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Where is this…asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:03 PM
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Many people on this forum have admitted to basically not having friends or a social life. All you have to do is go the nearest Walmart and see that most people aren’t that picky 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:04 PM
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I will say this for 20th time on here for average looking guys that can’t get anyone: Groom yourself 👏 Develop a sense of style 👏 Find a hairstyle that flatters your face 👏 Work on your piss poor social skills 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:59 PM
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I’m not sure I even understand the question. Why do women get into relationships knowing sex is important to men? I didn’t realize so many people took these scamming relationship gurus seriously. Here’s a tip that a man told me, never take relationship advice from a man you wouldn’t want to be with or take advice from someone who is struggling in the area you need advice from. Kevin went out bad, 2x divorced, renting a room, and died with a strange woman who may or may not have been a prostitute…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:10 PM
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Yeah I don’t think they understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:02 AM
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Would rather go with a A. This guy most likely is with me because he likes me, not because he had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:13 AM
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At this point in my life, this would be a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:17 AM
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If you say so, I’ve never had one be interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:21 AM
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I think you’re misunderstanding. Women want both sex and relationship. If you’ve read other post from women on here, we’ve told guys repeatedly a lot of us do not orgasm or enjoy sex enough with men we’re not committed to for a variety of reasons. Having sex with a guy that’s not committed to us is risky, also for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:02 AM
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Lol, I’m still seeing people say women are only holding out for top men. I don’t see that at all. What I see most average women holding out for are men that are: Hygienic Somewhat Emotionally intelligent Giving (in all areas) Somewhat attractive What a lot of average men offer: Cheating Selfish (financially and sexually) Little emotional support Laziness around the house and childcare. Where do some of you all get the idea that we can get hot guys to just come over? I’m very average looking with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:43 PM
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If I could upvote this 1000x I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:19 PM
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The truly facially challenged people I know usually get an equally very unattractive person and they usually stick with them. I think it’s because they know other people don’t want them so they settle down quick with whoever is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:51 PM
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Are you average looking? Are you socially awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:56 PM
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I mean getting laughed at or people being mean to you is apart of life. Try meet up groups, parties, friendly get togethers , events around your city.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:33 PM
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I think the issue here is a lot of the men that have trouble with finding appropriate places to meet women are the same men who don’t leave their house much or have any social life. The poster mentioned that it’s frowned upon to join groups with the specific purpose of dating and he’s right. Of course it’s going to be creepy if you only show to play the numbers game. If you attend the meet up group to have fun while once in a while throwing your net out there is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:07 PM
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Same reason really attractive women get want they want from men and then go on to the next one….because they can 🤷🏽‍♀️ They don’t have to settle for someone they don’t really like because there’s always another person that will give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:30 PM
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They hear you, that just rather keep harping on fairness instead of actually establishing want they want and going for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:27 PM
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This is triggering. I can’t stand stuffy nose/snore/congested/deep breathing sound. It sounds so gross. Seems like this went on for awhile and she got disgusted. Doesn’t excuse her behavior though, it’s not like it’s something you can control. No reason for her to call you names like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:33 AM
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I’d assume maybe he prefers women to initiate sex 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:06 AM
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Average woman here. Like a lot of people have commented, the amount of effort it requires to get decent sex is not worth the effort. I don’t have sex with strangers. For me I’d have to go on date after date until I find someone and we hit off. The second part is i now I have to date him long enough to feel comfortable for sex which is about 2 months. During this time there’s probably red flags that I’ll dump him for like the last guy I dated who admitted he was married after a couple of dates. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:04 AM
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You’re right, I notice most of the comments are bringing up a woman’s “hypothetical past” as a way of refuting your point. It doesn’t matter though, just like you said. If you know what you want then go for it. I’ve been ghosted after the 2-3 weeks for not having sex. It’s hurtful but I understand we obviously have different values so it’s for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:31 PM
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I’m somewhat okay with this, as in don’t ask don’t tell. I move slow but I also understand if this guy has not made any type of commitment towards me then he’s free to do as he pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:26 PM
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Now I know you’re exaggerating lol I wonder if men started dating more for quality would they be just as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:12 PM
