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Asking for phone records from post-separation is harassment. If she has already harassed people you have called you have an argument to quash. Otherwise you’re likely stuck even though it’s stupid.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 12:18 AM
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Deal with this drastic change by running in the other direction. A two-year-old is part of what you are.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 11:31 PM
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In some states, when adultery is the cause of the separation, the person committing adultery is ineligible for alimony
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 10:12 PM
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No it’s not weird to keep them, and it’s not weird to get rid of them. If you’re splitting amicably I would keep half of the originals, and give her the other half and make copies. The low-grade harassment is either her being a control freak or simply not letting go.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/25 06:04 PM
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Alimony can be awarded from your separate estate in some states. Loose lips sink ships.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 04:18 AM
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I understand clerics are also JPs so sacramental marriages are also recognized by the state.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 03:49 AM
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Take the deal if she’s a reasonably good parent. Be sure you lawyer up before making any major moves or moving out or signing anything.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 01:13 AM
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This! First, right out of the gate, she told me she still loved me and suggested a "dating divorce." No thanks. She had just filed a week before. Second, her lawyer deposed me in two sessions totaling almost seven hours. The amount of money burning in that room for a no fault divorce (three lawyers, guardian ad litem, paralegal, court reporter) that went to trial two weeks later was outrageous, so I gave her a couple "what the f---?" looks. She twice shielded her face so her lawyer couldn't see …
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 09:17 PM
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Interfering in her life keeps you in her life. Do you want to stay in her life? The less you interfere, the quicker you get out of her life.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 12:33 AM
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Consult your lawyer. Protect the identity of your new honey. Keeping new belles/beaux away from kids for x months can be put in your divorce decree. Personally I don’t think I’d say anything, unless you get along extremely well and are still under the same roof (obviously don’t entertain at home). Marriage license, even in spite of 16-month separation, gives STBX undue control/power.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 09:39 PM
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If you have a lawyer, they may have mishandled you by not getting a promise to refi from your ex, which is standard. This is a very common mistake by people representing themselves in divorces. But I have not heard your lawyer’s side of this. Yes, ex can wreck your credit if you don’t fix this. And there may be no way to fix it
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 11:24 PM
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You might do better than you think, i.e. alimony. Divorce is not designed to leave the less advantaged partner out in the street. You must have been a house husband. Consider the opposite. What if the ex-wife was in your position, and you in hers? Would the court deny her alimony? (Answer: no way!) Consult a divorce lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 06:45 PM
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You’re going have to do one of the things that she wants, even though it’s unrealistic to expect you to completely overhaul your career. The situation is perfect for counseling. That’s what the counselor is gonna tell you. Hopefully he /she will have a private and very candid discussion with her and explain the facts of life. A man that expects a woman to overhaul her career would be considered controlling. The reverse is also true.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 09:13 PM
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Marriage (and even more so, divorce) elevates the less advantaged partner financially. Which is why 90% of the time divorcing women with advanced degrees are the filers. The sexes are created equal. Fault evens out between men and women. Men hesitate to file because they are penalized. Women usually file because they are incentivized.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 01:50 AM
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Sorry. “Breadwinner”=man, except when in fact the breadwinner is a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 12:47 AM
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Domestic relations courts have undermined the institution of marriage by instilling a process that cleans out the breadwinner financially and prevents both partners from ending the relationship with dignity. This encourages years of overwrought finger-pointing and playing the “victim card.” This discourages otherwise worthy prospective breadwinners who know better from leaving as quickly as they should or making that mistake again.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 08:47 PM
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If STBX was pregnant when you married her, there may be a presumption of child support owed. If the child was born before you married and you did not father her, you probably owe no child support (and nor will you have visitation rights). These situations are fact sensitive. Consult with Florida family law lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 07:48 PM
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Sounds as if she’s into you and feels (operative word, “feels” —it’s a woman) as if the emotional support is a one-way street. There’s not enough information here to tell if it could become a healthy relationship or not. It doesn’t sound, though, as if she brought her concerns to you in a respectful way.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 05:25 AM
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Get your valuables and sentimental items out immediately
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 02:04 AM
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