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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Pink Pill Field Report	Science	withlacoochee	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:02 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Having problems keeping a neutral perspective on women and marriage. Thank you, you are so sweet. 😊 And thank you for posting here rather than letting yourself get pulled into an echo chamber. Red Pill can be a self-fulfilling prophecy - men who act that way attract women who act the way TRP describes, and unhealthy relationships result. I am finally in a healthy relationship after lots of reflection and self-education. I’m also in therapy to help me navigate these unknown waters, as well as deal with the baggage from my past. I will be the first to admit that un…	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/18 03:19 PM
19	Having problems keeping a neutral perspective on women and marriage. So I’m a woman whose last two male partners were abusive. My dad left when I was a baby and my mom dated abusive men. I certainly could justify the idea that all men are abusive and manipulative given that the close relationships I’ve had with them have been that way. But I know that’s not the case. I know I was predisposed to seek out abusive men thanks to my upbringing, and I understand that there are men out there who are not horrible. It’s important to recognize that a few experiences do not…	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/18 08:32 PM
2	When and how did you guys/girls decide that you wanted to be the type to sleep with a lot of people in a very casual setting vs. developing more meaningful relationships and not sleeping around? 35F. In my teens and 20s I did serial relationships. I got married at 31 and the divorce was final 6 months later. Two days after the honeymoon ended I found out he had been lying to me about who he was since the day we met. I also realized he had become increasingly abusive over time. I felt incredibly naive, I felt like a failure, I didn’t know what to do. I hit rock bottom. After a few months, I started to bounce back. I was terrified of commitment, but my high-and-only-getting-higher libido …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 09:49 PM
3	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women Dude, seriously? Do you honestly think that’s funny? That’s a fucked up thing to say. It’s only been one year since that happened. In fact I just had a nightmare last night that he was trying to kill me & my cat. I’ve been awake since midnight because I couldn’t fall back asleep after that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 06:55 PM
2	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women Lol I certainly do. I truly enjoy dating and I want to meet as many different men as I can. I’ve calmed down since I found a steady partner, but we’re polyamorous so I still get to meet new men. I enjoy everything about getting to know a man one-on-one in an intimate setting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 06:16 PM
2	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women Women get a lot of help on needs. Affirmative action; friends in powerful places, men who make good actions expecting something, financial support from parents, etc. Women have value, men by default don't. Affirmative action is a thing because men were in more positions of power than women were historically. They got plenty of help women didn’t from this power Friends in powerful places - men hold more power than women do. They have more wealth, they dominate positions of power in the business w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 06:12 PM
2	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women I personally don’t spend a lot of time on housework because I’d rather spend my time fucking or working out so I can fuck who I want to. It has nothing to do with receiving any kind of “help.” So these women who are not me, these women to whom you refer, how are these women receiving help? In what form is this help and how are they able to get it at a higher rate than men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 04:58 PM
3	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women Right, but I don’t think that really is different for women. I know plenty of women who get help from no one but themselves. I just think the ratios shift with age largely due to social media. If paid Instagram modeling had been a thing when I was in my early to mid 20s, I would’ve had an easier option than immersing myself in school and work to build a career for my future. If I could’ve met men by taking deceptive pics and swiping right, I may not have poured so many hours into working out to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 04:43 PM
7	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women The men I’ve dated never helped me. They hurt me. My ex-husband ruined my credit and the guy I seriously dated after that murdered my cat. I had to get a restraining order, a new car, a new place, all that. No man has ever taken care of me, not even my father. I had to make my own way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 04:22 PM
5	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women I agree it’s life skills, but they were skills often seen as women’s work in the past. The traditional gender roles absolutely assigned cooking and cleaning to women rather than men. That’s what I’m referring to when I say “feminine stuff,” the traditional gender roles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 04:14 PM
5	Divorced men are more likely than women to remarry or partner up than divorced women I date a lot and I cover a wide variety of men. In the past year I’ve dated men ages 21-65. I have developed a strong preference for 20-something men. They’ve got their shit together better than any other age group on my experience. They work out, they eat right, they read, they pursue good careers, and they work on having good interpersonal skills. And they have more progressive thinking than older guys - they’re more likely to respect my independence. Yes there are always exceptions, but that’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/18 03:51 PM
