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withouteverything/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:07 AM
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Yeah, the utility in believing it or at least acting like it’s true, is in that you’re going to act right and take responsibility for your relationships with women, so you can have successful ones
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:24 PM
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R / zerocarb some people over there have wild success stories. (With a pinch of salt)
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:58 PM
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Fuck that. Why waste your time when you could be acquiring a plate who’ll cook for you and gobble your cock for desert
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:49 PM
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Ordering you to do something is a pretty standard shit test. Always best to deflect/ignore a comment like that even if even if there’s a chance they’re being serious. that way you don’t start to DEER. However, she exposed herself and you got out of there, good job
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:46 PM
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I remember so clearly the period of time where I felt insecure that I had lost my ability to make people laugh. It’s a horrible negative feedback loop of being insecure and anxious, therefore not able to think properly and experience the moment. I blamed it on drugs and alcohol fucking up my brain, but it just took a bit of work to solve. I’d actually recommend HTWFAIP by Dale Carnegie if you haven’t read it already. It was actually instrumental in helping me realise things to do with people and…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:53 PM
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I can’t think of any examples. Honestly the key is exposure, and you have to set the rules for yourself. I started by deciding I would stop holding my tongue for fear of being judged. In a group of people I hardly know and need a shit? “Gotta go take a shit.” Maybe it’ll take a bit of getting used to but it was like a lightbulb moment, I realised it’s literally in your control wether or not you give a shit what people think. (Maybe not if the validation seeking behaviour runs deep but you’ve bee…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:45 PM
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I’ve been through similar, becoming sober and being stuck in everyone else’s frames. The most useful thing to develop is dgaf attitude, that way you’ll avoid the negative feedback loop
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:48 PM
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Just frame it like you are getting her off being selfish, no girl gets aroused by a guy who’s so focused on her pleasure, and you’ll get off on giving her what she wants. I’ve experienced it before though, just need to get some momentum going with a couple plates
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:17 PM
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I think you might be gay
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:22 PM
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I’ve been in a similar spot man. What helped me was focusing on frame. You should be operating in your frame at all times including sex. You’re fucking her because you want to fuck her; she wants to be fucked out of desire, therefore you should be selfish during sex, only give a fuck about your own pleasure, and she will enjoy herself too. Essentially stop looking at yourself from others perspectives, the only one that matters is your own because people (esp women) take behavioural cues from you…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:17 PM
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But there’s literally hundreds of posts here on how game and why it works. Have you read how to tease your bitches on the sidebar?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:40 AM
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There is something that outlines what to do with half interest. You’d know If you’re actually familiar with the advice here. If it isn’t a “fuck yes” from her, take it as disinterest and move on. It’s pretty simple but you need to be working on your self worth for it to be easy. You just don’t settle for half assed interest, you believe you deserve more than that to even pay someone attention. Try your hardest to internalise that and the attitude you project will be of abundance. It’s like a gir…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:38 AM
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Do whatever man, it doesn’t matter. But get out of her frame, focus on your own enjoyment and always assume she’s attracted to you, stop it with the “idk if she sees me as a friend” bullshit. Be attractive. Have fun
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:31 AM
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You said it yourself, you’re still lonely. Perhaps that means you’re doing these things for the wrong reason and the self improvement shit just acts as a distraction for you. If you’re doing all these things for yourself yet you’re still too available for women that’s because girls are still a focus of your life, when your priority should be your mission. Although it takes abundance to realise abundance. Get a couple plates you don’t really care about
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:18 AM
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Fuck that. Make it easy for yourself, make her come to you, it will project value on your part and build investment on hers. Personally I’d never travel to another city to fuck some chick when I already have plates in my city
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:08 AM
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The fact that you need to actively try and treat her like shit means you’re doing it wrong. You shouldn’t need to think about it. You should essentially have enough self value that you give off the subtle vibe that you’re above her. For fucks sake why can’t people read the sidebar
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:26 PM
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“Decent looking girls but rarely interested” Have you considered you might be so focused on how you look that you’re boring in other aspects? What’s your text game like
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:12 PM
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Tell her to come to you. Stop thinking “what if?” And learn some outcome independence. If she wants to fuck you she won’t go home. It’s not that difficult to invite someone round “hey wanna watch a movie at my place?”
