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Discussionwigsnatcher42/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:02 AM
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Yes absolutely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:10 PM
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Someone lied to you buddy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:08 PM
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Upside is she isn’t any more!
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 05:38 AM
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How long have you been with your current girlfriend?
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 04:57 AM
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Lol the girl in the OP was better looking
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 04:54 AM
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Speaking of overrating looks…
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 04:53 AM
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I don’t have a problem with your post but don’t make yourself a target with glaringly obvious typos.
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 02:00 AM
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And do some doxing!
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 01:55 AM
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…it’s moot.
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 01:48 AM
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our power
/r/MensRights18/10/21 08:35 PM
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Yes I’m aware, I’m just checking to see if your opinions are consistent
/r/MensRights18/10/21 06:12 AM
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…the name of this post is “compare feminism to white supremacism”
/r/MensRights18/10/21 05:57 AM
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Yes definitely
/r/MensRights17/10/21 11:07 PM
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So you do think white supremacy is real, Kevin? Now tell it to me straight, Todd, do whites have privilege or not?
/r/MensRights17/10/21 10:14 PM
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I don’t agree I think there are men at 5’9” who are attractive. Steven Yuen is 5’9” and he’s an example of an average height guys who is v handsome. But still men with a good looking face is rare
/r/MensRights17/10/21 09:42 PM
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I said what I said
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/21 08:33 PM
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Lol an attractive man is like a needle in a haystack
/r/MensRights17/10/21 08:32 PM
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So you agree white supremacy isn’t real
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:39 PM
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Now that would be interesting if someone rebranded feminism as CGT (critical gender theory) and passed laws to get those teachings into schools. Hmm. Thanks for the idea :)
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:37 PM
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Thanks for sharing this …I’ll share it with feminists across the internet so they’re prepared. Even though this is such a terrible argument lmao It’s also funny because MRAs are white supremacists themselves, who also otherwise claim to not believe it exists
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:36 PM
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Checkmate feminists!
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:33 PM
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But I thought y’all could easily pull hot 18 year olds. So why do you c are?
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:25 PM
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Ah yes all those problems are purely women’s faults lol It’s not our fault y’all are ugly and broke
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:24 PM
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Yes they need to learn that you can’t lose what never existed
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:22 PM
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Why don’t you have it yet?
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:22 PM
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Nope she’s right. Men always try to gaslight when we’re on to them :)
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:21 PM
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Also a woman and I agree with all your comments here lol
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:21 PM
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Sucks to be you
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:13 PM
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Brrrrap brrrrap pew pew
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:07 PM
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They’re an easy male target, yes
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:06 PM
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From your lips to god’s ears
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:06 PM
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We are.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 12:05 PM
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Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt personally victimized by other men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/21 11:23 AM
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Also? It’s primarily to ONLY men doing these things to each other lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/21 11:20 AM
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It was just one woman, she might’ve been mixed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:53 PM
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Yes she was, and I tried to find it but couldn’t — if I do I’ll link you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:50 PM
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Lol I am, I don’t think all or most white men are pink tho I think the women who would sleep with a nazi are v rare, and probably are racist themselves. Like a lot of tradfem get exposed for having racist husbands. Beyond that I only hear men saying they don’t care if a hookup is racist, or that they like being called the n word in bed or something There was an article several years ago that went viral from an Australian magazine where a woman detailed a hookup she had. After they slept together…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:13 PM
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Is that why you’re ugly too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:21 PM
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There’s nothing to be pressed about. I’ve always been drawn to social issues, feminism, and how everything fits together like cogs in a society wide system. And honestly I find redpillers / manosphere interesting. These things can also affect you in the workplace and life even if you aren’t looking for a partner. As they say, know thine enemy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:55 PM
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Apparently you didn’t read my post, I made it clear they aren’t trying to appeal to MOST men, that’s the point of my post lol. They like black men and molded themselves into a look that’s popular with them. If they liked white business men, they would try to get skinny and waifish — not thick and curvy. How many white and Asian women do you see getting extreme bbls? Okay, I thought of one : Coco is a white woman who got one, and she’s married to …. Iced T. It’s just like when some white women st…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:39 PM
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Nice ass I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:20 PM
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Menopause + that extra layer of fat for child birth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:08 PM
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Anything except pink
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:04 PM
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I prefer dark haired men. With less of a douchy frat boy look.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:55 PM
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No one said anything about careers? Lol you’re a bit off topic here. But yeah and vice versa, biology made us not want short skinny broke small dicked ugly men with no forehead ridge lool God isn’t real hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:08 AM
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Who is even still staying inside? Pandemic been over homie. My ass just came back from vacay in fucking Florida. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:41 AM
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Keep ropin it’s good for neck strength
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:18 AM
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Yeah a tall mans metabolism is comparable to a 5’4” woman lmao r/badwomensanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:15 AM
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Curious — if your wide makes 50k does she pay half? Or 1/3?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:13 AM
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Who knew a lifestyle could have a genitals and a sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:11 AM
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And having money + not short is just biology it’s how we’re wired
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:09 AM
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Lmao, delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:02 AM
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Not fat =/= good body, you’re probably skinny fat with bad proportions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:00 AM
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Just lie about your age if you look younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:58 AM
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Lol at people who buy into LifeScript ™. Good job letting religion and dumb suburbanites think for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:56 AM
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Women strive to look the way men want. Or at least how they think men want. Look at how women groom themselves differently based on what culture they’re from / what culture they want to attract, usually. I’d the Kardashians were interested in white business men they wouldn’t pump their hips and asses up with silicone. And they sure wouldn’t do those things because other women like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:54 AM
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Ooh nice catch about them having their own forms of hyperfamy. I’m telling you these realizations are going to be the foundations of the womanosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:47 AM
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Those women exist but your evidence is still anecdotal. Lookup what menopause does to women’s bodies and looks on average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:36 AM
