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Strong Independent Womanwinteryknight/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 03:34 PM
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I had already let Deep Strength know by e-mail.
/r/RPChristians22/07/22 09:36 PM
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If she's been choosing no-commitment bad boys when she had a choice, that's what she really wants. Whoever she settles for will not get any respect... he's not what she is attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 03:56 AM
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Thank you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 12:05 AM
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The reason I submitted this is because she is 38, wants kids, and made her career her passion for the last several years. My goodness, I have had a long career in computer science, and my career was never "my passion". Ministry was - specifically, Christian apologetics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 09:05 PM
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I did not even notice that, good catch. I would have underlined it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 12:09 AM
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Not good for girls either, but especially not for boys, because they won't find many male role models in the schools.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 04:03 AM
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I am optimistic about this. The national debt is $29 trillion, and rising. Eventually, interest payments on the debt will crowd out discretionary spending. At that time, they won't be able to afford all the social programs that encourage women to have children outside of marriage. I would just recommend to everyone that they save money now, because you don't want to be working for 50% after taxes.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 04:02 AM
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If you read Stephen Baskerville's "Taken Into Custody", the family law system has every incentive to break up families. That's how they get paid - by dragging out the process.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 04:00 AM
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I'm not going to be shamed into signing up for a bad deal. Yet they seem to be incapable of looking at things from a man's perspective. They just resort to screaming "man up" louder, rather than deal with the evidence.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 03:59 AM
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Gentlemen, I am here to read your comments on my blog post. Thanks to f4z3ultr1x for sharing. Thank you all for reading, whether you agree or not. You guys might also like this one that I did recently: https://winteryknight.com/2021/10/15/pro-abortion-feminist-academic-justifies-divorcing-the-man-she-loved/ And if you like studies, this one: https://winteryknight.com/2021/10/10/are-feminists-right-to-think-that-gender-neutral-marriage-makes-women-happier-3/
/r/MensRights27/10/21 03:56 AM
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LOL!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 03:14 AM
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I'm frightened for our nation because so many impressionable women just become passionate about whatever causes the cultural elites tell them to be passionate about. Speaking as a man, these things are not helpful for wife and mother roles. If women want husbands, maybe they should be passionate about the things that men care about, e.g. - Constitutional government, so we can actually keep our earnings and run our homes as we see fit. I don't want my life run by progressive social engineers fund…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 04:46 PM
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Takeaway is how UK people say "take out food".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 05:12 PM
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It's negative value. They spend FOUR YEARS on a non-STEM idoctrination in anti-male, anti-marriage attitudes. Then they delay marriage to play the field and pay off those debts. The 20s are the time when men blossom if women marry and support their husbands. A man does not make his own way in his 20s alone, then suddenly hand over his life to a woman who shows up with entitlement and contempt. Either you build the man up when it counts for him, or you get nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 09:07 PM
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The nice thing about this is that because they emphasize education and career so much, that they will end up being the ones that pay for all the social programs that "fix" their loneliness after they hit the wall.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre17/07/21 08:36 PM
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Which religion? What kinds of books does she read?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre17/07/21 08:32 PM
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So you were only kidding, right?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre17/07/21 08:31 PM
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Does more education in a non-STEM field cause women to like male nature more? Does it cause them to trust male leadership more? Does more education teach them how to be sober and chaste, so that they can pair-bond with a husband better? Does more education teach them the importance of a young child having a mother in the home? Does more education improve their finances during their mid-20s, when men might be interested in marriage?) What value (for a man) was gained from 4-years of student loan …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:28 PM
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Very good. A lot of couples have the kids, then place them in daycare and public schools.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre14/07/21 03:28 AM
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You and your wife did well to provide for your children, not just with money, but with wise advice.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/21 03:39 AM
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So her self preparation does have value after all. Well, if God is the one preparing her, then she doesn't have to do anything, does she? She doesn't have to think about how to defend her faith, or advocate for the unborn, or oppose no-fault divorce, or stay out of student loan debt, or practice her parenting skills by mentoring others, or anything. I see this comment as her saying "The reason why I get to read fiction and romance novels and watch romantic comedies is because it's God's job to p…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/21 02:31 AM
