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witchcoin/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:40 AM
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witchcoin/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:09 PM
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In a bar, of course she’s sick of getting approached. That’s because she’s being approached endlessly by drunk guys who need alcohol to disguise their lack of confidence with women. Approach outside of these typical ‘social places’ (bars, clubs) and you will stand out.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 11:00 AM
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I fucked a girl in the passenger seat of my mx5 mk1 the other day. It was like playing human Tetris.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:57 PM
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No and if anything it’s better. Maybe OP got lucky but many girls will see through these games. True DGAF attitude is speaking your mind and speaking up when you don’t like something. I think the girl would have more respect for you if you say, ‘listen I don’t want to hear about your ex’ rather than resort to passive-aggressive mobile gaming. It’s not alpha it’s just plain rude.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 04:57 PM
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I think you're right. OP could have quite easily steered the conversation in another direction without giving off the ADHD impression. And it doesn't seem natural for him at all. He didn't play on his phone because he was bored - he played on his phone because he wanted to look bored. It's like "I don't like her talking about her ex bf so I'm gonna play on my phone because TRP told me that's what alpha guys do when they're bored" tryhard af
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:32 PM
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Yeah I’m with you on this. But the OP is right, IF she was giving IOIs he should have approached straight away. And her seeing him psych himself up for the approach outside the store just makes him look nervous and strange. But I think OP is taking IOIs too seriously. They don’t mean much. At most, they’re a way of knowing that the approach is safe and that the girl will at least be willing to listen to what you’re gonna say. Seems like OP is disappointed because he thought these basic IOIs mean…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 06:02 PM
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Read! Honestly, read books. Not just ones about TRP, but any book you like. It opens your mind to just how diverse and varied life is. When you read suddenly little things don’t mean anything to you and you see the ‘bigger picture’ of everything. East of Eden is a great book, one of my favourites, maybe start with that? White Fang by Jack London too
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:53 PM
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Obviously not OP’s mum lmao
/r/askTRP24/01/19 04:13 PM
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She’s the best woman in my life :)
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:45 PM
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She’s essentially an attention whore. Most women are. She knows she’s hot and she wants all the attention she can get from it, so she’s willing to post pics online of her in skimpy clothing so all the Indian guys message her for bob and vagene. Don’t treat her like a potential LTR. She’s shown her true colours, she’s a basic slut. If she’s willing to post pics like that for attention from billy betas, imagine what she’ll do for attention from that jacked Chad she’s gonna meet at the gym sometime…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:59 AM
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Lots of people saying your mum is just being AWALT and doing what all women do. I disagree. I have a very honest relationship with my mum, always talking to her about girls I’m seeing. She’s never told me to ‘settle down’ or belittle me, if anything she’s quite chill about it. She even joked I was a ‘ladies man’ once. I think she likes it. Some women are just more ‘traditional’ than others. As much as red pill likes to think every woman is a slut, there are actually lots of women (and men) who o…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:17 AM
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Sounds alright. I think the less you say the better. Just be like ‘yeah, whoops!’
/r/askTRP15/01/19 04:13 PM
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Don't say it was the room mate because she might come back and be like 'well my roommate wasn't here last night bla bla bla' and you're just in a bigger hole and look like a creep for lying. If it was me I'd just play it off like it's no big deal. It's already kind of a strange situation so just do your best to own it. Maybe apologise if you didn't clean it up very well. But don't rant about it. Just be like, 'Yeah, my bad.'
/r/askTRP15/01/19 04:09 PM
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Don't hate women. Learn to love them for what they are (and not what you always thought they were). Women are sexual little deviants with nice tits, butts, and they make my dick feel good. They're fickle and emotional almost to the point of hilarity. Sometimes they can make me laugh and feel happy when we do stuff together. They do NOT provide unconditional love and affection, and they do NOT provide anything more than what I stated above. Internalise this and you will learn to love women again,…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:09 AM
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You failed to escalate. What you experienced was Last Minute Resistance - it's a sort of shit test / slut defence and you should have beat it, but you didn't. When she asked you your number count you should have been vague and NOT TOLD HER. Tell her to come round your place, and give a specific date/time (none of that 'when are you free?' bullshit, just decide a time and tell her). If she says no or gives an excuse without trying to arrange another time, next. Look up Last Minute Resistance (LMR…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:05 AM
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I shall translate. ​ Anyone can go out and pull a unattractive woman for sexual intercourse, but in my experience most girls in this country seem to think they're minimum 2 points higher SMV than they really are. That said I've had nights where I've gotten to the club to find every girl over a 4 is already very drunk before midnight and not worth having sex with unless you can have sex within 5 minutes before she vomits on you. ​
/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:10 PM
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It's a tricky one because you'd be going into the store to ask for the number, and not anything else. That's not good - the approach needs to feel organic and unscripted, so going into the store JUST to get a number will not work in favour of that. Do you go to the store often? Will you be going there anyway within the next week or so to buy something? If so, strike up conversation again. Don't expect her to remember you. Go in like it's a new meeting, start conversation as per and build rapport…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:56 PM
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You clearly don't understand AWALT. It doesn't mean every girl is a cheating slut that'll drop you for chad. It's there to keep you aware that every girl is capable of it, despite how good they seem. There is such thing as a good girl, and even then it's contextual (I know girls that are great as plates, others who are great for LTRs). One of my good friends has been with the same girlfriend since year 8 (12 years old). To you, AWALT means that this shouldn't be possible because she will eventua…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:26 PM
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Absolutely not, because genetics isn't the be-all and end-all of game. Far from it, actually. I personally think Charisma is the biggest factor, Lifting being the 2nd. These "black pilled" dudes are using genetics as an excuse to remain celibate. They cba to better themselves in they ways that are changeable, they'd rather blame the universe, the moon, or some other unrelated bullshit for why they're ageing virgins. Don't listen to the BS. Any man telling you you're better off as an Incel and th…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:10 PM
