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| 15 | Can anyone provide resources on the original premise of Feminism (e.g. anti-family, etc)? | Feminism | wispo-wills | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 05:05 AM |
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| 1 | Reddit Censorship, TRP & RPWHow does Telegram work for a group setting? I'd like to have a space like this but more in a more readily available chat format. I've only used Telegram for private one on one conversations. How many members are in the telegram chat? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 9 | do we have more power over men than we think we do?You worded this perfectly. I tend to hear people lamenting that "women only pick assholes/bad boys" - yes many do but this is in their pursuit of finding a man who won't easily yield power to women. They reject the "nice guys" because those guys give too much of themselves away, which is extremely unattractive. It's unfortunate that these women choose the abusive guy who doesn't care about them, but it's clear what they actually want underneath that. It's vastly more impressive when a man can re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Forming a surrendered circleI have Telegram but I've never used it outside of private messaging. How does it work? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/22 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Forming a surrendered circleThere's always Discord, right? I'd love to join a Discord community for this topic. Right now, I only have a Men's Rights and Men's Mental Health server that is....pleasant in some ways, but doesn't hold the right atmosphere I want, as a housewife and SAHM I aspire to be in the near future. Right now I'm absolutely on the market on how to explain to my husband, who's a self proclaimed Feminist, that I want him to be less that. I'm not looking to change him, but inspire him to want to change hims… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | She hits him expecting he won't retaliateHe was definitely set up. He said Veta (I assume that's the woman's name behind the camera) doesn't care that the girl in the car got knocked out - because if she did care, she would have rushed to help her. or even had any kind of reaction besides apparent apathy. Clearly she just wanted to document evidence of "man bad for punching woman". They knew how to push him to this limit. Obviously, otherwise the camera wouldn't have been out preemptively. And maybe I'm wrong but I feel like if she tru… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 8 | Now how is this fair?That woman sounds exactly like the misogynists feminists hate. How feminists see men is worse than second class citizens. They see men as so impenetrable, so stoic, so robotic, a thing void of life and feelings, soul, so therefore everything a woman does to him, it's okay. Because he's made of titanium. Just because men are on average stronger and show emotion less, doesn't mean he can't feel. Doesn't mean his humanity should be erased. And the justification is "women have been silenced for cent… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/05/22 09:37 PM |
| 6 | Feminists, thank God for cats.I think it's comments like those in the screenshot that make anti-feminism look misogynistic to these people. Even if it's true some (if not most, but that's a shitton of people you're talking about) of them are fat and single, I don't see the need to point it out. It's like when Feminists call male anti-feminists incels and neckbeards. I just don't think you can fight fire with fire like this and expect to get anywhere. Don't stoop to their level, is my point. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 05:54 PM |
| 8 | What..As a woman, I'd really fucking hate living in an all female society. Not just because I'd get sexually frustrated since I'm straight, but holy hell I'd really miss what men provide for women and children. Not withstanding all the other nuanced societal impacts of such a situation which there would be so many that I can't even dream of. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/05/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | What..Men aren't shit Wow what a revolutionary thing to say! So glad to see a feminist not hate men for once. They should all die off via eugenics Oh. :( | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/05/22 12:43 AM |
| 4 | No Feminists...Not every guy is interested in you.I might be antifeminist but it's ridiculous to just "make up a scenario to get mad at". To do that discredits your stance and proves the opponent right. I see too many groups/communities act in the way their enemies act, but find themselves superior for it. It makes me not want to call myself whatever that group is because I'm here for the "voice of reason", not blind hatred. If this post was instead, feminists celebrating and defending the OP girl for being creepy, then this post might have a c… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/04/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | No Feminists...Not every guy is interested in you.I see what you're saying. Whether or not this is Dylan Sprouse, it's still unethical to take a picture of a celebrity without their permission. Just because they're a celebrity, doesn't mean they're public property. If not a celebrity, you don't take a picture. That's just creepy no matter who it is. The underage thing, yeah I agree. He seems older than 17 to me, but regardless, if this girl is also underage, who cares? Teens getting infatuated with other teens is not a crime. But in addition to… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/04/22 07:05 PM |