2	Masculinity, protection, and femininity I think women get clued into a guys insecurities and that's more of a determent than their actual height. Absolutely. Before doing a lot of dating, I never had a preference for taller guys. I’m 5’4”, my ex-husband is 5’5”. I ended up discovering over time that my ex-husband was very insecure about his height and had some strong misogyny as he felt disrespected/unwanted by women because of it. Lucky me, I got to be on the wrong end of that even though I wasn’t one of the ones who gave a damn abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 06:05 PM
0	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? I understand that when you’re insecure, confidence in others can seem like arrogance. And when you’re hoping to trigger someone because stirring up emotions in others is the only way you see to resolve your inner pain, any response will be interpreted as “being triggered.” I feel for you and wish you the best in resolving your internal issues so that you can be happy with your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/18 11:33 AM
0	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? It’s more attractive than a nice guy who believes that 95% of these issues would be resolved if women dated boring guys that have their shit together. How’s the lack of a personality, bitterness, and sense of entitlement working out for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/18 11:12 AM
1	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? Oh honey, you are one of those men I could go ‘round and ‘round with over drinks, get each other all worked up, fuck the shit out of each other, then never talk again lol. Very typical for my dates with fellow autists in fact. I’ll take a contentious dinner over a boring one with a neurotypical any time. Whether it’s anger or horniness, both are arousal at the end of the day. The brain is incredibly adaptive. As adults, brain damage or sensory organ damage localized to one area results in anothe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 09:36 PM
1	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? OK, but still at my core I am a woman. TRP can’t say AWALT then make exceptions to force their mantra to fit. A woman exposed to a little extra testosterone in the womb is still a woman. And hell, if femininity is clearly on a spectrum, then why does TRP treat women as a simplified category rather than a diverse group of fellow humans? I won’t debate the existence of feminine vs masculine traits, what I’m saying is that TRP likes to lump all women into one category and it’s probably the biggest …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 09:23 PM
2	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? This is not what the "autism is the extreme male brain" theory means. I hasten to add that this reply demonstrates that you may be further along the spectrum than you think. Aside from being a sweeping assumption based on very little data, that’s not a very nice thing to say. In fact it’s something I would expect someone else on the spectrum to say. Methinks you might be in the same boat as I. Because gonadal hormones explain many biological bases for behavior, but far from all of them. Alright,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 09:17 PM
0	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? My point is that the autistic brain is the extreme male brain. For more, see Simon Baron-Cohen. I am aware of that idea, but my autism is mild and there are many ways that my brain is not an “extreme male brain.” My huge cravings for dick with zero cravings for pussy would be one example. Also, I don’t like sports and have zero tendencies towards physical aggression. And cats>dogs. And sexually, while I consider myself a switch and can have fun dominating men now & again, at my core I am a submi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 09:11 PM
1	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? I don’t feel attacked at all. I appreciate your bluntness. Empathy is funny though, we autists can actually have great empathy, we just suck at social cues. Once I know how someone is feeling, the empathy can overwhelm me, but they have to tell me how they’re feeling or have very obvious behaviors. I can be very soft when the situation calls for it, but when I’m not aware that I need to be “soft” I can be a real cunt. XD Every individual is a mix of feminine and masculine traits. Where I see TRP…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 09:06 PM
3	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? Lol I agree. That’s kinda my point though, autism makes one immune to social programming. That’s why I believe gendered behaviors are largely the source of socialization rather than biology. My normal female ratio of estrogen to testosterone didn’t do dick to endow me with feminine social graces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 08:59 PM
4	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? I really appreciate your positive message. You do sound like an awesome person I would share many interests with. I understand that if I were to really look for them, I could find women who are into the same things as well. I’m a fan of going to the gun range myself. I understand not all women like the stereotypical girly things I described, but it is the case with most that I’ve tried to forge friendships with. But common interests aren’t what holds me back, it’s when I have a few drinks and jo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 04:29 PM
2	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? I understand completely, and I know the type of women you’re talking about. Honestly I know I’m a bit of an exception here. I actually have zero close female friends. I continually try to form friendships with women but it doesn’t take long before they figure out I’m “different” and that is the absolute worst thing to be as a woman, to lack social acuity. I’ve gotten to the point where I’m ok with accepting it though. My social life consists of men that I fuck, and frankly I like it better than …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 04:07 PM