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But menopause generally does fill out the midsection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:35 AM
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Men don’t care how you feel, only how you make them feel. But you sum up why single women tend to have higher levels of happiness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:35 AM
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Have you read that study that’s out there? It claims that men lose sexual attraction to women as they develop respect for them …lol :/ Men see and experience sex v differently than we do. We can’t look at their sexuality through a female lens. Sex is more about conquering / destroying / dominating for them, which changes the dynamics. They rarely feel “used” in that sense. And they don’t really see us as equals or human. And one doesn’t need to respect or even like a sexual doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:31 AM
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As a straight woman, her body is bangin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:17 AM
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Have you seen her face post surgery? Her face is botched, esp her nose. Her butt looks like a shelf. Presurgery her nose was super wide. And her bone structure is kinda masculine. She also has the worst personality out of all of them imo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:16 AM
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It’s not even close to all women. You just like and pay attention to dumb and racist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:12 AM
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What women are claiming that? Appearance is pretty high on my list lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:11 AM
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It makes me dryer than the Sahara. Men just think this way because they’re desperate enough to sleep with women who call them the n word in bed and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:51 AM
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The nazi one is funny. First the guy is not attractive. Second it looks like the responders are the usual suspects — a bunch of racist white women and possibly a few white worshipping Asians. Red pillers are funny because all their examples are from dumb women, which is why they get gathered the second they deal with anyone with a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:47 AM
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He isn’t attractive and his hair is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:42 AM
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It’s gonna be interesting to see, in 20 years, what happens to all these men who think they’ll be banging hot 18 year olds when they’re 40 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:40 AM
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We won’t talk to them at 40 either lol ew
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:39 AM
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You’re saying my post is off topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:56 AM
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Wow this is interesting. You should write an article about your experiences, since a lot of women aren’t aware of this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:10 AM
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You answered your own question — women aren’t as interested in that type of sex. Empowerment =/= copying men. Some women might also feel it’s unsafe, or they might feel judged. Some aren’t comfortable with a stranger and no real connection. Also women don’t feel the need to “conquer” men and we don’t feel the need to control them. We also don’t need to degrade the opposite sex just to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:02 AM
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On the flip side of that a lot of women became more acutely aware of how the division of labor (wrt childrearing especially) is inequal, with extra responsibilities being put in them. So they start to criticize men, and then the men get mad, and here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:58 AM
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That’s one upside
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:56 AM
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The teacher's name was obviously an example of one such question that could be asked. That's a great question too...now the questions is, can dads answer that? Or even better, can they remember how old their kids are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:51 PM
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It seems to be an interpretation issue (possibly purposefully)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:45 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:44 PM
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A+ spin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:56 AM
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He always seemed decent to me. That’s not even his bio kid and he still took care of her. She lost some friends after it all went down. But she has a huge social circle so she’s doing better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:56 AM
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I’ve lost contact with him. And I believe she prefers *entitled bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:51 AM
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I know he saw the kid at least once. I saw him with her when I was over her old house. And she got a happy ending. Like I said, she got her masters and a new fiancé.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:48 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:41 AM
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I also forgot -- in general, vote and advocating for "sjw" type things. Those usuallys marginalize males (especially the pink ones). Affirmative action and workplace quotas are good place to start. Also ladies, if you're in california you can use the new stealthing law in your favor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 09:38 AM
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She's not on drugs and there was no abuse afaik, but she got pregnant young and basically married the first guy who came her way. Yes, she cheated on him and divorced him. She moved to a better place, got her masters, started a business with her new fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:32 AM
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I guess the future is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:21 AM
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because they only trot it out when convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:18 AM
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That's silly to assume she isn't going to be working. And even if she isn't, taking care of kids and running a household is still work. I’ve seen good dads have their kids taken from them by the trashiest women on the planet, who destroyed their marriages by cheating, abused them and the kids, and drugs/alcohol and the judge couldn’t rule in their favor fast enough One of my friends did this lol. That's what gender roles does to society!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:17 AM
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And why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:13 AM
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the former
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:09 AM
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Also to the same women, use that free time to do things like... -advocate against males in divorce courts call cps on males with children who preach about grooming/marrying young girls -spread feminism to younger women and teach them about male depravity -mock short men online -if you see a male w/ no forehead bump, point it out -laugh at male suicide rates and death rates -if you have kids, don't let the father see them -watch the movies Hustlers and Gone Girl; take notes -laugh at males in pub…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 08:54 AM
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🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:45 AM
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Well damn you've convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:24 AM
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Well like you said, this woman in particular you're speaking of can't provide for the kids monetarily, so the child support solves that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:22 AM
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That's smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:19 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:17 AM
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I'm sure your kids will enjoy it too!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:16 AM
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You seem to have a nice happy life, congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:15 AM
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I'm the wrong one to ask, because, as I've said multiple times, I don't think less involved = bad parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:14 AM
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Nice! Yeah I don't have kids, but I do part-time work from home, so its definitely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:13 AM
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If they're traditional and believe men are providers and women are nurturers, they shouldn't be mad when judges and lawmakers believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:11 AM
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But are the children happier with an old and tired working mom or a young and energetic 20 year old? Yes. Being a mother is not for everyone. For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:08 AM
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If you think education is unimportant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:06 AM
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he kids would be better off with a younger step-mom who could connect with them due to being closer in age. Statistically, children of older parents do better on most metrics, so idk about that. What does it say about the woman’s interest in taking on the role of mother? She's obv not interested. I wouldn't blame her, it seems like a boring job to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:03 AM
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I don't doubt it. I was lucky to get the best of both worlds -- my dad worked seasonally, and my mom taught preschool and her school was always out before mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:00 AM
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Like Ive said, less involved isn't a judgement of good vs bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:58 AM