| 3 | why are feminists so obsessed with periods? its nothing special, it doesnt make you powerful.I can understand that some of them might have met people or have family members who are so disgusted by periods, they think they're dirty and/or unholy or something, and these women are trying to make it empowering and normal (not so gross and disgusting)... However, they really cross the line when they start drinking it, pouring it onto their potted plants, making food out of it and painting with it. That is not how you honor your period, that's just proving those other people right: that's dis… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/04/22 06:38 AM |
| 9 | Woman Pepper-Sprayed Man Taking Photos of His Own Children in Arlington: PoliceI would claim that Feminism caused the uprising of certain "Karen" type women to frantically and hysterically calling CPS for the slightest "hint" of abuse that's highly likely not even abuse, as well as causing men to be completely unable to be around kids. If he's alone around his own, he's a pedo. Single dad? Pedo. If he's with his young nephews and nieces alone, pedo, If he's briefly alone with his friends' kids, pedo. Same sidewalk as a kid and he smiles at the kid because kids are cute? Pe… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Apply cold water to burned areaI mean, personally I think neither of their opinions matter. They're kids. They were just told to say those things. They don't believe them or understand them. They might when they're older but for now, it just feels like a virtue signal, like "look at my kid who parroted what I told them!! Kids are so pure of heart, they see the truth adults can't!" That goes for both kids, though I do agree with the parents of the boy and disagree with the parents of the girl. Male romantic partners aren't sla… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 07:29 PM |
| 14 | bless herLikewise, anti-feminism is NOT "anti-woman" or misogyny, but man-hating Feminists won't see it that way. Self-hating male Feminists will also not see it that way, because what is egalitarianism is not female superiority - in other words, if it's not misandrous, it's misogynous. I really sincerely hope this girl didn't get relentlessly bullied on TikTok for this post. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 15 | i seriously dont get these people (yeah i know i was a bit mean too but people like them make me mad)I'm not understanding the tsundere and man-hating connection. The whole point is to act like you don't have a crush when you super do. What makes it "disasterous"? The part where s/he fancies the love interest? Are ladies not allowed to fancy men? I'd hate to live in a matriarchy if that's the case because I love men too much. :/ | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/03/22 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Imagine if a Male judge ever does this to a woman contestant....If the situation was switched, I don't think there would be an issue if it's just a joke. If the feeling is mutual, I don't see there being anything wrong. But clearly there's a power dynamic here since she's famous and he isn't. I think it's a tricky situation either way you slice it. But if Perry were a man instead, people would be up in arms if he said the same exact thing. And that's my main issue, too. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/03/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Misandrist TTer tries to justify misandry by using rape statsThat's called female empowerment: to submit yourself to men by way of fear of their superior strength and natural proclivity to rape. (/s) 😐 Nevermind self defense because feminists don't believe in guns, knives, or fighting back because that's what brutish men do. Violence spreads violence, blah blah women are peacemakers and violence would not exist if they were in charge. Nevermind again that women are perfectly capable of doing everything men can, that phrase is only used where convenient. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/03/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | A woman who's a anti feminist doing a ama and feminists are just completely missing the point.This assumption makes me sad and why I don't go around parading that I'm anti feminist. Everyone assumes it means I want women to have no rights, that I hate women and have "internalized misogyny". Criticizing the feminist movement does not automatically mean anti woman. And to criticize some things women commonly do because they are raised to not understand their super power of heightened intuition and therefore pull immature shit, is not misogyny; it's holding a person accountable for their st… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/03/22 08:37 AM |
| – | had a good laugh at this , i love when they hate me cause i’m not supporting their dumb ideas"Women are perpetual super victims, therefore I admit men are superior to women. If you're a woman and don't believe you're a turbo super victim and see men as equals, then you're a pickme and YOU are the misogynist, not me, who's calling you a pickme bitch who I hate for not agreeing with me; me who loves and supports all women" . I really feel the female love with this article snippet. 😌 Edit: so I guess if, let's say, a man is intoxicated and not too in control of his body and a woman is comi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/03/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone provide resources on the original premise of Feminism (e.g. anti-family, etc)?Oh. I'm gonna have to purchase used. I don't want royalties going to their families. Or somehow find a pdf copy. Thanks for the titles and author names. The Female Eunuch definitely sounds like a meaty one though I am more interested in first wave. