wingedagni Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My boyfriend has been harassed Why do you think your boyfriend needs help? Sounds to me like he's in a pretty good spot. He probably has a crush on his coach, and likes the attention of someone hitting on him. Who wouldn't? He's clearly attracted to the coach, and the coach to him. They share the whole sports thing. They're the same age. What you are doing isn't a red pill at all. You are nagging him. Instead of trying to be better than the guy that your boyfriend has a crush on, you're just trying to somehow keep your boyfri…	/r/altTRP	26/01/19 07:42 AM
6	Bi guys, do you tell people/plates that you like men? What do you say if asked? Confidence matters more than much anything else. Don't parade it about like a pride flag, but don't be ashamed of it either. If you are ashamed of it, that isn't masculine. If you are confident, even in something that most people wouldn't be, that is more masculine. OFC there is a difference in "im bi... I find some guys to be attractive and am okay with entering into relationships with them" and "I am insecure in myself, so I am only attracted to hypermasculine men, where I get off when they tr…	/r/altTRP	13/03/18 10:50 PM
3	Gay guys and spirituality/art There is an interesting part of "The Velvet Rage" by Alan Downs... def worth a read although it's long. Like a lot of the book, it's kinda hit or miss. But there are certainly interesting ideas that he toys with. Replace "fashion" with "art" and I think it fits. "If you’re “out,” you no longer harbor that “dirty little secret” about yourself, but you likely do continue to hide your true self behind the beauty you manufacture. And nobody knows how to create style more than gay men. We decorate th…	/r/altTRP	02/05/17 07:27 AM
4	No one is really gay, just bi or confused. I propose that there aren't any gay men. It simply wouldn't make sense as your sex drive is based off of wanting to produce young and fucking another guy wouldn't lead to that. On top of this any time a "gay" man is seen as attractive such as in porn he is always masculine. There are a lot of things in nature that don't make sense. Or, looking at it another way, maybe homosexuality is a defect of some sort in the brain. That doesn't make it not real. Some people are born with only one leg. The f…	/r/altTRP	26/01/17 12:32 AM
4	Why is it so difficult finding normal gay guys I don't really understand what this means. I gave you a response to your comment. If you want to talk about why you think subjecting yourself to pain for sexual pleasure (masochism) makes you more of a man that someone else, we can have that conversation. But it's kinda clear you don't actually want to defend what you wrote, so instead you make a incoherent personal attack on me.	/r/altTRP	26/01/17 12:26 AM
3	Why is it so difficult finding normal gay guys Eh. First, I was talking in generalities, it dosen't apply to every case. Second, the only thing that needs to bigger about you in order to take a huge cock is your asshole. The guys into fisting aren't "more of a man" that someone with a regular ass. Third, pain is a completely separate issue. Some people get off on pain, and I get that... but that isn't part of this discussion. You aren't more of a man that someone else if you happen to be a masochist to some degree. That is neither a masculin…	/r/altTRP	25/01/17 04:05 AM
1	Why is it so difficult finding normal gay guys A change of of opinion, or indeed a change of anything is neither good, nor bad. I disagree. It means that you are learning more, which is a good thing. It means that you are open to change, which is a good thing.	/r/altTRP	25/01/17 04:01 AM
2	Why is it so difficult finding normal gay guys ... by definition any change of opinion is good, as long as it's rooted in truth and fact. And I am not sure that I would say "good" or "bad"... I would say that it will show you that modern gay culture / attitudes are far from the historic norm. I personally view modern gay culture as "bad"... but the book kinda gave me hope that society can shift away from it to a different type of "gay culture".	/r/altTRP	23/01/17 09:24 PM
7	Why is it so difficult finding normal gay guys Several thoughts. One is that historically there is a difference between tops and bottoms. Tops were mostly considered (even in the community) as "regular men" who were just looking for sex. The bottoms were the effeminate guys, taking on the female role. And look... I hear you now... "what a dated opinion". And sure. But there is a lot of truth in it. Even the physical act says a lot. One is (typically) more domineering, more assertive, more aggressive. Those personalities are the ones that wil…	/r/altTRP	23/01/17 08:26 AM
1	I think TRP strategy consists of a plateau straight TRPers naturally work past where we gay men fail Very interesting, I need to think about it more, so I apologize for the rambling. As a bi guy (top only, don't like bottoming), I do the "masc for masc" thing mainly to weed out the ultra effeminate gay guys that are stereotypes of themselves. If I am going to be with a guy, it's because I enjoy masculinity. If I wanted a feminine partner, I would look to a woman. (they do it better) (sub note... the highest praise I can give a woman would be that she is "graceful". I have never met a man (gay o…	/r/altTRP	03/01/17 02:51 AM
