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winethief/r/Divorce_Men06/10/18 11:55 PM
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Same thing happened to me. I waited a long time to commit post divorce. Just working and raising my kids. Dated a woman for 7 mos and she was just as verbally abusive as my ex wife. I bailed. No thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 12:13 AM
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I feel you. 50/50 and I give my ex 1500/mo for our three kids. I pay 100% of the medical insurance. $1000/mo. I take them to the doctor and the dentist. I’m on the PTA board. Ex and her bf live together and split the bills. She wants me to pay for their weekend sports. She has a housekeeper. Feels completely entitled. You can’t change that. You can only know you’re doing a great job. I have a nice support group in family and friends.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/22 02:55 AM
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We don’t have a morality clause in my decree with my fourth child, which is how I refer to my ex wife. We have three kids between us and my ex is in a relationship. During the most recent winter issue in my state, her boyfriend co slept with my son overnight and I’d never met this person. No clue who or what he is. I made clear to my ex that children should not meet bf’s or gf’s unless it’s very serious and marriage is imminent. She didn’t see it that way and stressed that he would be around whe…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/21 12:52 PM
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Amen
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/20 10:33 PM
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Maybe find a more tactful way of getting your point across. ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/20 08:11 PM
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Yeah I get it. And thanks for the reply. I pay for: Half of everything you have listed here along with all dental and all medical. I other words, I have them half the time or more and I pay for all of the things they need when they are with me, plus all medical expenses and all dental. They’re in my insurance as well. She pays her half when they are with her but no medical or dental. My ex makes less than I do by quite a bit. So my child support really goes to the mortgage she pays on her house …
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/20 11:26 PM
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Thanks for the advice albeit wrapped in an abrasive delivery. I’m sorry for what you’re going through currently. Have a good week.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/20 04:23 PM
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Thanks for that. Makes me feel better. If I’m making significantly more than she is and I should be paying what I’m paying, then I’m fine with it. I just talk to a lot of fathers and even women in my life who say to me, “wow you are getting hosed.” I just don’t know. Obviously I have very little experience with it. I’m commissioned sales with a good base. But my child support knocks out almost a whole paycheck of my base.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/20 12:06 PM
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We have three kiddos between us. I actually have them more of their waking hours than she does. She has them in the morning before school. I have them after school from 3 until she picks them up at 6. Then she has them overnight half the week and I have them overnight second half. We swap weekends and holidays. I pay her $1500/mo!! We decided that in mediation during divorce and I’m nervous to go to the state about it because I’m afraid they’ll just jack it up more. I make double or triple what …
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/20 11:26 AM
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I have 50/50 and I still pay child support. I’m sure y’all do too? I don’t find it fair that I have my kids half the time but somehow my ex deserves some sort of support. Ridiculous.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/20 03:34 AM
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He “broke up” with his ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/20 12:12 AM
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I promise you that your kids will be better adjusted with divorced parents if they can watch you successfully get along and co-parent. Divorce is a fix. If issues continue after the fix, whoever originates the issue is the problem. Divorce is, in fact, an opportunity (every day) to be happy people with happy children. Peace to you guys. I hope you both find that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 06:32 PM
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I have 3 kids. Divorced a year. 50/50. Friends with my ex. Dating someone 7 years younger than she is and I get to spend my own money. Yes, hell yes I’m happier.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/20 08:28 PM
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Divorce should be the fix. If there’s issues after that happens, the person creating the issues is the problem.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/20 02:43 PM
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All holidays? Wtf? Sounds weird, my man. Good luck with it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/20 12:18 AM
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Your revenge will come from how you parent your kiddo like a champ. It will come from how you behave like nothing bothers you. It will come years later when your daughter finds out the reason her parents aren’t together is because her mother can’t keep her legs closed. This is a VERY long game. Trust me. I’m in this boat and my ex is already regretting. Take. The. High. Road. Make that a reminder on your phone every day.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/20 11:59 PM
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Boy ain’t THAT the truth.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/20 11:55 PM
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Spread hope! Not the flu!
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/20 03:59 AM
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What a disgusting racist.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/20 09:26 PM
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Divorce attorneys can become rivals and there’s a lot of hate there. Do you happen to know of a divorce attorney who fucking hates her? Call him/her and add them to your team. He may work pro bono or for low dough if he/she knows they’ll get to keep her in court and drain HER bank account.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/20 10:42 PM
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Yeah. You should be able to figure out 50/50 and be a more present father to children who need you. If she’s standing in the way of that, it’s something both of you need to address and fix together. No one wants pieces missing in their children’s lives. We all want to raise well adjusted kids to adulthood. She needs to work with you on that level and leave the relationship with you out of that particular equation. It’s hard to do, but at the same time, it’s really rewarding for everyone when you…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/19 07:51 PM
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Same here. 3 kiddos. My ex and I went to a mediator, worked it all out ourselves, became better friends as a result and now we enjoy a kick ass friendship centered around 3 charming kids. I pay $500/kid per month and she’s able to make ends meet with that. We could probably write a book on getting divorced and staying friends. Sure, there were minor bumps but the deal is this: you have the opportunity to make this a good thing where everyone is happy and that’s all anyone really wants. So go do …
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/19 11:21 PM
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How’d it go?
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/19 12:49 AM
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You have an opportunity to look back on this later and be proud of what happened. Take that opportunity. Good luck. God speed.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/19 01:54 AM
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I split from my wife of 8 years. We have 3 kids. We went through a mediator, it was very loving and peaceful. We go to lunch, celebrate our kiddos birthdays together and my ex came over and we made lunch while we did our taxes. I’d never marry her again. She’s not fun to be married to but she’s a great friend and a great mother. She feels the same about me as a friend and a father. You can do this, but you both need to commit one last time to each other. You have a great opportunity here to make…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/19 04:57 PM
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We did mediation. 3 kiddos. 1.5 yrs, 4 and 6 yrs. In TX, an attorney can mediate and represent one of the parties to the state. We did 50/50 and while it’s been an adjustment for everyone and Christmas was a little rough, it’s gonna get better for everyone. Best decision I made, OP. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/18 03:18 AM
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Yep. Eventually your STBX will accuse you of something or she’ll lie about an item you discussed. You’ll need your audio archive handy to bring the hammer down and embarrass her in front of her attorney or the court or the cops. Record everything and keep an accurate journal of your exchanges. It WILL serve you well at some point. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/18 02:35 AM
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Record. Everything.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/18 02:09 AM
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Good luck. I wish you strength, wisdom and peace throughout. Thanks for the reply.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/18 08:08 PM
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