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone provide resources on the original premise of Feminism (e.g. anti-family, etc)?How would I go about looking that up? Do you mean like, during the times those men were alive or they had written about Feminism back then? Who's Bernays? I looked up Freud and Bernays on Feminism and I only found Freud's views on Feminism. Is that what you meant? | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone provide resources on the original premise of Feminism (e.g. anti-family, etc)?I've certainly heard other Feminists complain about white female Feminists and therefore they branched off into...idk what they label it but basically Feminism specifically for non-white women. It's pretty gross to think, someone uses Feminism just to shit on an innocent black guy, and all her girl friends fervently support her. I'd say that's toxic femininity. Well, modern Feminists, especially the "Marxist Feminists", are actually very pro-capitalism, they just don't admit it. What's the anti-… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone provide resources on the original premise of Feminism (e.g. anti-family, etc)?I'll listen more to JP. I love that man. And yeah, Matt is a handsome face but he didn't pursue higher education so he's more like...well, an opinionated conservative who probably studies relevant things for his podcasts (or he has someone else do it and he just reads, I'm not sure), which I mostly agree with. JP is actually a doctor. He's one of the reasons why I stopped believing in Feminism. I'm not entirely sure where to start with studying Marxism though. Do I have to read the Communist Man… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone provide resources on the original premise of Feminism (e.g. anti-family, etc)?Can I get a link that directs to the full document? Whenever I look it up, I always get like, snippets and articles talking about the declaration of sentiments, which obviously doesn't help me at all. And I see these articles always focus on the flowery parts that I'm more familiar with (hence my schooling history) but I want the nitty gritty details. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone provide resources on the original premise of Feminism (e.g. anti-family, etc)?It was a very liberal schooling system, so....I remember it being pretty obvious my school hated boys when I going through my transguy phase (I'm happily female now). Some female teachers didn't trust me at all just because they thought I was a guy. Back then, (I'm 26 now, this was around when I was 17-18) I didn't think it was a Feminist thing, I just thought they were bitches lol. Comparing that to other teachers I had before I transitioned, female teachers made my grades and papers seem like … | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do you disagree with feminism?I'm not looking to be coddled. Good lord. Politeness is not coddling but ok. I really don't give a shit how common it is that "this is the internet, people are just trash and you have to accept that". You decided your word choice and here we are. Why contribute to that fact? What does it do for you? I'm saying that saying something blunt but unproductive is asinine. You can be blunt and actually say something interesting and instigate a discussion. You chose the former and continue to derail wha… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do you disagree with feminism?I understand Feminism has hurt you, and it certainly has hurt me, too, but just because someone, man or woman, says one positive thing about it, doesn't mean they LOVE AND SUPPORT the movement. I don't like it when people wrongly assume things I say and just run with it and be dickheads about it. I'm a multi-dimensional human being, just like you. Just because I say one thing, doesn't mean I am exclusively one way of thinking and believing. Literally, I'm on this sub to learn more aspects of all… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do you disagree with feminism?Supporting what? Feminism? You misread. I never said I support Feminism. I take it the folks here hyperfocus on certain words and automatically assume the worst possible thing, even though the opposite of that assumption is true. Maybe ask questions and be polite instead of just running your mouth off, please. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 02:01 AM |
| 3 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?I'd rather not debate economic systems in a sub about dating and relationships, and especially when I don't have much skin in the game regarding economics. You can argue to yourself if you like but I'm not participating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?Nah. All systems can become corrupt depending on how greedy the people are. Greed is what ruins everything for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?That sounds like a terrible idea. The reverse of that also sounds terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 05:05 AM |