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I wanted to add that there was a Christian woman who replied to me on a recent post where I explained what I wanted to achieve with my marriage, and how I had prepared, and how I expected women who wanted the job to have prepared. She wrote: There is nothing wrong with having goals and plans. I am currently in my 30s and single because, like you, look around and do not see a suitable mate. With that said, everything you have said is what ‘you’ have done and not what God has done. If you are look…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/21 01:28 AM
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That's a good framework to get the kids produced, but I'm worried about the whole life - what happens after the kids? I want to be able to appeal to a Constitution that clearly sets expectations that are binding on everyone in the marriage.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/21 12:41 AM
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This is a great comment. Women think that men want women to marry young because they are young and hot. But that's not the case. Men want women to marry when they are young, so that the woman can HELP THE MAN during the most difficult years of his life. His education, his early career. I had to negotiate a legal immigration challenge when I was younger. I had to work 70 hour weeks. I had to save money and get in shape. I could have used the help from a woman then. Now, all the battles have been …
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/21 12:40 AM
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This is a great comment. I just understand my male nature enough to know that what I want and need out of marriage is respect. In order to deserve that respect, I made decisions to do hard things in education, legal immigration, career, and finances. Similarly, I expect that anyone who wants to be my wife will have made similar hard decisions in order to be prepared to help me do the things I want to do with my marriage. But parents and pastors have not prepared women to do those things. The wom…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/21 12:34 AM
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Great comment. They think that commitment is something they are entitled to, and that they can keep it going by just doing whatever they feel like, moment by moment. Ridiculous.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/21 12:11 AM
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Agreed. But I would argue today that Christianity has been taken over by simps who are afraid to challenge women to be better.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/07/21 02:41 AM
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I qualified it by saying young women. I think it's true for the majority of young women. They say they want good men, but the actions are all to prioritize the bad boys.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/07/21 02:39 AM
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I find that so discouraging, but everyone seems to be so concerned about not offending women who make poor decisions. Their children suffer, but we don't care. Throw money at the problem of bad character.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 03:42 AM
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I listened to the whole thing. It was very interesting. The most interesting part to me was when M2C was talking to her about women's words vs their actions. Young unmarried women talk about the need for character, but then their actions are to choose men who show no evidence of having character. Even in her own life, she's got a heavy emphasis on physical appearance. It's clearly what she thinks is most important (based on how much time she spends on it). So, if that is what she is looking for …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 02:47 AM
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I don't think any man should consider marriage if the woman makes clear that he cannot say anything to her unless he affirms her. Can you imagine having all the legal responsibility to provide, but NONE of the authority to lead the home? You'd be a slave.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 02:11 AM
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Getting worse for every group now.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 02:09 AM
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I think people underestimate how important it is for children to learn how to have a "cold blood" stable relationship between the sexes by watching their parents. A mother and father are not in the throes of passion after a few years of marriage. Instead, they have to work at preserving their union every day, by controlling themselves. That's what children learn from two-parent homes.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 02:09 AM
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Agree. People tell me that I can fix whatever problems I find in women, but when I see how they respond to constructive criticism or male leadership, I just don't think it's possible to lead them - even in a positive direction! I once had a girl I was dating who was 21K in debt tell me that she wanted an equal voice in our finances if we married. (We were just dating). I was earning 95K per year at the time and had 600K in the bank. She was raising support to be a missionary while working a mini…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 02:07 AM
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Yes, it's 72%, and what's worse is that it's rising for other groups as the society doesn't have the strength of moral convictions to shame women who do this. A consequence of declining religion?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 02:04 AM
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That was my first time seeing him. Then I watched him take on the On1y F4ns women on Fresh and Fit, and that was awesome.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 02:03 AM
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I agree with you 100%. But as the speaker in the video says, you can't even question single mothers now. Or any women who have been influenced by feminism. I would love to see welfare for single mothers abolished. People do more of what is subsidized, though. At least with charitable aid, the people giving the charity have some influence on the recipient to stop their bad behaviors.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 02:01 AM
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Yes, I got the video from The Roommates.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:59 AM
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On the contrary. I think most people who claim Christianity function as if Christianity were false. They're trying to do what amounts to a non-Christian life plan, with God sort of lurking around as the Cosmic Butler, who will make all the craziness "work out".