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Good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:56 AM
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That's one school of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:54 AM
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Why wouldn't they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:54 AM
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Should they really have custody? Not if their husbands work less & are more involved. I would argue that it's not normal for women to abandon their kids in order to go out an make money. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:53 AM
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Well yes, that's how stereotypical women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:51 AM
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we have to go deeper BRRRRRRRRRM
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:49 AM
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Not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:43 AM
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Well only one of the two will get their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:42 AM
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Then I guess Im living the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:40 AM
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How many men do you think want to be King of the castle today? Did you just get here from 1951? Did they? King of the castle type guys don't end up in court in the first place. They have devoted handmaidens who take care of the family. Then they have no reason to complain about this incessantly. Okay. What if men stop being tradcon and NEET-maxx instead? That means no job, no marriage, and no responsibility. Then women get to raise the kids on their own. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:26 AM
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Well technically that isn't me, it's the judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:25 AM
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Sounds like a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:24 AM
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Or a thought exercise to point out the faulty logic of many trads. It can’t even be a fantasy when I can see actual men complaining about it right here in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:21 AM
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Probably because of child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:17 AM
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Well, they'll have to get custody first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:13 AM
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Then, assuming his wife doesnt initiate the divorce (which is generally how it goes), he has nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:12 AM
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Then you might not be the type of male Im referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:11 AM
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Knowing the teacher's name shows that the parent is involved in the kid's education. If the parent goes to parent teacher nights, maybe PTA meetings or volunteers with the kids class, it's highly likely they know the teacher's name.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:09 AM
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I mean, why should the courts side with a man who doesn't even want to provide for their child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:07 AM
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And I doubt the woman they find knows his kids teacher's name either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:02 AM
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Seems like they're mostly interested in the perceived inequality, rather than the reasoning. Thats the vibe Ive always gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:01 AM
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Exactly that's my point, post divorce the male will continue to provide for the kids by paying child support, and the women will continue to nurture by taking full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:58 AM
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Then 60% of them can see their kids every other weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:57 AM
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So business as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:55 AM
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As you should!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:53 AM
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Where is it happening? Ask the males who constantly claim it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:51 AM
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I didn't ridicule them. As Ive said upthread, it's not an example of a bad parent, just a more passive and less involved one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:49 AM
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No. It would just mean they're not as involved as other parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:47 AM
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Yes, this is my point -- the males choose to focus on work at the expense of spending time with their children. Meanwhile, the women choose to cut back on their hours so they can spend that time present in their kids lives instead. Those are both admirable, but from a judge's perspective, it doesn't make a lot of sense to send them to live with the parent who chooses to be less active in their day to day lives. Unless they're a fan of latchkey kids, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:47 AM
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Some people in this thread are claiming it happens, and others are claiming it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:35 AM
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Every single last word of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:32 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:28 AM
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Only if you don't think its important for a parent to be involved in their child's education.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:16 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:15 AM
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Eh, I dont necessarily agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:14 AM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:13 AM
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What does that have to do with empathy? Knowing the teacher's name is a sign that the parent is involved in their education. It's a sign you've probably been to a parent teacher meeting, PTA, and maybe volunteer to help at the school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:12 AM
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They'll still get to see the kid every other weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:09 AM
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That's a completely fair opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:09 AM
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It can't be just a fantasy if it's happening. IA its important to have both in their lives. They can still talk to their dad on the phone and see them every other weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:07 AM
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What about every weekend + the entire summer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:02 AM
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Males are uninvolved; just look at how many mothers realized it during the pandemic. And yes I do believe the change will come. I think as a society, we'll become more and more egalitarian, and then men will eventually earn that right. Glad we agree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:01 AM
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Then good thing I never said that. Because i feel the exact same way if the genders are flipped -- if the woman works and the dad stays home, for example, then the dad deserves full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:56 AM
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Exactly, if his work prevented him from being present for his children during the marriage, that won't change post-divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:54 AM
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I never implied the woman *didn't* want that role. I never implied that anyone is being forced to do anything. And I never implied that those males don't care about their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:52 AM
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Well first off, I don't think that determines whether someone is a good vs bad parent -- I think it's an example of involved vs passive parent. And the teachers names thing is more of an example that can be interchanged with a number of details about the kids life. That can definitely include interests and hobbies. But since you brought it up, I do think knowing their teachers name means they've possibly gone to school board meetings, gone to parent teacher meetings, maybe helped out or voluntee…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:50 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:43 AM
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Well males already aren't getting to see their children, right? And yes, the way society views males vs women's roles shapes those decisions. If you believe women are better at nurturing, and that childrearing is a feminine trait, then why shouldn't the courts believe you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:43 AM
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Who the fuck are males to determine what involved enough is? That question goes both ways. Yes it took two to create the child, but apparently it only takes 1.5 to raise it lol. And since we aren't the ones complaining about family courts, it looks like we are doing pretty well with the whole calling the shots thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:39 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:35 AM
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I think criticizing how much alimony one gets is fair. Maybe even criticizing the entire concept of it. However, it makes sense to side with the person who spends the most time with the kids gets custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:34 AM
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This is worded in a weird way, so Im not sure what you're trying ot say with the provide/protect part. But the woman's traditional gender role is that of a cartetaker, so the first part of your post doesnt make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:31 AM
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I don't think these TRPers truly care about getting custody of their kids. I think they just see this as a wedge issue to bitch about women/feminists. Although some probably do want custody just to spite their ex wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:29 AM
9