| 0 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?Part of me wants to agree but a big part of me doesn't. I met my husband via a dating app. I'm too introverted to actually go out and meet men... I think apps just need to be way better regulated. Snap fingers for no corruption in CEOs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Why are there easy hormone replacement thrrapies for women, but not for men?I must have misread. Let me re-check Edit: Did you mean testicles? Lol Edit 2: not laughing at your demise, more laughing at myself for not seeing the connection at first. But what are your thoughts on the first thing I said? I just threw out an idea, idk if it could mean anything. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are there easy hormone replacement thrrapies for women, but not for men?Elaborate on your question please. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are there easy hormone replacement thrrapies for women, but not for men?Just throwing in my two cents but perhaps it has something to do with low to zero demand for alternative options? Which means therefore, make the demand and get others to make the demand as well. And if your friend is offering you their hormones, I wouldn't really trust that since it's not catered specifically to you and your blood levels. You need to be careful about dosages. You wouldn't want to accidentally put yourself at risk. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Why do you disagree with feminism?Hm. Well tbph I don't study the history this much. I wanna know who wrote it so I can find it better and be sure I found the right thing. I don't mind reading something that might challenge my views. I did watch a Louder with Crowder Change My Mind segment where he was saying plenty of women didn't want the first wave at all and part of me agrees with them, however I just don't know all the historical implications of it to 100% agree. And there's still a part of me that's afraid to. Am willing t… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do you disagree with feminism?Seems like every time I comment here, I get downvoted and it genuinely puzzles me. [Edit: removing a sentence I had here because it sounded whiney. I wanted to replace it with saying I just want to learn and understand your perspective. I want to learn what I might be wrong about and I want a chance to clear up any misunderstandings.] I haven't read that. Is that a book or a document, an article? Who's it written by? So when I say first wave feminism has some things I can benefit off of, I mean … | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How do men here feel about being the 'providers and protectors' of women?I don't see anything wrong with traditional gender roles as long as everyone's consented to it and it works with both party's temperaments, personalities and lifestyle. To label traditional women as slaves is only doing you harm. Men who work terrible jobs are slaves to their boss or the government. When a woman loves and adores her man and wants him to be happy, which rewards her in turn, that's slavery? Is that how that works? Lots of people actually love traditional gender roles, they just ha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/10/21 03:23 AM |
| -1 | Why do you disagree with feminism?There are some things, as a woman, that I like about Feminism, but I believe after the first wave, it just created too many branches, no one could unanimously agree on anything and it went all downhill from there. And still, while I benefit off certain aspects of Feminism, I still largely disagree with it and it's hurting men and women alike. I agree with letting women be heard and have equal rights...but to shit on men and attack them, then wonder where all the good men are at...it's truly asto… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 03:06 AM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?My husband also isn't too keen on men either. He's had guy friends in the past betray him or just generally not treat him well, all because of a girl or something (this was high school era). It makes sense for men to distrust other men because men are meant to be competitive. Women have to be distrusting of men because she holds the womb and the ability to create life from men. It's not easy carrying a baby but it sure is easy getting your spunk on some lady. The good men are meant to protect th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Do men tend to care more about you when you're thinner, and more attractive?Idk about if they "care more". I don't think they do. I think that more depends on what you are willing to accept with who you attract. I attract plenty of men who pretend to be nice to me just to have sex with me because I'm so "sexy" and "beautiful" (🙄). While it helps to be thin and attractive, it's critical that you be discerning with who you allow into your life. Don't settle for men who don't give you that spark. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardI believe an atheist and a religious person can be together. Just takes a lot of effort and communication. Agreeing to not talk about it together, if the atheist partner really hates it, is something I try to aim at. I'm not Christian though, I'm Pagan. Change really depends on the person's ability to discipline themselves. And changing her man would only work if she knows how to manipulate him (in a positive way, with rewards), which also falls in line with her knowing self discipline. There wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Men are generally more romantic than womenI think I worded it wrong. I was listening to a Jordan Peterson podcast on sex and dating and the person he was talking to mentioned that he'd ask women something like, their beliefs for women in dating and the women would parrot something along the lines of non-traditional dating (sex first, feelings and connection second), yet when asked what she personally wants, she'd say something highly traditional, like a husband and kids in a nice home. I wish I could remember the exact wording but this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are generally more romantic than womenI