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:58 AM
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Yes. If the women produced by our society don't measure up to what the Bible expects of them as wives and mothers, then no one should marry them.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:57 AM
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If you read 1 Corinthians 7, Paul (the author) urges men not to marry. So men staying single is the default position. Then read Ephesians 5, and you find out that women are OBLIGATED to respect their husbands. If I don't find women who show me that they are ready to respect what a husband does (protect, provide, lead on moral and spiritual issues), but instead chase after men who show ZERO ability to be husbands, then I have a license from the Bible to not marry.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:55 AM
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He still knows they would much rather fuck the same guys they did in their 20s even though they want dollars and help raising kids This is the problem. I'm a marriage-minded man. And I know that if a woman chooses a no-commitment man when she is at the peak of her SMV, then commitment isn't her highest priority in a man. It's only safe for a man to commit to a woman who has a response of extreme attraction to what he does. In my case, I have met a handful of women who responded with extreme attr…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:53 AM
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I think the question becomes what worldview a person has that causes them to act against their own self-interest. I don't see how it's possible to have a relationship be stable, unless there is a Constitution to the relationship that makes self-sacrifice rational.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:49 AM
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To me it seems like they see men as another accessory, like a handbag. They aren't looking at a man and thinking, "I really like the way he makes plans and makes good decisions and achieves results" or "I want to be part of his life and support him in what he's trying to do". Those concepts were natural to women 100 years ago. Now they are nowhere.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:46 AM
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What I found weird is that she thinks that the problem is with men. No man would MARRY a woman with that kind of attitude about herself. Men should only commit to women who think that men who commit are superior to men who don't commit.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:44 AM
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I'd feel better if I had confidence that men would stop simping. Why would any man give money to women who don't respect them?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/07/21 01:40 AM
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Thank you from the non-white Christian MGTOW who lurks here. I think it's better to just talk about behaviors we don't like, like having children out of wedlock with a bad boy, not skin color.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 11:17 PM
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Hey Team MGTOW! I'm here, thanking you for reading my article. I'm a Christian MGTOW, although I'm open to being convinced to marry if conditions improved. Right now, it's a bad deal for men. Thanks for reading. I normally hang out at WAATGM, but I joined this subreddit too.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 05:01 AM
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https://www.dailywire.com/news/49772/bachelorette-hannah-brown-over-being-slut-shamed-paul-bois
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/07/19 04:16 AM
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I like this comment a lot. It's like people can't even talk about these things, because it's just assumed people have to "get over" the desire for intimacy.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre21/07/19 05:41 AM
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That's exactly right, according to the research, unless the one partner is the one she marries. And yes, MGTOW it is, unless she has an excellent story to tell, e.g. - "I'm a doctor, and I was in the jungles of Africa until I was 30, as a medical missionary, and I've never kissed a man." Believe it or not, there are woemn with STEM degrees who have been responsible and are still virgins into their 30s, and I'm open to one of those.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre13/07/19 05:54 PM
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Great comment. One could argue that in addition to choosing a questionable major, the decision to conceive a child with a man she wasn't married to was also not putting the child first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/19 10:21 PM
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The more men she's had sex with, the more men the new man will be compared against, and the less chance he has of measuring up.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/07/19 09:49 PM
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It's so strange, because women seem to think that it would be such a good idea if they could just grab control of the relationship and wrest it away from the man they chose, using nagging / tantrums / sex-withholding, etc. But the result is usually that they start to resent the man. The solution, of course, is to choose a man who is a GOOD leader, who actually builds a woman up and gives her useful and meaningful work to do, and supports her in doing it. But that's too boring for most women. I d…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/07/19 04:03 AM
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Yes, there's a difference, but a 22-year-old who is just attracted to me but who isn't interested in marriage and children is still not much use. I am more interested in leading and getting support and respect, and I'm not sure that attraction can deliver all that. My problem for the 22-year-old is this "what was your motivation for sleeping with these 4-5 guys who would not commit?". If a girl is using sex to get attention, but isn't interested in commitment, she still wouldn't be very good for…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/07/19 03:58 AM
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On a side note, this is why I ask women who CLAIM to be Christian how much preparation they have done to counter standard challenges to the Christian worldview, such as atheism, pro-abortion, communism, etc. If they haven't read anything in those areas, then it's a pretty clear sign that their Christianity is "Jesus is my cosmic butler" and their real Bible is their own feelings. Real Christians get concerned about God's reputation and purposes, and they do a little reading to know how to answer…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/07/19 03:08 AM
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I don't think that people make the connection between virginity and self-control, for both sexes. To me, my chastity is intended to communicate to a woman that she won't have to fear infidelity. Yet it seems as if both sexes to disregard the value of self-control, choose people with a high N-count, and then cry victim when they get cheated on or divorced or whatever. To be honest, there are a lot of things that men and women can do outside the bedroom if they really love someone. I think premari…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/07/19 03:04 AM
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I had one woman tell me recently that God's forgiveness made a woman completely suitable for marriage no matter what her past. I said, don't you think that outstanding student loans from her reckless borrowing would remain in place, and wouldn't those affect the man's plan for the marriage, as far as home buying, number of children, etc. She went silent and blocked me. "In part this problem occurs when men lose their ability to be the authority of the house. When society (and it's psycho psuedo-…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/07/19 03:02 AM
