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Embezzling money from me. Her credit was shit so I suggested she sign up for a Costco Citi credit card when we signed up for a Costco memership, and I would help her build up her credit. We agreed that if there was ever a big Costco purchase, to use the Citi card for it. I found a big double person kayak I wanted from there and used the Citi card to buy it, then got on the Citi app and paid off that purchase using my bank account. Never used the Citi card for anything after that. Well, turns out…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 02:57 AM
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If you live alone chores are no problem with modern tech in fact living with a woman is more work. This is true, hard pill to swallow for many women. It comes in the form of the task not being done the exact way they want it to be done. Chores are so simple when you're not getting bitched at for folding socks the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:07 AM
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The laundry that's done by a machine? if you don't think laundry is labor, i hope no one besides you ever does your laundry, since its so easy and done by a machine the dishwashing that's done by a machine? see above Sorry, but laundry and dishes are not hard work at all. I've lived alone for the majority of my life, and those are by far two of the easiest chores in the roster. There's literally nothing involved other than putting the things in the machine, and then taking them out and putting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:02 AM
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Because it takes time and effort to focus on and improve your career. This usually comes in the form of long work hours and sparse free/vacation time. A man who is investing the time it takes to improve his career is not going to be able to give a woman who he is in a relationship with enough time and attention to make her happy. One of the things needed for a successful relationship is time/effort, so a man will have to divert some of the time/effort he puts into his career into the relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:55 AM
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If you want it back, ask for it. Yeah right!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:47 AM
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Your definition of a man eater is wrong, a man eater is a woman who uses men for their resources and doesn't stop until the man is bled dry. Just look up the lyrics to the song. What you describe is what is normally referred to as a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:12 AM
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I don't like that data, my anecdote is living in central Wyoming for 4 years. That place is RUDE capital of the US. Magnitudes more rude assholes there than any other state I've lived in. Meanwhile, that link cites it as one of the most polite states.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:11 AM
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And honestly, if I make enough to provide for my family and my boyfriend wants to become a SAHD, then I'd PAY him to do it. Yeah right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:43 AM
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You keep ignoring the actual risk of "trying and then failing" when it involves a marriage contract. This is not like being too scared to apply for a big job, or some other situation where there is no risk, this is a risk that has the potential to put you into ruins for the rest of your adult life. Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:38 AM
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The men who ignore the risk vs. reward for "lust and love" often end up losing most of what they have spent their entire lives working hard for. Let's not pretend like that hasn't been happening en masse. The vast majority of your average normal men out there want to find their person and start their family. But are realizing the risk of surrendering half of their assets, paying a substantial portion of their income to their now ex wife, on top of only being able to see their children half the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:20 AM
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Oh, maybe my family being composed of multiple generations of trailblazing women who set the example of what a real strong and independent woman were capable of has clouded my vision on why the struggles they faced back then are still an issue in 2024. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:14 AM
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Many men look at it as a risk vs. reward. It's like going skydiving.. if they told you that half of the time, the parachutes fail to deploy. Would you ever jump? No. What if they said that half the time the parachutes fail to deploy, but if your chute opens and you make it to the ground, there is $1,000,000 cash waiting on you? Lots of reward there, more men would be willing to take that risk. What men are starting to realize now is that modern marriage is like going skydiving where the parachut…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:56 PM
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Are you out of counter points?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:48 PM
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Yes. They had the same opportunities to do exactly what my mother did; they either chose not to pursue it or they weren't capable of it. There was still strong societal pressure for women to not go the strong independent route. My mother has many female colleagues from that time in her life who were also accomplished in the same ways. Her best friend to this day, who worked at the same hospital as her when she was 24, is black. My mother's mother was also the same way, she was a rosie riveter bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:41 PM
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I'm well aware of discrimination 50 years ago. But what you keep trying to say is that no women were allowed to own property or have bank accounts before the 70's, which is not true. You said that millennials and some gen x are the first generation where it was possible for women to support themselves without a man. Also not true. You are literally just parroting things that are not true, because it's the narrative that you fell victim to. It's about as "gotchya" as it can get; you are presentin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:26 PM
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You spent all the time typing that out, and it's just an attempt for you to move the goal posts to fit the narrative that modern feminism has burned into your brain. Let me remind you what you said in your prior comments that I have replied to: Women couldn’t even have their own bank account in the 70? It’s not relevant that women were not allowed to own property, inherit wealth or own a bank card within a single lifetime ago? Millennials are the first generation - along with some Gen X - to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:12 PM
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Exactly. I think that offline/IRL, the vast majority of normal men out there just want to find their person and start their family. But the contract with the state is what gets in the way and creates the chaos and destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:58 PM
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Also comes with the expectation that you perform "man" labor for them too. I've had plenty of female friends in my life and some of them are great, but a lot of them still try and boss you around or get you to do shit for them like you're their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:54 PM
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This has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with earnings and contributions to the marriage. What you describe happening to you always happens to the higher earner/provider, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:51 PM
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According to the CDC, 1.7 deaths per 100,000 live births. Or .0017%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:49 PM
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I'm 40. My mother, born in 1952, was valedictorian at her high school and got a full college scholarship to Oklahoma University where she got her masters in occupational therapy. In her mid 20's, after she got her first job, she had her first house built. In her late 20's, she got a better job opportunity in a different city and sold her first house and bought a new house in the new city. She also bought a brand new buick regal, a brand new bass boat, and other luxuries. This was all on her own,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:07 PM
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When feminists created the whole eMoTiOnAl LaBoR, MeNtAl LoAd, and "He leaves his cup by the sink so I divorced him" crap a few years ago, it pretty much signed the death certificate for modern marriage in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:40 PM
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Correct. Not in 2024. The context of this comment thread is about millennial and younger women thinking they're the first generation to be able make it on their own, which is not true. What life was like 50 years ago is literally irrelevant to this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:22 PM
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Barely. And it's not relevant in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:09 PM
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The 70's was 50 years ago..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:51 AM
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You had the 6 inch turkey on rye at subway, remember? I'm not stalking you or anything..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:00 AM
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Aren't they encouraged to take naps at work? Like, if you are seen sleeping at your desk it is honorable and they see it as you're just working SO hard that you are exhausted?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:53 AM
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It took my entire life to learn and understand this. Nobody ever told me it was like that when I was young; I was always taught to be kind to and to always respect women. Never raise your voice to her and shit like that. Turns out, that doesn't work. Women are attracted to chaos even if they don't admit it. A toxic man that is just nice enough to not be a complete tool will do so much better than a kind and respectful one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:42 AM
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Yup, having dealt with a BPD ex is a totally life altering experience for a man. No man can fight fire with fire or use the same tactics against the BPD ex. They will win 100% of the time. There is no limit to the evil that comes from the BPD, their brain is hard wired for it and they use the chaos as fuel.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 10:53 PM
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Not only for divorce, but for every other aspects of relationships/marriages as well. Google "my partner abuses me" and it's 100% articles for women. There are no resources or information for men who end up with an abusive woman.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 10:45 PM
