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I have been where you are. Put your shit together, you can do it. - So many breakups are clearly a symptom of a very toxic relationship. - Leave her totally. Block her. Excerpt her from your life. - Build up abundance mentality. Once that you are fucking other women, you will very soon understand that she wasn't special. - Don't be in a hurry to commit in the future. Manage your bitches carefully. They need to earn the girlfriend status.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 06:30 PM
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Family first.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 06:16 PM
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Always use a condom. Always. Period.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:43 PM
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Some women are very dominant and want to lead and be permanently in charge, subjugating you...
/r/askTRP08/07/17 02:39 PM
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The problem is when you upgrade a plate into FWB or later to LTR without reason. Women need to earn it.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:08 PM
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Respect is crucial for a healthy relationship. The moment you don't have it from your partner, it is the time to walk away and never look back.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:19 PM
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I don't get why a woman would come back 1 year later.... it sounds like she wanted to taste more cocks and at the end she wanted a beta provided after having some fun.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 10:15 AM
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Who came back after the other after 1 year of breakup?
/r/askTRP24/06/17 12:02 AM
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Who came after the other after the 4 months?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:38 PM
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Very solid advice. I experienced exactly the same.... some women want both to eat the cake and have it.... you need to set the boundaries clear...if she wants to pursue her "single" behaviour demote to plate or walk away. She's clearly not LTR material.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:01 PM
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Alcohol provokes cancer.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 08:54 AM
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Good advice.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 08:19 PM
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Disrespect is the beginning of the end.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:10 PM
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I know woman aged 35-40 that still haven't realised that they are post-wall.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:13 PM
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When a woman leaves you, she decided to do it a long time ago. Therefore, she has already passed through the grieving phase (if any).
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:09 PM
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Extremely good thing in my opinion.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:02 PM
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Dishonesty and lies are a big red flag for LTR.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 11:22 PM
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Ask yourself what you are going to potentially win by seeing her? Cheap sex? Is it worth in exchange for emotional turmoil?
/r/askTRP29/05/17 10:19 AM
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What is "true love" then?
/r/askTRP29/05/17 08:25 AM
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Leave her. I suffered a similar relationship. She is not a plate because she is using you for covering her needs in social events (like the wedding. She's using you totally, she wants to have the cake and eat it. It seems like an ultra-toxic relationship. Don't go to the fucking wedding. Say clearly that you only go to weddings as a boyfriend, and you're not hers. If you want a gf and she isn't willing to give you that, this is a HUGE waste of time. Look for another woman with more affinity to y…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:44 AM
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It has not changed at all because my mother belongs to a generation that seems a completely different species if we compare it with the X, and Millenials.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:42 AM
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On the other hand... maybe it is worth the investment. If she offers to pay when she sees that you are going to pay for both, it means that she has some decency after all; meanwhile, if she doesn't even blink while you pay for everything, it is a huge red flag.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:38 AM
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As a man for me it is completely the opposite. If a woman says to me that she has not got Facebook or less than let's say 300 friends my interest for her increases. Besides, I never date with serious intentions any woman with instagram. It is a red flag for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:17 AM
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I used to wait till the 2nd or 3rd date fot the kiss but once I waited too much and I didn't get a 3rd date. Since then, I always for it in the 1st date. It is the best way to save time.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 11:13 PM
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make her drop you. It isn't difficult at all.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 12:03 AM
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Indeed, dignity is one of our most precious assets as men.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:46 PM
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To have an Instagram account is a red flag for me.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:58 PM
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Many people want to have access to your fb in order to gather a dump of information about you very very quickly, are you going to allow them?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:32 AM
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what do you mean by "don't use the phone"?
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:24 AM
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I disagree. A wealthy woman, especially if she earnss more than you, it is a source of great problems.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 08:54 AM
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The momentum was lost. Everything was great but you didn't escalate sexually. You can't expect a woman to initiate, you need to take leadership in that situation.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 07:02 PM
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I don't think that TRP encourages fascism.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:16 AM
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???
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:15 AM
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if they fuck they aren't friendzoned
/r/askTRP20/03/17 10:58 PM
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I know virtually nothing about the sexual dynamics in the Indian subcontinent.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:11 AM
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It is becoming increasingly common for many women to have a pulsion to explore "exotic" places like Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia... once that they have been in all of them they aim other even more "exotic" like India.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:07 AM
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I don't understand you
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:06 AM
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she is a woman. I.have proof
/r/askTRP16/03/17 07:54 PM
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The point is this attitude of... "oh well, if you can't or don't want to go I will go anyway without you". Instead of planning a joint holiday in another moment and another destination.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 06:08 PM
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Tim Hardford explains what happens in the NY dating market in his book "The logic of life".