2	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? Not saying you did! There are others reading this who will make that claim though. I really appreciate your clarification. I agree with you that biology can strongly influence behavior, but I think there can be other influences that are as strong if not stronger. The dominant influencing factor really seems to vary highly between individuals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 03:49 PM
3	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? That’s a very bold assessment and quite a few assumptions to make without ever having met me. I could pull a near infinite amount of people from my life to affirm what I say, but of course that would be impossible to do in this forum. I see no way for us to resolve this point of debate if you’re going to completely dismiss my assessment. You don’t have to believe me and you certainly won’t if it conflicts with the beliefs you hold. And it’s your right to do that, I’m just making what contributio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 03:47 PM
3	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? Ok, explain me then. How am I biologically female with a “male” brain? High libido, ability to separate sex from emotion, lower social acuity, analytical & logical, high STEM interest, zero interest in fashion, gives solutions rather than validation when hearing about problems, etc? You can show all the studies you want but my existence alone proves that NAWALT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 03:44 PM
1	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? Thing is, I’m a very hetero woman who loves men but also thinks like a man. Many factors could have made me impermeable to the social conditioning—mild autism, lack of siblings, non-traditional household, etc. It works out very well for my relationships with men, but I really struggle in dealing with women because I’m bad at the social acuity stuff. So on one hand I can verify that most women are different in the ways stated, but I do lean towards gendered behaviors being socialized rather than …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 03:35 PM
10	Cake vs eggs > a analogy for NiceGuys^TM That’s the problem with every.single.woman. nowadays, unrealistic expectations. Eggs are good, sugar is good, flour is good - but they want ALL those ingredients, PLUS vanilla—the real stuff, not the imitation shit—in just the right amount, not too much or too little, AND they want it baked to perfection! And all they have to offer in return is an appetite. However, it’s in their nature to like cake. You cannot change this. You don’t want to be the sad yolk who gets thrown in the trash. If you f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/18 09:49 PM
1	Pink Pill Field Report We’re not so different, you and I.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:51 AM
1	Pink Pill Field Report Wedlock would violate my Pink Pill Principles. You want a bootlicker I hear T_d is filled with them. Just pop in over there, preach some RP, soon enough you’ll have plenty dudes from there offering you oral-podal sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:39 AM
1	Pink Pill Field Report Not if you want to do it well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:35 AM
1	Pink Pill Field Report He Reddits even more than I, so it’s entirely possible he fell into a L Ron Hubbard wiki-hole one day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:32 AM
1	Pink Pill Field Report Wow, I actually cannot argue with your logic there. That transitive property is a cunt. +1	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:27 AM
1	Pink Pill Field Report No time for that, he’s too busy worshipping my pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:25 AM
1	Pink Pill Field Report You tempted me to create a subreddit for it but after putting 10 min into it, I’m like fuck it, I don’t wanna do all this work just because I decided to get high & shitpost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:23 AM
1	Pink Pill Field Report He’s a 6’2 Tom Cruise. I won’t supply pics in case you are the next one we choose to mindfuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 05:13 AM
9	My Realization That Red Pill is Bullshit You said it all. I’m happy you came to that conclusion on your own and found that you could achieve your goals by being yourself. TRP really is a cult run by psychopaths who prey on inexperienced, desperate youth. It’s nice to hear about people who realize what it is and snap out of the brainwashing. Thank you for sharing your story! 🙌	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/18 03:32 AM
2	Wife and I Swing, so I see what men are out there. IDK about an 80/20 "Rule", but most men out there are not sexy, have no game, or both. Which is why the top 20% cleans the F up. Absolutely, any sexual relationship gets better the longer you work on it. I’d say across the board, I still find most men attractive/interesting on some level - but not in a way that makes me feel like I absolutely must fuck them. But this is mostly single men I go after. In most couples there’s going to be at least one person who doesn’t flex the seduction muscle because (s)he doesn’t need to - sex is on-demand from the partner. And that muscle will atrophy if you don’t use it. That’s a big re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/18 12:54 PM
7	Wife and I Swing, so I see what men are out there. IDK about an 80/20 "Rule", but most men out there are not sexy, have no game, or both. Which is why the top 20% cleans the F up. A bit about me - 35F, in an open relationship with a man. We like the threesomes and swaps and such, so similar to you & your wife. He & I both enjoy flirting, dating, seducing, and fucking. I have no problem picking up men and he has no problem with women. He’s not the physically hottest guy I’ve messed with, but he’s definitely the sexiest, and it’s because of his mind. He knows how to look at me in a way that makes me tingle. He knows how to touch and kiss me in public such that my panties ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/18 12:43 PM