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Most men I encounter today are doing significantly more work than their wives ever will. That's called hoe-flation.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 03:46 AM
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I unsubbed from Askmen years ago because it had become overran by women.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 04:19 AM
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/r/bpdlovedones
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 03:37 AM
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The stencil industry is rough right now.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 09:15 AM
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I disagree with you, as a BPD ex survivor that shit is the worst thing any man can experience in his life.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 09:11 AM
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I watched my BPD ex search for her monkey branch in real time. She had used my computer and was logged onto her FB. I hopped on and opened FB and saw that it was logged in as her. So, I did a Schrodinger's snoop and saw her messaging a bunch of guys from a local singles group. Watched it happen for a while until I confronted her about it. I watched in real time as all the conversations disappeared and she denied it. Told her I've been watching it for weeks now. Of course, if you know BPD, you kn…
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 09:09 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:08 AM
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Jobs women can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:53 AM
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I truly hope crypto takes over Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:31 AM
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I worked in the oilfield for 4 years, never saw a single woman out on a rig site the entire time I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:29 AM
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Got a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:25 AM
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Crypto is your friend here. Buy Monero on Kraken, and you either "lost it all investing into a shitcoin that bagged" or "lost it on an online crypto gambling website". It's untraceable so once it leaves the exchange, nobody will know where it went! Hold onto it until the dust is settled, and cash back out.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 02:37 AM
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Haha, mine feigned working hard at chores too. Especially cooking. I'd be in there preparing a full dinner from scratch, she'd get up out of bed and wander in the kitchen when it was almost done, stir whatever was on the stove for a minute, then go back to bed. And she would refer to it as the dinner WE cooked. Can't make this shit up, it's crazy how similar it is. Was yours a BPD as well?
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 09:11 AM
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We must have been with the same woman or something, jeez! Mine did the exact same stuff. I'd get home from work, walk in the door and she's asking me "what are you fixing for dinner" before I could even kick my shoes off! I'd always get off work at the same time, and she would be texting me within minutes of me clocking out "have you left work yet". I'd have to sit there and text her the whole drive home telling her how far away I was. There was one summer where I bought a cool new(old) truck, a…
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 06:16 AM
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My ex moved into my house that I owned before I met her, and it was no time before she somehow thought "this is mine now" and started wanting to tear down walls or change out doors or all sorts of shit that it didn't need. The house was freshly remodeled when I bought it just a few years prior, but she got full control of decorations and what went where. The kicker: she refused to contribute anything towards the house payment. She said there was no way she was going to put any of her money towar…
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 06:03 AM
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I would get in trouble for not taking the trash out the bin sooner. I would always wait until the can was full to take it out, but once it would get to about 75% full she started getting upset. One time it was around 80% full and she started in on me about it, so I just reached in and compacted the trash down until it was only about halfway up the can and said "There, now it doesn't have to go out yet". That sure did pull the pin on the grenade. lol
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 05:27 AM
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Heard a quote one time that was along the lines of "The only way a relationship/marriage will work is when the woman loves the man more than he loves her. "
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 05:25 AM
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Classic trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:36 AM
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This is a personal problem. So is divorce, but the courts have no problem dedicating time and resources to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:32 AM
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Yup, one of my friends growing up got his gf pregnant when we were all 19. He stepped up and became dad of the year to his little boy, loved him to death. When the boy was like 2, his gf dropped the bomb on him that his boy wasn't his. Watching the absolute raw sorrow that my friend went through after the boy was taken from him and him being left with nothing pretty much cemented my stance on this for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:57 AM
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I feel like they should be punished like a rapist, and forced to be on a registry similar to our current offender registry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:40 AM
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Make them sign up on a registry similar to the offender registry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:32 AM
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Yup, even if it's just for a few months. One speed bump and you're done for.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 07:45 AM
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All of a sudden, she saw herself as the “supporter” and me as the “loser.” When the roles were temporarily reversed, this was unacceptable to her. However, she NEVER expressed this; ever. She just silently despised me. Yup, had this exact same thing happen to me over covid except with a weird twist. When we became serious she and her daughters moved into my house that I had already owned, but she refused to pay any sort of living expense bill because it was "my" house and not "our" house. She wa…
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 07:30 AM
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So, to put a twist on this: IME, ambition and success are attractive to women, but once they have you locked down they start to despise the ambition. Successful men devote a lot more time to their career/hustle than a 40 hour work week, and when a woman has a man like this locked down she becomes unhappy about how much time he is gone working. Now she resents him because he spends so much time working and not dedicated to her instead. Just my experience for pretty much my whole life. It's a doub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:41 AM
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Yeah, a tale as old as time. Classic Beta Bux, and the dude has no clue yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:57 AM
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It's true more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:49 AM
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Yes, agreed. The problem I see with many women who complain about it, including the ones I've been with, is their standards being high with no room for compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:49 PM
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Nope, it's not actually weaponized incompetence - it is her setting the standards and expectations too high and getting mad when they aren't met. It's behavior that is rooted in either neuroticism or narcissism. Learned that in therapy. It's a tale as old as time, the woman will say, "He kept his house clean when we were dating, now he's a slob man baby and I don't understand why". It's not that he's a slob, it's just that you put your set of standards on him and can't see that. I keep my house …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:05 PM
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Does that man take care of the housework and chores when he lives alone? If yes, why does that man suddenly revert to toddlerhood the moment a woman moves in? Yes, a man can keep his house clean when he lives alone, but the woman comes in with crazy high standards for chores and expects him to conform to those standards with no compromises. That's why she thinks he doesn't ever do anything. He does things, but he isn't as high strung as her about it so that's why it appears to her that he doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:33 AM
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As for chores, I think one main issue that pops up a lot is that women expect to set the standards and for men to adopt them no questions asked. What if the man just doesn't do some of the chores as frequently as the wife does? like, if he was on his own he wouldn't be working on someone else's schedule to get all the shit done. 100% true here. Every serious relationship I've ever been in for my entire life has been this way. They moan about "weaponized incompetence" because you aren't scrubbing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:29 AM
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I haven't done the experiment, but I've had some average looking female friends show me their OLD accounts and they had TONS of messages. This was before Tinder as well, probably around a decade ago. I was literally blown away when I saw that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:37 PM
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😂friendly fire
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:36 PM
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What usually happens is the man continues to do things normally, but the woman comes in and creates her own agenda and hires herself as "household manager". Now everything he does must be done her way and to her standards. If he keeps his same standards, she views that as him not doing anything. If he tries to do things her way but can't meet her new expectations, it's "weaponized incompetence". Women will marry a man, full well knowing what his habits and standards are like, and then expect him…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:21 PM
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then why not pass on it if you trust your partner? It's like passing on a prenup when you marry a woman, knowing that half of marriages end up in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:29 AM
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The last thing the healthcare system needs is over 3 million totally unnecessary tests performed ever year and farming all newborn DNA by the government. DNA data is a gold mine, especially for healthcare system and health insurance companies. They are pretty much foaming at the ass to get as much DNA data as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:27 AM