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Hold frame. Her friends are shit-testing you too. And, almost always, their shit tests are harder to beat than the girl you're gaming. Engage the whole group, but direct specific things to the girl you're gaming. If you get that textbook instance of one of the friends trying to keep you away from the girl, my go-to line is 'I didn't take you for the jealous type' or 'can't your friend speak for herself?' 1st line will stop the cockblocker in her tracks, and the 2nd like will make the girl you're…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:07 PM
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what do you guys think about these black killers lmao ​ It's bullshit. If my overweight Quasimodo-lookin-ass beta friend can get a decent looking girlfriend, anyone can. Any man that thinks, 'well I was born an ugly cunt so I guess I'll just die alone' is a social spastic. Good for them, though. ​
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:01 PM
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First of all, wait more than a few days. Wait a week+. Secondly, the only thing that really works is sending something funny(witty-funny, not stupid-funny)/bringing up an inside joke you both share. If you can't do that, better to stay quiet.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:47 PM
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you're way too needy and desperate. If they stop replying, next. Tinder is like online shopping for guys to these chicks, by the time you realise she's stopped replying, she's already spoken to 10 others dudes. If anything you're asking for the number too late. Tinder is a race against the clock; get number, set up date, rinse, repeat. You shouldn't be having long conversations
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:45 PM
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You're right. However like I said I don't play games. She said she wants to see me, so I offer a date as I had an evening free. If she doesn't want to it's her loss. Since then I've already sorted another plate to see; abundance.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:36 PM
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She's probably looking for validation. Honestly if it was me I'd jab her back. Was it sent over a messenger where you can leave her on "read"? If so, just ignore and let her feel stupid. If it was sent by text and she can't see if you read it or not, just reply 'nice' or 'k'
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:27 PM
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Depends where in the UK you are. Anyone can go out and pull a munter for a shag, but in my experience most girls in this country seem to think they're minimum 2 points higher SMV than they really are. That said I've had nights where I've gotten to the club to find every girl over a 4 is already plastered before midnight and not worth laying unless you can get your end away within 5 minutes before she chunders on you. It's a weird place to game girls. The only tip I think you could really benefit…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:21 PM
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Had a girl do something similar to this. I made a post about it but the tl;dr is: had a plate for 6 months, was a nice set up of regular sex. She went to visit family in another country for a few weeks, during which time she messages to say she's found a BF and that we can't see eachother. I say it's no prob, unfollow her on instagram and forget about it. Later on when she's returned to the country, she texts to apologise for acting like that, and that she hopes to see me soon. Again I say it's …
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:17 PM
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Next them imo. I know the girls you mean. The girls who act all bitchy and sassy like they're the baddest cunts in the club. Right from the get-go they're throwing shit tests out like they're going out of fashion, some of them not even shit-tests but just flat-out insults. (edit: I've had one instance where, after passing all her shit tests, she literally started trying to fight me. Like, legit slapping me across the face. Noped away from that pull faster than my cat when I shake the biscuit box…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:59 PM
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Depends on the relationship you have with her but good answers can be anything from silence to, 'It's nowhere near as amazing as what I'm going to do to you when you come over' like the other commenter suggested. You have to gauge how she'll respond. ​
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:52 PM
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I love that teasing idea. I was actually talking to 2 chicks in the club last night and did something similar. One of the friends was clearly very drunk, and the other sober and 'babysitting'. I teased the sober girl about how she is secretly an alcoholic and this is just a ruse to get me to think she's a good girl. Worked well.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:09 PM
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First of all try and rationalise the approach. Too many guys get nervous because they expect so much from an approach - they visualise the entire relationship possible with this girl before even saying anything and it kills their confidence. Make sure that you go into the approach expecting nothing but a chat. Even a phone number is a bonus - you never know, you might talk to her and find out she’s the most boring woman alive and not want her number. Girls will enter your frame when you approach…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:55 AM
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Better in the sense that you know the truth, and can do what you want with it. A BP guy might be happy in his relationship, but he’ll be ruined when it’s over. He doesn’t understand how things work and thus he’s ruled by his emotions and never really feels ‘in control’. People say ignorance is bliss, and to an extent it’s true. But I think as a ‘man’ it’s not only appealing, but also a sort of natural duty, to be and feel in control of your life, relationships, and livelihood. Many men don’t hav…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:15 AM
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I agree with the others. Just sell all of it, go cold turkey.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:09 AM
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I know total bums who drive a clapped out old VW polo and work at a supermarket, yet they shag 8-9s on the regular. Money doesn't mean shit. In fact I'd rather not have it for gaming women because any chick chasing you for money is an instant red flag and I'd drop them. You shouldn't be paying for your dates anyway, so the plate should never see any of your money. OP - girls who hang out and fuck guys with a lot of money don't do it just because he's loaded; they do it because 1) he's loaded and…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:10 AM
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I was obsessed with video games when I was a teen. I haven't played a single video game in years now, just because I don't have time to. And after a few months, the urge to play disappears. Fill your time with other stuff. Make your day so busy that when you get home, you're too tired to play games and just want to chill out listening to music and sleep. When I get home from work, I eat, then I go gym, then I go out to see friends/plates, and then when I get home later it's too late for me to ev…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:02 AM
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Joggers seems a bit too casual to be honest. You don’t want to be the guy that’s always in joggers, just makes you look lazy and without any sort of style. Providing you lift and don’t have stupidly thin legs, slim jeans with ankles rolled up a couple turns looks great
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:17 PM
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Belgian Mali is an awesome dog breed but I wouldn't recommend them to someone who isn't serious about training them. They are super intelligent and need regular stimuli to keep them entertained. It's cruel to buy such a smart and high-potential breed to make it a house pet.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:07 PM
