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| 171 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?They created a parody so they could post it to outside subs being like "look how InSaNe these women arreeee" and everyone thinks it's real and it's so annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 06:39 PM |
| 67 | Mom gives “Husbands in Training” course to her sonsA lot of women who have worked in the porn industry have written books detailing their (horrible) experiences. I would've had them read those. Straight from their mouths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:17 AM |
| 8 | This is what we face. You are a real woman.Some of these are actually amazing resources and then some are just "Elon Musk" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:27 AM |
| 7 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)Your username is hilarious though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 104 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best!I am SO GLAD someone posted this. I don't know how on mobile. It honestly just made me so sad. These women have been brainwashed by men and society into the worst kind of pick mes. My heart breaks for them, honestly. They probably think they're so "easy going and low maintenance", like that's something to aspire to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 02:52 AM |
| 7 | The level of mental gymnastics hereHer first mistake was marrying a man named "Jered" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 07:05 AM |
| 69 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSThe sub "dating in your thirties" or whatever it is makes me sick sometimes. It's obvious it's like 70% men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:12 AM |
| 188 | Where is the lie, tho?Leave me and my blue hair out of this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:18 PM |
| 58 | Trauma Bonding - why you need to seek therapy before you date againI love all of this. Not everyone will even need this, but I was in quite a few abusive relationships before I went to therapy and discovered Codependents Anonymous. For women who are afraid to be single due to lifelong trauma, or just learning to date themselves. They emphasize learning to set boundaries more than anything. Here's a website where if you're in the US, you can search by state free meetings to go to: https://coda.org/find-a-meeting/usa-state-meetings/?state=CA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 28 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.I know, I feel so bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Guys Always Seem to Think I’m So in Love with Them I Won’t Cut Ties, Even When I Hated ThemI went through a phase where I ONLY had fwb while I hyper focused on my career. I would be surface level polite, "how was your day today? What did you do? How was class?" Because what else, I walk in the front door and immediately undress? Of course not. And 7/10 they cut things off saying they were worried I was getting emotionally attached which was hilarious to me, but also sad. Because I think a lot of men don't treat women with basic respect unless they have a crush/romantic feelings for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 07:26 PM |
| 19 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Dude same. I've met way less racist black men (I know they exist just less in my experience or maybe where I live), and I've met a looootttt of racist white guys so honestly thought this was going in another direction. Men are awful enough, I don't want to have to worry about one more shitty thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 13 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?Thank you! I was in an abusive relationship in 2019 and I finally feel happy 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:25 AM |
| 16 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingThank you! I used to struggle with eating disorders and lost my period for two years, doctor's have told me theyre unsure without doing tests how/if that affected my fertility, so I feel both sides. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:01 PM |
| 102 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?My boyfriend surprises me with hotel getaways like once a month. When he travels without me he brings back jewelry as a gift, and not just any but ones he knows I would LOVE (and I do). Pays for literally everything. He does "[My name] Appreciation Days" like once a week where he spoils me, massages me, pampers me. He never expects sex and has never even asked for it, he just follows my body language (and correctly). Cooks for me. When he spends the night and I leave first for work in the mornin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 77 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingAnd for men it would just be A SURGERY. She grew his fucking child in her womb, gave him a LIFE and he's so ungrateful and self centered he can only think about his poor pee pee. If my future husband didn't worship me as his goddess for that act I would leave. (A PS to this, pregnancy isn't for everyone and women are not less of a divine feminine woman for not being able to or choosing not to have a child. I'm just saying in the cases that they do.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 41 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow."I haven't fully thought this through" LIE number 1, pretty sure he put waaaayyyy too much thought into his fucking fantasies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:39 AM |
| 9 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usSo sad we need to portray a man attached to us everywhere we go to feel safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 332 | Vet🙌🏻themI wonder if Matt is even a guy friend and not just a code name for a chick he's friends with. My ex did that 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:35 PM |
| 94 | The audacity of a zero value manWhat show is this? I want to see more women roasting these men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 26 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....Especially because in my experience, guys with Big Dicks think that just because they're packing, it means they don't have to utilize foreplay or anything just for the woman's pleasure. They really think we'll come in three pumps 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 61 | “Oh the breadcrumbs Look Gretel, there are a lot of sweets down this path but it will end in a fiery oven for you or you have to shove his ass in to save yourself.” 😭Ted Bundy did the same thing to his first love (before the killings started) Managed to win her back after she dumped him, he proposed to her and she said yes and he immediately left her just for the petty revenge of it. Point is men who do this are sociopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:57 AM |