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Single mothers don't look for love, they look for help. 100% true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:14 AM
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Also, no mention of overall house management, "house management" is the biggest crock around. It's just a fancy way of saying "performing the same basic life tasks that every other human has to do". Like someone getting a job at Mcdonalds and calling themselves a "chef". I'm a man that lives alone and I do all that shit you listed, takes almost zero effort or time at all. "House manager" is a term that high strung or neurotic women assign themselves because they are too scatterbrained to effecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:02 AM
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Mowing the lawn, gutter cleaning, hanging things, moving things? How often is that even done? Have you never been on the shit end of a perpetual honey-do list? Many women can't stand seeing their man relax, so they are constantly thinking up things to tell him to do so that he stays busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:57 AM
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Yes, just google Manuel Uribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:53 AM
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It's just an inherent trait with high strung, and even type-a, women. You can eliminate every single problem in their life, and they will still find somefuckingthing to stress out about. They can't switch it off. I have an ex who is like that, and she is the type where you could hand her a $100 bill and she would stress out about it not being in 20's and how she can't use it because some places won't break a 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:39 AM
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The women in the ocean have options for clean water, like collecting dew and rainwater. But the women in the ocean expect the clean water to just find them without them having to put the effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:30 AM
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Where that analogy crosses into real life is that the women who are in the ocean just expect clean water to find them without having to make any effort. Whereas the men in the desert have to put in all of the effort to search for the water that is just waiting there doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:26 AM
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/r/bpdlovedones
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 10:28 AM
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Because no woman actually cares if you can play an instrument or draw or some other cringe shit, she only cares about two things: looks and confidence True. I'm a big hobby person and have a ton of them that I've done all my life. In my 40 years, out of all the relationships I've had, not a single one of my girlfriends ever gave a flying fuuuuuck about any of my hobbies. In fact, they all viewed my hobbies as an obstacle that just got in the way of time and energy that could have been focused on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:33 AM
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There are 2 things that I've learned about women in regards to what you're describing. Usually, men look at things logically with an improvement mindset. If we make a mistake, we will look to find a solution to not make the mistake again, and then move on from it. Bettering yourself in the process. This takes accountability and the ability to move on. Women don't think with an improvement mindset, and that's why they remember every single bad thing you've said or mistake you've made since the be…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 02:39 AM
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That whole mental load bullshit is just their way of trying to justify being scatterbrained and/or lazy.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 01:41 AM
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Don't have to ever worry about doing the chores she nags you about, then coming around behind you bitching about how you did it all wrong and now she has to do it right.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 01:37 AM
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This is 100% true. If you're a hard working man with a solid work ethic and not lazy, house work is so fucking easy. With my last ex, I got furloughed during the first covid lockdown and became the stay at home parent. All of the chores took like a couple focused hours a day to knock out, and that's all the cleaning/shopping/cooking/errands/planning shit that she wanted done as well as coaching the girls for their homeschool work. I think deep down it pissed her off that I was able to get everyt…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 01:33 AM
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how many times has it been shown where guys walk up on the street to a woman and talk to her she says she's got a boyfriend so he goes alright and hops in a Lambo or Ferrari and all of a sudden the women wanna chat talk and be friendly... You do realize that 100% of those videos showing that are staged and a skit, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:55 AM
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That's messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:53 AM
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Yes, any woman who is into tarot, astrology, reiki, or any kind of shit like that is verifiably unstable as a partner.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 02:09 AM
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You're damn right I'm not a parent. Okay, case closed. No further comment needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:41 AM
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Oh, Just because my chores and responsibilities were done before noon doesn't mean I sat down and watched tv the rest of the day and ignored everybody. By "enrichment", you mean like perpetual soccer practice, band concerts, play dates, or all the other stuff that mothers try and make it seem is 24/7 never ending? Yes, spent plenty of "enrichment" time with the girls when they wanted, but once kids get to around kindergarten age their individualities start forming and they don't need to be attac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:32 PM
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If you were parachuting out of a plane, and parachute deployment had a 1/10 failure rate, would you call it "rare" that parachutes failed to deploy? Would you jump knowing there is a 1/10 chance that it isn't going to deploy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:12 AM
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Stay at home parenting is easy mode once the kids are school aged. During covid, I got laid off and became the SAHP. Took care of all the chores, groceries, cooking, cleaning, laundry, all the "mental load" stuff, took care of the kids and made sure they did their home schooling. Usually done with everything that needed to get done by 10 or 11 in the morning. Had plenty of time to chill until it was time to start getting dinner ready. I would absolutely go back to being a stay at home dad in lie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:08 AM
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BPD warning! All of that sounds like she has BPD to me, who went through the same bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 09:21 PM
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There is a post right now in another sub about what men will do if they end up alone for the rest of their lives. A lot of men are commenting that they will just self delete, but there are plenty of women who are literally in there mocking the men who are saying this.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 01:01 AM
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Are you familiar with zero tolerance policies in schools nowadays? If some kids get in a fight and some boy comes in to try and break it up, that boy is now punished the same as the people who were fighting. So there has been awareness even among school aged kids to stay out of a bad situation so they don't get punished for it. What this translates to is when those kids grow up, they are going to be a lot less likely to want to help strangers in danger out of fear of getting in trouble for doing…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 12:53 AM
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This is true. As much as they like to lament the notion, male attention is their main currency and is what builds their self worth. I've started noticing posts pop up on some of the female dominated subs where women are complaining about men at work not acknowledging them. Mike Pence rule starting to show up often, but it bothers women a lot.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 12:40 AM
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Yes, I looked into it in my mid 30's and not only is that entire industry a complete clusterfuck(borderline scam), but there is a very slim chance that a single working man will ever get considered. If I were independently wealthy and did not have to work, the chances are higher. Looked into surrogacy and it appears to be just as volatile of a situation at double the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:59 PM
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Have you ever been in that situation before?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:41 PM
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Apart from that, the lived experience for men is totally different than women. Of course you wouldn't know that as a woman. If you're a man, your mental health gets mocked and you get no support from women or society as a whole, as we can clearly see from comments of women like yourself mocking men who are contemplating suicide. Men's mental health is a joke to people like you, and that makes their situation worse than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:37 PM
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Absolutely not. Have you ever been in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:24 PM
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Definitely a deal with the devil. I have had the same life as you; some relationships but going years between them and being self sufficient with esteem. My only hangup is kids. I've always wanted kids and I end up forming bonds with the kids of the single mothers I'd date, which makes the breakups double hard. If there were a legitimate way to have a kid without being tied to a relationship with a modern woman, I'd be all for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:14 PM
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any man can succeed if they put in some work on themselves, set their standards fairly low Dafuq? What kind of advice is this? Nobody should lower their standards even if they're unhappy, that just makes things worse off in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:05 PM
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Hobbies don't mean anything in regards to dating if it's something that women don't give a crap about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:47 AM
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Honestly, none of that really matters. DFS/DCFS aren't going to pursue any action unless they find a smoking gun. I was unfortunately drug into that a lot with my ex and her daughters going back and forth with their dads. They investigate and if there is no repeated reports or no smoking gun, they won't do anything even if your house is a mess.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 01:41 AM