think romantic gestures are pretty subjective. I'm a highly romantic person and female. I've obsessed over love and romance my entire life. I'm just not into traditional romantic gestures. I grew up on Tumblr (unfortunately) and dozens of girls there o b s e s s e d over romance. Nevermind that they might not show romantic gestures in a real relationship due to "independent woman who don't need no man" - the idea is still there and they clearly value romance highly. If you meet a woman like th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardWhere I live, it's very hard to find even men like this. Like believe me, when women like me who value marriage and relationships in a traditional fashion, I'm hard-pressed to find a man who's also into it. And can lead. If atheist women are searching for a non traditional, non-husbandy sorta man, then all the surrounding men will give up on their husband material because women by and large control the dating market. It's a shit show on all fronts. But at least for the women who do find their wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardI agree that with Western women, they were raised to not want husbands, to instead be independent and not need men (despite the fact that they do need men and they know this deep down but culture said they must reject this). As far as overpopulation goes, I can kind of understand it. Lots of women don't want to settle down until their 30s and many don't want kids because either they're anti-natalists or they want to focus too much on being "free and independent" like how she believes all men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardRed pill women advise other women essentially (this is not an exhaustive list) to focus on your female principal (femininity), honor and respect your man, always be polite (and if a man is being creepy, make sure to politely reject him), respect in general goes a long way. Be ok with letting a man do something for you, don't be afraid to ask him for help. Focus on accepting that men love giving to women and being useful to them, so provide them with something reasonable that benefits both of you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardAh. Well then no biggie. We've all been there before. Men and women alike both definitely love a physically attractive partner (sex is obviously very important to most people). Idk who created the idea that "it's all in the personality that makes someone attractive" but they're dead-ass wrong and leading people astray. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hard"not just on physique" Key words there. Please read carefully before you downvote and start a fuss when we clearly agree on the same thing. Assuming that was you, anyway. :/ Idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardRed pill women are very different from red pill men (both groups are not compatible with each other). I take all advice with a grain of salt. I don't agree with everything BB says and I certainly don't tend to agree with his audience. Imo finding good advice takes a keen eye and only collect what you believe works for you. There is no such thing as one size fits all. I think the main thing to focus on is how to take care of your blind spots, always double check your biases and be willing to admi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 12:54 AM |
| – | Most guys aren't really trying that hardWell I was meaning to say those who actually know a thing or two, not just some random chick you know. Like, I learned a lot from Better Bachelor and Jordan Peterson for dating and it's gotten me quiet a bit of success, as a woman, because now I understand better what men want. But I also listen to what men in general have to say and pick and choose what I could work with. Knowing that a lot of women subscribe to femaledatingstrategy, I totally see what you mean... But I believe there's some red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardYeah I read more comments and I see both sides here. So while we can agree self improvement is great, ... Steroids are not. I understand taking a job that forces you to be more social and understand cues and working with people better, I think that's decent advice. Acne treatments, fine. People who suffer from that ought to take interest in that anyway. But sure, there's holes to his story. There needs to be a focus not just on physique, but on personality. Women won't date a guy with clean skin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardI think you're being a bit too pessimistic. This is simply a start to something greater. It shouldn't be expected to get perfect results right away. The entire point is to say "work on yourself and you'll see results". Everyone should do that. When you mention effort, this is effort for YOU, not targeting mates. You don't improve yourself for other people. You do it for you. I didn't start working out because I wanted men to compliment my abs. I work out because I want to (mainly for health reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Reddit hates gender roles... until a woman advocates for male gender rolesIf a woman wants to be a housewife, she's gotta learn self discipline and unlearn things from Feminist doctrine like I had to. I used to think men were lazy if they didn't clean up and I followed that trend of thought that "if men don't do domestic duties, they're useless and lazy". But then I learned that men do so much at work. A lot of the time, they take jobs most women do not want at all, like garbage pick up or sewage. They don't have the energy to clean up. Obviously that's different from… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Reddit