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| 2 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%I disagree with you OP. Because women don’t view attractiveness the same way men view it. I think when people are talking about top 20% when it comes to men, they refer to men who not only have good looks, but are also very successful financially speaking. So even if all the men were suddenly very attractive today, if there’s only 20% of those men who earn the kind of money women really look for in a man, they will still go after the top 20% regardless. That’s my perspective on this. Anyone feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Penis-size-manifesto: bigger is better up until the point of inconvenience?I couldn’t have said it better. Like you said what matters is being a well rounded lover. As men we shouldn’t just focus on one area because having sex involves much more than just simple penetration. And women will much appreciate a guy with an average dick size but who’s an exceptional lover all around to a guy who has like a 9 inch dick but who’s a mediocre or bad lover. Also the dick size thing is more of a guy’s problem. Men care much more about the size of their dick compared to women. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:29 PM |
| 10 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?To me It’s very simple. It just represents what we are biologically. Men were made to take on the dominant role and women the submissive one. Deep inside, every man or most men should I say want to dominate and most women want to be dominated or want to be submissive. The problem is in today’s society it’s basically a crime now for men and women to openly admit those things so most prefer to keep it as fantasies especially women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testThat’s not how I view the red pill personally. Some men certainly view it this way but I don’t. I don’t think that all women lie at all time for any reason. For me the red pill is knowing the true nature of women and just dealing accordingly with it like a man and stop complaining about how women play games. It’s just their nature to act this way. Being red pilled is also being able to see through some women’s BS and not take it. Like don’t listen to what a woman says but look at her actions. Bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testI’m very sure women always "shit tested". That’s in their nature. It’s only so well known today because you have people taking the red pill and learning about women’s true nature. Also maybe the modern woman just do it more compared to women back in the day. That’s what we have to deal with on a regular with modern women. Men either gotta understand that that’s how women are and just move on and deal with it like men or they can decide to go their own way and not deal with women anymore, which m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testI don’t see it as a battle. Maybe you’re misinterpreting what I am saying a little bit. Women have preferences and I get that. Women will turn down men they’re not attracted to on the spot. But for those they are attracted to at least physically they need to "test" them to see if they really are worth their time if I could say it like that. Look at it as a woman’s defense mechanism to weed out the weak and only get with the alphas or those they really want. Most men in today’s society are usuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 03:15 AM |
| 4 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testWhether you acknowledge it or not it’s part of it. Women test men to see their value. Of course they’re not going to tell you it’s a test. 99% of the time they don’t even know they’re doing it. It’s a subconscious thing and if you fail her attraction for you drops. Why do you think some men end up being ghosted or in the friend zone then? For me it’s just a normal thing and I don’t even fault women for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testWhy can’t she get the door tho? I assume she wasn’t busy doing anything else since he didn’t mention it so again why can’t she get it if she’s closer to it than he is? Especially if she ain’t doing anything at that moment? That’s just being lazy and he did the right thing to call her out on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testYeah it’s true that’s laziness but I would consider that a shit test as well. We can all agree here that women test us men in so many ways whether it’s out of pure laziness or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Online dating is bad, because it's increasing the value of looks over personality.I agree with you on the fact that in person you can show your confidence much better, however looks is still what gets your foot inside the door and what makes women choose you at first glance. But what keeps you in the door is definitely your overall personality and charisma. So my point is approaching people in real life and choosing people on OLD are very similar in a sense that people at first judge by what they see. That’s why I’m saying complaining about that fact for OLD won’t change anyt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Online dating is bad, because it's increasing the value of looks over personality.This argument is wack in my opinion cause even the streets/real life we still approach a people 99% of the time based on how they look. You know nothing about the personality of a complete stranger you see on the street so naturally you base your choice on how he or she looks. If she’s attractive enough to me of course I’ll want to approach her. And from then it now depends on what you’re looking for. If you’re looking for something serious of course you’ll want to be on your best behavior and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be.Hookup culture has completely messed up the dating scene. It is the norm now because of dating apps, social media and all those stuffs. But it can still be fixed in my opinion. First of all people need to seriously evaluate their lives on a personal level and figure out what is it they truly want. Do you want to settle down, commit to only one partner and have kids? Or you just want to stay single and have meaningless entanglements throughout your life? People need to figure out if that’s what t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | is there a link between exessive porn use and extreme fetishes.Hahaha yeah it happens sometimes. Sometimes it happens during the day