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She could still have him served at his work, though.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 01:25 AM
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Induction cooktop so that it wouldn't be hot to the touch on my hand.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/23 02:07 AM
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They brought me in and questioned me, but couldn't prove anything. Some of the claims were like destroying company property, saying racist things, and other stuff, but she couldn't make any sexual claims because I was never alone with her anywhere and there was always a camera watching over her area. I never spoke to her since and have literally ignored her since, so 🤷
/r/MensRights16/07/23 07:41 PM
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Yup, been through it IRL too. Snake of a woman at my job was spreading rumors about me, but I intercepted it and busted all the rumors. She decided to start going to HR and making up all sorts of false claims against me to try and get me fired as payback for busting her rumors.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 01:24 AM
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Yeah, I have seen a lot of articles online and even posts here on reddit about women being upset that guys at their work follow the Mike Pence rule. Example.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 12:45 AM
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Yup, can confirm as a 6'6" ogre face. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:17 AM
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Wait until you're in your 30's and 40's, those marriages are going to start dropping like flies. By the time you're 40, the majority of those early 20's marriages will be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:35 AM
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Once you realize that there a billions of people in this world, and that your genetics or legacy via offspring is literally meaningless to humanity, you will naturally let go of the need to define yourself based on whether or not a woman is by your side or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:17 AM
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It sounds cliche, but the typical advice of focusing on bettering yourself and accomplishing things is a straight shot path to confidence and self esteem without giving a shit about what women think. When I was younger in my late teens and early 20's, I cared too much about what women thought and based a lot of my self worth on that. I could get girlfriends, but they were all shit. I couldn't hold a job, had no work ethic, and wasn't reliable. But once I started to focus on the things that reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:11 AM
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Bought my first house when I was 23 with a machinist job!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:26 AM
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Another dude is talking about a girl from high school that was simply dating other guys, as if she should have ditched her boyfriend for him. You're just projecting your insecurity. You know nothing of the situation from 22 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:54 AM
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Where are you getting bitter and seething from? No projected fantasies here, I just noticed a pattern when girls from school hit me up out of nowhere 20 years after we graduated and the reason they did so. I don't talk shit to them or anything, but I figured out the reasoning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:48 AM
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Happened enough to me that I started to notice it forming a trend. You know, when you're in your 30's and that hot girl you graduated high school with, who you haven't talked to since, sends you a friend request out of nowhere. You already know why. I've even had one who I had a thing for in high school, but she was a serial dater and was always taken, hit me up after a decade of bar flying, 2 marriages, 2 kids, and a load of trashy tattoos and literally be like "we can try now?".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:52 AM
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I can see that, and I'd like to add my viewpoint on that thought. I think part of them being "more attractive" could be attributed to their style and putting effort into their appearance. I grew up in the bible belt, and I used to always notice a lot of women with long straight hair, basic makeup, no tattoos or crazy piercings, classy outfits, dressed well, etc. The women looked more feminine if that makes sense. I currently live in an up and coming liberal cesspool and notice a "style" that com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:38 AM
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90% of divorces with a college educated woman are initiated by them, though. That stat says the opposite of what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:25 AM
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Dig an old chevy truck out of a field and restore it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 01:02 AM
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Yup, learning attachment styles and love languages really opened my eyes. Although, I'm textbook secure attachment style.. but every single fucking woman that has ever been interested in me is extreme anxious. I feel like secure people are magnets for anxious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:58 AM
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I learned this early on in life, while I was still in my teens. It was one of the first big breakthroughs I ever experienced. There was this one girl who I had a HUGE crush on throughout high school. She would breadcrumb and string me along for a long time, most of the time never answering my calls or calling me back. I was going to leave for a week long road trip and event with some friends and was calling her the day before to talk to her before we left. This was wayyy back when we all had fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:25 AM
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I was once talking to my ex about dating scenario and was baffled to see how little she knew about dating struggles of men. And when I talked to my female friends about the same, it was the same response from them as well. They all thought I was having hard time choosing women in my life. They all thought unless a guy is absolute ugly or with some extreme personality problems, it's almost impossible to be a involuntary single. Yup, same exact experience here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:04 AM
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Women can be attracted to some physical features of men who take care of themselves, but if you live long enough you will see that the underlying root of the attraction is for the resources the men provide. Looks get you in the door, your resources are what keeps them around. Preselection also plays a huge role. Hard pill to swallow, but ask any woman of dating age if she would ever consider a broke man for a serious relationship. I'd bet a bitcoin that 95% of the answers will be no. For men, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:47 AM
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I'm sure there are a fair share of deadbead dads like that, but in my observed experience with men it is almost universally how I described. Once I got into my mid 30's, my friends' marriages started dropping like flies and I have helped a lot of them through the struggle I describe. Talking them out of suicide because they were being alienated from their kids. I only know of one instance where custody didn't go to court.. and it was with my ex girlfriend and her daughter's dad. They were both j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:22 AM
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I’ve seen good men and fathers pushed out of their lives despite slogging through the most difficult relationships with controlling women. I've seen many of my friends over the years get divorced and end up broke with no custody because the women strategically draw out the process until they can't afford the legal costs anymore. The majority of it was their ex wives' unreasonable demands for child support, i.e. alienating the kids from them until they could get a fat child support check.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:04 AM
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The divorce industry prioritizes obtaining as much money as possible from men, and many don't even make it to court because the legal fees from the women drawing out the entire process over a year or more become too high and the man can't afford anymore legal counsel. Legal costs can easily reach into the tens of thousands of dollars, and the men are also universally expected to pay the woman's legal costs as well. There is a legitimate strategy for women going through a divorce to milk the proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:00 AM
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And by the way, men who fight for joint or full custody are more likely to get it. So why don’t they? Your choice of words are perfect. For men, they have to fight for it. Because the women end up creating a battle over it. When has a woman ever had to fight a battle to get custody? Never, because women are the ones who create the custody battles in the first place. Ideally, both parties would just come to an agreement. But that's not how it ever happens. If women weren't the ones making paterni…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:55 AM
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I think there's a very strong parallel with how people feel about their cars and belongings to how they view relationships regardless of gender. In fact, it's one of the things I initially pay attention to the most when I meet somebody new. If they always have to have a new car every few years, throwing things out and replacing them when they're perfectly fine, always moving to a new house/apt every few years, etc. The person throwing away perfectly fine things just for a change of scenery is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:36 AM
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Unplug the fuel pump so it doesn't run, then tow it to carmax and get an estimate from them. It will be probably a few thousand dollars if that. Tell her that you were out railing on it and the engine blew up. Nobody will ever know any different. Once it's over, just plug the fuel pump back in and resume the fun with it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 04:36 AM
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Good luck doing that as a guy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manuel_Uribe He did it multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:52 AM
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I'm old enough that I started dating before most people had broadband internet at home, I remember it being more like that person mentions. I would say IRL experience is evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:24 AM
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It's called preselection, and it's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:50 AM