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Your second point resonates with me, but I wouldn't phrase it as resentment, because that plays into their hands. I think it's more like "getting to this point as been difficult, and if you had chosen me early on, it would have been easier, and I would have some sense of obligation to you for the help". I like your "value proposition" point in #3 as well. What's so alarming is that you can't even get many women to get outside of their own point of view to consider what men want, especially regar…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/07/19 02:55 AM
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Excellent. This will save me some work!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 02:49 AM
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I agree they might be salvageable for a low N count, as others have said below. But it has to be more than just claiming that you want a different kind of man. Most of the single mother ads I see in WAATGHGM and WATGMA don't admit any mistakes were made by the woman. Instead, the woman just expresses how great she is (because she's funny, and fun, etc. or has met feminist goals of independence) and then expresses a demand for a commitment-man. Nothing about the useful support skills she brings t…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre07/07/19 01:24 PM
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OK. I am just learning! It was 1500 words, so I thought that might be too much. I'll add the link next time.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre07/07/19 01:09 PM
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I think in many cases that is true. However, if the woman has a real change of mind through reading, and it comes out in pro-male and pro-marriage actions, then it would be a genuine relevant change from her previous behavior. The advocacy is important because it's not some fairy tale that she's telling a man. It would be public opposition to her prior feminism.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/07/19 04:42 PM
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Or maybe just a long period of time where she hasn't been chasing casual sex with bad boys, to show that she is serious about controlling herself? What do you think about the book I recommended by Dr. Laura? Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands is a declaration of war against feministy rebellion and disrespect by wives. I really like it. I feel that books like this at least have the potential to teach women what men are really like, and how good we are as husbands and fathers. I think all this ch…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/07/19 04:19 PM
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Yes. I think women feel that relying on their intuitions is somehow more pleasurable or even more reliable than asking questions. Like, their feelings have some connection to the universe such that if they obey their feelings, the universe will reward them by being true to themselves and following their hearts to their "soul mate". The soul mate view is attractive to feelings-driven people of both sexes, because it offers the illusion of a successful relationship, i.e. - a relationship that deli…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 02:59 PM
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No, you're thinking of PCUSA, where the U is for Unbiblical.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 11:56 PM
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Presbyterian Church of America. Something with a liturgy, no musical instruments, and head coverings. That's the only one I can think of, and I've been to lots.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 11:53 PM
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Agreed, it's the woman's job to find one who can.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 11:52 PM
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OK, I don't want to side-track the subreddit, but I think there is a difference between two hypothetical scenarios A & B. A) In the first scenario, the universe exists eternally, and has no creator or designer. Intelligent life emerges somehow, and human beings have two possible understandings of morality. 1) each person decides for themselves what is right or wrong. 2) societies invent moral standards that people in them are obligated to follow. In both cases, there is no objective standard tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 10:16 PM
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Thank you for this honorary endorsement, and I am grateful for your readership. Like I said, WAATHGM is a daily read for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 09:52 PM
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OK, I will work on it this weekend and post something in the WATGMA sister site, and thank you for the opportunity. My goal is to provide all the information from the users in this forum in a package that will be palatable to a larger audience that doesn't see things our way right now. But we will try to make them see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 09:51 PM
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Thank you! I think it's a good idea for men to disregard what women say, because they try to paint a picture of themselves with words. A much better plan is to just look at what actions they've taken. Do they teach classes on apologetics in church? Do they give lectures defending natural marriage? Do they show up at gun rights rallies and pro-life rallies? Do they write blog posts about Thomas Sowell books that they've read? That's a much better clue as to their real personality than anything th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 09:47 PM
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Hey guys, I'm the author. Thank you for the comments, and for reading the post. I think I got the story for this post out of the WAATGM subreddit. What I thought was interesting about this lady is her interest in marriage as a means of making herself happy, and helping her out financially. As a serious Christian, I'd only be interested in marriage if the marriage produced some sort of return for God. As a man, it's my job to lead the relationship to produce that return, e.g. - raising influentia…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 02:57 AM
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What is wrong with this!!!!!? It's relevant because it shows that she doesn't commit to anything long enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 02:20 AM
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Hello, gentlemen. My reasons for no premarital sex are strictly from peer-reviewed research: http://winteryknight.com/2018/10/30/new-study-virgins-have-happiest-marriages-more-sex-partners-means-more-unhappiness/ http://winteryknight.com/2019/04/30/study-couples-that-delay-sexual-activity-experience-higher-quality-relationships-2/ Basically, marriage isn't worth it for me if it isn't stable, since that's what is needed to raise influential, effective children. So, I do the things that I have to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 02:09 AM
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Hey everyone, I wrote the post. This is my favorite Reddit sub. It's actually the only one I read. Thanks for linking to my post. I'm a little different than most of you in that I am non-white, a virgin, and a strict evangelical Christian MGTOW. I do have a plan to write another post about those hysterical dating ads that you guys post from women who wasted their 20s on bad boys, then want marriage-as-financial-security when they hit 35. I want to get a list of all the most common features of th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 01:49 AM
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