Right, there are droves of women lying in family courts, but all the men are completely virtuous and would never try the same tactics? Sounds legit. Men don't get custody by and large because... a) they don't want it b) they're not involved enough c) it's not part of their traditional gender role, socially
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:27 AM
6

It’s not arbitrary at all and I’ve already explained why. If you don’t know your kids teachers name (for example) you’re not involved enough in their life to deserve custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:16 AM
7

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:14 AM
11

Read my initial post. Women do most of the work, so they get most of the custody. To me it sounds like males just want to be handed full/joint custody without truly looking at the division of labor and asking they can contribute more so they CAN answer those questions and look more favorable to judges. They would also be invested in actually changing the societal view of gender wrt parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:13 AM
1

I never said it did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:09 AM
4

Wouldn’t the thing at the finish line be the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:09 AM
1

Yup, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:07 AM
1

It’s logical if you’re a Chad. So i guess that makes the answer no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:46 AM
1

Who requires men to pay for 100% of abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:42 AM
1

Lol aren’t you cute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:43 PM
57

Yeah if it was racially motivated, this would just reinforce her prejudice. Also it proves she made the right decision initially ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:53 AM
167

Yep, my response to anyone who’s scared of black men would be “go ahead and apply that to them all” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:50 AM
1

Yes, that describes why they’re outliers…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:42 AM
3

Exactly — always uno reverse card them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:05 PM
3

Remove the “like this”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:04 PM
1

That’s probably partly because women are smart enough not to believe a stripper is into her lol Also don’t forget about the white American women keeping men in the Caribbean, or white British women keeping men in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:48 PM
1

Boohoo your poor sad sick :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:45 PM
1

Yup that’s just pure victim hood
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:44 PM
0

Men using women is the foundation of our society. And men never showed much empathy towards that, so now you have no allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:43 PM
2

These males are mad that they can’t do it. But they’re even more mad that they’re the suckers and simps making these girls rich lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:38 PM
1

….*you’re
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:36 PM
1

“If your smart” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:36 PM
1

You don’t understand the concept of outliers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:33 PM
23

I’m not going to ignore black women being demeaned bullied and harassed just because some non-black on the internet, who doesn’t have to deal with our specific issues, says to. I can feel some sympathy for the woc pickmes who perpetuate fetishistic behavior. I have zero for the moc — sorry not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:13 PM
23

You’re not wrong here but there’s another side of it that you’re not acknowledging or perhaps don’t see. I’m a woc as well, and there are a lot of poc who are quick to degrade the opposite sex of their race in order to prop up white men and women. And it tends to be women with the same racial identity as me who get the brunt end of this the most often. And being on the brunt end of it often results in disrespect, bullying, humiliation, plus enabling people of other races to treat us poorly. so I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:41 PM
1

Yes learn some self respect and stop viewing that filthy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:09 PM
1

So…capitalism. I’ve always thought it was stupid when people get mad at others for being able to make “easy” money. I work on a computer and still make easy money lol, so what.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:08 PM
47

Black? I’m guessing Asian on this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:00 PM
6

Me too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:46 AM
5

I saw this on another sub but they didn’t post his picture and stats …lol. Ew at him being almost 40 and wanting an 18 year old. This Guy has definitely been reading the manosphere. It’s funny how they blame so many things on feminism are lying to women but it’s going to be funny in a couple decades when you have all these men who want to believed they could wait until they were in their 40s and still pull hot 18-year-olds lool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:23 AM
0

Ah. Now I understand why people say there’s no such thing as toxic masculinity!
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/21 07:43 PM
1

I love psychology, I’m just stating the fact that many in the scientific community question it’s legitimacy and consider it a soft science. Also your comment is weird to me because I’ve seen threads and posts on this forum calling psychology sexist, especially because it views rape as a crime of passion. And if you want to call my bluff I’ll be happy to try and find those old threads. And being an typical arrogant xxTP is why I sound like a scrote :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:46 PM
1

Can’t see your new posts again, if that was you posting from a throwaway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:36 PM
1

Hi I’m a girl, and love MBTI :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:35 PM
1

There’s nothing to agree or disagree on here. Since it’s not a science, it doesn’t need approval from that community, and especially not anyone from soft “sciences” that are barely taken seriously to begin with ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:27 PM
1

I’m not sure why your next post isn’t showing up? But yes mbti is a philosophy — I said what I said, and it’s not up for debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:23 PM
1

Of course, you know how to get all the results but you keep getting similar ones when I answer honestly. One of my friends gets those results too, I’d say you’re probably an intj :) And everyone’s aware that it’s not taken seriously but no one cares hun; Mbti isn’t trying to be science, it’s a philosophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:13 PM
1

