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witha_ph/r/seduction26/05/14 06:53 AM
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Something I realised is people need to find what works for them. We all have different strengths and weaknesses. What works for one person won't necessarily work for someone else. This is why you see stuff this like this.
/r/seduction06/10/16 11:47 PM
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There are two layers of communication. What you are actually saying, and the non-verbal stuff. The posture, the body language, touching etc etc. The non-spoken stuff is how most women indicate interest. This is where most of the escalation and flirting really happens. That's how you can show you want sex, but not SAY you want sex. Try to imagine there two conversations are happening when you speak to a girl. That's the best way to think of it I believe. Once you can understand the other conversa…
/r/seduction30/09/16 09:30 AM
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You need to see a shrink/counsellor.
/r/seduction29/09/16 09:27 AM
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See a shrink/councilor. And in the spirit of this sub - you need to learn to be happy with yourself and not rely on external validation.
/r/seduction30/08/16 01:50 AM
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Feel free to break contact. Just return to it. Honestly just holding contact for too long feels odd to me too.
/r/seduction28/08/16 11:45 PM
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stripper She's a stripper? it seems they have 'altered' or 'morphed' personalities when they're on the job. In other news, water is wet. Move on dude, you've had multiple signs of disinterest already. Sure, talk to her but you ain't getting much further.
/r/seduction11/08/16 10:48 AM
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A good piece of advice I have to remind myself of constantly when dating is - if a girl likes you, she will find time to be with you. If she can't find time - move on. The motivations behind why it's happening don't really matter in the end.
/r/seduction24/07/16 11:36 AM
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I'm 38 - I find I have much more success with younger women now days (current gf 27) than when I was younger. Weird but that's just how it is. They tend to be a lot more relaxed and fun (and hotter) so no complaints from me.
/r/seduction01/07/16 09:27 AM
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Potentially that could work actually yes. I don't remember every thinking about this when I was 19 I must admit - is it really an issue out of curiosity?
/r/seduction09/06/16 01:55 AM
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Short of asking them, there isn't really a way unless you are in an environment where it's age controlled (eg bars)
/r/seduction09/06/16 01:18 AM
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Stop having sex. Create some distance.
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:50 AM
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"If everywhere you go it smells like shit, maybe it's time to check your own shoes."
/r/seduction19/12/15 12:04 AM
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What's "older"? Wide demographic here. I'm basically 40 and I meet women through having a social life and hobbies. Which is pretty much the normal way I believe!
/r/seduction18/12/15 11:59 PM
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No.
/r/seduction27/11/15 01:00 AM
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I think you may have missed a step (or 2) there.
/r/seduction01/10/15 04:05 AM
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I'd always heard this term in relation to fashion
/r/seduction01/05/15 12:48 AM
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Avoid debit where you can. Moisturize. Buy the car you need not the one you want. Go to the gym. Stand and sit up straight (esp. desk workers - get your monitors and seats at the right height). Practice maintaining strong eye contact - you will automatically feel and be perceived as more confident. Fake it till you make it works. Don't let people walk all over you. It's never worth it.
/r/seduction07/03/15 12:23 AM
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I'm just starting to dabble in electronic music production so I have two main ones right now - produce a track in Ableton Live and learn how to use a Launchpad. Other than that - keep. going. to. the. gym.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 10:38 AM
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Yeeeeah.. the last part is a bit racist for me
/r/seduction28/03/13 06:05 AM
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See that bit on the sidebar that says "NEW HERE". Start there.
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:26 AM
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Something I like to remember is that you should have other interests outside of this. Go engage in something else you enjoy - it's making you a more rounded and interesting individual (and progressing your goals with women) and combating your burnout at the same time. It's not all about going out.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:23 AM
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The girls online are the same ones that are out at bars, the only difference is how they are approached. Yeah I agree with you here now that I've thought about it some more - I have met many amazing women in bar - but almost exclusively via friends. Not total strangers.
/r/seduction06/12/12 11:37 AM
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but it seems like they're all empty-headed This is a strange thing to say. You're the one approaching them - how is online suddenly going to change this? You're not going to have 100s of girls messaging you clamouring for your attention. Sounds like the problem is you here tbh.
/r/seduction06/12/12 05:09 AM
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See I was thinking he meant like a cotton singlet. Which I think is a terrible idea - a cotton t-shirt I can dig when I'm wearing a shirt outside of work. I tend to prefer something with a slightly more relaxed neckline however - and not at all with a suit!
/r/seduction28/11/12 05:07 AM
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I don't own a car. I can safely say this has never effected anything to do with women. Basically if you're being judged for something that materialistic, you probably don't want to go there.
/r/seduction26/07/12 03:07 AM
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Id consider myself a long term user (10 years and counting) - I don't believe it's altered my opinion of myself particularly. It brings down your social barriers while you are under the effect but unless you address why they are barriers in the first place they will just come back up again when it wears off. Otherwise I'd highly recommend people try it at least once - makes meeting people a whole new experience. Just be safe.
/r/seduction14/04/12 07:38 AM
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From my experience - the dance floor at an EDM event (vs a nightclub for example) aren't the best place to pickup IMO. People often come there specifically to dance. As mentioned more work is done outside smoking :P. later in the night is better once everyone is properly on it tho. - you should definitely approach women here! Everyone will be extremely open to be spoken to for the most part (thanks drugs!) - drugs will make it a lot more fun. Plus if u do pickup sex on Molly is pretty awesome. B…
/r/seduction20/02/12 10:51 PM
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Inner game > all imo. I've never been looking to sleep around, but concentrating inner game I can see the MASSIVE difference it's made. Everything flows from it. Once you are happy, people can tell.
/r/seduction11/02/12 02:15 PM
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Sounds like you need to jettison your beta baggage man. If you want to be alpha, over analysing friend-zone relationship with your crush isn't a helpful way to go. Move on!
/r/seduction28/01/12 08:39 PM
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Check out the inner game links on the right. Honestly, that's what's helped me the most. Once you're genuinely happy, it all just flows easily.
/r/seduction28/01/12 08:18 PM
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"i want to keep the engagement...incase things don't work out with him." Theeee fuck? Why would anyone agree to that? Tell "your friend" to go find his balls again.
/r/seduction16/01/12 03:11 AM
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Look like your having fun. It's that easy really - I've been clubbing fooooorever (15 years shit) and genuinely enjoy dancing (and it shows!). People are there to have fun - if you can contribute to that, you've got an immediate in imo. Hell people will approach you.
/r/seduction04/12/11 07:28 AM
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