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You gave her a good relationship and I expect, because you ended it so calmly and without being a tool about it, she's hamstering bigtime. She's tried fucking other guys but she wants your validation and commitment. Don't give it to her. Long distance is retarded and beta and I guarantee she will continue to shag random guys despite your 'commitment' - a woman needs validation in person and you won't be providing it, so she'll find someone else to.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:05 PM
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Jeans, t-shirt, sweatshirt (not a plain one, one with a badge or stripes down the sleeve - sometimes I wear my army one just to be a g), decent watch with a leather strap (metal straps look way too 'business man' imo), nike trainers, a BIT of jewellery - for me it's a small cross on a chain, but hidden so you can only see the chain on the back of my neck. This is how I dress pretty much every day, so it's not like I get dressed up for a date. I like to give off the 'effortless' vibe, so if I dre…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:02 PM
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Good luck. It's nice having an out-of-town plate who's down for fuck holidays. Just play it cool.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:55 AM
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0.03 femtoseconds.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:54 AM
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Definitely not my dad. It's weird, TRP is one of the few things where I don't have a role model - I had to work this out on my own, and with the help of the internet. I like books, I like cars, and I like my job. And in all 3 of these things I have definite role models. I could name them 1, 2, and 3. But with TRP, I read your question and thought about it and realised, 'huh - I don't actually know anyone by name who's redpilled.' Sure I know authors who write about redpill really well, but I wou…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:52 AM
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I mean on the surface it seems innocent, but by saying it's a shame you live so far away frames it so that you miss her - it should be the other way around. And yes, if anything I'd proceed as if you're one of many guys she does this with. Don't catch feels, don't expect her to be a unicorn. The sex was good but for all you know she does that 24/7. Remember, you're the prize, not her. If she doesn't want to meet up next time you're round, so what? She's the one missing great sex.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:49 AM
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No problem. A few things: "shame we live so far away, I'll let you know next time I'm in town" Don't say this. By saying this you're investing more than her only 3 texts in. Aloof is good, the more casual you seem about it the better. Maybe you know it already or maybe it will hurt, but I'm gonna drop the truth bomb in your vicinity. If she's just spent a few days having rampant sex with you, don't assume she hasn't done it with other guys. In-fact, assume she does it with a different dude every…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:40 AM
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I think you need to take a look at yourself. You're totally okay with 'having your fun', but if she cheats it's game over? This isn't a healthy relationship by TRP standards; it isn't healthy at all, actually. LTRs are built on mutual respect. I get the whole "captain/lieutenant" dynamic but you still have to respect each other - if you don't take your commitment seriously, why the fuck should she take hers seriously? What you have is the foundations of an abusive mindset: "I can cheat but she c…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:33 AM
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Comfort tests how? Avoid commitment, marriage, and kids. If she brings up any of those 3 run for the hills. LTRs with cougars are ugly things and not worth it IMO. Any woman who'd rather date young guys than those in their own generation are almost always crazy, the one I had was almost a stalker. As soon as she locks you down she'll feel like she has power; anything you do to try and maintain frame in the relationship will be null and void simply because she's a lot older than you and she'll ta…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:29 AM
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Because if Channing Tatum offered this girl a date she'd be at his place cradling his ballsack within 30 minutes. 'Next month'? What kind of tool do you take yourself for? No self respecting guy should wait a month for a date from some slut. A week, maximum. Any longer and I may as well go to a bar and find a sket to lay that night. She's blatantly not interested. I don't know why - do you lift? Do you have good game? Are you confident? Could be a whole plethora of reasons why, maybe you look li…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:23 AM
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This doesn't strike me as odd. She hit the wall 10 years ago or so, she probably misses the days when she was a carefree youngster on the cock carousel, with no business or wrinkles pulling her down. Now she's found a toyboy that reminds her of the old times when she'd fuck guys like you every weekend and she likes it. Like the other commenter said, this isn't anything to do with beta bux/alpha fucks, she has the money sorted. She just wants to feel young again.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:19 AM
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Let her do the thinking. It's up to the girl to spin the hamster, not you. The less attention you give her/effort you put in now, the more dividends it will pay off when you next meet. Stay quiet. Send her a ping text every month or so, maybe something funny, or bring up an inside joke, just to keep yourself on the radar. NEVER ask about other guys/relationships, assume she'll always be game when you're around that neck of the woods unless she explicitly tells you otherwise. If it was me in this…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:16 AM
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Likewise
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:05 PM
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First of all, trying to lock her down because you think 'she's low status and I'm high status' is possibly the worst reason for an LTR I've ever heard. You clearly don't respect her at all, you definitely don't bang other chicks who are hotter because if you did, why are you chasing this 'low value' girl, and you are coming across as super clingy. She's rejecting (read: already rejected) you because you've displayed to her that you are, in-fact, clingy, manipulative, disrespectful, and desperate…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:16 PM
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You are wrong. The hottest guy in the universe can be clingy and manipulative and a 6, yes, even a 6/10, will get turned off. hoping that she will miss me You are in her frame, and you're in deep. ​
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:53 PM
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Of course she doesn’t respect it. You offered exclusivity first and that’s a big turn off. You’re the one escalating the relationship from plate to dating, not her. YOU are chasing HER, it should be the other way around.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:30 PM
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Damn, bas BPD and takes drugs? Sounds like a catch. Really though. She's damaged goods. NEVER PUT YOUR DICK IN CRAZY. It's a rule for a reason.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:44 PM
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You're treating your plates too much like you're dating them, and even then you're not nice about it. A plate of mine went away recently for a month or so. During that time I never sent a text to her unless she sent one first. When she got back, we continued to fuck. You're seeming too attached. Way too attached, actually. You're not exclusive, you're not even dating, she's just a girl you fuck. She has no obligation to call you or text you and if she doesn't you shouldn't care. The way you talk…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:41 PM
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You're correct. My father was absent from almost all my childhood. Not because he's a bad person, but because he worked abroad and I got to see him maybe once every month or 2, and in the last 5 years it's been more like once a year. And I have this issue. I get oneitis very easily. I identified in myself a craving for love and affection from women, and I think it's because my childhood was entirely me + my mother's love. I never had a father there to show me the other side of a relationship. I'…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:35 PM