Perceived by others how? I didn’t state how it’s being perceived. I’m NOT trying to state that jung called Se masculine. I’m not stating that associating masculinity/ femininity to functions or types is factually true — that’s beside my point. This has nothing to do with truth, it has to do with sexual preferences. For example — you can ask women what hair color they think is the most masculine and they’ll have an opinion, but that doesn’t mean any hair color is “factually masculine”. However if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:48 AM
1

None of mbti is “factual” to begin with. the point is about how Se is perceived by others. Being a high Se user seems to appeal to most women. The way you described how people with 3rd or 4th place Se act doesn’t. Your points about Se aren’t invalid, they just don’t negate my point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:29 AM
1

Yeah well Reddit also appeals to that type lol. Funny thing is the intp sub is the only one I’ve found that crosses over with the feminism sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:18 AM
1

I’m well versed in mbti, I know what se is. most of the community agrees and usually Se doms (especially estp) are voted as the most masculine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:17 AM
2

Honestly I don’t know if I care for NT Men in general. I’m an intp so they say my perfect match is ENTJ — I don’t think I’ve ever met one and on paper they sound kinda scary lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:03 AM
3

Lmao, NT woman here and I meet plenty of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:58 AM
1

IMO that says something lol. I have a friend like that. For me It always leans towards xNxP, and I always get an xNTP result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:55 AM
1

I think all fans of mbti are aware that it’s pseudo science (I mean even psychology is doubted as a science lol) — mbti is a philosophy, not a science.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:52 AM
7

I feel like “not like the other girls” syndrome is sadly common among NT women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:49 AM
3

People say all xxTPs are arrogant in that way lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:47 AM
2

Polls have been done in this incel forums and usually intj is the most common there. Both intx types have either Se or Fe in their blind spot or inferior function. Most believe Se is the most masculine function, and bad Fe tends to make relationships harder in my opinion, so that probably explains it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:46 AM
3

INTjs are most common in incel communities followed by intp I believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:43 AM
2

I completely agree with you, I’m very into mbti and I think understanding it can help understand why some women act like pickmes, etc. Unfortunately I’ve seen some males in the mbti community say some red pill-ish things though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:42 AM
2

I’m lucky because most women I meet have similar mindsets about relationships. A couple I think learned from experience that it doesn’t pay off to be a “pickme”. I tend to meet more logical women, probably because I meet a lot of engineers and professionals, so that might (might) be why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:08 AM
36

…but they say it’s women/feminists who try to compete with men LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:44 AM
35

Sounds like he played himself and is trying to spin it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:37 AM
78

I’m surprised more people don’t see it — penis envy isn’t real but vagina envy is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:36 AM
2

She just hasn’t learned about opening jars and killing bugs yet
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 12:31 AM
1

That’s just awful … 50% should suffice.
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 12:29 AM
4

Wow her dad is a complete ass with zero empathy or self awareness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:24 AM
16

Hope Amanda doesn’t get sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:19 AM
4

Interesting I’ve never heard a lib fem say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:31 AM
-4

Honestly it’s more fun to watch them crash and burn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:21 AM
51

It’s also similar to why they get so angry at child free women lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:55 PM
64

Ding ding ding. On paper they fare better in relationships too — they live longer, do better in the workplace if they’re married with kids, and why wouldn’t they? They have a free maid, cook, nanny, and cheerleader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:55 PM
2

Meanwhile he wonders why he’s still single lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:14 PM
1

This is part of what’s wrong with the “everyone’s just too offended” mentality that’s popular right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:46 PM
13

Lol I know women (all older ones) who think fertility is solely a woman’s responsibility. Theyre also the ones who wonder why men don’t “mature” quickly, but they can’t make the connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:12 AM
49

Stunning is most definitely an opinion lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:02 AM
1

A lot of people believe there are specific personality types that tend to make up the users in dating platforms, and a lot of that seems to line up w what you’re saying. These are probably also the types that tend todo the best on those platforms probably. What sites do you use? Maybe you’ll have better luck with something like eharmony or bumble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:01 AM
7

I believe there are stats that back this up — I think marriages that have 10+ year age gaps have significantly higher divorce rates. Of course the “facts over feelings” TRPers love to quote stats/studies, but never this one :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:08 AM
11

Ding ding ding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:06 AM
58

Yep, I had a friend who shacked up with a guy who’s company was acquired by DSW, and she helped him build that business. He got millions; when they broke up he gave her 50k. I have another friend who’s husbands tech company was acquired. She and I had an interesting reaction When the first friend recently said there’s no point in getting married again lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:07 AM
18

Yeah most people aren’t into the personality types, that’s fine. I study up in them a lot and find that it’s just an easy short hand for referencing specific temperaments. xSFJ is most common for women yes. I think personality types are a mix of nature and nurture. I’ve talked to & read from other black girl xNTx types who have also said they we’re pushed into that ISFJ box growing up, so I think some of us just have a resentment towards it. As for male personality types and cognitive functions,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:36 PM
29

I think there are certain personality types that are more prone to it. I know Beyoncé is (allegedly) an ISFJ and I usually associate them with this type of behavior, plus in my experience that’s the personality type black Christian culture tries to push women into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:33 PM
43

There’s a cultural / religious element to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:46 PM
66

light skin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:44 PM
5

Low IQ men are just as bad as LVM 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:27 PM
11

