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But it's your thinking that's keeping you trapped where you're at. Instead of improving your strengths and working on areas for improvement, you're focused solely on your flaws, which clouds your thinking. It also feeds into your insecurities, and turns into a vicious cycle. Because you don't showcase yourself by showing what you bring to the table in a relationship, you're focused on all the guys who are more attractive, smarter, richer, etc. This doesn't do you any good, at all. When you put y…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 03:20 AM
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I didn't even touch Tinder because that app is pretty much purely for hookups. The apps are really rough these days, honestly, and can be discouraging to shuffle through if you really want a partner. I stumbled on a diamond while searching in a coal mine, blindfolded. I usually recommend that people pursue their interests to meet potential romantic partners. At least then, you get to show your charms in person rather than having to message first, and you already share at least one interest. The …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 12:48 AM
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I did have to swipe a lot, but I also can just about guarantee that many, many men swiped left on me too. And that's okay. This all comes back to 'water in the desert, water in the swamp' thing. You're in the desert and have a hard time finding water (more limited options); I was in the swamp and surrounded by a bunch of water that I couldn't drink (many mediocre options). If you want to phrase it in terms of competition, I was also competing for a partner as well since the people I dated also h…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 12:44 AM
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That's exactly how I feel about it. A rare, very happy exception.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 08:06 PM
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My current relationship started off Bumble (2.5 years and very healthy) but I know I'm super lucky. It took me dozens of failed first dates to find my partner. Quite a few of really good looking guys were lazy with communication, arrogant to the point of being off putting, or clearly unintelligent. Some guys were NEET, which I didn't like. I had better dates with the guys who had good personalities and gave me respect; those guys made it to second dates and beyond. I swiped a lot more frequently…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 08:00 PM
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I married a jock, right out of college. He was over 6 foot tall, linebacker, incredibly handsome, and I was legitimately in love with him. He was also neglectful, emotionally stunted, and we ended up divorcing a year and a half after marriage, despite him looking like a Norse God and having a great job as an engineer. It's now a few years later. I'm with a tall, very thin, cute but not conventionally handsome man. He plays a lot of WOW, and works for a big tech company. He's very unique and inte…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 04:24 AM
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That's assuming that there are other decent options on online dating. Each woman is different, but I was searching for someone with a good personality and kind heart. The vast majority of responses that I got from men (including good looking ones) involved terrible pickup lines, or immediate solicitations for sex, and I immediately wrote them off because of it. Don't do those, and you've already set yourself above the majority of guys on dating apps. Find something to connect on, personality and…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 06:01 AM
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No worries! It's very hard to communicate via electronic medium at times. It seems like your thought patterns already split off from TRP, as you have been questioning, which is fantastic. I know there are disparities in the way men and women are systematically treated, some necessary, some slightly ridiculous. However, men also have advantages to existing, so make sure to note those as well. I know it irks some people that women are pushed so hard towards stem, but it's partially to make up for …
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 04:03 PM
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Sometimes people hurt each other. It's an unfortunate act of life that's next to impossible to avoid, unfortunately. I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with you, as a member of that 50%. I'm much more complex than TRP would like me to be; I'm a full blown person, as each woman is, with very different desires and motivations for each. I've been in a healthy long term relationship with what TRP would consider a beta for over a year, because we respect and love each other. I basically prove…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 02:52 PM
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We are glad you're here! It definitely is way easier to generalize, but it won't get you very far in terms of romance. I like to give new people the benefit of the doubt, and it's made me some great friends. Try to avoid making assumptions, TRP based or not, and you should be fine. That's what I've got advice wise!
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 06:02 AM
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So she's got you on the back burner while she messes around with other guys? No. She doesn't respect you, you're her backup option. I recommend you cut her off at the knees here. You deserve better than weak promises and flimsy confessions. Actions show intent; believe what she's showing you. P. S. Please don't call women sluts. This girl is leading you on and manipulating you, yes. But the casual sex thing isn't a big deal - the problem with this situation is that you're emotionally intimate wh…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 03:04 AM
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Nope. I live for a steady, healthy, committed relationship. As always, generalizations are dangerous; it truly depends on the girl. Some might behave the way you expect, but there are plenty who don't.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 10:42 PM
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I'm really glad you are aware that there's a problem with your views because they are seriously skewed. It's time to stop thinking of women as objects who enjoy tormenting men by withholding sex and affection - view them as human beings, the way you view fellow men. Each woman is different. I know very very few like the women that you are describing in your views, and I have a lot of ladies in my life. I can just about guarantee that you know women who aren't like this. But if the majority of wo…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 07:28 AM
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