askTRP	21/12/14 06:53 PM
2	Am I my wife's plate? Thanks for your advice. Here's what I struggle with though as far as the alpha/beta. I have done the "make my conversations short" for most of our marriage, but I may have taken it too far. She actively told me that she went after someone who was giving her long, deep talks and validation. So in this sense, she is almost begging for me to be more beta with her. I have never given her the validation until now. The "I don't need to explain myself" is actually helpful though - I probably do that qu…	/r/askTRP	21/12/14 06:49 PM