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At least he wouldn't have to listen to that bullshit. And he won't do either anyway. He'll just keep dreaming of a better him until he finds her underneath someone else.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 07:31 PM
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Get not fat first. Then get fit. Don't fuck her at all until you are someone physically who you would want to fuck. And write up divorce papers so the next time she even whispers about it you can serve her and move out.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 05:42 AM
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OYS 2 48 6'3 235 pounds 10% body fat. Lifts: bench 425 1rm squat 455 dead lift 380 Once again back for more Got divorced papers today. Just a draft, but still a bit hard to deal with at work. Last night I asked her why her ex was on social media on her account again after she said she blocked him 7 months ago. Things were immediately a shit test that escalated into, "You've finally pushed me to my breaking point I'm going to divorce you." Twice in the morning she repeated that there was no getti…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/23 06:08 AM
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I'm in no place right now to give advice, but 1 thing you wrote stood out t to me. "Are you going to get that?" And you came back with, "Does it look like I'm going to get that?" which I'm sure your inflection was playful however it could come across butt hurt. I might have tried something like, nope, I'm going to get this instead, while grabbing her. Just a thought, I've always needed to be more playful with my wife so I cue into those things.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/23 09:37 PM
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It's voice to text, so it was pretty quick.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/23 10:02 PM
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OYS 1 48 year old 237 pounds 6'3" 10% body fat. Lifts:. Bench 425 1rm Squat 455 Dead 380 sidebar NMMNG, WISNIFG, RATIONAL MALE x3, MMSLP, POOK, 48 LAWS. Back here once again, what the Fuck is wrong with me? History: I've been red pill aware for the last 7 years and have been lazy about it. The first time I found it I went Rambo and things improved and then I got lazy after 2 years and got another wake-up call 6 months ago. This is my second wife, she's an HB8-ish and is black which I have been t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/23 06:44 PM
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Likewise
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/19 02:12 AM
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Everything I'm about to write, you already know. But having gone through this myself, it might be worth the read. The dread she is feeling right now is 100% coming from the church issue. You know (As well as I do) that the ONLY reason you would leave is because of major sin and the guilt that comes from it. She is hearing that from EVERYONE, church leaders, the women in the Relief Society, her family. So while it is dread and will lead her to act accordingly sexually, you are also walking a very…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/19 03:05 AM
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Left 4 years ago after reading the CES letter and discovering the exmormon sub Reddit. I feel your pain and it was the best thing I ever did. If you are in the valley there are a bunch of us here. It's a cult and that is why you are feeling the way you do. Brainwashing and mind control combined with shunning = cult. Stick to you and you will come out happier, healthier and much better off.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/19 07:03 PM
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You have to let go. You want to control shit that is out of your control and that's the biggest issue I found myself having to. If you stop trying to control the situation then you will control the situation. There is no spoon. It's easier said than done. You can't keep her. You can not keep her. YOU can NOT keep HER. But you can be worth keeping if you improve yourself. Only them do you get control.
/r/askMRP26/05/19 04:44 AM
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IOI is indicators of interest. Agree and Amplify is A and A. I have a shit memory and so reading it wasn't enough. Had to ask too.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/19 04:36 AM
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I'm here at red pill for the same reasons everyone else is, so it's not like my wife is hypersexual. Two things, was just in the sex shop for my wife to get her nose pierced (they have a room-boutique inside dedicated to this) and they had these coupon books on the counter. I laughed at handed her one to read, to get the reaction from her to calibrate my response. She flipped through it and tossed it onto the counter telling me, "If I got you one of these it would turn it all into work.". So the…
/r/askMRP03/02/19 12:43 AM
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Troll. There's no fucking way someone takes the Redpill and decides this is what it means. No way.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 02:06 AM
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Continually ask her if she is "OK". Sploosh.
/r/askMRP21/01/19 02:04 AM
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You know the proper way to handle it, you are just too scared to handle it. Put on your big boy pants and deal with it as if you actually give a fuck about yourself and believe you have any value. Or don't.