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What army?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:46 PM
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You say that but it's not always a wise choice. In the british army, 80% of officers joined straight out of university. The other 20% is mixed between straight out of school and 'late entry', as in they climbed the ranks from Private. To get a job and 'put off' joining the forces, you'd be pitting yourself against much younger/fitter/fresher people who want the same job. The army doesn't value prior qualifications/experience (unless it's from the forces) as they will train you from top to bottom…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:44 PM
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She's actually being nice to you. She's telling the truth. Women are hypergamous and she knows it. She knows she will meet a guy, or several guys, and she knows she will want to fuck them. Rather than string you along, she's told you outright and the best thing you can do is understand this is the truth. She isn't being mean, she isn't shittesting you, she isn't trying to string you along - this is a rare example of a good LTR that doesn't want to hurt you. From this, I'd say she respects you, d…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:11 AM
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Sad, yet logical. It's a simple equation. The less a man cares about a woman, the more options he must have. The more options he has, the higher value he must be. Higher value = attraction. Women want what they can't have; they crave the chase.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:14 AM
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Don't go cold. It's too extreme and, as far as I can tell, your girlfriend hasn't done anything wrong so you shouldn't be ghosting her. Just take longer to respond, find something to fill your time. Get some hobbies. All this will increase your value AND keep you away from the phone for legitimate reasons.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:50 PM
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If you're in an LTR you can give a bit of leeway on the whole 'only text logistics' rule - but not much. You're not an emotional tampon, you're not supposed to be available 24/7. That's why you shouldn't be texting so much. She's complaining because you've withdrawn attention from her. She likes you constantly texting because it validates her and makes her feel wanted, now that you've pulled it back she's missing that validation. The difficult part here is creating a reason to not text so much. …
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:44 PM
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Then become the man they can't drop. If women are being flakey and disinterested, the only common denominator is you. Don't blame women, it's what they do. They can't help it. Blame yourself for not being a guy that they want to fuck, and fix it.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:41 PM
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Don't game over text. If you're on tinder or something then you need to stop relying on it and find girls in real life.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:38 PM
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There is no value-adding start to a conversation. In my experience, you can start the conversation with the first, most retarded line that comes to you. If you say it right and hold frame, it will work. Women aren't attracted to words. They're attracted to the delivery, the frame, and the confidence that comes with it. ​
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:35 PM
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My first ever 'girlfriend' (call her H) and I got together when we were both 16. She's also the girl I lost my virginity to. Although I was a huge beta back then, our relationship actually started by a huge mistake on my part. I'll tell you how. 1) I was never that interested in her. At the time, I was infatuated with another girl at school who wasn't interested. H knew this, and it made her more attracted. Accidental abundance mentality. 2) While we were getting together I accidentally said ano…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:31 PM
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The reason plates want to become LTRs is, I think, related to 'emotional dominance'. To become exclusive with a high-value guy is, like, ultimate validation for a chick. You're a guy with options yet you chose her, and only her. That's why I think plates push for LTRs. With that in mind, it's up to you to decide if the plate is worthy of that sort of commitment. After all, it's your choice. The plate is putting it into your hands to decide what you two are. Is the plate worthy of your exclusivit…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:46 AM
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Frame is just short for 'frame of mind'. Emotional people, betas, girls, etc, let their frame of mind flip very quickly. The idea of holding frame is being in control of your emotions and not letting things get to you. Let's say you're at a bar and you've got that having fun, end-of-the-week vibe going on. You approach a girl and she shit tests you by saying you're ugly, or she has a boyfriend. If you got angry, or upset, or started arguing with her, you've lost frame - you've gone from having f…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:34 AM
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Thanks very much dude. You're right, it's so easy to 'talk' about redpill. The hard part I think is to actually rewire your brain to think like it. automatically. Like when I got the text from her saying she's got a boyfriend, my true self wanted to get mad, emotional, etc... I had to stop and 'redpill myself' before replying. It's work to make yourself be naturally redpilled, and this situation made me realise that that's what needs to happen.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:29 AM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:27 AM
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It's a similar situation to how I first found it. When I was a massive dweeb my LTR broke it off to go ride the carousel, sent me into a desperate self-improvement journey that led me here.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:02 PM
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You're right it's quite a chore. Most of my plates are always lacking somewhere - not great sex, not hot enough, clingy, there's always something. This was the 1st plate I had that was actually just... cool. Don't get me wrong she's not a supermodel, but the sex was ace and she was genuinely quite cool. Most plates are either constantly shit testing me or just plain boring, whereas this plate was almost like a female 'bro' who I fucked regularly. Was a great set up. After coming to my realisatio…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:00 PM
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You're right. Kicking myself for not seeing this before. Read the edit :)
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:22 PM
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You're totally right. I edited the post but I'll say it here too, as you brought it all to my attention. I think a bit of oneitis got in the way of my judgement here, and I definitely broke frame (although covered it up well). This whole thing has made me rethink the way I was using TRP in my life. It's time to make some changes.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:21 PM
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Check the edit :)
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:14 PM
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Very sound advice. Cheers.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:57 AM
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It's difficult because her being upset wasn't because i won't see her - she already said that's what she wants, as she has a boyfriend now. I think she's upset because I don't seem to care. But you're right, I think the best thing to do is not respond, because A) I don't care and B) to admit I do/apologise would break frame.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:56 AM
6

