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if someone asks directly about money, theres a good chance i'll say its noneofhergoddambusiness. if it comes up naturally, i just waaay exaggerate. like "yeah i have my own island with a mansion and a tiger on a gold leash." if i'm dating someone for more than a month or so, then i'm probably just straight with them and say that i make a lot of money.
/r/seduction04/01/14 01:25 AM
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Talk to everyone. I literally created this account to say that, about a year and a half ago. It is the most important thing I learned here, and it made a difference in my life relatively quickly. To elaborate: To me, "talk to everyone" means that in any interaction in which it is not extremely inconvenient for me to have a conversation with another person, I will launch that conversation proactively and with a smile on my face. It means that I acknowledge the awkward boundaries that separate peo…
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:01 AM
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This could be internalized social demonization of sex. You know slut-shaming? Society does it with men as well as women.
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:55 PM
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The last thing this subreddit should do is convince you that your most natural and self-interesting behavior is "not alpha."
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:37 PM
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I own my own REI business you are not boring. owning and running a business is fucking interesting. good start. I don't know how to show him doesn't matter. stop worrying about how to show him, just focus on that OTHER THING that is not him. you can't force someone to want you, but you can develop the things that make you awesome and attractive.
/r/seduction23/01/13 01:21 PM
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SHE'S BUSY.
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:39 AM
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"Focus on your dreams" doesn't mean "spend all of your time doing things that have nothing to do with girls." It means that your personal story needs to include things other than girls. Fortunately for you, it sounds like your story already does include things other than girls! So now, you should spend time increasing your social capital by learning how to talk to girls. This is done by talking to girls. Go approach.
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:34 AM
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Do you have interests other than him? Yes --> Explore them for a while. Your genuine enthusiasm/excitement is probably infectious, and could woo your bf. Or a cooler guy. No --> You're boring. Be more interesting. Shoving your box in his face is a bad idea.
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:29 AM
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Nice FR. I want to point out that even if this ended one paragraph early, you're still doing great, and it sounds like you're learning. Approaches based on genuine excitement to learn from others. Zounds!
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:25 AM
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What's the "I'm going to text you naughty things" maneuver you spoke of?
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:48 AM
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Possible Explanations: She is blowing you off. Move on immediately. You are not giving her enough notice. Ask further in advance. Or just move on. You asked if she's free. Don't do that. You don't care if she's free. You don't care if she shows up, because you're outcome-independent. So tell her you're going somewhere, and give her the information that she is welcome to come, or even that she should come. Or, if you're not outcome-independent, then give up, because you have oneitis. Move on.
/r/seduction22/11/12 05:24 AM
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Are you asking whether you're good enough for her in spite of your crappy job and living arrangement? Better question: is she interesting enough to hold your attention in spite of being young? Is she good enough for you?
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:37 AM
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We have that in common.
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:34 AM
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You should rename your reddit account alienatesSubscribersBeforePointIsMade
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:32 AM
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Shut the fuck up. You are hilarious.
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:31 AM
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Solid point.
/r/seduction24/08/12 11:54 PM
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I don't have advice, but I do have feedback, which is that you're doing great. You're making progress, which is more than I can say for an AFC. Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:00 AM
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Try to f-close while talking like a little boy
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:57 AM
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Well since you haven't come back to say your theory, I thought I'd posit mine: Seduction and Pickup have a horrible reputation. Being associated with them is scary. I know that when I first started checking out Seddit I would go on Incognito mode and log out of any accounts I was in, just because it made me feel dirty. And even now when I feel no conscious shame about it, I still have an alternate account for it, just to cover my tracks, as it were. Even anonymously over the internet, even in th…
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:32 AM
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Think of it this way: this subreddit threatens to speak frankly and genuinely about the mechanics of social interactions. People with naive social power -- that is, people who don't understand social interactions, but naturally have good social skills, which is the vast majority of people with social power -- depend on an uninformed electorate of sorts. I'm here for purely selfish reasons, and I don't have any illusions about that... but the haters hate Seddit so hard because it defies their rea…
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:26 AM
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This is why I love this subreddit. Very clever, SinSlayer.
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:12 PM
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tl;dr: dm;hi
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:04 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:01 AM
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"Talk To Everyone" is an exaggeration, in the sense that there are people who it is appropriate not to talk to, e.g. a person who is 100 ft away from you across a crowd. The thought behind the principle is that you shouldn't disqualify anyone from conversation just because you don't want something from them (even if that thing you want is something nice like friendship). Many people will not approach others without a goal.
/r/seduction23/08/12 03:51 AM
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absofuckinglutely. For the curious, Dale Carnegie wrote "How to Win Friends and Influence People," which, like r/seduction, has a horrible title that might make you think it's about deceiving people, but in fact is mostly about how to improve your social skills.
/r/seduction23/08/12 03:47 AM
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He specifically said he got a weird look from his potential employer for his interaction with the receptionist. No, I said I got a "what planet are you from" look, like a she is very surprised that I was able to develop a bond with the receptionist that quickly. Is it normal to interpret that as, "Wow, this guy is so friendly and personable. How does he do it?" I don't care if it's normal. That's how she interpreted it. I explained earlier that she had mentioned that I had good social skills. Th…
/r/seduction22/08/12 09:28 PM
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I suppose you could question the story I'm telling, but I dunno who else is going to provide better testimony. I had the long conversation with the receptionist a couple hours before I came by again with the head-of-department; by the time we came around again it was just old friends catching up. The head of department's "what planet are you from" face was marked with a grin, and after the "we're friends now" comment she laughed and had a big grin on her face. You're reading awkwardness into it …
/r/seduction22/08/12 09:25 PM
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This is hilarious, so upvotes to you my friend, but what I was actually feeling when I said it was: "Oh you didn't realize I had already made friends with the receptionist? Well let me update you on the situation: I already made friends with the receptionist."
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:18 PM
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Or in my case, by a shy, introverted, unpopular, short, mousy boy as a reply to something obvious
/r/seduction22/08/12 02:20 PM
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Basic things about the environment. In this case that included the office building, which was a bit hard to find; some of the art on the walls; things on her desk and in her area that I didn't have to be looking for to notice. The city. I'm new to the city, so I had things to ask her about with respect to this new place. Comfort subjects. How long she worked there, how long she's been in the city, where she went to school, etc. Long before these things were exhausted, she had started volunteerin…
/r/seduction22/08/12 02:18 PM
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Double duh dude, I wouldn't have posted this if I didn't already get the offer. :)
/r/seduction22/08/12 12:58 PM
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