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Search "passport" in /r/twoxchromosomes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:58 AM
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Use Bisq and convert it to Monero. Untraceable. You "lost your wallet keys".
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 02:44 AM
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Yeah, I'm not tripping over it. Just letting you know that it's still out there even as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:46 PM
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I'm here to drop a bomb on you: That kind of mindset bleeds well into their 30's now and it's not going to get any better for you. I was talking with a woman that was 34 last summer, typical average looks single mom with 2 young boys and a part time salon job, getting child support and living in her parents basement. She had a roster. She ended up ghosting me after about a month and I later found out from a mutual friend that it was because I daily drive a 20 year old Tahoe and wear jeans, T's, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:34 PM
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It's because often times what "makes them happy" is a totally unrealistic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:04 PM
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It was a support sub many years ago, but unfortunately is now a centralized hub for the hatred of men. It stopped being its own little corner when hot topics from there started being broadcast to r/all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:52 PM
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Look up the Filipina Pea on Youtube, she has some red hot takes about everything you mention!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:46 PM
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it seems like a bad investment of my resources. I've thought about it a lot too, and the biggest resource drain I've noticed is time. In the form of sacrificing the things you like to prioritize making sure she is happy and pleased. And the currency used for that is time/attention. Think about it.. how much time have you dedicated to maintaining her happiness? How much time did she ever dedicate towards making sure you were happy? It's the biggest double standard in modern relationships. They ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:11 PM
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not a single woman has ever mocked me or said “ew” to my face. Yeah, they just let loose about you behind your back once you're gone. Have you never seen how women talk to each other about the guys who they aren't attracted to that pursue them? If you did, you'd be sick to your stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:41 AM
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Then why are so many women mad about passport bros if women don't want men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:24 AM
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/r/bpdlovedones Your story sounds like she is a borderline. Been there done that myself, it's pretty easy to spot out in the wild now.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 07:52 AM
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You can always tell when her friends that are usually friendly and nice to you suddenly go cold and start giving you stink eye any time you're around.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 07:49 AM
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Yup, go for the gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:41 AM
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They can do a hysto and leave one ovary in for hormones. My ex had that done at 25 and she was still fine with no complications from it in her 30's. No side effects and no hrt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:39 AM
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Even so, dating in the 80's was a lot different than dating in 2023. Hell, even when I started dating around the year 2000 it was way different than it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:16 AM
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Your dad knows what's up. Listen to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:15 AM
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The type of woman you talk about here does not exist. There are three traits in older women, but you can only pick two: great income/career still a nympho no baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:06 AM
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Responsibilities aren't a bad thing, but when you push a narrative you have to be aware of both sides of the coin when it comes to the privilege you're bringing up. There are downsides to some privilege and people seem to overlook that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:02 AM
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Imagine being able to legally drink at 16 instead of having to wait till you're 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:55 AM
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With privilege comes more responsibility as well. Men's bodies are stronger, but when it comes time to help move that couch who do you think is expected to manhandle the thing? Also, women can free themselves from the burden of menstruation and pregnancy by getting a hysterectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:49 AM
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The worst part is when they rewrite things so much that they come at you over shit you never even said or did.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 01:04 PM
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I find it really weird that we can have seemingly perfect relationships for so long and then somewhere along the line women forget all the good times and the feelings they've had for years to go chase some new shiny thing. I read a comment a while ago along these lines and it really stuck with me. You have to look at it as a scoreboard. Every good thing you do or good memory you make together is a point on the board. However, with a lot of women that scoreboard gets reset back to zero at the end…
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 12:47 PM
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Keeping a "friendship" fostered is a tactic that manipulative women use to keep from truly burning any bridges. She doesn't want to be friends with him, she is just keeping him on the backburner as a lifeline for if her new lifestyle doesn't work out. When that happens it will be easy for her to tell him, "Oh, hunny bunny.. I miss us. Let's try again for old times sake". And OP will get hooked again.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 12:23 PM
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Agree with this, it's on a sliding scale. An overweight woman with good hygiene, who dresses well, does her hair, looks presentable, has her head screwed on straight, and is kind with a classy demeanor is way more attractive to me than a thin woman with a hot body, an attitude, and an unkempt appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:07 AM
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Everybody loves Raymond King of Queens Malcolm in the Middle Bonus: Home Improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:59 AM
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I have friends who bought homes in their 20's and earned a shit ton of equity in them, then when they settled down in their 30's and got married their wives made them sell the house to buy a new one that is "theirs". Then the wives divorce and the man loses the new house and has to split the equity he earned from his original house that he bought himself.
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 08:58 AM
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She isn’t entitled, your child is entitled to support. What I would like to see happen is child support issued like a health savings account: restricted for usage only towards things involving childcare. Clothes, food, school supplies, glasses/contacts, medical costs, medical supplies, and anything else directly involving the kid. There's no reason that child support should just arrive in the mother's bank account for her to fund her lifestyle when that should be used exclusively for costs assoc…
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 08:53 AM
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I think a lot more modern women know how to cook than we think, they just refuse to ever cook for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:29 AM
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Adopting a kid costs a whole lot more than 19k though..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:19 AM
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It requires money. More men would be doing it if they had the money to afford all the traveling required.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:15 AM
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*fur babies
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/22 09:30 AM
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Well, reading all of your other comments in this post it sounds like you haven't experienced those things because you behave like a woman. 🤦‍♂️
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:13 AM
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While it's probably not likely for all of those things to happen to one man, it's almost a guarantee that all men have had to face at least one or more of those situations. I've definitely experienced more than one of them myself.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 02:30 AM
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Men with daughters don't want these women indoctrinating their own daughters with this type of hate and then those daughters trying to spread the message to your daughter.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 02:17 AM
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I can verify that there are just as many male snakes as female snakes.. at least where I work.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 08:24 AM
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Dude this exact thing literally happened to me too last year, except I never got close enough to her to consider her a bestie. She was always very friendly, always seemed excited to talk, reassured me that she was there for me whenever I needed anything, used to bring me drinks and candy. We would talk about real shit and open up. I got back into cooking and would make big batches of stuff to bring to work and share with everyone, including her. Then I found out that she had been browbeating me …
/r/MensRights12/11/22 08:08 AM
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My ex literally used to tell me "what's mine is mine, what's yours is mine".
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:24 AM
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Meanwhile those feminists are buying this book for their babies.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:15 AM
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What do you mean "huh?" ?? You said older women are more desirable, but they aren't. What makes older women more desirable, or as you just put it, "socially more valuable" than men?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 01:55 AM
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Depends on what kind of value we're talking about here. 38 year old single mom in the eyes of a man with no children that wants to start a family? Zero value, worthless. Older woman who takes care of her body and provides sex in the eyes of a childfree man? That's the only scenario where they will still be valued.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 05:30 AM
