willforjmbd Archive

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1	Why is noone talking about this I agree, unfortunately people lie, people are weak and people fail. Notice I'm not being gender specific in this, it's a human trait. Women lie, men lie, they make promises they can't or won't follow through with. What a wonderful place it would be if we could all just openly and honestly communicate our desires and wishes. Disregarding your statement only applies in the case of committed relationships and disregards the rising culture of casual hookups.I fully agree with your statement and hone…	/r/MensRights	20/07/20 07:33 AM
0	Why is noone talking about this "We as men get a lot of advantages when it comes to sex..." Would you care to elaborate? Are you talking about physical traits or something else? Or is this specifically in reference to reproduction (not having to deal with periods or actually give birth)? My personal opinion is that men and women both have strengths and weaknesses that compliment each other. Legality does not play into it, at least if we are talking about biological differences. The joke was it popping out of nothing, we obviou…	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 10:00 PM
1	Why is noone talking about this That's fair, unsure of how much you want to get into the actual wage gap thing but do ONLY women get paid less because they are women? Are you saying there is NO man out there getting paid less simply because he is a man? The law is there for both of them, it's the person's responsibility to prove they are being treated unfairly because of their gender, not the laws. And that's the thing about the law, it can be changed, it can be fought. If the law isn't treating people fairly we shouldn't just…	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 09:20 PM
1	Why is noone talking about this They both think they can raise a kid, the woman gets overwhelmed and abandoned both the father and child. It's very specific and probably not that common but it can happen, the father has the same legal options to go after child support or not. I said the default was for women to get custody so I more so agree with your assessment. I just think the discussion gets more messy when we start including the results of the pregnancy. If it does default to a man there wouldn't be anything legally stopp…	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 08:47 PM
1	Why is noone talking about this If the man had the child they can drop it off. If the woman has the child she can go after the man for the money, to be clear a man with a child CAN go after a mother for child support. The point is default custody still tends to land with the mother, who then can leverage the child's rights against the father for child support. But even then, there are options DURING the pregnancy the woman has, men do not. If a woman is pregnant you can try to convince them but you have no legal or otherwise r…	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 08:32 PM
1	Why is noone talking about this To flip that on its head though, imagine a man who wants the child and a women who doesn't? The powerlessness the man has in that situation is undeniable. I'll be the first to say, while it's unfortunate that they have to go through that pain of being helpless that does NOT trump the woman's right to her own body. The interesting thing about your statement for me is the talk about the child, there seems to be a weird area around pregnancy of when that becomes a child with rights of its own and n…	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 08:25 PM
2	Why is noone talking about this Yeah and that's why it's a hard discussion, because this all BEFORE there is a child. Once there is a child we then have a third party to consider who has made NO choice to be there. Honestly, who knows what is right, but I'm always for letting the discussion happen and challenge the notion of the status quo. Would be nice to have easy answers 😉	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 08:07 PM
0	Why is noone talking about this NAL but before entirely abolishing it I would first say the idea that a man could sign or do something legally binding that removes them permeantly from the child's life and any legal responsibility. In a sense a "legal abortion" there would be a lot of grey area around notification and time before the child was born but I'll leave that up to smarter minds.	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 08:00 PM
4	Why is noone talking about this But how is a woman going to stop the pregnancy? It's certainly not just a thing you can decide you don't want and poof it's gone. Either through a medicinal or procedure it has to be removed, that isn't natural. That is a choice adults make to keep their life going the way they want, this is good and an advantage for people. We agree that women have the right to choose to carry the pregnancy to term, that is their sole right as it is their body. My point is it's not natural what happens afterwar…	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 07:43 PM
7	Why is noone talking about this That same logic is used against women for abortion. "Don't spread your legs if you don't want babies" but it has been fought for them to have more choices and that's fine even good. Everyone should have as many choices as possible for dictating how their life is going to play out. There has been a consistent push for women's rights and that's fantastic, why can't men fight for more rights as well? Other than just not having sex there is no 100% method for not having a baby, the point is, in thos…	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 07:13 PM