/r/askMRP21/01/19 02:00 AM
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This is paramount once you get your own body under control and suitable to be dressed. A decent watch will catch attention and doesn't have to cost an arm and a leg. We were recently in Vegas and a watch store was having a buy one get one free or buy two get 4 free. Went with the 6 watches for a few hundred and got $1500 in watches. A nice case on Amazon and now I can switch it up at will. People I'm around a lot notice the change in watches and comment on them.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 03:48 PM
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Very insightful and spelled out like a road map. This must have taken a huge effort but it's this type of thing that will impact real people's lives in real ways, so good on you and time well spent on helping others. Even though my ex wife cheating on my work a woman example earned a "sorry bro" it's the truths we read here and internalize that we can learn from other people's shit instead of touching the burner ourselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/19 06:21 PM
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I'm ready to put my money where my mouth is. Not my wife's hoohah this time, but to get behind this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/18 10:02 PM
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Had a great teacher in high school who would always say, Nothing in life is free, not even your mother's love. Wise man.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/18 04:19 PM
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There's a difference between reading and understanding and doing. You should be happy since she's super honest and answers your awkward and pussified questions in detail instead of lying to you so your shitty self esteem doesn't suffer. My wife is like this. She simply cannot lie. Stuff she should absolutely keep to herself she says with ease, not because she's an asshole, but it's just who she is. I value this about her because I'm our society it's somewhat unique and adds value. Get over yours…
/r/askMRP02/12/18 02:56 PM
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The first sentence is regarding finances. Basically, because males have been turned into buffoons in every sense by the women raising them and by popular culture, the only thing that really sets them apart is the fact that they can provide. Except now a large portion of them can't or won't even do that. That was my take away
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 07:12 AM
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That right there is the honest truth. And the amazing thing is, she hated that shit too. It's amazing the bullshit both sides are fed by a few bitter shrews and their beta lackeys and we all ate it up like it was our last meal. We aren't doing it for them, but it saves their lives from being miserable as well. Something interesting to note is that not only will this affect your family but the people around you will take notice and it will affect them in a positive way as well. When I think of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 03:22 AM
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"obedient and in check" translates to "funneling them money". FTFY.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 02:45 AM
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Interesting isn't it? I realized after being a Mormon for 40 years that all they ever focused on was living your life to improve the life you were going to have after you died, focusing on "arriving at the imaginary finish line" When I left my focus changed to making THIS life count for THIS life. Never been happier or less stressed/depressed.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 02:42 AM
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Good Lord will you can this yenta already?
/r/askMRP13/11/18 04:29 AM
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You cannot be serious. Or married. Or sexually active. Even the "purest" of the Madonnas that I've ever known have done sexual things with multiple guys before marriage. You are pushing a narrative which DOES NOT EXIST, and never ever has. This kind of thinking is why we are all in the situation we are in. Making the reality that women are naturally sexual beings into a nasty narrative is the shittiest thing you can do. I was married to the woman you are idealizing here, pure, religious, no sex …
/r/askMRP13/11/18 04:24 AM
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I am at the end of PFP and the first thing I thought was Madonna/Whore complex.
/r/askMRP10/11/18 01:46 AM
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If you think this is a good idea try this little experiment to see. Do a devil's threesome with her and the guy of her choosing. /S See how you feel after being a part of that. Then let that run through your head about how much she really held back with him because you were there. Run.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 01:58 AM
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Who. Fucking. Cares. About. Her. Career. Her new career will happen where you are at if she is willing hard enough at it and none of that will pay for college etc since it will be 50/50. Who. Fucking. Cares. About. Her. You do. She doesn't care about you, it's obvious. But I've been where you are, only I was still blue pill for years. And regret every second spent working to win over someone like her. Get. Out. Do it for you AND your kids. Good God.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 01:40 AM
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Holy shit. I am beginning to think that askmrp stands for ask Mormon red pill there are so many of us here. Even though I'm an ex Mormon I still have a thorough understanding of what you guys are going through. The church loves to keep its men blue pill because the women will keep the money rolling in and keep you in line. That being said, stop doing the typical Mormon man bullshit. Instead of having one baggy ill-fitting 7 year old suit go out and buy three high-quality designer fitted suits. N…
/r/askMRP30/10/18 04:36 PM
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This is what everyone means when they say STFU until you know how to deal with them. This looked like a great outcome to me. Short ass tantrum and then back into being of value. My wife knows she is being a fucking nutjob too, doesn't mean a damn thing. They still act out, like a teenager so what? I say good job and it was a 5 minute upheaval instead of three days of bullshit.