My parents are still married but before I was born my mom was in the hospital with pneumonia for a week …and my dad never visited her. Not once. I’m horrified every time she talks about it. I think he learned his lesson because when she was in the hospital again (30 years later) he was very doting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:52 AM
24

It sounds like she found a dog at the pound, brought him home, cleaned him up, trained him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:51 PM
11

“Elegance coach” rofl. Yeah it’s really elegant to dumb down your speech for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:18 PM
10

Just watched this happen to a mutual friend. It was bizarre, they went from holding hands and (seemingly happy … and then 2 months later he was shacking up with a 23 year old rme. She (the soon to be ex wife) is only in her mid - late 30s and they had been together for almost 2 decades :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:14 PM
97

broken clocks are right twice per day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:43 PM
6

Oh cool I missed that, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:31 PM
12

When they hand you their phone to put in your #, venmo yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:16 PM
5

FDS should have it’s own podcast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:01 PM
28

Im not sure I agree with your first line. But yes, as a black woman feminist, it actually erases a lot of the work black feminists have done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:29 PM
2

Yup that’s it. This is why rhetoric like “women don’t mind harassment if the guy is hot” is dangerous, and you have public figures like bill maher saying that. The next step is “women want to be raped by rich men” which is a favorite talking point of the Manosphere. The pill thing sounds extreme but it honestly popped in to my mind this week after all that’s happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:38 PM
5

So, huge TRIGGER WARNING for what I’m about to write. was just reading about the situation in Ethiopia this summer. Of course the media by and large doesn’t talk about this — Eritrean soldiers were kidnapping and raping women in masse. This army specifically uses anal rape for religious reasons. One woman was gangraped vaginally and anally on a daily basis for a week straight. She was found wandering in a daze bleeding profusely from her rectum. I couldn’t read any further. These guys wouldn’t h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:06 PM
4

Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:42 PM
28

Aaaand this is what men do when they can. #notallmen only exists within a society, sorry to say, and history has endless . This is why women are concerned about men dating younger women and being into "barely legal stuff". The second society starts to collapse, its all over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:35 PM
21

When they were given the right to get educated, they stopped getting married by the droves. Isnt it funny how it always works out this way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:31 PM
7

Any Afghan woman who wants to should be able to come here and bring her kids. sadly, allowing any refugees from this situation seems to be an unpopular opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:30 PM
47

Males in other subs were mad at me for stating the fact that women and children need to be the priority here, and are the ones who will have it worse. They honestly think the women have it better off being raped and tortured, than the men do just being killed. The delusion is next level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:29 PM
3

Thank you! And yeah I have noticed, there seems to be more in depth analysis here than i find on most feminist social media spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:57 AM
1

Praise doesn't pay the light bill. Women aren't being feminists for the praise. I dont believe anyone said it did. If you watch the video, you'll understand my comments in context. Furthermore, you can't refuse to train someone in school, sports and the arts and then use that self-same lack of training and investment as proof they're not fit. That's like the circular argument the NCAA tried to use, that men's sports get all the attention and deserve all the financial benefits and advertising the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:56 AM
52

Ah yes, men use their biology to excuse their dumbassery, but uses our "biology" to condemn and pathologize women. Imo, "men need sex" is just a hop skip and a jump to "its ok for men to cheat because we have different nEeDs, but women must remain faithful!" Ask Kehlani how this kinda mentality works out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:20 AM
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Oh I couldn't agree more. Although for some women it could be kinda bad for mental health to internalize a lot of negativity. You definitely have to have thick skin. But I spent a couple of weeks deep-diving that community years ago, and honestly it was probably one of the best things Ive done. As they say, *know thine enemy*. I actually highly recommend having at least a loose understanding of the whole manosphere, as well as other traditional movements that are gaining steam right now (includi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:02 AM
14

yup, and latina women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:55 AM
28

Im not sure I agree with this. This kinda sorta sounds like TradFem™ Lite talk. The biggest issue is that she doesnt provide any actual examples to counter the "girl boss feminism" model. Id like specific examples on how she thinks women should properly obtain power in capitalistic society. What does that look like, to her? And is there any proof that it works better ... or, at least, works at all? "I want women to do things men can't/won't do" a) like ...what? b) maybe just mind your own damn b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:53 AM
16

but it's women who want to be men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:20 AM
9

I remember my friends had them in jr high. I think I might have too, but I didnt know what they were initially lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:13 AM
99

From a purely logical and semantic pov, yeah sex work is work. As are many other unsavory/illegal "career" paths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:11 AM
1

yep, usually the women who travel a lot (and just lead interesting lives in general) are childfree, marriage free, or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:52 AM
2

If you go on ask reddit, whenever they have posts about red flags on dating profiles, one of the top things men complain about is women traveling lol. Every single time. And the responses are always... "she just wants a man to pAy FoR hEr TrAVeLs lolz" "she just wants to post selfies on ig lol" "do women even work??" "she's just going on cruises/beach resorts lol" (they always confuse vacationing with travel) It always reeks of jealousy that these guys cant afford to travel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:51 AM
0