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My male associates don’t have this issue except my cousin and he flat out refuses to do anything to improve his chances. He doesn’t think he should have to dress decent or improve his social skills so he’s content on being a lonely, bitter bedroom cave troll apparently. You know lowering standards usually doesn’t work. Usually one person becomes resentful and/or leaves the second they find someone else or if that person becomes suddenly inconvenient. Once upon a time, I was settled for and could…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:33 PM
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Nah, I’ve heard enough men complain about their ex girlfriends doing nothing but watching/talking about reality shows or real life drama . For whatever reason it doesn’t seem to be an initial deal breaker for men but it usually is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:23 PM
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My male associates are late twenties and older. Most of them are paired off. They aren’t making lots of money or have model looks. They seem to be decent partners. I’m not sure if it’s because they are around women so much or if it’s just their natural personality but I notice the happily paired guys seem to be more empathetic, responsible and better conversationalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:20 PM
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There a lot of people of both sexes that think with their private parts. I’ll admit to being one of them when I was younger. I could have saved myself a lot of time if I had waited a few more weeks. I find sex early on tends to cloud your judgement and makes it easier to ignore problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:26 PM
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I think we (women) know it’s harder for the average man to get the attention of a woman but what do you want us to do about it? A lot of men present themselves as unkept, poorly dressed, and can’t hold a conversation that interests women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:49 PM
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They know, they just don’t want to put in the work AKA playing the numbers game or making themselves more appealing. It’s all load of BS. The high earning men who should be worried about paying out the ass for child support don’t have these issues. I only hear guys who have barely anything complain about hypothetically losing money to women. Truly if they are that fearful then I absolutely support them going their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:23 PM
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They still won’t admit the real reason they prefer not to get involved with women….because it doesn’t benefit them. A normal guy can get sex outside of a relationship or stay at home and watch porn. If that’s your primary interest in women, why go through the motions of committing..so they don’t. How fast do you think guys would marry tomorrow if they suddenly outlawed porn or premarital sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:54 PM
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Lol, that’s not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:33 AM
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I can definitely see PTSD as being diagnosed as BPD in women. Makes me think of all the women in the past that were diagnosed with “hysteria”…you know, because obviously it couldn’t be stress from oppressive living conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:55 PM
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Fully expect to be more involved in childcare as a woman. That’s about as far as my gender role beliefs go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:02 PM
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I’ll see if I can find the article but it has been Confirmed that we (humans) are even more attracted to attractive people with personality disorders. I think it’s the highs and lows of being with people like that can be addictive. As a woman I can comfortably say I think BPD is severely under diagnosed in women…men…y’all be safe out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:51 PM
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I’m still trying to figure out how we live in gynocentric country. Men on average still make more money and still make up the majority of elite positions. I remember people admitting that they’d never vote for a female president regardless of her qualifications or views in the 2016 election. At my own company, women make up 70% of all employees but hold 45% of all management positions. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:31 PM
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Nah, I pay taxes as a part of a social safety net to help people who can’t help themselves in theory. Children are the responsibility of their parents wether you want them or not. Why should society pay for your responsibilities when you are capable of doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:55 PM
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I have a young relative who fits this description. He’s handsome and when he bothers to bathe and clean himself up he could get plenty of women. He strikes out every time because he gives off creepy and incel vibes. Socially awkward, mad at women, mad at the world etc. I’ve tried over and over again to tell him to get offline, make friends and change his mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:52 PM
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Precisely, I (the taxpayer) do not want to foot the bill because some guy didn’t wear a condom and got some low income woman pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:39 PM
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Yeah, I’m starting to think some of these guys have problems well beyond just getting the woman they want. These terms are ridiculous. Both men and women have provided (in their own way) for their families since the dawn of time. I don’t know many people that would willingly pair up long term with a hot useless person who has to be carried through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:24 PM
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I think this is probably the reason. I, like a lot of women can go years without dates or male companionship of any kind and still be content. I have plenty of female friends and family members who spend time with me and keep me busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:05 PM
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Has nothing to do with getting sex easily. No one wants to feel used or mislead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:28 AM
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Late bloomer woman. I definitely got teased more by other women. A lot of young guys didn’t want to deal with me, they wanted an experienced woman who knew what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:47 PM
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I don’t understand it, what’s so hard about taking a more proactive approach to manage household tasks? Every post on Reddit saying their wife is to tired for sex gets hundreds of replies from women saying start consistently doing more around the house and childcare. They usually ignore it or say I did dishes for a week and nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:37 PM