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This is perfect motivation fuel for you to start focusing on yourself. Because while it might not seem like it at 30, once you get to 40 you will be glad you invested in yourself and your life will be a lot more comfortable. Sure, you will go through phases of loneliness, but you can sit back and be satisfied that you never had to go through the "trenches" so to speak. You sound like you're aware enough to know you are starting out with a disadvantage and you're not filled with any false hope. S…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 04:06 AM
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"It doesn't happen to me so everybody else is just paranoid" 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 For your sake, I honestly pray that you never have to deal with a false accusation of any kind from a woman even if it doesn't involve young children. I've actually had my job hang in jeopardy from a woman who made baseless false accusations out of nowhere.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:10 AM
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It's fine to respond when the kids are toddlers or very young and they come up to you, but once they're school age and older you need to avoid interaction with them in public at all cost. Sorry, not sorry. I'm not pushing this narrative as how it should be, it's just how our society is and how we need to behave in it to stay safe. We live in the era where a man taking his young child out to the park is at risk of having the police called on him by some karens that think he is a kidnapper. That k…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:55 AM
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Observing it via life experience?
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:11 AM
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I'm 6'6" / 300 / bearded and I agree more with the other guy. All it takes is one unhinged karen to make a big deal out of you and the wise move is to play it safe. I'm silly AF but not in public around random young children, especially little girls.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:59 PM
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It's because women aren't exposed to the same hardships that men are nor are bound by the same standards expectations as men. Women aren't expected to be breadwinners and providers for their family, and they aren't looked down on if they can't be a provider. Men are expected to make something of themselves, while women are celebrated for doing that. Society judges low status men more harshly than low status women, so the women just aren't exposed to that kind of thing and that is the root cause …
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:43 PM
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I can understand this, and think it's partially true. There are women out there who can empathize. But IMO, based on almost 40 years of life experience, they are very rare. I have met and befriended plenty of women throughout my life and there have only been a couple of them so far who haven't ended up behaving like the OP describes.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:35 PM
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It's like they say: The only men that women are capable of loving unconditionally are their sons.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:32 PM
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I was reading through that sub earlier and was in some typical post about one of them browbeating men and one commenter led her reply with like "I think this is because men are spoiled and get everything handed to them". 😂 Wut.. where was I when all these handouts were going on??
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:28 PM
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I've noticed it mostly in younger women. Most women in their 30's and pretty much all women in their 40's that I know show no feminist influence. And even if they don't identify as a freminist or radfem, the rhetoric bleeds down into the vernacular of most young women without them even realizing it. Women who don't identify as feminists are using the terms "weaponized incompetence" and "emotional labor".
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:26 PM
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It's not about gendered clothing. It's about a dude looking up a hoodie to judge how the fit will be and the only reviews or pictures of it are of women wearing it which gives him no data about how the hoodie fits men his size. I've ordered some that run small and some that run big, and that kind of thing is nice to know before ordering.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:20 PM
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It is... Until it isn't!
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/22 12:43 AM
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I agree with you, don't know why you got down voted. OP literally said this: After one particular episode in which he called me a "fucking bitch" (I confess I was whinny since I was constantly disappointed at him since he really didn´t measure up to my standards) You're right, eventually this beta guy won't meet her standards.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/22 09:59 AM
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A while back I was walking into this gas station that had double doors that opened both ways (in and out). I was walking out while two different women were walking up to the door. One: middle aged, dressed normally. Two: overweight, tons of tats and piercings, and short pink dyed hair. When I got to the door, I pulled it open to let them in and the middle aged lady smiled and said thank you. The pink haired one walked to the other door, opened it herself, and walked in without even looking at me…
/r/AntiFeminists03/09/22 11:38 AM
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You would think that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:02 AM
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Bossy.. 😂 Who do you think you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:29 AM
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Are you trying to gaslight me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:39 AM
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Cause that's where e-girls normally get their attention from? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:12 AM
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boyfriend Ah, that makes sense. Just asking if it was from Twitch and your Onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:00 AM
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Oh my bad. So, simps IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:33 AM
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Simps in your twitch stream?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:09 AM
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A genuine compliment, probably once or twice a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:06 AM
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Bro what if you were skydiving and they said there is a 40-50 percent chance the parachute won't open, would you still jump? Because for the man, getting divorced isn't like winning a lottery - getting divorced is like all of his parachutes failing on a skydive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:54 AM
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Depending on the country, a western man doing this will more than likely be dating up in comparison to modern/feminist western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:48 AM
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Tribe Report is another good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:16 AM
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It's 2022, who doesn't use autopay for their bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:38 AM
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mental load of managing household things What are some examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:36 AM
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allocation of utility bills One time setup for bill autopay is hard? sending paperwork for medical, social and financial events all year round. WTF does this even mean? What are these medical, social, and financial events that are happening year round?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:35 AM
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I'd rather spend the money it would take for bosley hair transplant on something more lucrative. I've literally never met a woman in my entire life so far who wants to be the family breadwinner. I think that's actually a lot more rare to find than men who want to be a SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:04 AM
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Unfortunately, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:10 AM
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He bought her a house RIP that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:26 AM
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Some of these people on these forums seem to think that working a nine to five job means you're busting your ass everyday but you're really not. A lot of people on forums seem to think everybody has some desk job where they screw off most of the day, but what about blue collar guys? Welders, machinists, hvac guys? Blue collar guys who have trade jobs are constantly working all day and their 15/30/15 breaks are all the time they have during the day to even sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:17 AM
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I would fucking love to be a stay at home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:05 AM
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Yup. My last ex was like this and also had an affinity for frequent dream vacations on my dime. I'd commonly hear stuff like "we could be in florida on the beach right now, but you have to work🙄". These women all fit into the same mold, though.. horrible financial management when they're on their own and usually in tons of debt living paycheck to paycheck until they find a boyfriendsponsor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:39 AM
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I got the Bojack reference 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:37 AM
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I honestly didn't read past the first paragraph. But going by the title alone, I can echo the basic notion as true. When I was in college I was taking the sound engineering program which at that school was part of the theater program (live sound). There were quite a few theater classes that were part of the curriculum and let me tell you those theater classes were all a hoasis. It was mostly made up of cute, expressive, and passionate young women and the only other men in the classes were effemi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:33 AM
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I agree with this, in my experience daughters are a lot less trouble growing up and are more pleasant than young boys. Not to say that I don't like boys at all. But when the boys get to teenage and adolescent age, they become a lot more defiant and I can remember how much my dad and I butted heads when I was that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:17 AM
1

