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What does this have to do with anything written in this post? Are you not familiar with cost-benefit analysis???? Just how dense are you? I’m almost certain you’re a 12 yr old now. Only dumb women vet men based on whether they pay for stuff or spend money on them. Again, how dense are you? It’s as if you can’t comprehend larger points. A man’s financial status is generally an indicator of his skills, competencies, and abilities. He’s likely able to compete, procure resources, and provide financi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:05 AM
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I don’t know if you’re being disingenuous or just immature and bitter. But I’m referring to the fact that, biologically, women bear more risk in sexual relationships with men. This is something most women understand naturally. Therefore, women almost unconsciously vet for a man’s ability to protect and provide for her and their offspring. This is why women tend to go for men who are physically dominant, socially skilled, financially secure…and any other values that suggest a strong ability to ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:15 AM
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Pretending you don’t understand (or trying to invalidate) this basic biological concept is unbecoming. Just say you can’t attract the women you want (or afford to date them) and move along. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:32 PM
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Totally agree. But most men who are struggling won’t admit what you have…it’s usually women are damaged goods by 30 while men are aging like wine. But in reality, if a person is attractive and takes good care of themselves, they’ll mostly remain attractive. And if a person is unattractive, they’ll mostly remain unattractive. And men and women alike experience a decline in vitality as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:23 PM
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I believe it depends on the woman and her values.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:52 PM
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Thank you. Most men peak physically in their 20’s. And because most men were never attractive to begin with, they just start looking like uncles by their 30s (softer bodies from muscle loss, stiffness, leathering skin, hair loss, etc.) I understand they must cope so I usually ignore it, but that narrative that only women “hit the wall” is so tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:23 PM
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Isn’t that normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:42 PM
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😆 I’m in my early 30s. I am and have always been attracted to “the man” just very few of them. And I have a healthy libido. I enjoyed great sex with my ex. I’ll put it brutally: Most men do not have genetics I want. Only a small minority do. I was watching an old Tom Cruise movie recently, I was so aroused watching him, I masterbated for weeks imagining his physical beauty alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:23 PM
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I was always surprised men weren’t discreet about their involvement with redpill. As a woman and from the outside looking in, it was always obvious the redpill is made up of dejected men. No matter the language used, it’s obvious they are hurting which I don’t see anything wrong with in and of itself. But I also noticed that the men who gravitated towards the redpill tend to lack accountability, have abusive personalities, and/or are quick to blame other ppl for everything. Then you realize they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:41 AM
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It’s nice knowing a man actually understands this. For me, looks are the qualifier, then everything else is based on his personality (energy, mindset, values, beliefs, behaviors, way of communicating, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:46 AM
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I was just saying this exact thing in another post and how it seems to be a big issue. I’ve been celibate for over 3 years and feel I could easily go for another 10. I do meet men I am attracted to but it is painfully rare. I got concerned and had my hormones tested and they are fine. I am not gay either. I just do not find the vast majority of men to be physically or emotionally attractive at all. I realize that across all species in the animal kingdom, females are the choosier sex. So, I’m not…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:29 AM
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Most women are naturally feminine. But if our environment, in whatever way, never supported that then we develop our masculine energy in order to survive it. Obviously survival is a positive thing. But, for a woman, maintaining masculine energy for a prolonged period of time is exhausting, feels horrible, and attracts men who are in their feminine and need strength, like a woman typically would (ex. OPs boyfriend). To undo this, I clarified what my healthiest self feels like (calm, relaxed, pres…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 01:38 AM
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Heads up: your relationship will not succeed and will likely implode. He is not masculine enough. Men who are not masculine enough experience compatibility issues with most women. For obvious reasons…feminine energy women desire and compliment masculine energy men, and vice versa. They balance each other. So, if you’re a woman with a lot of masculine energy, you will repel men with a high degree of masculinity themselves and attract men with a low degree of masculinity (like your bf). Ppl resist…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/25 04:50 PM
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Yeah, I never understood that. The # of sex partners a man has have no bearing on his desirability in my book. The biggest and longest crush I’ve had was on a virgin, I’d never respected a man more in my life. And his body was crazy 🤤. I’m turned off by a man who has a high number of sex partners. I’m scared he has emotional issues and/or would give me diseases or something. A man with a low body count has always been a green flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:18 AM
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Idk if you’re boring…you made me laugh w/ this post. It was entertaining. The irony is, if you were this blunt/honest with them, they would probably remain interested.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/24 07:14 PM