2	Victim Orientation Lol, yeah. One of my female friends found out that I am bi, and immediately (within a week) mentioned that we should go to a lady gaga concert AND told me to come over and help her dye her hair. Nope and Nope.	/r/altTRP	16/06/16 11:36 PM
1	Victim Orientation I mean, it hurts me more when they are hateful about it. Which is a really stupid thing to say, and I never thought that I would be saying it... but I really thought that once I "came out" about liking men that I would get acceptance in the community. Quite the opposite happened. I now feel like I have to hide part of myself around gay people. On the up side, every single one of my straight friends was cool with me coming out, and I feel a lot better around them.	/r/altTRP	16/06/16 11:34 PM
1	Victim Orientation Homosexuals being denied employment or outright fired is a real thing, and that's impactful. Eh. I live in a right-to-work and a right-to-fire state. I agree with those principles. I don't think that homosexual workforce discrimination is enough to warrant protected class status... read the original arguments for the civil rights acts... they lay out the justifications well more than I ever could here. Furthermore, such large strides have been made in such a short time in this regard, there is n…	/r/altTRP	14/04/16 01:56 PM
1	Victim Orientation the definition of the word itself is nebulous and more or less an invented term for people who are attracted to the same-sex. and, well, good-luck drawing lines neatly there with regard to peoples desires, affections, preferences, etc…. Eh. I have had so many gay people tell me that I really am not bi, I am gay. And that being bi is lying to myself and hurting the community. In many people's minds in the LGBT community, there is only gay vs straight. Anyone in between is just transitioning to be…	/r/altTRP	13/04/16 05:29 PM
3	Victim Orientation Gay men lobby hardcore to be a protected class. They are in ~20 states in the US. They want to live in a world where they are universally accepted for being gay. They go insane when people disagree with them or their lifestyles, but they have no problem disagreeing with other people's lifestyles and choices. Look at the "problems" the gay community has. A shitty small bakery won't customize a cake for them, so they drive them out of business. A photographer dosen't feel comfortable taking pictur…	/r/altTRP	13/04/16 05:24 PM
2	Mississippi Mishap and the Victim Complex And I get (and in theory agree with) all those arguments. They are very eloquently laid out in the civil rights legislation discussions. Using those arguments, however, would never put you in a position where gays were afforded protected class status. If all you can find is one pizzaria in an entire state (reporters literally cold called businesses until they found one, and then created the media event around that) that won't cater an event... you are fine as a group. In the case of handicapped …	/r/altTRP	07/04/16 08:41 PM
2	Mississippi Mishap and the Victim Complex The free speech argument is one I've always though was clever. Though if I recall, the photographer that employed that defense lost. The judge ruled that a product is not speech or some such. Photography has been declared by the supreme court to be speech several times. The act of creating something that sends a message is speech. “In deciding whether particular conduct possesses sufficient communicative elements to bring the First Amendment into play, we have asked whether [a]n intent to convey…	/r/altTRP	07/04/16 06:02 PM
1	Mississippi Mishap and the Victim Complex Still, the fight is perpetuated because it maintains the gay man's status as a victim. Agree 100%. We are in an age where reporters are calling every business in a state to find a single one that will "discriminate", and they make it news. (The pizza place was the only one they found). They are looking for people to victimize them. There are real problems for the gay community to address (youth homelessness, drug use, STD's)... but no one wants to focus on these, because they require actual work…	/r/altTRP	07/04/16 05:56 AM
3	Mississippi Mishap and the Victim Complex This is in response to a few cases of wedding related businesses not wanting to sell cakes or officiate weddings for same sex couples. Just to be clear, most of these cases are about customizing a cake, not selling one. There is a difference between selling someone a cake that they already made, and creating a wedding cake for a cause that they don't support. It's the same with the photographer case... they weren't rejecting photographing something because the client was gay, they were rejecting…	/r/altTRP	07/04/16 05:43 AM
3	Women's "Ideal" Body Types Throughout History In some classical painting / thought, fatness was a sign of wealth (you had enough money to eat)... so the plump women were really displaying "rich" women. Thin people were too much more associated with disease and poverty. Or so I have heard.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/16 03:14 AM