1	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost Yeah, just trying to put them at ease considering the climate nowadays. No one ever takes me up on it but I think they find the fact that I’m offering reassuring. Honestly if I were a guy I’d be worried about that too. I’m just trying to have some fun with them and I don’t want them to be worrying every step of the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/18 02:18 PM
1	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost Lol those are still more specific than what I’m referring to with “sexytime.” Different strokes for different folks, dude. You have your preferred terms and I have mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 11:02 PM
1	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost Ok, but in the context of my comment, if I’m referring to the wide variety of sexual activities, including but not limited to sex, what is the term or phrase for that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 10:58 PM
2	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost But what if there’s no actual sex involved? What if I’m in lingerie giving a massage and then a hand-job?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 10:54 PM
2	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost I’ve been calling it that since before Borat’s time. I think it’s a good catch-all for sex-related activities. What would you call it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 10:52 PM
3	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost Indeed, it’s all about balance, but red flags are really on more of a spectrum rather than being as clear as we like to think. Literally every guy I’ve dated has had at least one “red flag,” as defined by me or by other people. For example - being divorced is considered a red flag. But so is being married. But you get “old enough” and never having been married is a red flag. Zero LTRs can be a red flag. Only one LTR can be a red flag. Serial LTRs can be a red flag. Being single for more than a y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 08:10 PM
6	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost THIS, so much! People like to victim-blame because they like to think of what they could’ve done differently to keep that terrible thing from happening to them. One of the most accurate things I’ve ever been told was “You cannot blame yourself for the actions of other people. People are complex and in dealing with them, there are too many unknown variables.” My ex-husband told me that. He lied to me about who he was the whole time we were together. I found out two days after the honeymoon ended.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 07:51 PM
7	He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost Right!!! I’m a 35F who dates younger guys (20’s) and I see the “asking about consent” trend in that age group as well. (Difference between me & the girl in the article is I’m not looking for anything other than sexytime). So the moment we begin to get physical I tell them that we need to establish a safe word. Not that we’re going to be pushing boundaries, but just so they don’t have to keep asking. I tell them they can record that conversation or get it in writing or whatever, but I’m not used …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 07:45 PM
2	Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates So what percentage of women classify for the AWALT prototype? Is it really 99.9%? Do you have any data or science to back up that claim and refute the hypothesis that there are far greater differences among women than RP ideology claims? And if my “masculine” traits are due to biology, then why am I not into sports, gaming, beer, and various other “masculine” interests/activities? Why do I exhibit zero tendencies towards physical aggression? How do you explain that as gender roles become less tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/18 09:57 PM
1	Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates Fair enough, perhaps in general the level of desire to sleep around is unequal between men and women. However, my desire to have a variety of partners seems to exceed that of most men. I am more willing to put in the money, time, and effort required to juggle more partners than the men I date are. And I know I can’t be the only woman who is this way. That’s why I think there are other factors at play behind the “spread your seed” mentality. Biology/hormones may be a factor, but I think it is a t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/18 09:18 PM
2	Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates That is actually a great suggestion and line of reasoning. I do believe that increased testosterone can increase libido. But does it increase the desire for a variety of partners? How do you explain women with libidos higher than most men, who want and pursue a variety of male partners?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/18 09:03 PM
1	Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates OK, so if my minimal level of testosterone isn’t responsible for my desire as a woman to date and fuck a variety of men, then what is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/18 09:01 PM
7	Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates Women have testosterone in their bodies, so they must experience the same desire then, right? Yes, men in general have more of it, but what is the cutoff level where testosterone inspires the desire for multiple partners? Evolutionary biologists believe that women’s ability to have multiple orgasms is so that they could sleep with as many men as possible so that every man around would think her kids were his kids and he wouldn’t try to kill them. That is but one example of scientific analysis to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/18 03:38 AM