hates gender roles... until a woman advocates for male gender rolesThank you for saying that, yes that clears things up. I understand why you did what you did and why you felt that way. You don't want to be used, as a man, for his money, just like how women don't want to be used for their body. In your case, you don't get supported by an entire nation of Feminists. So it makes total sense you'd be defensive and cold. I really don't blame you. I just need to be more careful with how I word things. I'd like to think a lot of men on here, at least on principle, do… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Reddit hates gender roles... until a woman advocates for male gender rolesAlright look. I deleted my comments because I found this whole thing to be pointless. All it did was make me feel attacked and nervous. Sure, this may be Reddit but we're also people. I don't want to deal with constant questioning, especially when I'm trying to back down. All this really made me feel is negative toward this group, which I didn't want to feel negative toward because I do genuinely support men's rights. I just came out on the wrong foot and got decimated. People make mistakes. If … | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himFalse: I wouldn't date either of them u_u Bad jokes aside. I'm straight. I don't find that man attractive. I would absolutely pass him by. Maybe I'd be friends if he was really rad to hang out with but nothing more than that. I mainly don't like thin jaws and I'm not a fan of his haircut. Makes his head look weirdly too round. But he also doesn't represent all "average" men. I feel like it must be difficult to determine what's average for a man when you're also a man, assuming that's how this po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Girl complains about guy being "not interesting" yet doing the same. Op on the second pictureAfter having chatted with enough men online throughout my life and even if he just starts off with hi, I understand that I, as a woman person, need to contribute to the conversation. Just because I am a woman, that doesn't mean I have to be provided literally everything from a man. This girl needs to learn how to ask questions and actually have an idea of what she wants to talk about with another human being, instead of just fully expecting him to provide everything. This is just plain old lazy … | /r/MensRights | 02/10/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on transgender people?I detransitioned 7 years ago. I'm very feminine now. And I'm quite pleased with it. I don't even know why I wanted to be a guy so badly, looking back. The limitations are not worth all the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on transgender people?When I was a transman, I was a "gay transguy". It's the same as "transbians": it's a paraphilia. I wasn't looking for attention, I just wanted so badly to be loved and I convinced myself that the only way for me to get it was by presenting "male". MLM was superior in my eyes (yes, I held many misogynistic beliefs and saw women as inferior and weak - I have since repented). Many trans people are in that same boat: they just so desperately want to be loved but they have no idea how to go about get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?Thanks for the essay though. Every young woman trapped in a hyper liberal area surrounded by Feminists should read this. BDSM is promoted by liberal feminists yet it's all just a farce for slutty nefarious men. What man's gonna complain about getting easier access to sex with women? Too many times I see young women abused in the BDSM scene because that one idiot just wanted to use BDSM as an excuse to beat the shit out of a woman. If you get uncomfortable and don't want to do something, you're s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?Awww amen! That's a sweet message ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?Getting your breasts removed and then later "put back in" is a very downplayed version of what actually happens. Breasts can feed children, breasts have sensations many of which are pleasurable. Silicone does not have that ability. If you surgically remove your breasts, you not only disable the ability to breastfeed, but you also potentially lose your nipples, lose all sensation of your nipples, nerve damage, loss of all chest sensation. Getting implants brings further complications, and you als… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?I'm a gender abolitionist. Gender is just harmful stereotypes. I don't think this will help anyone. It'll just reinforce her idea of feminitity being bad. We only have biology and our DNA decides how we interact with the world. Gender is something made up by a predator named Dr John Money. Look him up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?Take care ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?Don't fall for those lies either: women and girls are far more than just their looks. Most straight men and lesbians want a woman with personality. Looks do matter in relationships, but personality is where the gold really is. Power isn't just in physical prowess, it's mental and emotional strength. Women don't need to go to war as a rite of passage to be powerful. Women can be kick-ass moms, wives, girlfriends, teachers, group leaders, etc. Our power is in our intuition and emotional intelligen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?I've definitely felt ashamed of being somewhat vanilla and somewhat into BDSM - like I'm not kinky enough. So I've tried to think up some things that'll seem more "extreme" to fit in... But recently I've come to the conclusion that I