| 25 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayOh for sure, that soup was likely for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:07 PM |
| 117 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayTreating women like children is a common advice theme on the red pill. I honestly wouldn't be shocked if he was a huge misogynist, to even have that in his vocabulary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 0 | This is what happens when you settle for potential... and of course it's Wonderwall 🤣I hope someone has already posted about Ashnikkos FDS cover of this song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 01:55 AM |
| 206 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.I always think, yeah don't rush sex but two hours of oral?? No thank you ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 37 | Men don't want a FWBConversely, they want FWB to take care of them and preform the emotional labor of a girlfriend/therapist, while never having any intention of commiting or reciprocating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Why I am saying NO to OLD - a lil reflection and thoughtsI need help! I want to casually date, im in my mid-20's, but I also recently moved up in my field that is somewhat competitive for women and my main focus right now is 100% career related. Most people in my field are in their mid-40s. I have no idea where to meet people if not online? Does anyone have any suggestions? And by casually date I mean I don't want to jump straight into a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-inI'm obsessed with Michelle! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inhttps://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-rose-vega-tour-youtube-philippines/ I actually have hope for her! She's doing modeling, bought a second home, and I heard somewhere she has a new girlfriend now although I can't confirm that last one. Better off without him no matter what though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inOh thank god someone else knows about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inYo, what's up with the sub "female dating strat pros?" I hope I don't get in trouble for saying this but I just checked it out and at first glance I honestly thought it was some scrotes copying us in order to make us look bad ? Like it was so....obnoxious and over the top. But I have no idea.....is that a sister sub or ??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:34 PM |
| 13 | A picture is worth a thousand words...This is literally my phone screen saver. His work is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:18 AM |
| 15 | MeN aRe ViSuAl CrEaTuReS is a lieDoes anyone have a source to this video so i can send to my girls? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | So-called "petty" deal breakersGod so much this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Against my intuition and at the advice of the community, I tried Bumble BFF to make friends. My results.Im so sorry youre having that experience! To give some hope: i met my best friend on there and shes such an FDS Queen. Good luck to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:46 AM |
| 32 | Literally libfem logicHigh key love this movie thoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:16 PM |
| 39 | Excuse me, ma’am... MA’AM WITH THE PICKME ATTITUDE... Being flattered by objectification is not only harmful to you but all the other women out there.Same I was like its cute her bf is hitting on her?? But ooofff the comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:49 PM |
| 24 | Megan Thee Stallion, Don’t Know How You Guys Feel About Her But This Song Absolutely SLAPS!I loovveee megan! You guys should check out Jungle Pussy too. Total fds anthems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Disgusting invasion of privacy - let's date!People tend to want to pair up in the winter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 13 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?He deliberately hid it from you because he knew how you would react. Huge red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive.Haha no prob! I actually do have bpd so I get the defense of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive.Yeah....thats exactly what i was saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:25 AM |
| 26 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?A guy once called me "a fake ass chameleon" because i agreed with most of everything he said before that........but he was talking about basic shit like.....how is it my fault we agreed?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 23 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?"No one will ever love you if you dont lower your standards" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 7 | Weird vetting tip: Do not let him take you on a date to a chain restaurantAtmosphere really is everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:20 PM |
| 39 | Weird vetting tip: Do not let him take you on a date to a chain restaurantOne time a guy took me to Olive Garden after i already expressed i did NOT want to go there (I hate pasta), but he took me there anyway and then refused to tip the waitress!!! And then tried to get me to go home with him and watch ANIME boy bye. We never spoke again obviously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive.I thought at first sentence, this was only about him having bpd and i was going to be very disappointed in the women here and then i kept reading... Holy shit that guy is a flaming red flag. At least it wont take 3 months to find out hes crazy?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | This has to be the worst tinder profile I’ve ever laid eyes on. This man is a walking red flag.Omg either we live near each other or men are really unoriginal because I saw this exact same fucking one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:29 AM |
| 8 | What’s a pick me man called??God why do they ALWAYS bring tacos up like its a hobby to eat??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:46 PM |
| 11 | Why are you so obsessed with us? Aren’t you supposed to be “going your own way”?Im 25 and have NEVER posted a picture of myself but I guess he knows everything 🤷 Also what is he implying.....unattractive women dont deserve to be treated well and have high standards??? Imagine if men were judged just as harshly for beer belly dad bods and a receding hairline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Carrie Bradshaw, the ultimate pickme, exemplifies what NOT to do if as a FDS enlightened Queen! I couldn't help but wonder how she's a famous relationship expert columnist in NYC but then realized being mistreated by LVM is the rule and not the exception for women. Better things to do at 1:37am!Agreed, the ending was whack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:11 PM |