/r/askTRP26/12/16 09:10 PM
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indeed...
/r/askTRP23/12/16 09:31 PM
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Now try to go to a dinner with a vegan and let's see if she enjoys eating meat...
/r/askTRP10/12/16 04:52 PM
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So... a LTR suitable girl shouldn't "ever" go out on her own? I'm asking it seriously... if you don't trust her to the point that you don't allow her to go out alone... what's the point?
/r/askTRP19/11/16 06:09 PM
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Ignore her.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 03:38 PM
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Love is a bourgeoise construct.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 03:12 PM
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If there is no further interest in the woman and the time has come to cut the losses... I think an email is one of the best ways out. I can concede that it depends on the kind of relationship that you had with the woman. However, if she has treated you badly and you were in an unhealthy toxic relationship... why would you want to involucrate yourself anymore or waste more valuable resources (time, money...) for someone who has no worth left?
/r/askTRP19/11/16 03:01 PM
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I disagree. Sometimes if you have been inside a disrespectful toxic relationship the other person doesn't deserve anything more and sending a mail (while you block her from every other social media) it is an excellent way to split up in an elegant way, without drama, without bitter talking, giving her time to digest the news and share the e-mail with 20 other friends, etc. However, be rational and careful about what you disclose in the email, as it is guaranteed that many other people is going t…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 10:26 AM
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I disagree, I find that to break up by e-mail is quite good.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 11:41 PM
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Well..., she is coming in 2 weeks to visit me again. Either she has particular interest on me or she likes to burn money in flight tickets.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 07:03 PM
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We've established that it's not a gf/bf relationship but it is exclusive?! What do you have to gain from this framework?
/r/askTRP04/11/16 07:06 PM
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Always protect yourself. Even under the influence of heavy alcohol/drugs,... think that one mistake can ruin your whole life.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 10:01 PM
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What does it mean in this concrete case?
/r/askTRP14/09/16 07:09 PM
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She actually visited me in Easter.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:36 PM
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I feel in a similar situation. My ex looks for me for sex. She says she's not in love with me.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 11:23 AM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:05 PM
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Keep the gifts. My ex spent $15 on my last birthday gifts lol
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:54 PM
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UPDATE 2: Relationship ended: I said NO when asked to help her with HER garden + she wanted me to pay for her bus (2$ and asked me to pay that for her!!! wtf!?) + she was offended when I suggested her to split a taxi because she considered that she had given me too many free rides with her car. Crazy.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:43 PM
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Curiosity got me asked her why she messaged me.-->mistake. He wrote you as a test and you swallow the bait
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:17 AM
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This a topic that scares me. The last women I was with told me that they wouldn't abort if they became pregnant, it does not matter what I have to say about it... AT ALL.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:58 AM
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what's NC?
/r/askTRP21/08/16 08:09 PM
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I had read all the available material before posting. You shouldn't insult other people. Cheers.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 06:16 PM
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Fucking run. Guarantee she's back on it the day you break up. She hasn't said no to a for example a IUD in the future, but she wants to run medical checks first once she gets "clean". Why do you think she will go back the day we break up??
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:42 PM
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sorry... hamster wheel? Maybe I should tell her that straight away... "I feel that you want commitment, just not with me".
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:19 PM
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Maybe you're right, but it is not the time only, the intensity of the relationship also counts. If you are dating someone for 3 years but you only see each other at weekends is it any better than to date somebody just for 3 months but spending A LOT (in fact maybe too much) of time together?
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:43 PM
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Well, I asked her what kind of relationship she wanted, if she preferred an open relationship... and she said that she wanted exclusivity but not to commit so soon. (I don't get how a relationship cannot be committed while having exclusivity). Some weeks later she said she was committed...
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:33 PM
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If she feels "disgust" for me why does she want a LTR, cook for me sometimes, call me frequently, want to meet me very often, has introduced me from minute 1 to her friends... Truth is I don't get what she is doing. Sometimes I have the impression that she has feelings for me but she is scared of me running away or of real commitment and that is why she plays all this shit. Sometimes I feel she doesn't give a shit about the relationship. It is hard to know for me.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:08 PM
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I know. I said to her that her behaviour was disgusting when she spit that out, but it seems that she cares more about the animals than about me. I think now that she did it on purpose to piss me off as a shit test. She can be nasty sometimes, but through this kind of behaviour she is destroying my feelings for her step by step.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:51 PM
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