It's certainly a shame because, like I said, she's a good plate and when she's not playing games, a fun girl to hang with too. Might be related, but in the run-up to this there were very few shit/comfort tests. Just easy, good sex. I was enjoying it.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:53 AM
6

In TRP, a 'plate' is one of many girls you see for sex. The idea is that a plate isn't exclusive, and you have more than 1 of them. Term comes from 'spinning plates'
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:48 AM
1

You mean the ‘second date’ that was a year after the 1st? After that long it’s basically a 1st date. Girls don’t keep feelings for a year, after that long you need to basically start again. And after your ‘second date’ that ended with a hug, you invited her for a movie night? And phrased it as ‘an adventure’? And you wonder why she left you on sent. Edit: and again, she went away for a few months. That’s a long time for her to lose feelings. Should have gone on a normal date, invited her out for…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:40 AM
7

I don't buy this. If a girl wants to fuck, she'll meet. She won't think, 'Yeah, we could fuck... but let's flake on him just to be sure.' She either wants to fuck, or she doesn't. If she does, she'll meet, if she doesn't, it's because she's losing/already lost interest.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:01 AM
1

Army
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:54 PM
2

You obviously didn't exercise red-pill during the first date, because if you had you would have been physically escalating the entire time. But you didn't, hence the hug at the end. If you had been physically escalating, the kiss would have felt natural. So that's failure one. Failure two is asking a girl round to your place for a 2nd date when you hadn't kissed yet. One of my plates flaked out of a 2nd date at my place, and we had been making out the entire 1st date. Went for a drink for 2nd da…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:49 PM
1

Yes, she's definitely not interested anymore. Girls have a lot more free time than they make out. If a girl says she's too 'busy' to meet up within a week, she's most likely lying. If you were a jacked moviestar making seven figures she wouldn't say she was busy. Plates drop, perhaps you were too clingy, perhaps you were seeing her too often (one of my plates became uninterested because we saw eachother once a week, so every 2nd day is a LOT of contact). Whatever the reason, assume the plate's d…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:41 PM
1

No, never ask her. You risk entering her frame and capsizing the whole ship. Dread game could also help here.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:10 AM
10

So is everyone that discovers it. But it's important not to look down on 'average' guys; they're the people who make TRP possible. If every man was red-pilled, we'd all be back on the same playing field. It's the average-joes that make the alphas stand out.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:05 AM
2

There is a difference between being cold and withholding attention/validation. If you act cold, your girl will assume you don't like her and aren't interested, and there's only so much of that a girl will take before finding a guy who actually does seem to like her. TRP likes to preach that 'girls chase guys who don't like them', and it's true, but only to an extent. LTR's are different, there needs to be some mutual affection. You can still be affectionate while keeping her at arm's length. Whe…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:02 AM
36

Quite scary actually what some women will do for a slither of validation.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:58 AM
7

Because this is your average human. Hell I have a few of these traits. I smoke like a chimney, love watching the footy, and usually in overdraft. Not a fan of social media though and don't drink much, and no family. They aren't mediocre, they're normal. This is the life that society promises when you grow up.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:56 AM
6

By having abundance.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:54 AM
2

How exactly was she overheard? Where your LTR and her girlfriends whispering in the corner and your friend got the drop on them? Or do you think that, maybe, someone was supposed to overhear? I'd treat it like the latter. Girls, especially LTR's, will always push for more commitment. It's okay to give commitment, but only when it's earned. So don't just cave in and start giving her attention just because she wants it. Reward her when she exhibits good behaviour - great sex, she makes you breakfa…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:54 AM
2