/r/askMRP30/10/18 04:11 AM
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I understand exactly what you are saying here and I almost wish I had a 6. Put it this way, when we walk into somewhere together my value is seen as ridiculously high just by being with her. You would think that would make her a mate guarding machine, but she is so confident that she doesn't have to that it really is a rarity. Her ethnic background makes it so that we are both carded anytime we get a drink, no exceptions. Most people think she and her daughter are twins. This makes my MRP journe…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/18 09:53 PM
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It was invigorating actually.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/18 04:37 AM
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Doubtful. I didn't do it because my priorities at the time were less than dickcentric. But you are right, it felt good knowing I could, and probably better because I was turning her cock carousel riding ass down.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/18 04:36 AM
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You should have come along, you could have made a movie. I'm sure she would have let me while calling me Daddy.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/18 04:34 AM
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Not so much morals as knowing the bullshit that goes with it if it comes out later. Very low risk of that happening, but at this point for me not worth dealing with. That being said, I certainly had to weigh my options and it helped her case that I was well fucked at the time for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/18 12:01 AM
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I'm the dumbest, gay motherfucker ever obviously.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/18 08:28 PM
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Absolutely. I have found that a one on one vacation, especially one tied to a limited area like a ship makes things a lot more intense and a lot easier since you are not dealing with everyday bullshit including kids, work and other drama from other everyday influences. It was a glimpse of what things will be once I get everything squared away on my end.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/18 07:50 PM
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More forties.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/18 07:48 PM
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Best thing I ever did for finding my way back to being a man was go over to r/exmormon and get out of that bullshit, controlling and energy sapping church. If you look at the shit they say in church they condition you to be blue pill because they can control you better that way. Ever hear, "God gave men the priesthood because they needed to learn to be more rightous" etc? It is such a ass kicker to devote all your time, money and effort to the raising up if the kingdom blah blah blah. You can PM…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 12:01 AM
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You don't lift. One time a week on average isn't lifting. I thought I dressed well but I was a fat fucking Sears mannequin. You need to get style and a new haircut and a new smell and a new everything since you walked into the cell you are in now voluntarily and put on the clothes etc that went with it. Trust me, I thought I was all that and when I started to research clothes that fit, that a MAN would wear and not a Dad bod cunt would. Stop ASKING questions and start working to find the answers…
/r/askMRP22/10/18 01:31 AM
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Fuck. One day. I'm in Utah too and if you are a Mormon then I understand why you are so deep as a beta. Go read the side bar like it is life it death because it was for me. The sidebar did more for me in two months than 40 years of reading the religious bullshit did. Get. To. Fucking. Work. Like put your shoulder to the wheel type work.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 01:23 AM
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There's no flair next to my name, but I'm going to chime in here. I was once where you are as most of us were. You didn't contribute to your situation, you built your house of shit for yourself, by yourself. You don't make changes to salvage the family but to build your cocoon and get to work before emerging. Remember, "the family"or "the marriage" do not exist. Society loves to make us honor this third entity which is a title, save the marriage, work on the marriage, and it's a lie. You do you,…
/r/askMRP22/10/18 01:20 AM
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Go to the barber. I finally went to the barber are cutting my own hair for 20 years and showed him a picture of a model on Google after a search for gray hair man's hairstyles and he did it up right. This was a traditional black barbershop with all the trappings. Was there about 45 minutes for the hair and for him to groom my beard. Came home and my wife lost her shit. Been getting IOI multiple times a day since. I will be going back at least every 2 weeks if not weekly.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/18 03:29 AM
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I will be posting a field report over there shortly.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 04:02 PM