Theyre probably right that she's being delusional here. I love travel and do it frequently as well, but aiming for 2 international trips per year + some local and domestic travel in between, would be more sensible. Usually younger ppl are a bit unrealistic about what they can actually afford. And usually the only people I meet who travel extensively in their 20s saved a ton of money for a 1-3 years, then took a year off to travel (and sometimes do workaway).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:47 AM
1

you can be tracked by your phone if wifi is on. also if you take pictures w/ it on, your location is stored in the exif data apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:24 PM
48

theres definitely specific personality types prone to things like sex work -- they are generally the same personality types that are highly into being influencers, reality tv, and the few successful ones are often pop stars. Their traits are usually attention seeking, poor future planning, highly sensory oriented, impulsivity, low IQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:14 PM
39

id love to see something like this go down in court
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:10 PM
-11

lol, i thought it was funny *shrugs*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:57 PM
3

Yes @ the point about cheap friends lol. I did shared Airbnb’s only once because I was traveling with a broke friend. She booked an apt with a female host — we get there and it’s a man. And it’s filthy. He told us he was the only person there — surprise the next day there’s another guy there. I begged her to let me get us a hotel room but she refused so I left. That’s another thing — travel with broke ppl and you’ll end up having to pay for stuff for them because they always want to do something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:19 PM
2

he also helped rape someone, and then thought it would make for a cute and funny story to retell years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:21 AM
117

These are the same people who claim western feminists are bad because "women in 3rd world countries have it worse"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:49 PM
7

Translation: women having choices and autonomy oh noooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:30 PM
4

"Best female" 👀 "rose is vaccinated" -___- This is basically the beginning of Behind Her Eyes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:22 AM
16

Jordan Peterson has entered the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:10 PM
74

I've seen men on 4chan triying to give afghan women's onlyfans handles to taliban. wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:11 PM
3

What happened to "equality of opportunity, not equality of outcome"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:51 PM
1

Depends on what the woman looks like...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:47 PM
5

Yep. Ive seen older women like this. They're working menial jobs past retirement age. Yet the husband apparently has a big nice house and a younger, shiny new wife. It wont ever be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:27 PM
13

When someone is incapable of forming independent thoughts, they just parrot buzzphrases like that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:56 AM
7

Which they dont acknowledge as being real. But they sure will defend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:29 AM
33

But yet men on this site keep claiming that no one cares or sympathizes with them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:16 PM
0

Okay none of this negates the newness of the incel phenomenon. That's cute and all that you figured this stuff out, but try some nuance please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:32 AM
259

38% of men procreate and 99% of women? i wanna see the receipts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:38 AM
13

There are actually a bunch of these near the border in mexico. They'll even pick up your kids and drive them there for free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:32 AM
90

Yes on average they are less empathetic. And its easy to see why.... a) Some studies suggest higher levels of testosterone = lower levels of empathy b) On average, privilege and empathy are diametrically opposed c) Most media is for them, about them, and made by people just like them. They could never watch a single movie/show that features a 3 dimensional female character, and never run out of stuff to watch. d) They can easily mistake their lack of empathy for logic and "self-control" and prid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:12 PM
25

did she really call herself a feminist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:32 PM
4

that racist isnt any better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:30 PM
12

Ive been saying this for years lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:22 PM
40

but the tigers come at niiiight...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:27 AM
6

I saw that post. I also saw Rihanna getting similar comments when it was announced she's a billionaire lmao. With both women illiciting comments primarily from black dudes, the anger was even more intense lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:02 PM
6

Keywords here are "the bachelorette viewership" -- a lot of people who watch those shows unironically are stupid. Even more so than other types of reality shows imo. I can always tell when viewers of that show start leaking into the sub for other dating reality shows. They're all quite...simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:56 PM
16

You know what? This might be the best comment in this thread and its being overlooked. Ive noticed for a while now that men will have different opinions on the same statement based on a) who's saying it and b) how it's said. A woman says "we should teach men not to rape" and guys lose their mind. A man says "thats just locker room talk, all guys do it" and there's agreement. Men are fine w/ being stereotyped as rapists/misogynists/harrassers as long as their actions are being *excused*.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:51 PM
1

....honestly, this sounds like a sensor vs an intuitive type lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:38 AM
5

she’s brilliant more specifically, the girl is intelligent in ways he can't even fathom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:31 AM
23

also he was 23 trying to date an 18 year old, and (possibly) started college 5 years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:28 AM
9