Most of them become available again in their mid to late 30's after the divorce, because you know that they never end up picking a good woman of the same caliber the first round.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:06 AM
1

He gets steamrolled by hypergamous women early in his life, but he's an Alpha so he learns from that and puts his guard up as he gets older so that he becomes a big fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:05 AM
1

Exactly. A big fish gets that way by never being caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:00 AM
1

I told her that I was open to any idea she had in which I could earn 800,000 a year while working 30 hours a week. 😂 That's a good one, I'm going to put that in my rolodex to use the next time I'm in a relationship and she starts to bitch about money not just appearing out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:58 AM
1

You're not wrong in that at all. But my main point of contention in this comment thread is that the opposite notion isn't enough of an outlier anymore that could justify people putting it all under the same blanket and making generalizations about it. Age gap relationships have always carried a stigma, but cultural and economic changes over the past 2 or 3 decades have resulted in an environment that is a lot more conducive to them than in the past. And I think we should look at things objective…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:45 AM
1

So college aged men don't mostly just want sex with college aged women? There is nothing about any of what you said which could be fundamentally different by age. Young men primarily want sex with young women, just like old men primarily want sex with young women. Everybody wants sex with younger women! Everything you've said so far is rooted in assumptions based on a multi-generational gap in our culture and societal norms, and I'm telling you as someone with feet on the ground that those assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:28 AM
1

I agree with this right here. Once you get older and they start growing up, you will regret only seeing them for 10 days each month
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 06:36 AM
1

The first part is true. As a man, if you spend any number of years single and you meet a woman and tell her this, she will see it as a red flag and that something is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:35 AM
2

Things have changed in the last 20 years since you talked to those college aged women about it, though, because they are Millennials talking about Gen X and Boomers. That's how I grew up also - not much in common with my parents' generation. I can see your view being the case for Gen X and older, but pop culture and technology has narrowed the generational gap between Millennials and Gen Z. My comment also wasn't about maturity - just having similar things in common. I will not disagree with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:48 AM
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Disagree. I don't think it's a safe generalization to make at all. It might have been the case one generation prior, but we're living in the era where 30+ year old people also grew up with video games, listening to rap, playing with computers, consuming the same online media, and using the same social media. I see more 30+ year old people wearing Nintendo shirts and wearing chucks than I do college aged people. Look at how many 30+ year old people are active on tik tok. That whole narrative is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:09 AM
2

If you listen to people on reddit, they try and push the notion that any woman under the age of 25 is still a child whose brain isn't fully developed and aren't capable of making their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:29 AM
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It's entirely dependent on the individual, regardless of their age. As an example of this outside of a relationship context, I have more in common with my 12 year old than I do with her 33 year old mother even though her mother acts like she's 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:28 AM
1

I just want to say that I was working in the patch up north doing repair work during 2015 and saw a lot of men I worked beside go through the same thing after getting laid off. One buddy was welding pipe making good money and he had enough put back into an emergency fund to live on for over a year without cutting back.. but his wife still divorced him because she couldn't stand him being at home and not doing anything even though everything was still paid for. She literally called him a lazy dea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 12:50 PM
3

Buncha nobodies pretending like they are experts on divorce law. Reading through some of those comments, that meme of the concentrating woman with the numbers floating by comes to mind.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 04:49 AM
1

Yup. And it also gives you the perspective of not taking things for granted either and appreciating what you earn.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 04:05 AM
1

Yeah, I agree for the most part. The difference to me is a woman who grew up without running water and that has seen more hardship than I can imagine telling me that. It really adds to the perspective instead of just it being a guilt trip.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 03:44 AM
1

backpacking the world to find yourself, etc. I always see young women say stuff along the lines of how it's better to travel and experience the world while you're young. I love traveling, but I would never prioritize it over establishing a career or family. All of the traveling I've done young I have already mostly forgotten about. When I'm 65 and enjoying my retirement, I'm not going to remember a thing about places I went when I was 23. Hell, I'm not even 40 and I still don't remember much of …
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 10:48 AM
3

Look at how many modern women suck down ice cream or similar all the time now. Oh for fuck's sake, I can't stand this one! Like they think it's endearing somehow. Any time I hear a woman say she's a "chocoholic", the first thing that pops in my head is "Yep, you'll be fat and diabetic by 30". They don't understand that they can eat all of that chocolate and ice cream when they're 23 and still be skinny because of the HGH still in their system, but once that fades and the metabolism starts slowin…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 10:16 AM
1

What's funny is that feminists are now calling men pedophiles if they are attracted to 18 year old hotties.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 09:47 AM
1

They want to validate themselves by seeing if they can get your attention at the cost of your goals. You want to build that computer? She's gonna demand all your time. You want to get fit? She's gonna tell you that you're fine as you are and that you should spend time with her. So fucking true. I can vouch for these two exact things.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 09:35 AM
2

meet their goal of looking higher status than their girlfriends I worked hard all my life and bought a really nice house for myself. Met a girl who didn't have shit but a bunch of debt. Got in a relationship, and she moved in with me. "This is mine now" never rang so true. Let her decorate everywhere except my man cave because I truly didn't care. At times, it legitimately felt like she thought the house was hers. Best part is that she didn't pay any of the household bills. I remember one day, I…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 09:34 AM
11

Yeah, once the scale tips towards crazy I'm out too.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 08:27 AM
2

This sounds prophetic until you realize that you're going to be stuck with a shitty job making half the wage you would than a good job in a city. I grew up in low population and love the isolation of rural living, but I won't ever get that unless I can become independently wealthy.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 08:26 AM
2

Honestly to me it is a form of closure, and I get relief from it now. Every since I was young, I was always one of those guys who wanted to settle down and start a traditional family. But after years and years of getting merked in relationships by modern women, it took a toll on me and caused me to worry about not ever having that like it was a form of a biological clock. But MGTOW to me is a justification for not being able to get that, and I am actually glad that I didn't end up worse with a d…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 08:11 AM
1

I remember when 2008 happened and everybody lost their jobs, and for some fucking reason everyone thought the best thing to do at the time was go back to school and get into more debt.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 07:58 AM
1

More than likely they expected to be able to walk right into a career job that was waiting for them when they graduated and just got a dose of the real world instead.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 07:55 AM
1

I am always pushing trade schools really hard. Sure, you will never make $100k salary as an average tradesman (there are exceptions to that). But you get the absolute best bang for your buck on career potential to money invested in schooling out of any option. In some states, you can even qualify for trade school scholarships where you can take programs for free.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 07:54 AM
1

We are setting ourselves up for failure by not pushing trades. I graduated in '02 and went to work unlike a lot of my classmates. Everyone back then was pushing college. You NEEDED college, otherwise you aren't going to make it in life. I was a lowlife doing shift work at a machine shop until 2008 happened.. and all of my friends who got degrees were in the application line at Burger King and went years without being able to find any job over minimum wage. Even to this day, some of them still ha…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 07:50 AM
3

Yeah, the day I turned 16 I was throwing out job applications all over town and was clocking in at my first job a few weeks later. One of the few kids at my school who was paying for their own car. Before that as an early teen, I hustled mowing lawns and painting houses to be able to buy shit I wanted. Moved out on my own when I was 19 and haven't been back. The type of people who get into student loan debt like in this OP are the type of people who never worked a job until they graduated colleg…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 07:41 AM
3

It will shock you just how much kids know these days. I was close with my ex's 12 year old daughter, and some of the stuff she told me that went on in her grade school was stuff that I didn't even get to try until college! Mind blown when you hear about 5th graders coming to school high and drunk, 6th graders in sexual relationships with teens at JR high, kids already having sex by the time they are 12. I mean, truly unsettling stuff. And they learn it all from tik tok and snapchat.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 07:34 AM
14