too. That’s just the body’s natural way of releasing the surplus of semen in a man after a certain amount of time. I don’t view masturbation as something beneficial for me because physically I have much more energy now compared to when I used to masturbate, mentally I have much more confidence and also much more control over my sexual impulses and spiritually I also see the benefits. I’m not judging anyone who masturbates don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | is there a link between exessive porn use and extreme fetishes.Hmmmm interesting. I don’t know much about the drawbacks of self pleasure when it comes to a woman but it’s very dangerous for a man most men don’t realize it. I always felt so drained and out of energy when I used to jerk off. Not only that but my confidence was low af. I think a man shouldn’t waste his life energy like that. Being able to control your sexual desires and your lust as a man is such a powerful thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | is there a link between exessive porn use and extreme fetishes.I feel you man. It’s not easy in the beginning but I can tell you that if you just keep pushing yourself and keep going through it you’ll notice a significant difference. From my own personal experience with nofap and semen retention, I noticed that every time I went on those streaks when I wasn’t jerking off, I always had so much energy and strength, and my confidence levels were like boosted. However I was just like you cause I couldn’t go more than two months without faping but now like I sai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 09:40 PM |
| 3 | is there a link between exessive porn use and extreme fetishes.I stopped jerking off completely about 5 months ago and never felt so great. Mentally and physically I’m feeling wayyy better than when I used to fap and honestly not going back again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 22 | OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane....This dude is pathetic. Thrashing other men to make himself look good in the eyes of women. You ain’t getting no pussy by doing that lol. That’s some next level beta shit right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?Well if she’s actually running late and if stuck in traffic it’s normal and there’s things you can’t predict or foresee. However if it’s the case I expect her to text me and let me know or give me a call to tell me she’ll be late. Not just leave me waiting and then show up with no explanation. And even if she tells me I’ll still tease her a little bit for being late in a playful way since it was something out of her control in this scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a misconception that men want sex, women want relationships?You are spot on. Couldn’t agree more with you. That’s one of the main reasons the dating market is such a mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 06:15 PM |
| 9 | Do you think it's a misconception that men want sex, women want relationships?It’s actually a Red Pill truth. Take a man in his early 20’s and a woman in her early 20’s for example. The woman will have way more options than the guy cause she is at her peak sexual market value. The guy can still get laid a fair amount of times but nowhere near as many times as the girl. But as time progresses if the guy is focused on building himself physically, financially, intellectually, spiritually etc... by the time they both enter their 30’s the man will definitely have more options … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?Haha no problem. It’s a pleasure. I like having healthy and constructive discussions like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?I definitely agree with you. But I think the content in itself is very perverse and extremely dangerous. It’s very subconscious but it pushes the idea to some men out there that women are disposable objects, it destroys the self confidence of many men who think that having a 10 inch dick is normal and that when you have a 6 inch dick you’re undersized but it’s not true. It pushes forward very perverse sexual fantasies like incest, things like rape and being violent during sex. Imagine a man who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?I know there are some terrible men out there and there are also some terrible women. But I think what FDS and also some MGTOW/RedPill communities should do is let their followers be aware of those terrible person but at the same time show examples of good people on each side. I don’t believe all women are bad same as not all men are bad otherwise the society as we know wouldn’t exist. There will always be bad apples on each side but focusing on the bad apples all the time instead of showing peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?True I agree with that. Men should definitely learn how to read social cues better in order to be more aware. I think understanding the cues and signs women throw at you is a really powerful tool to have when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?Hahaha i don’t really agree with that but honestly I can only speak for myself on this one. I like submissive and sweet women. Yeah being with a woman who’s assertive, bitchy and who challenges you will be fun for a little while but in the long run I don’t think it’ll work at least in my opinion. Masculine energy is all about being assertive, dominant, and aggressive in a good way but it only works best with feminine energy which is the opposite. Feminine energy is all about being submissive(not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?I can definitely agree with you on the second one. Many many times in the past I have been so deaf to social cues and it’s later that I realized it. I think many men like you said suffer from that. But I also think that there are some men who just don’t know how to be direct. That’s a small percentage tho in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?And I’m also against manipulation and games. I’m all for honesty and it would be nice if all women could be like you cause sometimes women think men are mind readers when they don’t communicate themselves directly what they think. It’s just how most women are. Not all of them are like that as you said you like being direct and honest but most women communicate subtlety and aren’t as direct as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:30 PM |