| 11 | Carrie Bradshaw, the ultimate pickme, exemplifies what NOT to do if as a FDS enlightened Queen! I couldn't help but wonder how she's a famous relationship expert columnist in NYC but then realized being mistreated by LVM is the rule and not the exception for women. Better things to do at 1:37am!Agreed. Love the show though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:16 AM |
| 10 | Sounds about right.Honestly I started to go straight dom and ive been tying men up/ demanding they actually pleasure me and they just think it's kinky, whereas in reality its just the only way I get what I want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 14 | I hope they pick her.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 20 | Having to explain the novel concept of a dinner date to a 36 year old man...Literally the only reason I actually prefer drinks over dinner is so that I can end the date nice and quick if he gets weird. Dinner that is harder to do. But a 36 year old....and it said on your profile?? Hes ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:49 PM |
| 20 | Look at the edit, men are idiots 🙄Right? I know this isnt a femimist sub but a lot of posts are just calling men out for their shitty behavior that, imo, is often rooted in misogyny.....apparently that makes us as bad as racists. Who knew! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 41 | Has anyone else here been banned from r/sex for no reason?No but i got banned from feminism ✌ Ironically I'm a huge riot grrrl type feminist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:45 AM |
| 18 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?Not harsh at all! Last week a man was an HOUR late to our date, so I dipped, bought myself roses and made myself a fancy dinner. Can't be waiting around for men all day! You did the right thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 12:11 AM |
| 4 | How Can You Tell If A Man Will Be Good In Bed? (MEGATHREAD)Jesus this is an amazing comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your hobbies?Knitting, yoga, reiki and energy healing, reading, painting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 01:23 AM |
| 15 | I’m so sick of beardsBeardfished is the perfect word for it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Hip Hop Hates womenOhhh I totally forgot about Tierra whack!! Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Hip Hop Hates womenI'm obssesed with doja cat right now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Hip Hop Hates womenSome empowering artists for women who like themselves AND hip hop!! Ashnikko (especially her song "invitation") Lizzo Princess Nokia Jungle Pussy (check out "Bling Bling") Women are out here killing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:01 AM |
| 7 | no it’s not funnyThis is a joke account. "Pat" as in Patrick Bateman, and that's a quote from the main character as the bio. I doubt it's a real guy looking for dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 7 | Single mom has two men fighting to be a father to her kid. Don't get it twisted, single moms are out here slaying in the dating world. Daily reminder never to forget your worth >_>This seems more like a series of misunderstandings. I don't think the op of that post or the bio dad want to be with her. It's more about the kid and money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 10:56 PM |
| 9 | Woman’s catches boyfriend watching CHILD PORNOGRAPHY and wants to know if he can change since he’s apologized and is such a “nice guy”.That guy sounds like a serial killer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:24 PM |
| 38 | A few weeks into “hey stranger” season 💁♀️Is it the holiday season or mercury retrograde 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Honestly, let’s not pretend like Red Pill strategies don’t work.I have never seen this more aptly put!! Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Why does it traumatize men so deeply when we don’t say 100% nice things about them?Lizzo Forever ✊ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 12:54 AM |
| 12 | The flagiest flags of all flagsThis is particularly difficult as someone who lives in California and surfer lingo is part of the community's natural vocab! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Reason 128913 to stay safe online dating: the psycho's are getting youngerEverything you did was 100% correct and kudos for listening to your intuition! But just out of curiosity, does it matter that he's bisexual ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 06:31 AM |
| 4 | AshaC doesn't get enough love here! (amazing vid on "Pick Me" syndrome)Amazing! Any other channels like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 10:40 PM |
| 6 | If a man says his ex is a narcissist, it likely means he is, in fact, the narcissist.Better than me. I stayed 5 months. But now we know better and can move forward with this new knowledge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Internet safety - protect yourselves ladiesI needed this, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | The boyfriend who treated me the absolute worst was super short, like 100 lbs, alien-looking, broke, and had an annoying loud personality.This is so true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 11:02 PM |
| 5 | A mindset to stay stress free in a LTRI've never had a boyfriend who can change a tire or do ANYTHING diy, we get someone else to do it. Why are you assuming all men know shit?? They dont. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Best dating advice you've ever heard?If he wanted to, he would. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Short guy asked me out l... but he's so charismatic.Wait what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Why you should not sleep with him until AFTER the 10th date"Pussy stock" "low mileage" are you fr right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Single mom fuck buddy doesn’t want to use birth control and doesn’t believe in abortion?....yeah dude. Either just have sex with the condom and if she doesn't want to be on hormones, I guess that's it, don't have sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/19 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Single mom fuck buddy doesn’t want to use birth control and doesn’t believe in abortion?Why should she be made to take pills everyday or get a shot that can make many women sick for the first month? It seems like they're not respecting each other. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/19 02:29 AM |
| 17 | Women who left the red pill?Internalized misogyny is unfortunately real | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/19 10:09 PM |
| 15 | Wife of TRP/MGTOW Husband (Trigger warning, sexual assault)"apply the 12 levels of dread" "if you have to manipulate your partner, dump them". ok which is it? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/18 11:28 AM |
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