My co-worker started getting angry texts from his fiancée, so he calls her to figure out what's going on ... He has no clue what she's talking about, and she proceeds to spend the next 45 straight minutes bitching him out. Fuck, been there done that. And what's amazing is their complete disregard for the situation you are in at your job.. they just expect you to drop what you're doing and fight with them. I've had to deal with this and told her "I literally can't do this right now, my boss is ri…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:52 AM
1

Wife wrangling sounds almost like a second part time job.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:33 AM
1

I am going to therapy to try and get over my trainwreck of a relationship with a BPD, and I was telling my therapist about some things my gf said and did that I didn't understand. Therapist (as an exercise on perspective) asked me if I could take a peek inside her head, what I thought I would see. And Isaid, "Honestly, if you tried to peek inside her head it would just look like a couple of alleycats fighting".
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:31 AM
2

Hey, I get where you are at. I have been there many times in my life. You will get through it, I guarantee it. Time is going to be your friend. What helped me was just getting 1 thing done each day even if I didn't feel like getting out of bed. Something as simple as putting the dishes from the sink into the dishwasher. Baby steps turn into big steps. It might take you months of small baby steps, but you are going to gain more clarity each day. Honestly, getting rid of the pictures and reminders…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:27 AM
2

her weird and sudden distant behaviour over the past days. She was being unfaithful. You got monkey branched, my man.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:22 AM
2

There's a life lesson buried in this logic. You have to look at what a woman owns and how she cares for things and how long she keeps them. If she has a throwaway or replace mentality, then this is how she also views men. Is she unhappy with her 2016 Honda and HAS to trade it in for a 2021 Honda? That means men have a 5 year cycle with her. You have to look for the women who drive the same cars for 10+ years, and aren't constantly replacing things in their life that don't need replacing. A woman…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:18 AM
1

Alimony
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:14 AM
1

Yes it sure will. Therapy after the discard is crucial.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:12 AM
3

Yeah, in the modern world you have to start a big fight and "make up" passionately every couple months to keep any relationship going. Stability is boring to women. Men who are not chaotic get no respect.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:10 AM
1

And once she realizes that she can't get him back, she will settle for the first beta simp that will have her and move the family in with him while using her alimony, which will be more than her simp's salary, to finance a boujie lifestyle.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:06 AM
1

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks...
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:05 AM
2

Yeah guaranteed she's a slug by now.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:03 AM
2

On top of that she hasn't had a fucking job for over a decade, lives a cushy middle class life, and she still isn't satisfied. I find more and more that modern women have lost all appreciation for being able to live this life. Not having to work. The modern woman acts like being a stay at home mom is this grueling job that requires 24/7 dedication. Yeah, it's not the easiest thing to do for the first 5 years, but at least they aren't having to work and take care of a child like a single mom. And…
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 06:00 AM
1

Yep, the earlier in life you realize this the better you can be at keeping it at bay. I learned in therapy that I'm a caretaker personality type and that is why I always got ran over in relationships. You don't ever do anything for other people until they have shown you that they deserve it and won't take advantage of it.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 05:41 AM
13

Can usually spot them right off the bat because they're the ones that use "u" and "ur" instead of "you" and "you're". At least that's been my experience.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 05:35 AM
35

It's a sliding scale of sex and crazy. Once it gets to the point where the crazy outweighs the sex, then it's not worth it.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 05:34 AM
1

True
/r/MGTOW28/07/21 03:55 AM
1

It's the young guys who simp out for the older worn out women because they can't get the young HVW's. Big age gaps are becoming more and more accepted when it involves a cougar.
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 07:30 AM
2

Aren't the women legit crazy there, though?
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 07:28 AM
1

1 new guy a month is rookie numbers. I would expect at least 1 new guy each weekend for maybe 1 new guy every 2 weekends for the majority of that time.
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 07:27 AM
5

I buy quality heavy duty trash sacks. One of the few things in life I don't cheap out on.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 12:01 PM
1

It's either that or he ends up taking care of his grandkid(s) when she gets knocked up and becomes a single mom at 20.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 10:30 AM
1

It's almost like it is more just damage control than it is fighting for something of value. Like trying to regain control of your car after hydroplaning off of a puddle.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 10:29 AM
3

Triple digits.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 10:21 AM
2

I wouldn't say glorifying.. As snoop dogg said: You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Granted, he said that like 30 years ago.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 10:20 AM
2

oppressive rapist with an obsession of young girls. That's been a pretty trendy criticism among feminists lately. Apparently any man over the age of 25 who even looks at a hot 18 year old woman is a pedophile and a predator now.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 09:13 AM
1

The only thing that sucks is connectivity with those I care about. That was my big hangup. I have consistently been without social media all year so far, and I cope by reactivating FB for a day, checking on all my friends to see if they are doing okay, and then deactivate it again. I usually check in like this every few months. My important friends have my number.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 09:04 AM
2

They are controlling. They like being in charge of a giant animal that could be able to trample her to shreds in seconds. They see power in being able to tame this wild beast and be in total control of leading it around exactly where she wants to go.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 08:59 AM
2

Truth. Nothing good ever comes out of it, and you have immediately and indefinitely relegated yourself to the lowest rung on the family ladder. It's worse when the child's father is still in the picture and has joint custody because now him and his woman/family are going to look at everything you do under a microscope and be up your ass if you show any sort of discipline to the kid when they misbehave. And the child won't respect you. You will discipline them, only to hear "you're not my dad!!".…
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 08:53 AM
26

Yeah, been there. I did the dishes wrong - not only loaded the dishwasher how she didn't approve of, but I was supposed to fill the dishes with water and let them "soak" in the sink before running the dishwasher. Ultimate fight material there. I didn't do the trash right - instead of taking the sack out of the can when it reaches the top, I was supposed to take the sack out when it got to about 3/4 full. Pushing loose trash down to make some space was highly illegal and would start a fight! I di…
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 08:43 AM
2

It's one of those things that you might not understand until you experience enough bad things to shift your train of thought.
/r/MensRights26/07/21 07:49 AM
3

Worked in the patch for years, never saw a single roughneck woman.
/r/MensRights26/07/21 07:36 AM
12

that's how many said that they want a man that already owns a home Fffffuuuuuu… that makes so much sense now. They move in and now it's "our" home.
/r/MensRights26/07/21 07:30 AM
1

Jesus.. 11 years? Why are you scared of committing to the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:09 PM
1

You just proved the guy's point. That's why he's your FWB and not your boyfriend!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:56 AM
3

Nasty. My fav was always Get Buck, but I dig this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/18 10:17 AM
2

One of my long time friends that I've known since we were barely old enough to drive knocked his girlfriend up when they were 19 and he stayed with her "for the kid". She demanded 100% of his time when he wasn't at work, and on the one Saturday a month he was allowed to go out with friends, she would be calling him non-stop (literally) within about 30 minutes of him leaving the house. The friendship dynamic totally changed because he literally couldn't get a free second to himself without her ti…
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 01:56 AM
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