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That thread….WOW
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:12 PM
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I don’t have kids but I think that’s how child support works, if you agree to 50/50 physical custody you pay nothing or very little. I don’t get it though, a lot these conversations could be avoided if they just went with a part time housekeeper. I know average salary people that have them. Everybody wants free time, you can never get time back or earn more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:28 PM
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Then it becomes a matter of is it worth splitting bills and cleaning up after an extra person on top of my kid or can I just reduce my lifestyle so that I have less work to do and more time to myself with 50/50 joint custody or whatever the custody arrangement is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:19 PM
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I misunderstood. With no children, unless the guy is a complete slob it shouldn’t take that much longer to clean up. I would in theory be okay with doing most of the household tasks. With a baby or small child then you’re definitely setting yourself up for a relationship breakdown if you think you shouldn’t have to contribute any household labor if you earn considerably more. What happens is the woman starts to think what is he here for if I’m doing most of the childcare, working, and most house…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:03 PM
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Right, this makes sense. I get the vibe from a lot of these post that they want their women to pay bills then come home and play servant while they mostly sit on their ass. It also seems like they want to punish her for making less money. Also these same guys will make another post next week asking why women are more likely to end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:11 PM
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This would be ideal yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:52 PM
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Question, so what benefit is it to a woman to pair up with a man who makes a lot more than she does but she still has to split bills and do most of the housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:50 PM
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Yeah them not understanding how they think this is fair or not going to cause resentment. I know some people with high paying remote jobs where they are employed for 8 hours but only work 5-6. That means they would have even more free time than most people period. The easiest thing in the world would be to just hire a part time housekeeper until the kids are old enough to do most of the chores themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:41 PM
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I notice this too. I wonder if this is a coping mechanism women have developed in modern societies for some reason. I highly doubt my foremothers had time or money to make a fuss over their log cabins/huts or constantly create new projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:44 AM
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There have been numerous studies that show attractive people are rated as being better people simply because they look better. Essentially we don’t see their shitty personality until it too late lol. Some people still don’t see it or don’t care, my coworker treats men terribly but they still line up to give her whatever she wants, including the other married guys in our office. I’m not envious though, hate the game not the player 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:28 PM
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I’ve tried to point this out to high earning guys before and they took great offense. Your high salary means jack if you’re cheap, live in an unfurnished place, boring to be around, and average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:06 PM
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I met one very handsome guy who also happened to make great money. His ENTIRE self esteem was wrapped up in his appearance. It was the oddest thing, you’d think winning the genetic lottery and being a high earner would make you feel like you have less to prove. Completely the opposite with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:00 AM
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😂😂😂 Honestly people make things too complicated. I either date for something serious or nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:52 AM
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They are outwardly happier because they are treated better by society, same as attractive men. You’d be surprised at just how insecure some good looking people are behind the confidence they project.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:49 AM
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I think what you’re describing is a situationship. I’m not sure what you mean in your last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:43 AM
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Once, I was friend zoned as a woman, it was humiliating lol. I can laugh at how pathetic I was but it was so embarrassing at the time. However it only lasted a couple days and I got over it. Have been hit with the let’s be FWB after sex, It was dehumanizing and I was angry as hell for awhile. Why go through all the trouble of making me think there was future if you just wanted an organic pocket Pussy. I’d take being friend-zone, it sucks a tad bit less. At least he respected me and enjoyed being…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:01 AM
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Honestly I’ve never thought of this but this can applies to society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:33 PM
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I don’t know. Every proclaimed “nice guy” I’ve known have as many issues as Mr. popular with exception of the looks and they rely on manipulation instead of charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:32 PM
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I think people like that are more dopamine driven, it’s a like a game to them. Keep playing til you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:29 AM
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This is an odd question. I guess it’s the same reason anyone would date a woman of any age…sex and companionship 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:24 PM
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From a woman’s standpoint, the ugly to average guys that have success with women do so because they play the numbers game. Relentlessly hitting on women all day every day. Contrary to what some of these “high value men” tell you. Even they have to put in work, lie and mislead women to get sex. I had one 6 foot, 6 figure man a few months ago that dangled the commitment carrot. His actions did not line up with his words to me so I stopped seeing him. He got real pissed. Not because he wanted me bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:24 PM
