windyautumnday Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A Virgin If you define a standard as an expectation of a certain objectively good behaviour, then a double standard is giving some people a pass not to meet that objective standard. Expecting your partner to be fit and eat healthy while not putting in the effort yourself is a double standard, because being fit and healthy is objectively good behaviour. Ask almost anyone and they will agree. Expecting your partner to have long hair is not a double standard, because long hair is not objectively good nor a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/19 04:40 AM
7	For Those Who Say The Dating World Isn’t Fair - What changes would make things fair? The reality is that not having any social programs at all is a bigger burden to the taxpayer. Everyone in the community feels the repercussions when people can't afford housing, healthcare, and food (and by extension, a quality education) for their children. An increase in crime is an obvious example, but there are subtle ones too like loss in the economic profits associated with a productive citizen (it's difficult to be one when you're raised in an environment of utter destitution). Those who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 11:51 PM
1	Why would anyone care that serial killers have fangirls? How is that proof that society and women are unfair? I asked him for his number, I asked him to spend time together before we were official, and I initiated defining the relationship, yes. Why is it so unbelievable that the woman could be the more extraverted party in a relationship? I bring initiative and energy, he brings perspective and consistency - we make a great team. Personality traits aren't gendered anymore. We're individuals, not statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 08:37 AM
1	Why would anyone care that serial killers have fangirls? How is that proof that society and women are unfair? a doormat who will do anything to please women I don't know anyone who defines selflessness this way, but no... a doormat of either gender is not attractive. Women still expect men to "take them" on a family building adventure As a woman... no. I'm not a child, I need a life partner not some kind of tour guide. We have equal input on the family we create. Also I can't just tell my wife that her boobs have become saggier and that I pretty much want to fuck all the women I see Yeah... I don't thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 08:21 AM
1	Why would anyone care that serial killers have fangirls? How is that proof that society and women are unfair? I don't know, selflessness is one of my top criteria. It's not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less - a man who supports his family, cares for the helpless and volunteers for worthy causes is a man I respect. I think the primary reason why my relationship is strong is because when the other needs us, we put our wants aside to help. Not to mention, someone who isn't willing to satisfy the needs of another over their own wants would be a terrible person to raise children with.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 07:39 AM
1	To live and let live - why shouldn't people who are so inclined have as much sex with as many different partners as their little hearts desire? What's the big deal? ruining their ability to appreciate the banality of marriage I take it you mean by having sex? I'm religious and I believe that sexuality is a sacred aspect of the human person and that marriage is something of value. But the idea that you could ruin your ability to appreciate it by experiencing sex with more than one partner seems like a contradiction. The truth stands for itself. It doesn't need to be handled with kid gloves. Marriage isn't only worth it for women when the man is a financial p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 05:40 AM
1	Why are young women more likely than young men to realize that being attractive/popular is important? I'm not a fan of the sweeping notion that women as a whole care about social standing to the exclusion of caring about ideas. I am interested in ideas AND in how those ideas are reflected practically in society, and so are most of my female friends. I got an education in STEM because I'm interested in how theory is applied to better the lives of people. I think it's unfair to give one gender the prize for being best at ideas and the other for being best at social skills when both genders are cle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 04:56 AM
2	Relationship attempts to "protect another's feelings" dissuade honesty Brilliant response. Part of any long lasting relationship is continuing to put in effort during lulls when you arent feeling it as much	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 04:21 AM
4	Men are not more logical than women. They're just less emotional. I don't think either gender is significantly more emotional (or logical). I think each has been culturally/socially conditioned as to which emotions to show. Men (from what they have told me) seem to feel similar range and amount of emotions I do, prompted by similar triggers. But it's not as acceptable for them to display these emotions. Similarly, I encourage my female friends (and they me) to express our emotions without shame. Sure, there's likely some biological exceptions - perhaps women f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 04:10 AM
1	Why would anyone care that serial killers have fangirls? How is that proof that society and women are unfair? I think that's an incomplete analysis. Good and nice aren't well-defined personality traits. Charisma, confidence, and dedication on the other hand are clear, desirable characteristics - and for good reason. Everyone wants a friend or boyfriend that can get along with their family/friends, try new things without insecurity, and work hard to accomplish difficult goals. Those are things everyone should look for in a life partner. Unfortunately, bullies and assholes can be very charismatic, confide…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 03:53 AM
2	Video games are low-status because of their amazing cost effectiveness. I just think of that as a null trait. Watching movies, playing video games, and eating pizza are just... things humans like. They're easy for us, they play on our natural desires to be comfortable and entertained and fed. And it's easy for them to get excessive, which turns them into negative traits. Anything you have to work a little for is going to be more appealing... it's subjective, but I have a line between what I consider leisure/downtime activities and hobbies/interests. Movies you have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 03:28 AM
1	Video games are low-status because of their amazing cost effectiveness. Video games are low status because they are low in effort/difficulty. It takes effort to analyze books and film, more still to learn a language, instrument, or sport. Effort shows character - determination, courage, patience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/19 09:01 AM