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you are not penalized for not having kids, you pay the same tax as anyone else would. families only pay less because kids give them a tax benefit. if you increase the taxes on having kids then less people are going to have kids, which is again bad for society. everyone pays for each other so everyone benefits. when you were a kid you also had your school paid for by someone else. you pay for things with your taxes that you will never see again, picking education as the issue is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:39 PM
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your actions have consequences, it doesn't matter where you are or what you're doing, and it definitely doesn't matter if it's an accident. if you accidentally run someone over with your car once, do you think you shouldn't be responsible for it? you're acting like men don't play a role in getting a woman pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:27 PM
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how about if men don't want to have a kid then they shouldn't have sex? seems like that solves the problem too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:20 PM
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being single because you choose to be single doesn't mean you're alone. being single because you are not picked does mean you're alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:25 AM
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So I’m going to end the conversation right here since I realized my point is being intentionally ignored. Because my point was clearly wasnt that people in their 20s dont have deal breakers. I mean you're saying that people in their 20s do have dealbreakers but since they won't act on them it makes dating harder which doesn't even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:31 AM
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And it’s usually easier to recognize dealbreakers when you’re older, wiser, and more educated on red flags people who are below the age of 30 also have dealbreakers and act on them. if this wasn't the case then dating wouldn't suck right now And alot more younger people are more fooled into getting into them sorry I meant to say people over 30 seek situationships. they just label it as "something casual". As someone who knows women who went through that, because they know the situation sucks. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:48 AM
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people are able to compromise a lot less because you're younger and your dating pool is a lot bigger. you don't need to commit to something because "time isn't running out". you can see with dating apps people won't compromise if they see something they don't like. and, especially in big cities, there are people that seek situationships all the time on dating apps. also I don't understand why situationships are an example of compromise. it's not an issue if you avoid them, so dating isn't as har…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:04 AM
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I agree that dating at 20 is terrible but being 30 is also pretty bad because your dating pool has shrunk a lot more and you'll have to compromise the older you get
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:20 PM
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yea I do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:22 AM
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I didn't come here for your advice. I'm talking about the post and I am too. you're talking about disadvantages of dating for men, but only like 1-2 of the things you listed are actual disadvantages
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:43 AM
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just because we're on the internet doesn't mean you need to take only online talking points and evidence. you can use real life experience as examples to prove your point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:41 AM
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How in the hell do you respond with men have shitty personalities but you can't see the connection of me saying that shitty personalities it's not as revelant when it comes to successful dating for men. Because men are expecting to lead. Jesus Christ Batman are you just this slow to pick up points? How the hell was that paragraph even a straw man? this whole tangent is proof that you're strawmanning everything. did you even read what I said? I used shitty personalities as an example to show why …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:44 PM
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It's not even because they have shitty personalities. It's because they need to have better personalities to attract a woman that they want and usually have a lot more outgoing personalities. what does this have to do with what I said? you just strawman every argument that I make. I was simply using personality as an example to show you that you remove nuance with all of your claims A fuck ton of women have shitty personalities but it doesn't really hurt their dating success now does it? Being t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:04 AM
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It is a man problem because most men don't Succeed successfully with the opposite sex at a consistent basis that's not how it works. it would be a man problem if all men suffered from the same issues for no reason. if a large portion of men are single because of their shitty personality, is that a man problem? no that's a problem for the individual person. if a large portion of men are single because society doesn't deem them attractive, that's not anyone's problem it's unlucky and each person h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:09 AM
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If you have a higher risk of rejection that means you have a higher risk of not getting a relationship and if most people deem you as unattractive then obviously they don't want to date you how is this hard to grasp? when did I say I disagree with this? I'm saying it's not "a con for men" as you say it is. if you're not succeeding because you're unattractive, then it's not a "men" problem, it's an unfortunate "you" problem The man is usually the one that has to initiate so he's usually going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:22 PM
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higher risk of rejection and the opposite sex finding you unattractive are not cons for dating for men, that's more of a personality/looks thing having to approach is true most of the time, sometimes women approach but this has always been the case flirting is something both people do, it's not just men. in fact, if one person is the only one flirting then the other person isn't into you asking them out is also a mutual thing. normally whoever initiates the conversation in the first place asks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:28 PM
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because not everyone requires that in a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:24 AM
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they posted on r/TwoXChromosomes and talk about men like how a man would when asking about women in this sub, I think it's a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:13 AM
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so you're admitting that someone that isn't as lucky and genetically blessed needs to work harder to maximize other aspects? which was my main point that you are already better off with your height than a lot of other people. your smv even before you started looksmaxing was higher just because of your height. also, a lot of guys can get jacked and get a better style and they still wouldn't be successful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:19 AM
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not everyone is handsome, and you do not see that all the time, especially in every day life. go to your local walmart/grocery store, mall, or anyone in a big public setting and count how many couples there are where the guy is short + jacked and with someone that looks significantly better than them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:44 PM
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it may not be a green light but it helps a lot, which you are ignoring. if a woman wants a taller guy, is she more likely to pick the jacked 5'7 guy or the unkept 6'4 guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:18 PM
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so you agree on looksmaxing but don't believe that height plays a factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:03 PM
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working on yourself is great but don't act like being tall doesn't make a difference. there are shorter people that do everything that you do and have way less success in the market. you can say "just hit the gym" but acting like that will magically solve another person's problems is just false hope. if it were the case that working on yourself solved people's problems, then there wouldn't be dating problems in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:13 PM
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there can be new people in friend groups, like if it's a big group or if one person introduces someone to the group
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:03 PM
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you can be a fat woman or a single mom and want those guys, but as you say later in your message, it's not a guy problem or a standards problem that they can't attract the person they're into. and same with guys, it's not a woman problem or a standards problem. but men are not struggling to date because they are going for the top 20% of women. men are struggling because they can't get a match, like, or message on dating apps. which again, is not a women problem or a standards problem, it's a com…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:15 PM
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isn't that everyone though? who would purposefully want to date someone they aren't attracted to? there isn't a dating problem because men are drowning in likes and purposely choosing the 6% that you say. most people use dating apps these days and most guys don't even get a match on them. maybe it's their ideal "woman", but let's be honest, everyone that is single has an ideal type. men are not struggling because they are looking for a specific type of woman. and this problem far surpasses the 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:17 PM
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I think you're mixing up a controlling partner with a monogamous relationship. people that are in a healthy, happy relationship are not walking on eggshells or trying to sleep with people they find attractive. a poly/open relationship isn't something that would magically fix relationships with people that are trying to date in the traditional sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:10 PM
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I mean being a "successful in the hookup scene" gay guy is way different than being a young (and presumably) attractive woman in the dating market. the guy is dealing with a much much much smaller market compared to the girl and the girl can have a lot more leverage in terms on monetary success (like onlyfans, social media, sugar dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:13 PM
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