Why are you bored of her? Is it because you're no longer attracted and want to fuck other girls? If so, end the LTR swiftly and move on. Or is it because you want more investment from her? If so, incorporate dread game. It's too much to explain here, so google "The 12 Levels of Dread: "The Rules" for any Long Term Relationship", it's a really good post over on theredpill subreddit
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:49 AM
2

I'd take a break. You meet so many people while travelling, last thing you want is a girl back home holding you back from truly learning the 'culture' of where you are... yougetme? Unless you want to take her travelling, in which case do it.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:39 AM
1

I can't think of any group setting where I'd need to be dominant amongst 5+ people. Normally, in such situations, the large group will naturally split into smaller groups of <5. Like work parties, for instance. People don't stand around in a huge circle talking over each other, they cluster in small groups around the room. That's just an example. But same rules should apply. Confidence, talk loudly (but not obnoxiously-so), eye contact with everyone (especially those who are losing interest).
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:37 AM
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If you're not attracted to your LTR, end it. There are too many men out there married to women they're not attracted to because they never had the gonads to end it before it was too late. And those men are miserable: I know this because I used to work at a bar that every single one of them stopped at on the way home from work, every day, so they could avoid their wife for a little bit longer. It's a miserable, decrepit way for a man to live and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. You acted lik…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:33 AM
7

Fairly certain that if I tried, I could've slept with her. So you didn't sleep with her? Jokes aside, pick a path and follow it to the end. Wanna cheat on your LTR? Message the girls looking for a meet up and screw them. Don't want to cheat on your LTR? Delete the numbers. In a relationship, there is no such thing as 'getting bored of each other' - this concept is totally false in my opinion. There are couples around who have been married 50+ years, and they didn't get bored. It's not because th…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:27 AM
1

Glad you think so! Happy to help.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 08:35 PM
1

Honestly if she's just a plate, you were already too invested by not kissing other girls. Go kiss whoever you want, let the plate get angry, until she commits herself you'll kiss/fuck whoever you want. Always get commitment from the girl before offering any yourself. That was your other bad move.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:58 PM
5

This is pretty beta behaviour I won't lie to you. First of all, abundance mentality, you shouldn't give a fuck who your plate kisses. If she wants to go get dick somewhere else, let her; you're the prize and she's the one who will be missing out. By getting angry you broke frame. You should have ignored it, and if she brought it up, said something IDGAF like, 'That guy was hot can you get me his number too!' and then carry on. The less you give a fuck, the more the hamster will spin. I can't rem…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:45 PM
0

It isn’t a state of mind though. You go on theredpill homepage it literally says ‘sexual strategy’
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:25 PM
1

That’s simply not true. Dopamine is a drug and your mind literally craves it. You might think you don’t need it, but take every dopamine-releasing activity out of your life and see how good your mental state is. Perhaps sex doesn’t do that much for you, but that’s a personal anecdote that goes against a huge majority. Perhaps people stay on TRP to better their mental state and conquer emotions, but I’d argue that most of the people here first arrived due to wanting success with women. After all,…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:03 AM
1

Actually I agree with you, they're all dangerous. I guess the divorced women have just proven they're capable of it, where as with single-never-married women, there's still a chance. A small chance.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:53 PM
1

So full of hatred. Bad breakup? Or was there ever even a girlfriend? Edit: I should congratulate you, actually. You've just swallowed the Red Pill. I actually felt something similar to you at first, disgust at how different women were compared to how I was told they would be while growing up. 'You mean candlelit dinners and expensive gifts WON'T get me laid?' - that sort of feeling. Once you've become accustomed to the truth and accepted it's totally out of your control, you'll go one of two way…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:36 PM
1

Ah, well in that case you have nothing to worry about. If she doesn't cheat, it's good because she's a good christian girl. If she does cheat, she no longer qualifies to be your LTR as she has gone against one of your most basic Christian principles. Respect for that, btw, no sex before marriage for me would be near impossible. Good luck.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:34 PM
3

This is good advice but if he genuinely has no idea how dates go, he should really do some reading.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:31 PM
3

LTR with a virgin? How can that even exist? You're telling me you upgraded a girl to LTR without smashing first? This is mental. Edit: in answer to your question, don't say anything to her. Just keep it in mind that if she does cheat, you'll end it immediately and block her on every avenue of contact she has.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:28 PM
1

Sounds like you already are one sad ass dude because you're invisible to women. You're the sort of guy who puts the 'in' in 'incel'. Take solace in the fact that next time I'm balls deep and about to shoot a load, I won't be thinking of you.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:24 PM
4

Only had 1 date off bumble (had a few off tinder) and she was of much higher calibre than your typical tinder thot. Smarter, lower n-count, more of a 'girl next door/innocent' vibe, didn't like clubbing, HB8. Abs are never a bad thing, but I think outside tinder, use in moderation. Most girls on bumble I assume left tinder to get away from your typical retarded gym rat meat head. Show some substance.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:21 PM
2

Hardly worried about that. I'll lose interest in women long before they lose it in me. Women look worse and worse every day they age after 18, I'll still be bangable into my late 30's/early 40's. And by then I'm sure my priorities will have changed and hopefully my life will revolve more around kids/family than screwing sluts. Like anything, sex with strangers is only fun for so long. Eventually it will get boring.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:17 PM
1

