The vasectomy is a huge plus. “Never gets mad” is a bit of a red flag. Surely sometimes you’re upset? How does that come out? Without expressing it it leads to resentment.
Not admirable. Creepy. Learn to quit while you’re ahead and not because the restraining order is ordering you to. If it’s not organic, don’t force it. Why do you want someone who doesn’t want to be with you? Have some self respect and respect others.
I’m anti-work and I still work. You....have to in this society. Doesn’t he like his video games? However, I have a wonderful job that suits me. A large break in the middle of my day. My boss makes sure I’m not over-worked.