| 3 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?Lol FDS is just as toxic as some extreme MGTOW or RedPill communities. Most of the themes and ideas they push forward over there is about bashing men and encouraging hate speech towards men. Yesterday I saw a post on there that said "men as parents are failure" something like that. And the comments consisted of saying how men are useless, and how women don’t need men to parent etc... If FDS was really concerned about giving good dating advice they wouldn’t be so focused on constantly bashing men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?But it’s just female nature tho. All women do that. Even your mother is can shit test you. Not just the women you’re sexually attracted to. Once you understand female nature you understand that shit testing is just a part of a female’s nature. 90% of the time they don’t even realize they are shit testing you. It’s just something that happens subconsciously and if you fail the test it definitely lowers her attraction. Let’s say for example you set up a date at a certain time and the girl is late.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?I’m a man and I definitely agree with them on the porn thing. Porn is really destructive and I wouldn’t encourage anyone man or woman to watch it. Porn should be banned and eradicates in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:01 PM |
| 5 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?The way I understand it is that women want men who are confident, assertive, dominant, masculine, stoic, who don’t put them on a pedestal, but who treat them with respect. You can be all of those without being a jerk or disrespectful. I think that’s what they usually mean by asshole. A guy who doesn’t put any woman on a pedestal. A guy who doesn’t need female validation to live a fulfilling life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What are your proposed solutions to make dating fair?My apologies as well cause I think my initial response was also a bit too hostile.I think we just misunderstood each other but glad it’s all behind us. I actually liked your description of FWB and difference you made between that and a fuck buddy and when put like that FWB is actually not that bad. Cause like you said it’s just two people who are friends and who really do care about each other but only difference is that they’re having sex together. Online dating is definitely a cesspool like yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | What are your proposed solutions to make dating fair?Ohh I only saw this comment so I responded to it based on what I read. I definitely agree with you that it happens on both ends. I definitely know that there are lots of men who like to bash women and act with this sense of superiority. This is definitely why I have a problem with some of MGTOW’s extreme ideologies. And it’s also the same reason I see modern feminism as dangerous. In my opinion modern feminism and MGTOW are two very dangerous ideologies that contribute to divide the two genders … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 12:01 AM |
| 8 | What are your proposed solutions to make dating fair?This is the problem I have with some women. Constantly accusing men of everything and never taking any accountability whatsoever. Women have also been lying to a lot of men and taking advantage of a lot of good men for years. There will always be bad apples in the two sides and we all know that. But for one side to constantly blame and accuse the other for the problems in the dating market while not taking any sort of accountability doesn’t solve the problems at all. Plenty of men also want to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.A woman’s value definitely decreases with age and also the higher her n count is. Of course you can still find some women very attractive even in their 40s however their peak in terms of looks and beauty is definitely in their early and mid 20s. This is usually around the time that some of them instead of taking advantage of their prime and find a mate to settle down with, they sleep around with the alpha Chads and Tyrones/bad boys, and once they are on the decline it should I say when they hit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 03:35 AM |
| 2 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Lmao I couldn’t agree more with you. Women on FDS are so delusional it’s actually very laughable. Most of them will end up single or with beta males simps when they realize no high value male with a sense of self respect will want to date any of them. Then when they will realize the harsh reality they will then proceed to ask "where have all the good men gone?" FDS is a real shit show. I pity the women who are there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Lol you’d be surprised by the number of those so called "girls in relationships" who are on dating apps. Most of the time their boyfriends aren’t aware of course. Western women for most of them aren’t worth shit. You’d be surprised by the number of guys those "girls in relationships" entertain on the side. The sexual market place is just an absolute shit show right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?That’s just how things are. Having a low body count as a man is seen from women’s perspective as a sign of inexperience and is also unattractive as "if no other woman wants to sleep with you there must be something wrong with you therefor why should I?" This is preselection. It’s just how female nature is. Women care a lot about what other women think. If a man has slept with a lot of women means he has been preselected by them and other women will most definitely find him attractive and want hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 4 | WowAbsolutely incredible. The double standards at this point are just ridiculous🤦🏾♂️. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | About how long does it take you to decide if you want a relationship with a woman?This doesn’t mean shit in my opinion. Someone can obviously tell you what you want to hear in a 10 minute conversation but does her actions and behaviors actually match what she said? And that’s something you can’t figure in 10 minutes in my opinion. For me I would say a couple months of dating and getting to know each other maybe like 2-3 months for example. You need to have multiple conversations, do activities and go on dates together in order to really connect and see if you’re truly compati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 03:02 AM |
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