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Yes she did. She was a smokeshow 9 and 18 years younger. This cruise was about 2 months into my RP awareness and so I approached it with the intent to be George Clooney playing Frank Sinatra in a movie about a cruise. By day two I was calling about 20 people by name as we bumped into each other and my wife was loving it. A cruise is an easy setting to take RP over the top and be a very popular guy. I need to do an update on that over in MRP because it was fucking epic. If you can afford it you s…
/r/askMRP08/10/18 07:51 PM
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THIS my friend, THIS. You may have a quality woman who has been in the anger phase for fucking YEARS. She thought she had vetted this fine young Leader of men to land as her husband and eventually the leader of her family, and she got a fat, whiny, lazy cunt once she saw the real him that she was able to bend him into. I am angry sometimes, but how miserable and angry they must be to have landed such twats for husbands? Reflection and the 1000 foot rope. Change the reflection through working on …
/r/askMRP08/10/18 01:37 PM
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I can't remember the name of the article now I should have saved the link. I'm sure the moderators I know exactly what I'm talking about. Perhaps they could put the link up again in this thread. Everyone here that read the link was horrified it was on the true nature of women and was very blunt. As harsh as we think the things we are reading here are for some reason this was very clear to many people and they were coming back truly shaken because our idea of what women are, and the actuality of …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/18 01:13 PM
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Stop thinking about leaving her. Until you are a man again you can't leave because this relationship is THE single best training ground to force you to make yourself better. Once you read the matrix you can't unsee it and so any self respecting man will push himself to be better while in the forge of an LTR. She will point out and harp on every weakness you have, saving you the trouble of doing it, then you change that for you instead of her. So stop trying to leave boot camp until you have grad…
/r/askMRP05/10/18 03:37 AM
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Holy shit. This was enlightening and caught me off guard after all the shit talking comments.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 03:30 AM
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I gladly pay out of pocket for mine and my Endo keeps levels as close to 1200 as he can. Between me and my wife (FINALLY got her in there) it's about $2400 a year. I would pay it without hesitation. Shop around for one who is aggressive in treatment. Mine does endurance marathons and is very aggressive in treatment. Or don't.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 11:16 PM
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Goals:. Build my company into a quarter million in profits this year, well on my way. Make myself a priority and assert myself instead of being a voluntary doormat. Lead my family. Reading: lots of posts from here. WISNIFG, NMMNG, SGM, Pook, practical female psychology, The way of the superior man. Been reading several chapters from each on a rotating basis and I find it keeps it new and I am retaining info ok. Career:. I retired a month ago as a police officer for 20 years. Feels good to be my …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 11:20 PM
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This is something that I have been working on as well. The captain of the ship doesn't keep the course or the fact that he knows about some rocks ahead that they're going to have to steer around a secret. Sharing the information and telling her how it's going to be dealt with is part of being married. Vomiting how you feel about it is not. Keeping the issues bottled up inside can come across as sulking or pouting. That's not to say you shouldn't be thoughtful about it, just that sharing informat…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 02:16 PM
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My wife did the same thing about an escape room I bookedperiod in the back of my mind blue pill beta said we should just go to a movie but I stuck to it and let my broken record run saying I wanted to try it. We got there and she had a blast and made me take all sorts of pictures after work for social media. They don't know what they want until you show them.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 07:10 PM
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Absolutely keto. I dropped almost 80 pounds in 4 months doing strict keto with no cardio but heavy lifting 4 to 5 times a week. Never in the gym for longer than 35 minutes and still the weight melted off. I've kept it off for 5 years and now put on muscle tithe time of 20 pounds. She will take longer since she is a woman, but it works.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:01 PM
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You want to treat this like her doing something for you instead of assuming it is to sabotage. Even if it is, you can't know what she is thinking and express gratitude like it was a nice gesture, encouraging more of her doing things for you. If it fits into your diet plan, you could cut one piece into two and eat the half. Slowly. Then a simple thank you. You get your pizza and then the rest just sits on the counter and pretty soon she will get that bringing home all this food that only gets 1/1…