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:08 PM
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Ugh
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:02 PM
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Shift your focus from the girls to yourself and your own enjoyment, then you don’t need to try and game them, it’ll have that effect anyway
/r/askTRP02/07/20 07:44 PM
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It’s like people haven’t read humansockpuppets guide to bitch management
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:43 PM
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“Don’t invest too much in things out of your control”
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:09 PM
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Good post, I’d like to add something: I had this belief in myself all my life, I always had this base coat of “I can.” And simply knowing “I can” was enough, I didn’t do. I was unproductive, getting through life with minimal effort, all the time having great confidence in myself. While I think this is overall a good trait, I lacked self awareness and as I got older I realised I had nothing to show for it. It doesn’t matter if you think “I can,” it’s results that matter. It’s like that saying we’…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 07:06 AM
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If you treated the 6 like you treated the hotter one, shed either be more receptive or more insecure, I think the thing you need to work on if focusing on yourself having fun, at the minute you’re too involved in the girls frame, even if you’re doing all the right things with the hot one, something internal needs work
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:38 AM
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Don’t tell her she looks good ffs... you want to establish her as the one seeking your approval. A light tease or something
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:54 PM
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I would just meet girls at parks, easy to exit if you need. There’s nice places like primrose hill or telegraph hill where you can see a view of the city in the evening. Lots of cool places like hidden gardens/churches more central. Picking out funny outfits at thrift stores is fun. I don’t think it matters too much, as long as you’re focused on yourself having a good time and not worrying if she’s enjoying herself, you’ll be able to improvise and have a good time. As long as you are having fun,…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:38 PM
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There’s a big difference between repressing your emotions and recognising and being resilient to them. Nobody’s telling you to repress your emotions
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:28 PM
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This is overkill just do carnivore diet for a bit if you’re looking to lower your body fat
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 09:06 PM
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The idea that life is meaningless is only unsettling to me if my self esteem is low and I’m not doing anything productive. Otherwise, it’s beautiful that the meaning of life is determined by the one experiencing it
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:51 PM
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Yep. It’s pretty simple; you’re having to check blue pill behaviour. You’re trying to keep your blue pill in check instead of becoming red pilled. You wouldn’t be feeling these things if you were developing the right parts of yourself - brutally honest self reflection is essential
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:06 PM
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I think your sense of self is too connected to your beliefs. I used to be in a similar predicament. I don’t give a fuck about my own opinions and life is just a big old game You sound young by your writing, how old are you?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:49 PM
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I always say I don’t know, because I literally don’t know, it’s not even very high I just don’t care to keep track. If they try and guess I go for the “well it’s definitely over 1 and less than 1000” I’d never reveal it anyway, it also acts as as a way to reassure her you’re not the type to brag about your numbers/talk about your sexcapades with her and out her as a slut
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:38 PM
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Who gives a fuck who’s to blame? The idea is to take responsibility for your own shit and accept what you don’t have control over: which is everything but yourself. Then, you won’t have to philosophophise silly shit like this
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:33 PM
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You wouldn’t have this problem if you were putting in the work becoming a man with purpose, where girls are not the focus of your life. Even though you don’t care about the “9” girls are still a focus of your life. Check your validation seeking behaviour. You’re only infatuated because you don’t feel good enough yourself
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:27 PM
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Do you watch porn/masturbate
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 03:09 PM
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Not if I was considering a LTR, although my plate that has a lot of guy friends is more chilled and less hassle than the neurotic one who’s only friends with girls
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:13 AM
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She was shit testing you and you failed. But she seems unbearable anyway. Win
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:30 AM
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You fucked up giving a shit about this
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:00 AM
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She might be into you and is being mean because you aren’t giving her attention Act like she is always being the sweetest girl when you interact, like you’re starting to like her as a person, always holding frame. This’ll change how she treats you. Or just ignore the crazy bitch
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:58 AM
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The fact that you’re worried about her asking about it means you haven’t set boundaries properly. What you really want is for it to be clear to her (by your ACTIONS) that when she doesn’t behave herself, she loses your attention. For me, if she whines about the soft next, that’s undesirable behaviour so I would just deflect and remove my attention until she behaved in a sweeter manner
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:46 AM
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The more you invest, the more invested you’ll be. Sounds pretty self explanatory but it helps me if I catch myself behaving a certain way. When I think of it in economic terms it makes it easier to realise there is NOTHING special, it’s just a case of investing too much, or her not investing much (in which case take that as disinterest and move my attention elsewhere.) Makes it into more of a game you can improve your skill in instead of being in your feelings about some pussy
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:27 AM
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