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I found his response absolutely pathetic. I almost puked reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:31 AM
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How is my natural wiring…wrong? What’s wrong with being attracted to men who express healthy genetics? And not being attracted to men who don’t? It’s a evolutionary trait we all have as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:40 AM
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+- 5 years is my sweet spot too. I can expect enough relatability, chemistry, and connection with ppl in that range. I usually start sensing disconnect with men 10 years apart from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:13 PM
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Wrong? Apparently it’s normal. Most women find the vast majority of men ugly. But I do experience attraction to men…when they’re attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:46 PM
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And the natural order forced men at the top to not be greedy because the men at the bottom who greatly outnumber them would simply kill them and take their women. That’s what happens with most mammals. That’s not what’s happening though…the men at the top are being greedy, according to men 10% of men are enjoying 80% of women or something similar to that. And the men at the bottom who outnumber them aren’t killing or taking anything…they’re just online whining and arguing with the women and have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:21 PM
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Yes, this is the one of the big reasons I deleted Tinder. Just seeing all of the unattractive men turned me off so bad. It seemed worse than real life and made me realize I did not belong on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:10 PM
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Many men constantly promote the idea that they should “exercise their options”, “ they aren’t supposed to be monogamous”, and they should have a “roster” etc. Not realizing they’re average af and is any given woman’s 67th pick. These conversations and teachings are all over any social platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:03 PM
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This is actually the natural order of things without the regulation of monogamy. The 1:1 pairing system was meant to help average men and ensure they had options or at least a chance of getting something by forcing women to apply down the ladder for an ‘available’ man. This is why I cringe when average men promote infidelity, it interrupts a system that was meant to help them. Polygamy would not look the way they think it does. It would look much like what you described. If women weren’t forced …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:26 PM
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Love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:54 AM
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Obviously Tom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:11 AM
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So many questions and projection here: 1. How can men want to feel useful, but constantly complain about being used? 2. How does a woman who’s less experienced translate to respect or admiration? 3. How does naivety translate to respect or admiration? 4. Who likes man whores? I personally respect promiscuous men the least and am turned off by them (thirsty, weak, greedy, no discipline, morals, reckless, careless with their seed, making bastards, likely has STDs…). 5. If men exchange respect for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:06 AM
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Why? If you didn't have to work, you wouldn't. So why are you jealous of people who can earn a living easily? What's wrong with that? Misery really does love company.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:01 PM
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Why would you want it to ruin influencers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:58 PM
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Why would you want to end the influencer career?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:57 PM
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I go to the gym 5 days a week in a major city. It's full of middle aged men and none of them are physically attractive to me. And these are the men who actually try to keep themselves in shape, yet they still don't compare to the college aged guys. Even Leonardo D is a bloated, sloppier version of his former heart throb self. If most men are not even half as attractive as him, I never knew why they thought their fate would be any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:55 PM
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Right? It sounds fucking horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:28 AM
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Why would being an influencer or content creator make a woman unattractive. It’s a legitimate career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:09 PM
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Omg, I don’t know why I bothered responding to your comment at all…it was hardly relevant to begin with. You’re clearly dealing with something(s) and need to talk to an actual professional…not take it out on people on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:14 PM
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What? You said you can’t wait till it’s acceptable for men to “speak their truth” Have men not been voicing their honest thoughts and feelings? Have men not used that as an excuse to be misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:25 PM
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Oh well..join the club? This is not new for women. Women have always experienced these “consequences” as a woman’s value is and has always been dictated by her “sexual value”…as determined by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:03 PM
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Men have certainly been doing that and it’s been horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:31 PM
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So men don’t mind fake/performative interest from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:56 PM
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I think women know their weight matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:29 PM