nice, thank you so much for this! Im going to send this to her (she asked me to) and see what she says lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:55 AM
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DO YOU THINK I GIVE A FUCK ID RATHER BE ALONE!!!! the grim reaper is better company than most men. they literally can't fathom that any woman would think so lool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:39 AM
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That's the way they've always viewed women. To them there are... a- "women" they sleep with & look at ("sluts", prostitutes, hookers, etc) b- unwomen who are there for service & cheerleading (any woman who's older and/or not attractive to them) c- women (the ones who are attractive to them, [relatively] chaste, and malleable)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:36 AM
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typical male self-insert character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:31 AM
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wow, he was like 40+ during most of the shows run too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:29 AM
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sounds accurate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:19 AM
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But the age of the man's sperm has the biggest impact. do you have a source for this? i swear ive read similar things, but i was talking about this w/ my friends who are in the medical profession and they said its not true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:12 AM
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Do you have any statistics or studies that back up your opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:27 PM
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Ive never heard a man say this. Ever. Ive only ever heard other feminists say that. I recall there being studies backing that up. The problem with saying it's just about sex is that tends to put the onus of responsibility on the woman by implying she seduced him by looking too attractive, etc. Power, degradation, and domination are pretty obviously the goal -- sex is just the means of getting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:32 AM
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Yes Im aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:24 PM
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I'm finding it amusing. It fits with my (mis?)interpretation of who the headline's condescension was aimed at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:30 AM
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You would need basic education first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:26 AM
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Ya I also bought 4 GME ... also AMC, SNDL, $DOGE, AMC, NOK, BB, BBBY, and NAKD But I bought AMC (70 shares) at the beginning of the year when it was $2, and NOK almost a year ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:25 AM
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I thought the headline made women sound emotional and irrational, which is probably the opposite of it's intent. On the other hand though, I do think part of the drive behind this is the fact that GME is nostalgic to the WSB demo. It does make me wonder if there's some undervalued women-centric brand those guys are overlooking lol. Like, maybe we all need to pool our money in to juicy, baby phat or delias lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:52 AM
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I’m genuinely curious if any FDS women have invested in $GME. Me! Although I only bought 4 shares i think lol. But, I already bought into some of the other stocks involved in this a while back, and Ive been a sometimes-lurker at WSB since I started trading 2 years ago. Ive honestly gotten some great stock tips from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:42 AM
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Well I have to give church/religion some credit....because going to a CoGiC as a child helped me recognize bullshit from a very, very young age. That church was full of women, but yet women couldn't be behind the pulpit; only men. And the married men in the church were always cheating and a lot of them had prostitution, drug use, and criminal activities in their pasts, but it was a ~tEsTiMoNy~ so it was okay. Meanwhile, the married women all seemed miserable. They all worked full time, did the a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:08 AM
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I guess we shouldnt be surprised coming from him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:08 PM
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Oh gosh, I will never forget years and years ago there was an episode of Dr Phil, and he had on a woman who felt it was disrespectful if her boyfriend looked at other women around her. Dr Phil berated her and told her she was just insecure, then trotted out his wife Robin who said that she points out women she knows he will think are attractive. It was so disgusting, they basically shamed and gaslit this woman for setting her own personal boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:39 AM
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Yeah I didnt have to watch much of him to get an idea of who he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:28 PM
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Of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:28 AM
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He's a far right, fundamentalist, racist trump supporter and an anti-masker/covid denier who treats his employees terribly. His policies have allegedly resulted in a covid outbreak among his employees. He's also quite condescending to those who need government assistance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:06 PM
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what about the burdens women no longer want? I think most liberal feminists are just as big on sharing houeswork and childrearing duties with men. And tbh, all the "libfems" Ive come across still expected men to pay for dates and earn more than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:07 PM
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It did not and never meant "being treated like a man." Exactly. Ive only ever heard *anti*-feminists push this idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:05 PM
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Nice Ill check that out. Its funny because anti-feminists always claim that 2nd wave feminists never cared about social issues; this shows how uninformed those ppl are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:41 PM
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Omg thank you for the name and author! I have honestly been looking for it for 20 years lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:42 AM
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she'll be nothing Thats a really questionable way of wording it. She had a career long before him, and I dont think being with him has really elevated it. She'll be fine, and actually, set for life most likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:31 AM
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Yeah theres a youtube channel called the financial diet and they did a video about 6 things they learned from rich people. I was expecting tips on ~mindset~ encouraging people to make more money. But basically what she ended up saying was that rich people only see other rich people as human. She said that rich people essentially looked at her like "a very complex smart phone" which was chilling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:29 AM
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This is probably also why so many of them get *extra* pissy when a bigger girl has standards lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:16 AM
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They only like transactional relationships when they can feel in charge of the situation. Ding ding ding! Kinda off topic, but I absolutely hate how men equate using someone for sex with using someone for money. The former is much more contemptible. YES thank you. The popular talking point from that crowd these days is that expecting a man to pay is a form of "objectification", and the same using a woman only for sex. To them, sexual abuse is on par with lifting $5 or something rme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:52 PM
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I used to lurk on subreddits like the red pill back when it first started to rise in popularity. It was fascinating because I'd see so many men, in the same paragraph, denounce "gold digging" American women but then hype up the idea of mail order brides. It is pretty hypocritical, but I think they have less of a problem supporting a woman if they have a certain degree of "ownership" and control over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:23 PM
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Interesting, thank you! I was wondering if anyone was familiar with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:21 AM
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This is kind a funny, but when I was about 15 (20 years ago lol) I randomly found a short story/poem in an anthology that my english teacher had in the room for some reason. It was written by a feminist called "Why wouldnt I want a wife" or something of that sort. And it said almost the same thing word for word -- plus it added that they could cheat but the wife had to be faithful, and that the wife would help put you in through school. And at the end she says "why wouldnt i want a wife?". I rem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:18 AM
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Ive noticed the same thing. Divorced women with kids are usually 100x more fun, have their own identities, and spend more time traveling and doing hobbies with friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:45 PM
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a lot of these men think they do the majority of the work just by going to an outside job (because "womens work" is not real work in their minds), and they think they're entitled to sex because they ~work hard~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:42 PM
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Yep. I noticed this as a child (thanks, church Aunties), which is why I stay single and childfree. It's also why so many men are threatened by women who are single and childfree lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:40 PM
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Well this whole sub only exists because some men are resentful about not being able to be seen as victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/20 12:25 AM
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Harvey is even worse lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 07:49 AM
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Did anyone ever see that episode of Dr. Phil, when Dr Phil and his wife bullied a female guest for finding it disrespectful when her boyfriend looked at other women in public? Phil called her insecure and his wife bragged about how she would point out a nice rack to her husband in public 🙄 🙄 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 10:37 PM
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