I don't have many plates - I don't have the time nor logistics for it (living in army barracks removes the whole 'come to my place' option). But, that said, in the last year I've had sexual encounters at least once a month, mostly 2-3 times a month (I say sexual encounters because, most of the time, if I meet a girl we will fuck 3-4 times in one night, so it's not right to say 'had sex x times a month'.). That said, I like to keep FWB's over plates. They are more practical, take less of your tim…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:09 PM
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+1 for the hooker. Nothing makes you swallow the pill more than straight up paying for sex and seeing just how it all works without the bullshit.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:01 PM
5

Right I'll run you through from start to finish in layman's terms. Between now and date: keep texting to an absolute minimum. If the date is confirmed and a time/place is set, don't text at all until a few hours before the date to say, 'Looking forwards to seeing you at 8pm', or something along those lines. The more you text between now and date, the more likely you are to fuck it up. So stay quiet. When you send that text before the date, 3 things will happen: she will confirm, she will flake, …
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:59 PM
5

Forget and move on. There are so many fish in the sea, and I assure you most of them are 10x better than some post-wall 36 year old who posts tits on instagram. She's a basic hoe and should be treated as such - ie, ignored and forgotten. You're 26, you have at least another 5-15 years before you peak, she's 36 and already missing the old days when she was young and hot. You can do a hundred times better than that.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:09 PM
1

Depends how you feel about the girl and her friend. If the friend was hot I'd probably be like 'sure' and spend the whole date ignoring the girl and flirting with the friend. But for now, just treat it as a huge shit test. Ask if she's a lesbian too, for good measure.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:05 PM
2

Is the friend a dude or a girl? It doesn't really matter. My personal response would be agree/amplify. 'Is he/she hot? What's their number? Do you think they'll want to go on a date with me?' I assume it's a shittest and she's trying to get a rise out of you.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:02 PM
2

I wouldn't text outside of logistics. There's no point. At best, her opinion won't change, and at worst, it will kill attraction. Only engage in flirtatious, sexual texting if the girl initiates it out of the blue. A short, light-hearted text conversation isn't a big deal, but it's important to keep it there and let it go no further than that. As soon as your texts are more than 2 sentences long, you're better off inviting her out and talking in person.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:00 PM
1

If you want but I wouldn't. You're asking for clinginess and drama. They've already fucked over 1 guy you think they'll be different with you?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:26 PM
2

Honestly I would never try this on a date in the Middle East unless I was somewhere like a bar at night full of other westerners. If it's a tinder date you have no idea who you're dealing with, and Police in this part of the world are more than happy to fuck over a westerner for not following their ridiculous and often ambiguous laws regarding sexual relations. Save it for the States, unless you're meeting a girl who is also on holiday and not the daughter of some angry Arabic local with a scimi…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:25 PM
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Most advice will be "stop giving a fuck, grow some nutz" etc, and this advice is hardly helpful, because when you approach you will be more focused on battling your crippling anxiety than actually talking to the girl, and it will show. Unless you really do have social anxiety, I'm sure you'll find it's only hot girls you're scared to talk to. Do you get scared talking to cashiers? Or your friends at the bar? Your family? I'll assume no. This is because you don't think anything about the interact…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:10 PM
3

The middle-east is quite foreign to me. I've been to Dubai once and found it quite taboo to even hold hands in public, despite the western influences there. So I appreciate that it's quite tricky to escalate in this environment. That said, escalation is where your failure with that date lies. The reason your date ended in a hug is because that's likely the first time you touched her the whole date (other than a hug at the start?). If you want a date to end with anything better than a hug, you ne…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:57 PM
1

I don't feel much when girls do little things like a hug - girls hug everyone so I'd never see it as special. I think the only real "validation" I'd accept from a women is sex. After-all, it's why every man comes to TRP - to get laid. Why? Because, for men, sex with a hot women is the ultimate validation. Perhaps very few men will admit it, but guys like sex because it makes us feel wanted, powerful, attractive - all that good stuff. So, in answer to your question, your coworker is a huge Beta f…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:46 PM
4

Don't try and contact her. Move on straight away. You did something that was quite shitty. Red-pilled men don't physically hurt women (outside of the bedroom, as sometimes bitches love that). Chalk it up to a life-lesson, accept that you broke frame, got angry, and pushed a women who I assume is a lot smaller/weaker than you. Agree with yourself to never do it again. Then move on.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:42 PM
2

I agree, I think when you try to be "redpilled" about everything and anything, you've taken it too far. It's food, no-one cares. If the biggest strain on your LTR is she gets mad when you don't eat all the food, I'd say it's a pretty fucking good LTR.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:05 PM
9

Just go out. Clubs and bars will be packed on NYE, you'll find people to shoot the shit with almost immediately.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:03 PM
10

Divorced chicks = damaged goods, stay away
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:04 PM
3

Every girl with a bikini can be an instagram model if they wanted, it's retarded.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:42 PM
1

I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you find yourself having sex just for the sake of having sex, and not because you enjoy it, then you're shit at sex. I fucking love sex and I always will so long as my dick can get hard. I love sex because I'm good at it and it's fun when you're good at something. If you have sex and think, 'well, that was kinda mediocre, what was the point? May as well be an incel,' it's because your sex was shit and not enjoyable. If you go to a skatepark and after…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:39 PM
4