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Your example isn’t equivalent though. The equivalent example is my thesis: “Men complain that average women who believe a Chad wants to settle down with them are foolish. Well, old men who believe much younger women naturally desire them are no different. Both groups are exploited for their delusion.” Me nor any of my friends actually desire older men, we’re into men our own age. Men do not remain attractive to women, indefinitely. And certainly not older men to much younger women. I just think …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:37 PM
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Yes, of course. But pill communities sell men the idea that they will be attractive to women indefinitely. And as a woman, and according to many women on this post, that’s just not true. Men “age out” of the dating market too. And I wish older men (especially since they know it’s true) would tell guys that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:56 PM
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Amal is 44, George is 61. When they met, he was considered old. But George Clooney is an an exceptionally attractive man with top tier genetics, so he’s aging exceptionally well. He’s also talented, high profile, charismatic, rich… But if these were average people, then yes, her ability to rebound would be better than his. Edit: Yes, straw man, a rare case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:47 PM
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😂 I laughed at the utter lack of dignity too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:41 PM
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Lol nice straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:40 PM
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Yeah, I agree. The stripper story and mansion story was to show that desirable women will entertain the older guy, sure. But who she was choosing to be with (going out, posting on social media, spending money and quality time) was her peer. And I don’t think men realize that women naturally prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:35 PM
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Precisely this. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:27 PM
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I’m not trying to “get back” at anything and my intentions were pure. Pill communities shop the idea that men attract women indefinitely, and that’s just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:24 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:09 PM
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Precisely. Every point. And it’s no surprise that you’re a woman. It’s just the truth lol None of the girls I graduated high school with are with men < 5 years. Some younger guys will miss their best chance to enjoy youthful relationships by thinking they can just wait and women will want them indefinitely as they get older; and older men will keep getting dumped when younger women decide they’re done with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:39 PM
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Yes, exactly. Women consider men our own age, initially. But if there are no available options (maybe they’re immature and mean to us or the highest value girls are with the most put together guys in our peer groups) we start skipping over guys our own age. But if more young guys actually matured, then they would be the preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:14 PM
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If you’re having better luck in other countries…why not just go, stay, and live your life? Being a PB doesn’t make you more attractive to “WEstErn wOMen” as many women really don’t care. So, I don’t understand why PBs need everybody to know they’re leaving. Or why they have to respond to criticism. There are people who find it pathetic, (most) people who don’t care, and people who support it. Do what’s best for you. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:45 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:47 AM
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Mmkay. I wouldn’t say women don’t have standards for a relationship/guy they really like. If I really like a guy and want a relationship with him, I vet him more extensively because the commitments I’d be willing to make to him are permanent/greater. Many women do this. It’s no different than men. But, I guess experiences vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:42 AM
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So how is that any different from women having rules for men they want relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:26 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:19 AM
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Why would men put rules on the women they do like? What kind of rules do they put on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:08 AM
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Only the parent comment was valid. The argument was that women desire men who have more than them. Initially, I rolled my eyes at this post as this is such an obvious and redundant point. It’s nothing new. So I upvoted the parent comment for pointing out ”it has always been this way.” Yes, women prefer men who are steps ahead of them…because women seek men who are dominant to them: it’s a basic evolutionary adaption. But then the other guys comment made no sense: that women offer nothing. If tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:09 PM
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I use the term incel to describe mentally stunted, neurodivergent, bitter, frustrated, and otherwise undesirable men; men women don’t want. Men will fuck anything so that’s not saying much. And if he is, why is he so angry? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:06 PM
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Spoken like a true incel. Most healthy men realize that both genders have their burdens. The men who struggle with women resent theirs and it’s obvious to women. But please, continue making men look broken and disgusting. Edit: You edited your comment to add “Drip and dip. Bang and boot.” 😂 You are NOT ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:26 PM
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If a woman wants a man who is steps ahead of her…wouldn’t that mean she’s offering less? If she were offering more, he wouldn’t be “ahead of her”…right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:16 PM
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Do you think they were ever there to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:37 PM
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Can I ask, if a man came to you asking for help…if a house was burning down and group of men were standing by, and a man asked for your help, would you think he was entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:23 PM
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