like what I like and this is not a competition. I don't need to be less vanilla and more BDSM. I can have my moderation and be happy as is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?Women are not just breeders. They birth our culture and nurture it into success. Men and women both create, so I disagree that it's one-sided. Misogynistic men and misogynistic women have told girls and women that being feminine is weak and it's convinced us that it really does suck. But I don't see any evidence that it's true. If women knew just how powerful they are, they wouldn't be turning themselves into pseudo men. If we stop putting on the victimhood mentality, we'd stop sitting on our th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?No one teaches girls the value of girlhood because they're too busy focusing on the value of boys and their supposed automatic success (despite the fact that men are the dominant sex in the homelessness crisis). If girls knew their worth as girls, maybe then all that "weakness" would seize to be a stereotype. I hate how we do often see feminitity as weak when it's not at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 12 | Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized?Well considering the rapid rise in females identifying as men, yeah, girls hate being girls these days. It's the weirdest most misogynistic trend I've ever witnessed and they're happy to chop off the breasts in the name of "freedom". Clearly, liberal Feminism has gone too far with going from supporting women, to downright betraying girls and women by wanting to enter their masculine principle. The idea is "you can only be successful if you're masculine", "you can only be taken seriously if you a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 01:47 AM |
| 5 | My ultimate guide to RPW online datingRegarding point 3b, it's good to keep in mind also to not orbit around him, waiting for him to message you or ask you out on a date. My current boyfriend responded really well to me being more forward in this regard and I think we'd both agree he's a HVM. He did message me first (while I was typing up my first message to him, which likely would have been insulting and a turn off so I'm super glad he messaged first LOL) but I believe I had manipulated the conversation (in a good way) to where he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 11 | Learning about the male protective instinct from my brotherI call certain endearing behaviors in a guy as cute all the time and they don't seem to mind. I think it really depends on the energy you give out, what you look like, the timing and how you say it? I usually tell them, by cute, I mean I just like it. It helps when you add in all the factors you listed! But yeah, I'm just a random anecdote lol I think it largely also depends on the guy and environment he's grown up in. Good post! I believe even tall women can pull this off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/21 02:28 AM |
| 3 | I'm finally going to do a YouTube Channel on Femininity!!! #thefemininegraduateLike, humanity has always been barbaric and insane, but having the internet just intensifies it by 4,000%, but instead of swords and canons, we mostly have angry comment sections and slanderous news articles. And the internet enables so many washed-up narcissists and others with unchecked mental illnesses to go around, spewing garbage and they sound just intelligent enough to where people who would otherwise probably not subscribe to these people's ideas and opinions, will actually buy into it a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 09:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm finally going to do a YouTube Channel on Femininity!!! #thefemininegraduateI hope she can deal with it and was fully prepared for it when first creating her channel. It sucks that people deeply dislike traditional values where she's not even demanding other women be just like her. People just automatically believe women like Abby are here to convert everyone. Just like how Jacklyn Glenn hated on Mrs Midwest: she got it in her head that Caitlyn was trying to force women to be traditional and Christian when she very explicitly states in many of her videos that that's not… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 07:07 PM |
| 10 | I'm finally going to do a YouTube Channel on Femininity!!! #thefemininegraduateI don't fully agree with Abby but she definitely does NOT deserve the bullying she receives. I haven't looked into her channel much but the other commentary channels are at her throat and I just hate it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 04:29 AM |
| 3 | How to find a Red Pilled guy in today's climate?I can attest to this! I met my husband on OkCupid, too, and that website allows for more vetting and more info gathering. I prefer it over any other superficial dating app. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 9 | Cultivate a receptive spiritThis is so wholesome, I love it. ☺️ Being receptive builds harmony. Rejecting things because you feel you're perfectly capable... comes across as negative and honestly a bit unattractive. When it comes to compliments from strangers, I was indoctrinated to believe that being called beautiful was misogynistic so I'd constantly reject it (even though I wanted to be seen as beautiful!). I felt as though I had to try to change their language to feel less threatening to me. It caused some tensions wit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 14 | Has anyone become high value women from a loser lifeI'm not sure how you're defining hvw but I'm gonna interpret it as "I feel very good in my body and other people can see it". I'm currently 25, married to the man of my dreams (pardon the cliche lol) living a good life. Before we met, I was detransitioning from being male (I thought I was transgender but after graduating high school, I quickly noticed I wasn't), so I was pretty much hideous lol. I had horridly misaligned teeth and curly hair that I had no idea how to take care of as it was growi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Any women here feel "alone" or that you do not fit in with this society?I feel for you completely. It's isolating when it seems like it's mainstream to believe that all women have to be male in order to thrive (it's hyperbole but it's basically what they're saying, imo). Where I live, I have trouble making female friends because what I'm looking for is absolutely not the majority. It's more like finding a needle in a haystack. It's difficult for me to even find solace with my own mother because she's part of this brigade. I think she'd have a difficult time acceptin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | 26 and told I have “old lady vibes.” On here and in real life, endearingly. I’ll admit, these comments have made a nest and bother me. How to come across as more “youthful” without compromising my maturity?Normally, people just call you "old soul", never heard of "old person vibes", lol. There's nothing wrong with being considered mature, wise and older than your age. Personally, I find it to be a badge of honor when people call me old soul, mature and wise beyond my years. I even put it upon myself to call myself grandma and an old lady to my friends and I'm 25. I mean, you're 26. That's not 62. You have a baby-face. Clearly you're young. It's not like the way people treat you is actually going t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Liziqi, modern yet traditional feminine role model from ChinaPlus, with their internet being so critically scrutinized and censored, of course the government would approve of this media. It makes their country look really good. And the host is beautiful and the Chinese audience is all about that. Not saying all of China is evil or something. Just the government is highly questionable at best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/19 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Is No One Monogamous Anymore?I've never before met any polyamorous folk in the wild. They've all been monogamous. This is a problem for me because I'm poly lol. We have the opposite problem! 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Are there actually decent guys on dating apps? Tips on vetting?The League seems good but for someone who doesn't have impressive Ph.Ds and other fancy degrees and careers, I'm not sure how plebians like myself could sign up? I'm a little intimidated, haha....😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/19 06:01 AM |
| 8 | I realized that I have absolutely nothing to offer men.I think you misunderstood me. Of course it's not bad to chat with your parents. But let's say they're abusive and emotionally unintelligent. If you were to talk to them about emotional matters, they are only going to hurt you more. Talking to someone who's emotion-phobic never gets you anywhere. But if you want to have the status of "well at least I tried!" Go ahead. What I'm saying is that, OP can try if she feels safe to do it. More power to her if she does. In fact, it is best to chat with yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 09:18 PM |
| 14 | I realized that I have absolutely nothing to offer men.Actually, I'd argue that you do NOT need to go call your parents and meet up with them and talk out your issues. If you feel you can safely do it, however, go right ahead, but if you feel as though they are only going to wound you further, do not call them, as they still are individuals with their own baggage and their own judgments and they might see your approach as an attack on their characters. I'm not sure what your situation is but my recommendation is to start by making your parents into … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What questions do you ask on the first date to vet someone?That's a great question. I think it's more the latter. Having to deal with his shitty mother on top of your own baggage is a deal breaker. Men with Mommy issues are emotionally taxing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Clarifying strength - alpha vs empty confidenceAmen! My husband has a nasty habit of keeping his failures and anxieties to himself, thinking I'll consider him weak for admitting it. I've told him several times I like knowing because it makes our bond stronger. Because I know he has no one else to tell and I feel left out of his life when he avoids telling me, like he doesn't want to be close. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/18 05:18 AM |
| 1 | I love wearing cute feminine clothes but can’t find the clothes I want. Where should I look?What I do is just scan the shoulders of the clothing and only pull something out when a texture or pattern catches my eye. Really shortens the time. What do you think of the website? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I love wearing cute feminine clothes but can’t find the clothes I want. Where should I look?Just found a website called Retro Stage where they sell vintage and vintage style clothing for reasonable prices. I haven't bought anything yet but I am totally interested in it. Have you tried your local thrift stores and antique shops? They have a lot of cute old things there, too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/18 06:12 AM |
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