/r/askMRP14/09/18 01:59 PM
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Amused mastery
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 03:07 PM
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I have thought this often as well. There is a large disparity of income in my marriage so it works in my favor while she is here. Her standard of living would drop so substantially that it is it's own dread game really. Even with housing assistance, and good stamps etc. She makes comments about not settling or marrying down " Like, insert a friend's name, did". The other side to that is alimony (no kids in common so no child support) but we occasionally will touch on the subject of a man getting…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 01:48 PM
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I went straight to an endocrinologist that all the other police officers were using. He says that all the adrenaline first responders get basically short circuits their system and lowers T. Guy is an ultra marathon runner and very aggressive. Keeps all his patients at 1200 which he says is the very high end but why not be at the very high end instead of at 900 which is 75%? I would ask around and see if you can find someone who is specialized.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 01:20 PM
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I was just telling a couple of guys at work this the other day, to get rid of their worn out heeled rubber soled loafers for some leather soled shoes. The shoes are the focal point for the women. You spend money on some designer shoes that are out there on the edge and they see someone in tune with style. Look at their closets, 50 pairs of fucking shoes. They will see them among the sea of round toed loafers and be up on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/18 12:52 AM
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Not that he has to call, just enough to keep him from calling the cops after he gets his ass beat by OP
/r/askMRP05/08/18 05:48 AM
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This is categorized as Sexual Battery where I am from and we regularly see this prosecuted. I look it up for your state and see what the penalties are before talking to him to let him know you will be taking him to task for that and kicking his ass besides that.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 12:33 AM
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You are correct. The problem is I'm too busy reading, lifting, making money, and not fucking my wife type more than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/18 02:50 PM
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Try Keto. I lost 80 pounds in 4 and a half months. PM me.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/18 06:21 AM
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OYS #1. 43 years old married 3 years. 229 pounds 6'04" Not sure on body far but I've got my upper abs. Lifting: 275 x 10 bench, 275 x 10 squat, 250 x 10 fly, 305 dead. Lift 4 times a week. Reading: NMMNG done, Way of the superior man half way, started Book of Pook. Taking a lot away from the no more mr. Nice guy book. Social:. I have started to reach out to my male friends. The friends that I didn't value when I got married for the first three years. These are the same friends that my wife would…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/18 04:08 AM
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Because I wanted to fuck and it made a point. It was immediate and felt good.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/18 01:43 AM
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She mentioned it halfway self deprecating and halfway out loud dread which was fucking great. I just laughed under my breath and kept talking to the camping neighbor lady. She was gushing over my wife and how beautiful she is and asking how we met. My wife told her online and the camp neighbor launched into the best thing ever. Ever. She was telling all her horror stories about people she had dated online and who had cheated on her and they were scoundrels. Opening wondering how my wife had foun…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/18 01:42 AM
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This is a totally different ball game with a Mormon wife involved. The church says males are to be totally alpha and then castrates them every Sunday making sure the women know they are unofficially in charge. Pile on a healthy dose of guilt and sex shaming and you are in for a tough row to hoe.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 07:52 PM
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Yup, she did it today when I tried to get her to fuck in the trailer while the kids were gone and I bitched out. She made a real scene and so I just shrugged it off, said it's your loss, and went out to read this sub and NMMNG on my phone. On the bright side, struck up a convo with the two women in the camp site next to ours after my wife made a comment to me about liking their grill. Stayed there talking to them way way longer than I was comfortable after she started staring me down. They were …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 04:54 AM
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