Ignore completely. Abundance mentality. If a girl rejects you it should make zero difference to your life. You are the prize, not her. Forget she exists and find other women.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:45 AM
16

Have you ever watched a girl on Instagram? Shit's incredible. They can scroll and like pictures faster than I can even work out what each picture is of. They don't look, they like everything. They hand out likes as if they're going out of fashion. If they follow you on insta they're gonna like anything you post without even knowing.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:44 AM
5

When talking to a woman, DARE, don't DEER. DARE = Deflect, Amusedly Agree and Absurdly Amplify, Repeat, Exit DEER = Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalise In action, say the LTR asked you, 'Who's this girl you're going to see?' 'When will you be back?' 'Don't go out I want you to stay with me.' a bluepilled man will reply, 'Just an old friend, I'll be back in a couple hours. Ohh, okay, fine babe I'll cancel and stay home.' Your reply should be more like, 'The queen of england... no, seriously. I g…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:41 AM
60

Just start adding RP mannerisms into your daily life. Contrary to popular belief, TRP isn't about relationships, it's about YOU, the guy. Relationships don't become redpilled; YOU do, and then your relationships with women change according to the change in you. Forget the relationship, just start becoming redpilled yourself, and your relationship will follow suit.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:34 AM
5

I agree with the 'If you don't like it, do one' attitude. You are the prize. If Channing Tatum handed one of these girls a joint they'd jump at the opportunity to demonstrate their sucking ability on his big fat zoot. Girls' opinions and values change depending on what knickers they're wearing that day, everything is a shit test. If a girl says she doesn't like your weed, just say 'Great, more for me!' or anything to that 'don't give a fuck' effect, and continue to escalate. And remember, DARE n…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:30 AM
3

Fuck quietly, if my LTR was blatantly chatting to an ex I'd straight up call an old plate. Ask some girl out to get a drink and if LTR gets angry just DARE that shit and go out. Hamster will spin like mental and you'll come home to the best fuck of the relationship
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:19 AM
2

This. I'd totally drop contact with this girl and go after others. I think at this point, ANY attempt to fuck/see this girl is going to be met with negativity.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:18 PM
1

Do you think it's better having just one or two girls you fuck regularly than multiple plates? Surely the more plates = less oneitis, but is there a downside to multiple plates? In the past I've gone months where I just meet up and fuck one FWB and show no interest in other girls until it eventually drops, I thought it was quite a good setup.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:16 PM
-4

newcomers and those who haven't spent months studying up and reading up on TRP. You mean those who haven't read the sidebar? Edit: there's literally a link in the sidebar "shit tests 101", it's a 5-minute-read and it covers everything in this post and more.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 02:40 AM
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This is like a noob-level shit test here. It's worth a paragraph, tops.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 02:08 AM
1

It’s hardly a wage I will lose at any time. It’s a very stable career, just doesn’t pay as much as others. And comparing myself to poorer people isn’t because I’m insecure or not confident, it’s to make me humble and appreciate what I have rather than be a snob who looks down my nose at people less well off than me even though I live a comfortable life that very few people can enjoy. I think you need to go and enjoy all the money you’ve saved rather than put down random people on the internet fo…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 07:36 PM
1

I disagree. Earning minimum wage in my country puts you in the top 9% richest people globally, would hardly call myself a broke bitch. There are millions of people across the globe that would probably kill to earn that sort of money. I already have financial independence that most of the world could only dream of.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 06:35 PM
7

That's where we differ. I get my fun from working on/driving cars and going out. The most fun I'd get from an economics textbook is making paper aeroplanes out of the pages. But in terms of "redpill attitude", I think just doing what makes you happy and gives you personal fulfilment, whether it be studying, or spending more money than you can afford on cool cars, is the best thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 02:46 AM
22

I'm 21 and I earn £1.5k a month, and I'm usually broke a week before payday. I could probably save half of my monthly pay if I tried, but it would mean dropping my favourite hobby, going out very little, and just being bored in general. Probably a stupid idea but hey, I'm having a lot of fun and there's no temptation for some girl to divorce rape me because she'd get practically nothing.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 12:14 AM
36

You're off the rails mate. You need to be stopped.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 10:14 PM
2

Wow, calm down. This was reasonable until you showed up. Wind your neck in tough guy.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 12:16 AM
13

This seems pretty biased, and it's hard to believe your story when you use such huge exaggerations ("Whore of the city" - what even is that? Do cities have whores that everyone knows about? If so, I don't know mine...) ​ Firstly you claim Jim is a stand-up guy and prove this by saying how much of his money he donates, but you only have to look back a few years to see that some of the most prominent abusers/rapists were deeply embedded in charity. Not saying he's guilty of anything, but charitabl…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 03:03 PM
4

Strangely similar to the ending of ratatouille! "In the past, I have made no secret of my disdain for Chef Gusteau's famous motto, "Anyone can cook." But I realize, only now do I truly understand what he meant. Not everyone can become a great artist; but a great artist *can* come from *anywhere*."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/18 01:06 AM
4

Psychologically speaking, this sounds like an "inner problem" in that you seek satisfaction externally, yet it never matches your expectations. Like you said, when you didn't have pussy you craved it, and now you have pussy you think it's not that good. This is caused by lacking something internally. You are missing "something", and think that external satisfaction (sex) can solve it. Your sex doesn't sound very interesting. "I just want her to suck my dick, put it inside, cum and make her leave…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:09 PM
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