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As bad as it is being introverted in america, it’s probably worse for African Americans. Our culture highly favors extroversion and togetherness. I was talked to relentlessly about not being friendly enough as a kid. I was bookish, slightly overweight and got exhausted easily by people. I met a very pretty and popular young woman at work (we are still friends now) that for whatever reason took a liking to me and started inviting me places when I turned 22. At first I was reluctant. Once i starte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:13 PM
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Introverted late bloomer woman. It was hell for awhile when dating when I was younger. The problem is neither introverted men or women leave the house to meet each other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:14 PM
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Nah, they come from reading comments here. Quite a few admit to essentially being hermits with no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:39 PM
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This^
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:20 PM
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From what I’m gathering of this forum, alot of these guys are socially awkwardly and/or just awkward in general and/or young. It would help their self esteem tremendously if they just got out of the house, worked out, get outside hobbies, and make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:15 PM
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Agreed, even outside of marriage I notice men still drag their feet leaving if he doesn’t have another woman lined up to take current woman’s spot. Some are just too cowardly to make the move and risk losing the little stability they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:06 AM
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Brazilian butt lift
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:25 AM
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Yeah, the fake and exaggerated body parts have become very mainstream due to the pop/hip hop female stars and kardashian women in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:14 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:10 AM
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It’s insane looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:37 PM
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I suppose you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:29 PM
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Girl, it was a country music festival in my city last week, I’ve never seen so many BBL’s and contoured faces. It’s getting crazy out here, I feel for anyone raising preteen girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:40 PM
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This is a lot of assumptions. My question was if a lot of men don’t find ordinary women attractive, why is it shocking that a lot women don’t find ordinary men attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:11 PM
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I’m genuinely confused. So I keep hearing men complain about not getting matched on apps and getting turned down in person. In this thread almost every man is saying they only find a handful of women attractive on a daily basis. So what’s the real issue here? You all don’t find most women attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:56 PM
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Wasn’t it socially acceptable in some cultures that upper class men wear light make up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:22 PM
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the beard fishing is incredible. I’ve seen it real time with male relatives. Go from awkward and lame to very handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:21 PM
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No one wants to hear this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:05 AM
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It’s because the male “self help “ gurus are always so hateful and low vibrational. Female self help gurus talk about leveling up financially and physical. Some of them do talk about men buts it’s usually the same lesson: don’t accept FWB and cheap men. Then they go right back to the main topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:58 PM
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My experience dating high earners is they don’t have a lot of time to spend with you. Some women can handle it, a lot of women can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:47 AM
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Damn, that’s a rough life right there. Those Korean pop guys have to be bathing in virgins blood as their skincare routine. You think the singer is 19 and find out he’s 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:54 PM
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Agreed, Post 25 most people show signs of aging except celebrities. I would love it if I could still find a youngish/boyish looking 30 year old man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:52 PM
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I watched some YouTube videos of men getting hair weave installed. Some of them went from looking like a typical middle aged guy to a trendy 30 year old guy. I wouldn’t mind it as long as it looks good. Everyone wants to be confident in their appearance and as much as folks want to deny it looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:47 PM
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The documentary I watched awhile okay, one of the women says “pills”, I’m assuming molly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:34 PM
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Fantasize is way different than performing. Show me a survey where over half the women said they preferred being spit on, overpowered and pushed into sex acts/positions/threesomes they don’t want, hit repeatedly, jackhammered mindlessly then I’ll change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:34 PM
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Technically yes. There’s a whore that rents a house down the street from me that turns tricks for $20 if she’s high enough from I’ve heard 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:20 PM
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I mean it’s just my observation. It appears some seek out Sex as a cure all for low self esteem, validation, stress, and other emotional problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:49 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:12 PM
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I think this is why so many men are emotionally stunted. Relying way too much on sex for emotional fulfillment. Although, there’s a quite a few women that do this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:09 PM
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You may not be there yet but do not make the mistake of thinking most women are into pornified sex. Those women are usually high and get paid to perform those sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:37 PM
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