wildclover1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting I think if this is happening they are likely not the right person? They don't like you enough, they are not enthusiastic enough. You shouldn't have to chase and beg someone to be attracted to you and to want you. Even if they're fantastically wonderful, if they don't want you, they are not right for you.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 08:43 PM
21	Are Romance Novels just for ugly beta girls? A dumb ass question like this can only come from someone who says some shit like: ‘hot party girls don’t really read books’. Dude, I think you should go back to whatever cave you crawled out of and let your brain evolve a bit more because you’re stuck in dumb. People legit deserve to be shamed sometimes for the stupid shit they think out loud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 12:29 AM
1	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 08:44 PM
2	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? I think this is a age old problem, I don’t think we are somehow different now...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 08:19 PM
1	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? I already do on the daily, I just have issues the run a little deeper w people due to my life history, so I guess it’s taking me longer to have this help me w this issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 07:42 PM
0	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Ah ok. So have the patience of a zen Buddhist master and not let anything they do say or have an effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 07:39 PM
0	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Like I’m actually smart and somewhat unique and I have personal charm, so I don’t want to not believe people who point that out in me as special.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 07:36 PM
0	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? I know what negging is and I don’t suffer fools who pull that crap. How does one know the difference between them genuinely complimenting and trying to get to know you vs. manipulation/con? I always assume if they over compliment too early they’re bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 07:34 PM
1	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Care to elaborate on some clear signs of a con artist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 07:29 PM
2	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Hence why I ask the universe to keep these types AWAY from me god forbid they’re sneaky about being shitheads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 07:19 PM
5	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Dude, it’s gross. Being an opportunist in this way is not having good character and integrity. Idk how you can’t comprehend that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 06:39 PM
1	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Did I say anywhere in my comment there are not differences in attractiveness among individuals? I’m just reiterating to you in a blunt way the true nature and shittiness of this question. In my younger years when I was ugly, this is the type of toxic bullshit I had to put up w.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 06:38 PM
6	[Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women? Ug this crass post makes me want to leave this subreddit. As someone who used to be ugly when I was younger and blossomed into an attractive woman, this post is just gross. Like, why not think of unattractive women as PEOPLE with feelings who deserve the same level of respect and thoughtfulness as other woman, and not contemplate how their ugliness might make them just fuck any dude because they must be SOOOOO DESPERATE because they’re just SO UGLY AND UNDESIRABLE. Seriously, this says a lot abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 06:11 PM
2	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. Thanks ❤️. Yea these things are difficult and it’s nice not to feel alone. I wish you the best and it was nice talking to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 04:38 PM
1	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. You're welcome. I commented because I definitely recognized an element of your words in my own struggle, and I'm kind of pushy about challenging these types of beliefs when I recognize them in someone's words. Once you are aware of these limiting beliefs and cultivate an attitude of openness to maybe accepting something different (slow change is good!), that's like a big first step, that they do not have to be something you just live with. Even just thinking about it is tough though lol, like th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 04:26 PM
1	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. And like I said with the acts of service thing, it applies to anyone, not just sexual relationships. I appreciate the most when people go out of their way to help me but conversely I usually go out of my way so that they don’t have to. I just don’t want to be a burden, I don’t wanna seem needy. I know how I often view people that’re like that and I know how other people often view people like that when that person isn’t around, and it’s not good. I don't want to invalidate or judge how you feel …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 03:47 PM
2	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. Ok, I see how you’re looking at it, I understand how it can be a turn off to feel like someone is doing something out of a sense of obligation. I used to give oral to my ex on the regular for nothing - just because it made him happy - and I was happy to make him happy and satisfy him in that way. At the time I just wasn’t in the mood for sex (MAJOR life stress) and I didn’t want him not to have his sexual needs met for weeks on end because I couldn’t have sex w him due to my stress issues killin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 02:14 PM
1	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. I didn’t say you were bitter. That doesn’t read bitter to me. It reads not letting someone do something nice for you, and seeing someone doing something nice as ‘pity’ vs them caring about you and wanting to make you feel good - doing something for you = pity vs doing something for you = someone wanting to be nice to you because they care to be nice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 03:30 AM
1	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. I think you have a serious hang up if the idea of a woman wanting to pleasure you simply to make you happy and feel good in a totally selfless way is a turn off. Like how does that translate to pity in your mind.... As a woman, I would find it near impossible to force myself to have sex w someone out of pity, I think that’s a story you’re telling yourself and it’s a shitty story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 01:24 AM
1	The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid. Can you elaborate on the seduction techniques of experienced men? Like how were they interacting w women to achieve this success?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 01:21 AM